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robertkoi

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41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this! Posted: 11/12/2009 2:51:34 PM
"Not at all, just that 45 plus just doesn't do it for me, that honest enough for ya!" ---------- No wonder some men and women go for younger flesh when people their own age aren't good enough.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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fighting because of facebook..... Posted: 11/12/2009 2:42:46 PM
FB is pure shit and as.sholes who use it that way know exactly what I mean. Since men and women can't be friends anyway it makes even less sense to pretend that it works better online.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

Msg: 170 (view)

41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this! Posted: 11/11/2009 10:52:58 PM
"Old enough to enjoy their company but too young to consider a future. We're talking a similar age gap to the op" ------------- Well, then why waste your time on kids? Oh, don't tell me: you like the challenge to be a teacher?

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

Msg: 168 (view)

41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this! Posted: 11/11/2009 4:38:55 PM
"Fo the majority of younger guys it's just about getting their "older woman wings" but not all. I have dated younger guys that have got very serious and wanted to settle down and make a commitment" ----------------- Well, obviously that's not what YOU wanted... Besides, it depends on how much younger we're talking here.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

Msg: 197 (view)

Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30? Posted: 11/11/2009 4:35:14 PM
I didn't "party hard" when I was 20 and I certainly don't plan to start now.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

Msg: 164 (view)

41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this! Posted: 11/11/2009 2:58:56 PM
"I'm 41 dating a 25 yo.. and we've been together for almost 2 yrs." ---------- So you're still DATING after 2 years? Obviously it's not getting past the dating stage which I can fully understand. How much a "couple" like that has in common besides sex is beyond me - and 2 years ago he was 23 and you were 39. Sorry, but I just have to laugh. :)

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

Msg: 156 (view)

why is that an older woman looking for younger men is OK but...older men for younger girls is BAD Posted: 11/6/2009 3:12:08 AM
^^ Man, there's no "truth" to anything. That's how YOU feel about it. If you think that something's wrong, then do something - not for the sake of other people (women) but for yourself. If you're happy with the way things are today - great - though it doesn't sound like it...

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

Msg: 153 (view)

why is that an older woman looking for younger men is OK but...older men for younger girls is BAD Posted: 11/4/2009 9:28:28 PM
I just think that it's part of that feminist garbage as well as a general trend sweeping across the western world. It'll pass when the last cougar wakes up, stops making stupid excuses for her choice and admits the difference between a boy and a real man. And oh, "why is that an older woman looking for younger men is OK but...older men for younger girls is BAD" That's funny, because it isn't, never has and never will be true.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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Is he a cheater? Posted: 11/4/2009 9:59:08 AM
3 jobs, eh? How are you supposed to be in a relationship anyway if there's no time for one..?

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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Why some men never want marry? Posted: 11/4/2009 7:46:41 AM
Well, given the fact that there are very few people out there who you can truly trust - no wonder. People don't trust each other anymore.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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The details... Posted: 11/4/2009 7:44:35 AM
Okay, I think that everybody's made good points in this thread. As for asking for clarification, sure I've done that many times but the answers haven't really been satisfactory, and I don't necessarily mean in one specific case but in general. I said earlier that everybody wants to appear as innocent and snow white as possible and that's where the answer lies I guess. This is especially true for women. It's like men are supposed to carry the whole responsibility, or burden, in case a conversation for example turns into something "unexpected", or if a date did so. I'm sure you know what I mean...

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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The details... Posted: 11/3/2009 8:05:01 AM
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this... I think that the longer you talk to somebody, the harder it is to let go. Although there's never a reason to expect people to be honest and upfront about everything, but if the two of you are going to meet up, you certainly expect SOME, or perhaps a lot of honesty to make it interesting to set up a date in the first place. Everybody wants to appear as innocent and snow white as possible before a date, that's clear, but not all of us have the same pride either. I'm sure that there are people out there who would put up with almost anything and I definitely don't belong to that category. Anyway, I think that MY "problem" tends to be that I simply analyse too much. I spend too much time turning every rock so to speak in order to find something - a lie or whatever to call it off. When, or if, I DO find something that doesn't add up I will confront them and the discussion goes on and on and there's an argument - obviously on the phone since I'm talking about before the date has actually taken place. I guess my thinking, or question perhaps, was that maybe I should relax and cool off more instead of taking it so damn seriously..?

