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typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

Msg: 55 (view)

Leaving a note on her car? Posted: 2/18/2006 5:04:43 PM
Try this, it worked for me once, oh so long ago. Pay attention and try to get an idea as to when the car generally disappears from the lot. Then get there a few minutes early one day. Live a single (NOT RED!) rose, or any other flower, under the wiper. No note, just a folwer. A couple of days later do it again, but this time leave a note.."I have seen you around and you smile just brightens up my day. So I just wanted to brighten up yours." Let a few days pass and again leave a flower, but no note. And then finally leave a flower wit another note and a business card. This note should say that you hope you have not made her feel scared, but you really would like to meet her. And leave it with the choice being up to her. If she does not call, you will never bother her again. One of four things will happen. She might leave a note to you. (This could be good or bad.) She could call (again, good or bad), or she will find another place to park! (only bad) It is a risky thing to do. The deck is stacked against you. But if it does work, it is something special that she will never forget. Of course, you could just hang around the parking lot with a set of jumper cables and a dead battery. (leave the headlights on) At least then you have an excuse and maybe a 50/50 shot. It kind of worked for me. The only hitch I ran into was that I got caught leaving the last rose, with one with the note. We met for lunch the next week and it went over like a lead balloon! LOL Turned out not net be my type at all! Nothing ventured, nothing gained! Good Luck

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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Average..? Posted: 2/13/2006 9:37:22 AM
anyone thats seen my profile ..( and the pictures I've posted ) Can tell I'm neither a waif nor a super model ...i made sure i posted a just got outta bed pic ( jammies.. no makeup ) as well as the not so flattering ones ( looking like a goober w/ a fat ass ) I dont want a man to expect anything other than the very average me. I looked at your pictures...and I liked what you chose. Clear, honest and open. I applaud you! For the record, you are someone I would describe as "average".... Not what the Dr. would call ideal, but what is most common here in the good old USA. You defenatly do not look like you need to wear silver pants with Goodyear written across the a$$. (that actually sounds like my ex, and I married her!) Look, we can tease and make fun all we want. Hey, I am overweight myself! I need to loose about 20 lbs. The point is honesty! Does anyone out here want to have a relationship with someone who lied to you before they even met you?

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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Can you spell J-E-R-K ? Posted: 2/13/2006 9:20:47 AM
thank you for proving your idiocy.......YOU are the reason people like tiffany make stupid threads.. guys that some so damned confident that they can satisfy a woman, yet have no clue.......yes, i do know where it is, i know how to work it, and i know that you know neither Can you spell A$$ Hole? OK Bozo, Basic A&P 1201 In many women the area commonly called the "G-Spot" (actually one of several different points that people of both sexes find sexually exciting) is often palpated as a slightly firmer and often raised area in the anterior portion of the vaginal wall. So it can be described as a "little knob" in the physical sense. And in the poetic sense it can be also be described as a "little knob" as in opening the door to a woman's sexual fulfillment. So tell me, are you always so quick to attack someone else? Maybe you should go back home to your mommy and learn some manners. And while you are there, see your old English teacher about the rules regarding capitalization of letters. You point is probably valid, but your method of presenting it is not. What a Jerk.

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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RUN BABY RUN! Posted: 2/13/2006 8:54:34 AM
Medications do not make him abusive. Stress can make him quicker to abuse, but only if he has abusive tendacies from the start. My advice....RUN-DO NO WALK-TO THE NEAREST EXIT!! Later on you will be glad that you did. And I will bet that even now, getting out will not be easy. This will NOT be an easy breakup. Good luck, I fear that you will need it.

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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Date from hell. Posted: 2/10/2006 6:06:00 PM
What I noticed about this dating story is this. 32 yr old man (gay) takes another guy, only 20 to a kiddy place for dinner, then he calls it "romantic". It sounds to me like a pervert who really wants a 10 years old and a "friend" to share it with. Say what you want, it the story is remotely true, than we all have someone else to worry about. What I want to know is this........did you meet the guy here?...I hope not!

