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 Morning_Glory_
Joined: 1/6/2007
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Do you like it when a lady talks dirty on the phone to you?

What do you enjoy hearing about?

My guy wants me to call me tomorrow evening and have me pretend that I'm a phone sex operator and he's a customer. I'm not sure how to make this an awesome experience for him. I'm game but I'm hoping some of you men might have some ideas about what I can say to him.
 OnTheBus
Joined: 9/12/2004
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Posted: 7/30/2007 6:20:25 PM


Do it....and record it too.......
 The Devils Advocate
Joined: 7/27/2007
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Posted: 7/30/2007 6:42:07 PM
This topic may have been better off in the Sex and dating thread,.. No?
 glowinslowly
Joined: 1/21/2007
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Posted: 7/30/2007 6:53:12 PM
Acting as your profile name...she is asking the advice of guys, and it is kind of an open forum to ask anything of them, isn't it?
 Duckman_2
Joined: 5/15/2007
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Posted: 7/30/2007 6:53:20 PM
Why don't you suggest him calling a 900 number when your together so you can get some ideas from the people that do that for a living...

Personally, I don't understand the attraction in it, but thats just my opinion...
 Gaull
Joined: 7/22/2006
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Posted: 7/30/2007 6:59:57 PM
Sadly too many people here are offering sarcasm and ignorance rather than being helpful to someone who just wants to please a man she wishes to woo.

My suggestion, ad lib it. If he's an intelligent man, he'll pick up on the insincerity and be turned off. Nothing is more attractive than a woman baring her soul and her inner most desires.

Also, tease him a little. Be suspenseful, refuse to let a few pieces of information slip. Make him want to hear you talk, but not beg. He might not be into that sort of thing, and it would be better if you found out that fact on your own then just go by what some random kid off the net told you.

I like it when a woman makes noise, but not when their fake about it. This leads me to my last tip. HAVE FUN WITH THIS! Do it for your own sake too! Indulge in that sexy side and make it a honest representation of your desires too! If this means a little stimulation on your end of things, then go for it. I'm sure he would be more than happy.

There, take it for what you will. This is just my POV here.
 Handsomesque
Joined: 5/21/2005
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Posted: 7/30/2007 7:00:39 PM
Why don't you ask him what he's looking/listening for? It's great to be willing to do this for him, but asking him for input shows that you care about doing it right. The opinions of anybody here isn't going to compare to just asking him... people like what they like.

So find out what he likes.
 Sir Pryze
Joined: 11/22/2005
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Posted: 7/30/2007 7:26:16 PM
To be honest? I've had phone sex a few times. It's not as fun as the real thing. But it's different!
I like to hear what a woman wants to do with me. All the way from my head to my toes. That's a huge turn-on. What I suggest is to talk in a low voice, make it seem like you could be overheard. When he starts talking to you, and you're...um...free hand is doing it's thing...make sure he hears you orgasm! In for a penny in for a pound right?
You'd be really surprised how many people are into doing that type of thing.
Good luck and get dirty!
 My I
Joined: 1/23/2007
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Posted: 7/30/2007 8:06:45 PM
This topic may have been better off in the Sex and dating thread,.. No?


Not really... she's asking guys what they want to hear on the phone. Hence, "ask a guy" forum.

Tell him what you are wearing.
Tell him how it feels against your body.
Tell him how horny it makes you.
Tell him you wish he was there to take your apparel off.
Tell him where you are touching yourself.
Turn your vibrator on and placed it against the phone.

If you are really interested in making him jealous that he is not there with you... let him hear the male voice in the background...
 Frolicking~in~Oregon
Joined: 5/23/2007
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Posted: 7/30/2007 8:11:12 PM
Oh! Oh! Oh! Fun, fun, fun, fun!! Maybe even a chance to find out some new "stuff" that excites him.

I'm not a guy. You didn't ask me. I'm butting in on the thread anyway.

Well, if he's the customer, as him what sort of things he likes. Yes, you already know. Maybe you'll find out something different. It's a aural and mind game. Have some scenarios in mind from real experiences with him. Think them out. Talk to yourself this evening, out loud to get an idea of the flow of it. You'll hopefully be just as aroused as him because you know him. No faking even if you are a little uncomfortable. And no fake voices either. Unless you think that's what he wants, mostly he probably wants your voice just like you are in person in the bedroom and that means excited. The voice changes on it's own in intimate moments.

Think about what kind of talk turns him on in the bedroom. Does he have key words or phrases that he just loves to hear? Certain things he likes to look at while you two are together in any certain positions? Of course he does. Describe those things. Think of it like a slow moving story, close your eyes and "see" it in your mind, thinking about what he wants next and using the words to describe it in detail. Or not. Maybe he wants a quickie phone job.

Instead of saying something simple such as, "I'm touching myself, baby." ~ Imagine it in more detail, what you are actually doing and thinking such as, "I have to slip my fingertips under the the top of my panties. I have to touch...I'm thinking of your fingers moving over my cl*t, my lips so slick and moist, sliding my fingertips over them, teasing at the entrance...where your (tongue, c*ck, whatever) feels so good...blah, blah, blah." I left out the graphic words, but you know which ones he prefers and he'll know yours.