robertkoi

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Would you date a man who lost everything? Posted: 11/2/2009 9:08:04 PM
This thread was started over 4 years ago, and 3 years before the economic collapse. It's even more true now than ever before.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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The details... Posted: 11/2/2009 9:02:53 PM
I'm not really sure how to put this, but do you pay much attention to what people tell you before a first date, i.e., if the things they say add up? Now, sometimes it can be hard to tell the difference between your own suspiciousness and what's actually real. You might even turn into some kind of detective and look for reasons to call it off, maybe because of pride because you don't want to appear naive and date somebody who's been bullshi.tting you all the time. In other words: you don't want to give that person the satisfaction of getting away with everything. This is basically an open subject to be discussed. The reason I bring this up is that I've found myself having a rather hard time lately analysing things that people (women) tell me and I've called off several dates because of the details that simply don't add up. Just share some of your thoughts...

robertkoi

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Msg: 154 (view)

41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this! Posted: 11/2/2009 9:07:31 AM
The porn industry has obviously influenced many brats - in some cases both sides. Why complicate things when there are prostitutes? You pay for what you want and that's it. You won't be laughed at either. There's no difference since it's all about satisfying a fantasy anyway. It's one thing to have an immature kid watching porn on his computer and another to have an adult allowing him to test it out IRL.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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why is that an older woman looking for younger men is OK but...older men for younger girls is BAD Posted: 10/31/2009 9:52:04 AM
Personally I think that people laugh more at "mom-son" relationships, i.e., older woman-younger man (brat). Also, it's been generally accepted over the years to have an older man dating a younger woman. Sure, it raises an eyebrow perhaps, but that's about it. Also, it makes more sense for an older man to be interested in younger women because a man can have children for most part of his life, the same can't be said about an older woman. In the latter case it's nothing about a silly sex fantasy where a brat gets his trophy and the woman to feel young for one night, or two.

robertkoi

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separated but still living together... to believe or not Posted: 10/31/2009 8:49:38 AM
It is a better idea to avoid newly separated and divorced people in general.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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Good on Paper..... Posted: 10/30/2009 9:39:45 PM
Actions speak a much clearer language. A little off topic perhaps, but I've recently had two rather disappointing experiences where I was talking to somebody on WLM and the phone for almost two months, but we never met... She was a liar and kept bullshi.tting about obvious things until I just couldn't take it anymore. Even though I never thought that something serious would come out of it, I did, and DO, expect honesty to a certain degree. What I mean is that there's no reason to question a lot of stuff but if it gets too much, at least I'm the one who gives up. The second disappointment was not so much about lies as empty promises and, well, I guess bull.shit, too... We talked for two weeks and I made it clear to her right from the start that my intention was not to talk for weeks on end without a date in real life. She had no problem with that and the days went by. During the two weeks that we talked the very same subject came up several times. She always had an excuse. So on Thursday we talked until late and agreed to see each other the next day. Everything seemed just fine and we both looked forward to it. When we hung up, I was like "finally!" The next morning I get a text message from her and again she can't make it because she's tired, has stomach pains, etc. etc. I didn't even bother to reply. Later on Friday I blocked her on the dating site (not here) and on WLM. She sent me another text message but I didn't reply to that either. It makes me wonder why somebody's wasting her time for two weeks and phone bills on absolutely nothing but talk. I was serious about seeing her IRL from the beginning. That was the only reason I kept talking to her. I was interested enough to give her a chance more than once. She might have had something to hide, but why get involved in the first place with someone who clearly wants to meet up fairly quickly. It makes no sense at all. I did date other women on a few occasions the first time and once on the second. So even though I invested a lot of time, at least I didn't waste all my time waiting for nothing. .

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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Are you better at finding or being found? Posted: 10/27/2009 9:02:47 AM
^^ I tend to feel the same way.

robertkoi

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Where to start? Posted: 10/26/2009 12:19:38 PM
What a boring thread.

robertkoi

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Is Dating over 30 tougher than it was when you were in your 20's? Posted: 10/26/2009 10:42:37 AM
" You must be extremely popular in mixed company." --------- Well, I don't give a shi.t about what people think about my opinions - we're all entitled to them. I don't want to be on anybody's favorite list anyway. "....not if you were to live to be a thousand...... " ---------- There it is - the mentality that is so typical to too many people - especially women like yourself. Countries in the world today that are constantly being bashed at for their values are at the same time fortunate enough to have preserved them in the first place. What we lost will come back - guaranteed.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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Is Dating over 30 tougher than it was when you were in your 20's? Posted: 10/26/2009 8:15:54 AM
No. It was not a joke and I stand by every word that I say or write. I don't think that women should work either. And by the way, what's so damn wrong about "thinking" as they did 50-100 years ago anyway? Back then men were men and women were women. Today you can hardly tell the difference anymore. I'm convinced that things will go back to as they once were. Too many men on this site are nothing but pussies complaining about this site and about women. Let's face it, it's a trend to bullsh.it people, to cheat on your partner and yes - women can't be trusted and the same goes for many men as well. Get that through your head. People who expect to find someone who can be trusted and offer some REAL qualities, I wish that poor bastar.d good luck. Personally I'm just here for the forums. I don't want to get anything else out of this site - no dates, no friends, no favorites no nothing.

