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 Mtl_City_Guy
Joined: 6/11/2007
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Have you ever dater a nympho?
I'm going through this right now. I love this girl, but it's starting to be an issue.
Of course at the beginning it was all good, but after a year I thought her appetite would get "normalised", god was I wrong.
Anyone knows how I could handle this? Each time I reject gently her demands for sex she gets it really bad, and I end up fulfilling her desires. I kinda feel at times like a sex toy.
 zentral
Joined: 10/30/2005
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Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 6/20/2007 12:46:06 PM
I think you need to define what you mean by 'nympho.' You've survived a whole year, so it can't be THAT bad (or good)!
 mlm_mlm_mlm
Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 3
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Posted: 6/20/2007 12:46:39 PM
marry her... most men will agree marriage is the cure

 DacaInaru
Joined: 12/15/2006
Msg: 4
Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 6/20/2007 12:49:17 PM


Right on Toenailclippings.. LOLOL.. that would most certainly cure her..
 slysterling
Joined: 1/9/2007
Msg: 5
Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 6/20/2007 12:49:44 PM
well congrats for getting a year in...i only lasted about 4 months with one before i said enuff is enuff. Apart from both of us enjoying sex, we had very little else in common. If I came home tired and frustrated from a bad day, it didn't matter to her. She just wanted to get flukked all the time.

if I wanted to watch the sports or the news or read the paper or a book, forget it...lol...Everything was about sex with her..Non stop all the time.

It was Ok for awhile but after awhile it was time for me to move on. I don't really miss her either. It was about almost twenty years ago, and she really wasn't all that great in the sack anyway. She just wanted it all the time. You feel like a toy; I felt like a sperm bank just making regular deposits into an unemotional bank. It wasn't all that memorable a relationship, but man she was like gum under a shoe to try and ditch.

Finally i got one of my chums to start banging her, but he would bang anything that moved so they didn't last that long. But they lasted long enuff for me to take a promotion to another city far far away from her.
 Harry Harmony
Joined: 1/26/2007
Msg: 6
Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 6/20/2007 12:49:49 PM
I had the pleasure of going out with a 22 year old nympho, bluddy brill, just wanted to please me all the time I wasnt complaining, fantastic
 SoulDragon
Joined: 10/16/2006
Msg: 7
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Posted: 6/20/2007 12:51:26 PM
geez, I would think most people (including me) would be ecstatic to have a girl like that! I know I would! :P

They don't exist in St. Louis county I swear! :P
 mlm_mlm_mlm
Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 8
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Posted: 6/20/2007 12:55:47 PM
This is one of them threads where you guys should just pull them out and see whose is bigger than all this BS.... it seems its going to get very high with BS in this thread... I will have to go put my high boots on now to read any more of these braggodious posts.
 storm300x
Joined: 5/31/2007
Msg: 9
Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 6/20/2007 12:56:45 PM
dam.. im never gonna get a date!
so that is what i have been doing wrong!
 lowrider59
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 10
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Posted: 6/20/2007 12:58:51 PM
Had a live-in for five years. She was 20 years my junior.
It was mostly good, although there were times her craving got in the way.
She would even duck out of work for a quickie sometimes. "That" made me nervous.
 a1na2
Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 11
Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 6/20/2007 1:01:41 PM
This is not bragging : the downside of being with a nympho is not being able to keep up cuz you can't keep IT up . Even if you compensate by not coming for as long as you can, you STILL know it isn't enough !

 rsx11s
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 12
Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 6/20/2007 1:04:28 PM
No, but do you have her number?
 finekettleofish
Joined: 1/15/2007
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Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 6/20/2007 1:08:16 PM
Talk about old school.. The term nymphomaniac is straight out of the 50's. Women with intense sexual drives are nymphos, guys are just horny. Its time to recognize the old Puritanical roots to so many of our sexual attitudes. Clean house guys!

I did like the "marriage cure" suggestion though.. Good one.
 ItsMargo
Joined: 4/24/2007
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Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 6/20/2007 1:08:19 PM
Batteries are the answer for any longevity concerns... you can outlast any women with the right sex toys.

OP, have you discussed your concerns with her? What does she say?
 sunshine315
Joined: 2/5/2007
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Posted: 6/20/2007 1:10:27 PM
RX tsk tsk ...

OMG Im rolling lmao here , yea Have to agree with the 2 ladies above. Marry her, maybe that will calm her down a bit otherwise, better get to shoppin for those " Girly Toys! " Oh and dont forget the batteries , gonna needs lots of them ... ....

first some men complain we dont give in enough and now some of us do and its too much ! YIKES

Good Luck with your dilemma
 mlm_mlm_mlm
Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 16
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Posted: 6/20/2007 1:21:23 PM
msg 6 you are in the lead neck and neck with the OP

one of the posters will have to break the tie
 bioillogical
Joined: 6/26/2006
Msg: 17
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Posted: 6/20/2007 1:22:26 PM
Nymphomaniac is still the correct term. Men can have a similar condition, which is called satyriasis (fans of mythology will get the reference). It is a well-documented medical condition, and does not mean "someone who is just horny all the time". Nymphomania and satyriasis can ruin marriages, careers, relationships, and many other things. These are the kind of people who will skip work or school to have sex, and do that all the time. Non-monogamy is definitely a potential issue, too. For those women saying that first men complain that they don't get enough, and then we're complaining that we get too much, get off your high horse. There is such a thing as too much of a good thing, and a big difference between wanting sex and NEEDING sex. To you men who are all "Wow, what a lucky guy", no, not really. She's not just horny, she's beyond anything you've ever considered, and the OP is lucky to have kept it up for a year (pun fully intended).
 bubble_boy
Joined: 4/23/2007
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Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 6/20/2007 1:45:20 PM
sunshine wrote -
OMG Im rolling lmao here , yea Have to agree with the 2 ladies above. Marry her, maybe that will calm her down a bit otherwise, better get to shoppin for those " Girly Toys! " Oh and dont forget the batteries , gonna needs lots of them ... ....