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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Two date and you want to get married? Posted: 1/21/2006 6:39:41 PM
Twice in the last month I had to "break up" with someone I did not realize that I was having a reltionship with! LOL They both said "Friends first", and I stated up front that i plann on relocating in about 6 months. But did that make a difference? NO!!!

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 1/21/2006 6:22:40 PM
NO Scanner!!!! Get into this century! YOU DO NOT NEED A SCANNER!! Choose a picture and go to Walmart, Walgreens, even a lot of grocery stores. Any place that does 1 Hour photos. They can put it on a disk (or you can do it yourself) while you wait. NO PIC! This is more like me. I actually paid to have some taken at Sears. The family loved getting some too. Cost? Less than $20. I just got a basic package from whoever was running an ad in the Sunday sell papers. Still a problem? Ask anyone you know with a cell phone if it has a camera. They can snap a few until you find a couple you like and then they can email them to you. Your cost-FREE! You know, web cameras are not that expensive. I should go buy one myself!

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 1/21/2006 6:10:01 PM
Yes. Average body style turned out to be 250+ all three times. Nowdays, no pic, no date. You do not have to post it, but I will expect you to email it to me BEFORE I ask to meet you. I like a woman to have a little extra padding, (better snuggling!), but being 100 pounds overweight in not "average" and to say that is lying.

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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~ POF Dating Etiquette ~ Posted: 1/21/2006 6:06:25 PM
OK, just ran across this thread and have not read it all. Sooooooo....Lets try something. Everyone post one rule about online dating that you like, and think that others should follow. I will start..and I will starte with one I have yet to follow, but I AM working to change that. Here goes... Pictures: ALWAYS post al least 2 or be willing to email then at first contact- A shot where we can actually SEE your face and a full length picture so we can get an Idea about the rest. Now, it's your turn.

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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Question for the Men re: Flirting Posted: 1/13/2006 6:22:42 PM
GO FOR IT!!! My big hobby is dancing. It is suprising how many women will ask a guy to dance and how many would die first! Nothing in the middle. NOTICE: THE MANS RULE ON BEING ASKED TO DANCE! Allways say yes! (Most men are very suprised and enjoy it very much.) Why not the same rule for dating?

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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Why are there so many beautiful women in British Columbia and Canada? Posted: 1/10/2006 6:17:40 PM
I though that I was the only one the noticed that fact!

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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What do you 'guys' or girls' do when someone much older e-mails you? Posted: 1/10/2006 6:04:23 PM
Set up age ranges on you profile. If not, you should give everyone and equal chance. I recently have gone out with women who were "too young" for me. We had a great time. That is all we had and all I wanted. For the record, one gave me a kiss at the door and I was suprised to get that. We have gone out twice since then. Hey, we have fun!

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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How Young is too young? Posted: 1/10/2006 5:52:54 PM
I am 43-tell next month! I am very liberal about this. I have dated women24-57 in the last year. Who cares about age-as long as they are legal! I have met 50 and up who were not grown up and 25 and down who were very mature.

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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May/December relationships. Posted: 1/10/2006 5:48:22 PM
I am in a situation where I really am npot looking for something serious just yet. I will probibly have to relocate in 6-8 months and jsut fdo not want to hurt anyone. I have asked out and seen several women in the last few weeks, ages from 24-57. Why is it that younger women thinks that a guy is sick and twisted for wanted to spend time with a female who just happends to be younger? I want a nice evening out with good company. I am NOT aking for sex, commitment, or anything else!

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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Good places to meet women? Posted: 1/10/2006 5:32:19 PM
After my divorce I had a very hard time getting back into dating. An older friend of my parents told me to take dancing lessions. That if i learned to get good at dancing, I would never lack for a date. I took a short series of lessions and asked out the instructor. Now I go dancing every chance I get. Second choice-college. I am 43 and I have met a lot of very pretty and very special women at college, women of ALL ages.

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........ Posted: 1/10/2006 5:25:03 PM
Spending all you time cutting down and insulting your ex. Get over it. Besides, if he was that bad, why did you marry the jerk?