robertkoi

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minimal expectation, awesome? Posted: 10/25/2009 11:56:02 AM
"Technically, gold diggers dig gold not trash. Interesting thing is that trash guys bash gold diggers." --------- The truth is this: if shi.t was gold, they'd dig it right out of someone's ass.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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face to face date VS. messaging? Posted: 10/25/2009 11:50:24 AM
"There are a lot of paranoid people here that want to chat, text, etc for eons. Focus on those that have the same expectations of this site as you do. It is not unrealistic to want to meet sooner than later if the conversations in cyberspace or phone are going well and there is mutual interest." ---------- I've been in those shoes several times and pretty much stopped communicating. One has to meet half way. It's not necessarily about accepting one person's terms - depending on who started talking to whom of course. If A wants to meet a.s.a.p. and B sent the first message, then the latter should've known the terms from the very beginning. I know that a lot of women delay and date by giving bulls.hit excuses, such as kids, work, tired, getting sick or whatever. I have no problem with any of those but if you've been around long enough you'll sniff them out rather easily - intuitively.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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Is Dating over 30 tougher than it was when you were in your 20's? Posted: 10/25/2009 8:40:58 AM
Laugh First of all I can't see why someone's even comparing "20's" to any age over 30. That's just ridiculous. A brat at 20 has no experience whatsoever to know better in the first place. Anyway, there are so many factors that play a role when you're over 30. People have mentioned kids which is certainly true. Then there's disappointment - one situation after the other, hairsplitting, no one's good enough and the list goes on. Too many are looking for a fantasy because they don't even know what they want. Some start experimenting only to get more hurt. They basically rape themselves by sleeping around for a while thinking that they'll have some fun. Then the gold diggers; as if money has ever offered happiness and love. So there are many categories. I believe that ever since women "broke out" and started acting like men the world's gone downhill - at least in the western world. Women know their place but refuse to realize it - and we all know where that place is, or places rather... Oh you've forgotten? Well, how about in bed and in front of the stove. They abandoned their role and that's why few people are truly happy and satisfied these days. I'd say that it's time to cut the crap and go back to where we were.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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4 Months then Nothing? What Happened? Posted: 10/24/2009 9:23:14 AM
It's not by coincidence that friends usually come as no. 2 as well many other things when you're truly interested in someone. So you have a kid, fine, but I'm sure that arrangements can be made so that you can see each other more often than once a week. Okay, so it's normal to you, but certainly not for me. Yeah, once a week is a big deal to people because it's not much to build on if you're supposed to get somewhere. It reminds me more of a fuc.k buddy relationship. And if he's looking for something more serious, he's doing his fishing somewhere else.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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Women at Pubs by Themselves Posted: 10/24/2009 8:27:55 AM
A pub for men and one for women - problem solved.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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4 Months then Nothing? What Happened? Posted: 10/24/2009 7:59:22 AM
Once a week... That's not even a relationship. That's friendship. Actually, people often see friends more often than that. Then there's work... You know, work fuc.ks up a lot. Not only does it steal too much time of your life, it drains most of your energy as well and makes people apathetic. My guess is that he doesn't see any future for the two of you and his attention is somewhere else. I don't blame him either. I'd rather see someone who's more available and so should you - if possible.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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Why are older women not into younger guys??? Posted: 10/22/2009 11:46:14 AM
If you feel comfortable about dating someone who has to refer to history books to know what life was like when you were his/her age, fine... At 32 I don't go more than -5 years and on the plus side it doesn't really matter as much since I consider myself old enough anyway. I've had friends and others ask me and I often say that when you've hit 30 her age doesn't really matter. It's a sort milestone in life, probably more than any other age. The difference between 20-30 is, and should be if everything's kind of normal "upstairs" - huge.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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Flakey & inconsistent behavior. Localized or more common than I realize? Posted: 10/22/2009 7:55:45 AM
"Have other 30+ people noticed a rather disturbing trend lately of people being very flakey? That, and inconsistent and even completely unpredictable behavior..." -------------------- Sure - all the time. It's a world wide trend I'm afraid. As I wrote in another thread - the world's become extremely immoral and not many give a s.hit about his neighbour anymore either. It's the illusion that no one's good enough, that there's always someone better right around the corner, etc., that does it.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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Internet vs. real life Posted: 10/21/2009 8:16:44 AM
"Here's the strange and interesting part. I met both women in real life at different events this past weekend. I don't send out mass messages so I tend to remember those I've contacted. I end up talking with the first woman, we get along great, exchange info, and there is definite mutual interest. Pleasant change of circumstances. So at the next event, I end up talking with the second woman. I didn't recognize her at first but then she mentioned some things in her profile and I was able to piece it together. Same thing. We get along great, exchange info, and might see each other again. Neither of these women have any idea that they previously rejected me on-line." ---------------------- Well, ever heard of people just being nice to you? It doesn't mean that they're automatically attracted to you. That can throw a lot of people off and it's especially true if a woman who appeals to you happens to be very nice as well, etc. It's easy to interpret it the wrong way. On the Internet people pick and choose all the time but reality doesn't work that way. Usually you don't ignore somebody who's talking to you or trying to communicate, right?