Yeah yeah -- laugh it up. Its all fun and games until you have had to dealt with a couple of them for real. I don't see why anyone would brag about it who has ever really had to deal with it in a significant other. For some women it can literally drive them crazy (or they feel like it). When they externalize it by bed hopping with different men every night then it really can endanger their physical and mental health (and yours if you are involved with her).

Hyper-sexuality that comes from compulsive behavior can be a result of deep seated self-worth issues that grow out of surviving sexual abuse. The person only feels enriched or happy when riding someone -- because they see this as their only validation in life. Someone like this needs a lot of love and time to help..

BTW Battery powered toys can induce numbness in her vital areas -- which will frustrate a "nymph" even more. There are methods to cure her of it -- some a little extreme like overloading her pleasure need -- but it can be done. Never tell a nymph you are a tantric - else you will never get any sleep. If her sex drive highs are sporatic it may be just normal monthly hormonal shifts. If it is happening for biological clock reasons or hyperactive thyroid then there are pills she can take for it if the problem becomes too severe.

Sometimes its better to just be a fish -->
 Real-Me
Joined: 1/12/2007
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Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 6/20/2007 1:51:04 PM
This is one of those "no-win scenario" threads.

The men have no sympathy and the women simply don't believe any of the posts. Everyone assumes that anything anyone claims regarding this topic is exaggeration or an outright lie.

Of course, if a woman posted something regarding a lover who made too many sexual demands on her, the other ladies' sympathetic "me-too!" posts would go on and on. You all know it's true.

Why is it so hard to believe that a woman's sexual appetite could possibly be bigger than her partner's?

While I'm not claiming to have ever had this "problem" in my life, I have to agree with what one gentleman said above and also add a couple of thoughts:

If a lover is too demanding, a man can fear that he will occasionally be unable to perform due to not having "recycled" sexually from the most recent tryt.

If a man fails to satisfy his lover every time, no matter how ardently she assures him that it's okay and "You can't hit one out of the park every time at bat," he may fear that she will look elsewhere for a younger or more virile partner. The rule in Hollywood is "You're only as good as your last movie" and some people fear that holds true in the bedroom as well.

If a woman is very difficult to satisfy, sex can become a chore no matter how much love there is between the partners. The man is of course likely to assume that her failure to achieve orgasm consistently is HIS failure. Unfortunately the easiest way for him to gain perspective on the issue would be for him to find another lover for comparison, which of course raises other concerns.

For those women who view making love to a partner as "giving in", may you continue to have unsatisfying partners and unsatisfying sex for the rest of your lives, or at least until you change your attitute.
 ItsMargo
Joined: 4/24/2007
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Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 6/20/2007 2:05:11 PM
There are several possibilities and that is why I asked the OP if he has discussed it with his girlfriend. I can't remember in the OP if he mentioned she has difficulty reaching orgasm. I believe difficulty reaching orgasm is one of the hallmarks of nymphomania or sexual addiction is it not?

It could also be she is young and hasn't got love/need/sex sorted out yet.

Edit: OP hasn't given enough information yet to get a real feel for what might be the issue. HE hasn't mentioned a difficulty reaching orgasm in his posts. It could just be mis-matched sex drives, it could be sexual addiction or another dysfunction like nymphomania.
 ~Juggernaut~
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 21
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Posted: 6/20/2007 2:36:50 PM
Yes a few and I never understand why people complain about these things ,I had a women once who wasn't satisfied with just me anymore 3 or four times a day so then it became Me and whoever else was there , It got crazy and I said " SEE YA!! " But it had it's moments , I knew another who had an oral fetish in the car and wanted to constantly see if she could distract my driving ? She was alot of fun though.

People complain about the wierdest things !
 man with ad
Joined: 6/5/2007
Msg: 22
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Posted: 6/20/2007 2:51:22 PM
Not to start with, but every woman I go out with turns into one. I think they all are if you give them half a chance.
 a1na2
Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 23
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Posted: 6/20/2007 2:54:33 PM
Come to think of it, I have been with a lot of nymphos - maybe it means I'm actually doing something right ?...

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 islgurl
Joined: 10/22/2005
Msg: 24
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Posted: 6/20/2007 2:54:45 PM
^^^^^ No surprise there! It's the dimples. Gotta be!(To Man w/ Ad)
 Karrpilot
Joined: 1/26/2007
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Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 6/20/2007 2:59:04 PM
Did you ever think to cash in on this? I am sure you could both make some home made porn and become rich. Think of the possibilities. My first girlfriend was close to that. And the sex was fantastic. But other than the sex, we had little in common. I would come home worn out and sore. And then go back again the next day. And i left her why???????
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