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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How many girl friend boy friend you had Posted: 1/10/2006 5:23:13 PM
I have had three serious realtionship so far in my life. One I married. she walked outafter 10 years and then after a year decided she had made a mistake and wanted to try again. But first she spent a year trying to make my life hell. The second claimed she wanted more-that she did not love me the way she wanted too. Now she has been alone for 5+ years. The last decided that she jsut did not love me in the way necessary for a lifetime realtionship-after being togeather for 4 years. It took four years to figure that out? I think that all people have a limitless supply of love in their heart. I guess that you should probibly do what I am trying to do;learn from your mistakes, try harder, attempt top make youself a better person, but most of all... KEEP TRYING TILL YOU GET IT RIGHT!

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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How many Single fathers Posted: 1/10/2006 1:20:45 PM
I guess I am up again, so here goes... If a girl is not interested in you because you are raising your kids, than you are better off without her. If she gives the kids as excuse for getting out of an existing relationship, than one of two things is happening, either she is lying about her reason, or she is doing you a favor and letting you know that she is not mature enough to be the person you need in your life. Either way, she leaves and you win. As for it stopping some women for being interested in dating you. Hey, it just saves you time and money from dating shallow, selfish women! Children are a blessing for anyone to have in their lives. I can understand not being ready to take on the responsibilities of kids, but is that not the same as saying that we are not ready to give up being selfish? I will admit to my faults and there are a lot of them! I personally think that it is OK for people to be selfish in some ways, just be big enough to admit it.

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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Saying "I am not interested" after a date. Posted: 1/10/2006 9:25:08 AM
I have been turned down for dates, and have had dates broken several times in my life. I also have had women express a lack of interest after a date in the past. And I have been in the position of being the one with a lack of interest. thsi si oK, it is part of meeting new people. But I have to ask about how to tell someone you are not interested? So what is the best way of dong this without hurting someone? (I have always called a lady after a date and thanked her for the evening.) I was taught that is the proper and polite thing to do. I have always told the truth, even though that often hurts, but I think that it hurts less than being lied to. I also hate being given a lame, inaccurate excuse. I recently spent some time on the phone with a woman and choose to not call her anymore or go out with her based on those two phone calls. In a totall of 30 minutes on th phone she mentioned her ex-husband. that is OK, after all her was a major part of her life for a long time. But she never called him by anything but "that sorry, useless fu%^ing ba$tard I was married to)" Major turn off.

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

Msg: 45 (view)

Whats a decent amount of money to spend on a first date Posted: 1/5/2006 6:22:36 PM
I always give the lady a choice, coffee and dissert at coffee bar, drinks at a quite bar or dinner at a particular restaurant. The bar is one I have found that is in a local hotel that is very nice and quite, I can't stand having to yell on a first date-($20-$30 tops). The restaurant is an independent place and fairly reasonable and has excellent food- ($30-$35). Coffee bar=Starbucks ($15-$20) The main thing is that I want a chance to actually meet and talk to my date! I never go to the movies on a first date.

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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What do you think? Posted: 1/5/2006 5:49:27 PM
Whoa! I out grew <5'0" in Jr. High! Thanks much for noticing that! Try six feet even. I liked your other ideas and have addressed all of them. It is hard to believe that I looked at my profile many times and did not notice that one!

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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No pic + 'average' body style = obese? (locked--not a review) Posted: 1/3/2006 4:52:45 PM
I have noticed a trend lately. When I reply to a profile that does not have a picture and has the body style as average, the lady generally turns out to be 50-75 or more pounds overweight. Look, I really do prefer a woman to be a few pounds above ideal. I actually have a date with a lady who is more overweight than me in about an hour. I have never had a relationship with a woman who was not a little over weight, at least not since high school. I am actually 18 pounds over my ideal body weight and have a BMI of 28%. But here in America today the "average" is for an adult to carry around an extra 15-25 pounds, not 50+! I recently went to meet a woman who called herself "average." When she walked into the room and was carrying around an extra 80 pounds, I immediately felt that she had lied to me. Would you want a relationship with a person who lied to you the first time you met them? Especially about something that they know you will find out the truth about right from the start? We all have out secrets and I believe in privacy, but this is not either of those. I actually added to my profile my height, weight and even my jean size. Yes, I do want to meet a special lady, but not if I have to lie to do so. There is nothing special about lying. Maybe I am being over-sensitive. If I am, than I am very sorry. But I realize that there are many reasons to not post a picture and I respect that. So I depend on the accuracy of the descriptions in the profiles. I will respect you desire for privacy, but I expect you to respect my desire for honesty. And don't tell my you want an honest and confident man, if you can't be the same yourself. Hate me if you wish, but I am just saying what I feel. By the way, my date tonight is about 35 pounds over weight.