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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Dating Women Posted: 10/20/2009 5:12:55 PM
Did someone fall asleep while reading all that "lol" stuff?

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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Cell phones and the first date Posted: 10/20/2009 8:14:14 AM
During a date: turn that damn phone OFF! I've always wondered why people bring their fuc.king cell phone to the gym and spend 1/5 of their time there talking in it. Can't they possibly spend 1-2 hours of 24 hours without it? Who can be so important? Nobody. The same applies when you're dating somebody. You either focus on the person you've just met or you don't.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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Guys asking to meet with you immediately Posted: 10/20/2009 8:10:02 AM
"Your feelings are your best guide -you just know right away if you want to meet that person, and if you don't have the burning desire to meet within a week, its never gonna happan (don't know how long the waiting period is for a woman who's dyin to meet a guy who's dragging it out) however plenty of women who cant decide whether to piss or get off the potty... i don't care about their excuses or feelings of anxiety, really don't need an explanation or waiting period..." -------------- I agree. I've heard all the excuses, not because they weren't interested - in that case we never would've talked in the first place. It's a game of course and everybody knows that. They want to drag it out as long as possible to see what kind of person she's talking to. Again, that's fine but you don't get to know a person on MSN or anywhere else on the Internet, nor on the phone for that matter. I think that many women (and men I suppose) ARE nervous and by dragging it out they believe that it'll get better. In fact, nothing gets better. I'd say that it gets worse as the expectations grow at the same time. I'm currently talking to a woman who's in my opinion delayed it a few times, though we've just talked for maybe 3-4 days or so. I basically gave her until Saturday or Sunday. If we haven't met by then it's just not going to happen. It's as simple as that.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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Full disclosure or learn as you go? Posted: 10/19/2009 7:22:43 PM
If you've been on say 50, 100 or more dates and answered the same questions over and over you start to sound like a broken record. You get tired of the "quiz shows" and eventually bulls.hit or simply don't answer at all. I've been tired of that myself and sometimes even avoided getting into certain topics. Yeah, it does create a sort of mystery and that itself can be an intriguing thing. I will definitely not lay it all out to a someone on the first date - forget it. It's about getting to know the person, not the "clothes" that he or she is wearing so to speak. If you ever face the situation where he or she asks you: "why didn't you tell me that before?"; depending on what it is about of course and you thought, and still think, that it was basically unimportant; you answer: "because I wanted you to get to know ME first".