Phone sex can be a great two way street for those that are apart, but are sexually connected, if both have a good imagination. Let go and have fun yourself. If he's out of town now and then and this goes well for both of you, get a headset for your phone and have your toys ready. He probably likes the thought of you being turned on just as much as he is. Hopefully he'll be talking to you in the same sexy way you are to him.

Sometimes it takes some practice ~ have fun!
 Seavoyage
Joined: 1/18/2007
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Posted: 7/30/2007 8:13:09 PM
It is not so hard to turn on a man. It is like turning on a light switch. Okay, occasionally it requires more work than that Tell him what yo would like to do to him, how you want to touch him, what you're wearing, and what you would like him to do to you... Get a little wild...
 jimi77
Joined: 7/13/2004
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Posted: 7/30/2007 8:14:54 PM
I don’t like things scripted.. if I know it’s coming it kind of ruins it for me.. I like the spontaneous!

Hey how you doing.
Good, Boy it’s hot out.
Let me tell you what’s hot.. LMBO!
 HarleyKat~
Joined: 8/5/2005
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Posted: 7/30/2007 9:40:47 PM
Listen to My I...he definitely knows his phone sex!! ;)

Personally...it makes me crack up! LOL Or make late night drives to his house!
 Tim0066
Joined: 7/2/2007
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Posted: 7/30/2007 10:36:37 PM
HarleyKat call me!

I need to learn how to phonebone...

OP, try teasing alot... tell him what you want to do to him if you were there but then back off a little and tell him he has to wait till you say he can have it... you really have to not be submissive but instead "take charge" for it to work. Go slow like foreplay, with no physical contact you have to build up slowly because its all in your imaginations. Tease tease tease... and then tease a little more.

Damn, it sounds like I've done this before huh?
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
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Posted: 7/30/2007 10:47:32 PM
Put some playdough in your mouth beforehand.

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Edit: Why doesn't POF like men of fewere words?

Edit: How redundant must I be?
 Ron9
Joined: 8/10/2004
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Posted: 7/30/2007 11:14:54 PM
I am totally clueless. The one time me and a gal buddy tried it - we both just kept laughing
 christi66
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Posted: 7/30/2007 11:53:28 PM
its simple pretend he is there and tell him what you are doing to him
 Evolutionist
Joined: 7/3/2007
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Posted: 7/31/2007 2:00:22 AM
Tell him what you would like him to do to you and tell him what you would like to do to him and make it very, very hot...When ever I have done this with a girl, she usally comes over to my place...lol...
 HarleyKat~
Joined: 8/5/2005
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Posted: 7/31/2007 7:09:37 AM
Tim....**ring, ring, ring**
 Available4locals
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Posted: 7/31/2007 7:17:23 AM
I have never done this.

But if he wants it be sure to send him a bill just like the 900 lines would do.



And Harleykat... Lessons shouldn't be free either.
Be sure to bill Tim.

Dave
 fallcrboater
Joined: 11/26/2006
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Posted: 7/31/2007 3:06:59 PM
"My I", holy cr*p! Are you like a phone sex trainer? That's the best advice. I'm saving that sh*t!

Also, ask what he wants. Ask what he likes and what he is doing to please himself. Once you get to that point, you'll know what to do.

I had a friend who worked a phone sex line. She said the #1 request was for her to pretend to be a stepdaughter. Ewww! LMAO!
 Jetplague
Joined: 4/4/2005
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Posted: 7/31/2007 4:31:08 PM
Imagine all those operators that use to listen in to those "dirty" phone calls in the past...it's amazing how somethings never change. Phone sex, cyber sex, text message dirty talk....the age of safe sex is just utterly astounding with the possibilities...set the cell phone to vibrate and your guy can please you right at the climax. Heh!
 Nick Thinker
Joined: 2/10/2007
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Posted: 7/31/2007 4:40:19 PM
Oh my! Phone sex is for intellectuals (or at least, English Lit graduates)!!.
 NerdStatus
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Posted: 7/31/2007 4:52:43 PM

I'm not sure how to make this an awesome experience for him. I'm game but I'm hoping some of you men might have some ideas about what I can say to him.


1) Know what he's into. Is he a boob / ass / leg man?
2) Talk about touching yourself a lot, and how it's making you feel good
3) Buy some porn. Really - get some magazines, and read the articles... they're full of the kind of dirty talk men love... it's why they bother printing words
 SassySky
Joined: 7/28/2007
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Posted: 8/4/2007 11:46:15 AM
okay I am kind of lost is this a long distance relationshi?. I mean my hat is off to you for making the effort to make someone happy, But, me personally, I thinkI would have to be in the next room talking on the Phone, Because talking is great but where is the action, satisfaction, I also am afraid I would get the giggles,
Now in person, that is different I could tell them and then show them
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