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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Does my profile suck? or is it my face? Posted: 12/24/2005 8:10:02 PM
Saw the profile like it, just one suggestion.....SMILE!!! I'll bet you have a beautiful smile, let us see it. OH! And for all you others seeing this posting-real pictures, not snapshots, are very nice to see also.

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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It's time: Brutally Honest Profile Reviews by Kikilynn... as promised Posted: 12/24/2005 8:01:28 PM
Ok now. here is the one place is will disagree with you. I "perfer not to say" in some areas for very specific reasons. Here is an example----Money! I had a very good paying job for a lot of years. I owe very little money to anyone. My living expenses are very, very low. So I took this chance to go back to school. I will finish in 6 months and will be making very good money again. Not great, but starting at 50-65K right out of college is OK. I choose to make very little money right now so that I can make my life better for me and my future mate. But listing my current income-1/4 of what I made 3 years ago ( the least I have made since I was -20, I only work parttime) makes me seem like a looser. Some of us do have a little money in the bank. The result of lots of hard work. Also, I will not date ANY woman who states that a man must make more than 30K a year. I wonat a woman who cares for me for who I am and not what I make. I refuse to "buy" me a trophy wife.

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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What do you think? Posted: 12/24/2005 7:49:00 PM
Take a look at the profile and give me honest feedback. It is quite long and detailed. Almost 4000 words in fact. I wanted to be totally honest and open I truly believe everything I said. I want to meet someone special, not waste my time with someone who is just lonely and desperate. I tried to tell the good and positive and not hide my faults. So what do you think-give it your best shot!!!

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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is it just me or are men terified of women with babies? Posted: 12/24/2005 7:33:31 PM
Hey! Hold it! Maybe you should talk to your doc about post-partum blues? Give it time. Spend your time and energy with your new baby. When you have come to accept your situation, and have learned to be happy with it, then start dating again. Until then you will only come across as a girl who wants someone to take care of her problems. And until then you are not doing yourself or you child any favors at all. You are a vary beautiful young lady. Heck, if you lived near here I would give you a ring myself and I KNOW yu would shoot me down. (Something about having a son about your age) LOL Any man would be lucky to have a young lady like you in his life. The problem is that you need to be more careful that ever now. You plainly made a bad choice with the last guy you were involved with. You can't afford to make that mistake again. If you do, you could harm your child more that you harm yourself. You MUST be careful and protect your child. give it time, a LOT of time. Be very, very careful. And one day, when you least expect it, it will happen for you. But PLEASE don't rush it. That is the mistake that many young mothers make. It is a mistake that just makes their lives enev harder and more complicated. Yea, the guy who gets you will be a very luck guy indeed!

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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How many Single fathers Posted: 12/24/2005 7:17:17 PM
Hey you are not alone, (sort of.) My son came to live with me at 9 months of age. He is now grown and on his own. He has not see or spoken to his birth mother the entire time. (OH, I was not even dating anyone when I got him.) Yes, single fathers can have the same problems of single mothers. What you are dooing is hard. It will probibly be the hardest thing you ever do in your life. It will also be the most rewarding. You will love it! that I will promise you. But I will say this-I WOULD DO IT AGAIN RIGHT NOW! I also have come to truly love kids, and I am currently going back to school for a job (in healthcare) that would allow me to work with kids. I would welcome the chance to become involved with a woman that has kids. and I would just die for the chance to have more. PS-I quickly learned that a toddler with curly blond hair and blue eyes was a great way to meet some very nice women. Tacky but true!