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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Guys asking to meet with you immediately Posted: 10/19/2009 7:05:29 PM
Well, let's face reality: so you're sitting there talking day after day, week after week, maybe month after month and you still haven't met. That's garbage. I can surely understand why some people want to chat and talk on the phone for a few days, maybe a week before dating someone - nothing wrong with that, except that you really don't get to know a person online anyway. If someone's trying to deceive you, all you're doing is delaying something that could've been over much sooner. Another major drawback is that any man or woman might use the long delay and date other people who are much more interested to meet up a.s.a.p. So while you're sitting there chatting week after week thinking that this guy or woman will wait for you and you only, think again. It's not going to happen. There's always another date right around the corner. So why waste your time? It's better to find out who you've been investing your time on rather than see it go down the tubes when he or she finally finds somebody else. That's reality. However, I see no reason to give out your phone number the first thing either. Like I said - a few days or a week at most is enough. Longer than that is just completely unnecessary.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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why waste your time with excuses? Posted: 10/18/2009 2:27:42 AM
1) "Why waste your time with lies and excuses?" 2) "What's your experience?" ------------ 1) Good question. I think that a lot of people put up with crap because not many are serious enough in the first place and in the back of our mind there's sex. That's what drives people to even bother to spend a minute talking to somebody who's OBVIOUSLY not worth the time and the effort. 2) Too many to mention. I, as many other people, only have themselves to blame when it happens. If the signs are there you just forget about it and look for someone else. But that's the tricky part. We all have needs and I just think that sex plays a HUGE role in the world of dating, maybe as much as 95% - perhaps more. If you'd reduce that to say 20% in general, no one would put up with excuses or lies. It just wouldn't happen, except in very few cases.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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Would anybody have done the same? Posted: 10/14/2009 3:13:35 PM
Wake up. Since WHEN is a relationship of that kind where two people are just fuc.king even NEAR something serious? And yes, it doesn't matter that he had someone else. Either way it's basically disgusting to have the other one screwing others and then comes back for a number every now and then. Does exclusive fuc.king even exist by the way? Blame yourself and not him. You set yourself up for disappoinment the moment he shoved his prick in you. It's game with no rules. Live with it.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this! Posted: 10/14/2009 7:41:39 AM
"I am actually surprised that younger men would like women who are so much older. While I understand the MILF thing and/or young men wanting to get with older women because they are usually (not always of course) more mature and play less games than younger women. However, I don't think the young men have thought about how older ladies can have or have had a lot more horrible experiences with men than younger girls have had. Meaning, that the older ladies have probably had more player experiences, jerk experiences, stalker experiences, abusive relationships, and divorces than younger women have in a sense which can almost ruin them to an extent." ------------------- Well, older men have always dated younger women and it's been accepted more or less everywhere. The other way around however, never has and never will. It's sort of taboo and that's what makes it "attractive". Both know that it's not going to last and without even exaggerating, 8 out of 10 cases are going to crash right after taking off so to speak. It's all about getting fuc.ked in the ass by someone who's half the age. It's also a sort of phenomena right now, a trend like any other. When you think about it, it really makes no sense either - how lack of experience can appeal to these people - seen from a cougar's perspective. But then again, it's the taboo thing that gives them a kick.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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Independence Posted: 10/14/2009 7:32:58 AM
Well, let's see: so all the millions of people out there who are not only "comdemned" to unemployment, but they're also supposed to stop living the rest of their lives, i.e., stop dating men/women only because they're either a) living with their parents and b) unemployed. That's just pure bull.shit. We're already living in a segregated society in a thousand different ways. Some people throw food in the garbage can and others eat it. I say to hell with the job and if you can combine dating, enjoying life as much as you possibly can AND look for a job, fine.

robertkoi

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success story Posted: 10/13/2009 5:16:11 PM
How much did they pay you for posting this?

robertkoi

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Independence Posted: 10/13/2009 1:41:08 PM
"Independence" ------------- When you think about it, nobody is totally independent. You work for someone and you're directly dependent on a job and the money you make. And the list goes on. Show me some true independence and become a farmer and live off the land and what nature gives you.

robertkoi

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What should I be asking someone before first date? Posted: 10/13/2009 1:01:17 PM
"Look Mr, you live in Sweden. Our paths will never cross. You never have to date me. So what's your beef?!" -------------- Laugh I can change that to another location anytime. I wouldn't date someone like you anyway. You see, I have this sense which allows me to sniff out gold diggers and shallowness in women. I've got money and plenty of it and I can tell you this: you wouldn't even qualify to lick my shoes.

robertkoi

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What should I be asking someone before first date? Posted: 10/13/2009 12:52:06 PM
"Oh really? WOW! How wonderfully perceptive of you. Admirable - truly." ------------- What I've read so far tells me all that I need to know.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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What should I be asking someone before first date? Posted: 10/13/2009 12:44:20 PM
"And you can judge my whole personality by a few sentences on an internet forum?" ---------- Actually yes.

robertkoi

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What should I be asking someone before first date? Posted: 10/13/2009 12:32:55 PM
Laugh I knew immediately that it was shallow chick. So there it is. Email Bono and ask him to marry you. Who knows, you might get lucky.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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What should I be asking someone before first date? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:32:09 PM
"YOu have already overlooked that he is still married. What other red flags are you looking for?" --------------- She mentioned that he's got a good job and probably makes a lot of money. So hey, why would she care if he's married or not. :)

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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What should I be asking someone before first date? Posted: 10/12/2009 4:47:53 PM
"I will look for red flags during the date" ------------- That's probably the only you do. ... just another shallow chick.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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Am I being Paranoid Posted: 10/12/2009 4:41:17 PM
Simple: quit playing silly, little games and start picking up the phone.

robertkoi

Joined: 11/9/2008

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What is the best way to say you arent interested? Posted: 10/11/2009 1:29:04 PM
I raise my leg and salute you, joey-potter.

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