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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Are women/men with children really considered to be, just baggage? Posted: 12/24/2005 7:02:41 PM
I was a single parent for a lot of years. Also, I was the one raising my son-NOT his mother- she is totally out of the picture. Now I am single again and my son is grown. End result, I can see this from both sides. If your date has any problem with you having kids, run-do not walk, to the nearest exit. That is just the way I see it. If he/she wants to see you, and he/she knows you have kids and thinks that the kids may be problem, then you are headed for trouble. Me? I love kids. I only had the one son and I wish that I had more. For me the fact that a women has kids is actually a major, BIG plus. I want a woman in my life. I want to find the "right" woman and eventually get married again. (I LIKED being married.) But I also want the whole package. Bringing kids into the picture would create more stress and problems. So what? I would also bring many wonderful rewards. The only negative thing about having kids is that you MUST be careful and remember that it is not just the two of you involved here. There are also innocent hearts that can be broken also. For many people, this fact can be a good thing. And a women who does not agree is simply showing me a good reason to not waste my time and emotions on her.

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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Creative gifts for your partner Posted: 12/15/2005 5:17:37 PM
Ok, this is going to sound kind of weird, but it is the truth. I love to dance, C&W, ballroom etc. My girlfriend's daughter was about 9, totally overweight and always wanted to be the center of attention. I was talking to my girlfriend about what she wanted for a special ocassion that was coming up. She made some crack about talking her daughter out of entering a school talent show. Truth is, what the little girl had planned was a disaster and she was scared that the daughter would be ashamedand teased later (It was BAD!!!). Anyway, I made some calls and found a video of the dance steps to BYE, BYE, BYE by the Backstreet Boys, (who the girl adored.) I learned all the steps and spent the next 2 weekends teaching them to her daughtrer and a friend of hers. Mom did not even know what was going on. The girls still were not all that great, the steps were over their head, but they had a total blast. Their friends loved it and the mother cried when she saw it. She said that ti was the greatest gift I had ever given her. Me, I had the time of my life!

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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how do you get revenge on someone you loved Posted: 12/15/2005 4:59:47 PM
I had a long realtionship with a very special lady. It had progressed to the point of living togeather. I was doing the ring shopping thing. I was actually in the process of having one made to order. What happens next? One morning the youg land I plasnned on spending the rest of my life with and rolls over and says she wants out. We had not even hard an argument-EVER! boy was I shocked. But I got even. It has been almost five years and I am going on and living my life. Searching for the "right" special lady. Oh my revenge? I saw her daughter the other day, and it seams that she is spending all of her time alone and is complaining about never going out with a nice guy. Appears that she has some regrets. I will admit that made me feel good...at first. Now I just wish she would find the right guy for her. I still care for her and I guess I always will. I just want to see her happy. Even when you do not "do" anything, revienge still sucks.

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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Midland/Odessa area Posted: 11/16/2005 1:24:51 PM
Looking for a few friends to get togeather in the Midland Odessa area. Is ther any place to go to meet other singles? Drop me a note.

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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Need some advice. Posted: 11/16/2005 1:19:32 PM
Girl, if you have to ask, you have a major problem.....So let me tell you in a simple way GET TEH HELL OUT___RIGHT NOW!___RIGHT THIS INSTANT!_____MOVE< BEFRE YOU REGRET IT! GO!, GO!, GO!..........Simple enough?

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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GUYS,,,,First Date...Where should I go? Posted: 11/16/2005 12:14:03 PM
I want to spend my first date getting to know my date. If it clicks, THEN I will go dancing with her as much as possable!

typoagain

Joined: 11/14/2005

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Why do men shy away from an instant family (women already with children)? Posted: 11/16/2005 12:07:08 PM
I actually like to date women with children. I love kids and am going to school to specialize in a healthcare field where I will get to work with kids. I have one son who is grown and I would love to have more kids, but being 43, the chances of me having amy more of my own are slim. To me, a ready-made family is a great opportunity. Now , I will admit that I would perfer to date a 30+ woman and have more of my own, but I would also welcome any kids she may have. Now kids do put a damper on you dating opportunities. They limit what you can do, when and where, but they are worth the price!

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