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Why would a woman give you her number if she didn't want you to call? Posted: 1/13/2009 3:10:32 AM
How long do you wait before you call? Do you let her get out the door?

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In Love? Posted: 1/13/2009 3:05:59 AM
i have to ask. if the guy had wanted to have sex. would the new question be, Is all he want from her sex? why must everything constantly be analized. why not see where things go. its called living and learning.

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I've given some advice. Useful? Dunno . . . Posted: 12/8/2008 11:07:10 PM
My best friend and most of my good friends are male and straight. I tend to like to watch alot of sports and have coached most of my kids teams which puts me into the boys club. I think its great but alittle difficult for the dating scene.

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Why dont women like to fly ? Posted: 12/5/2008 2:07:30 PM
I love to fly. I was married to 2 different guys who have never flown and never would.

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Meaningful vs Meaningless sex Posted: 12/5/2008 12:54:34 AM
guess i have just never had meaningless sex

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Single mum or single woman? Posted: 12/4/2008 11:54:25 PM
I am a 31 yr old single mom of four kids. When my last one graduates I will be 39. Look for a man who accepts your child but is okay with being with u. They are out there I promise.

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Meaningful vs Meaningless sex Posted: 12/4/2008 11:48:46 PM
simple ask yourself this: 1: before i had sex was i meaning to if the answer is yes and you are an adult it meant something.

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why men run away when they see a pic Posted: 12/4/2008 11:11:15 PM
Men and Women alike do this. I get messages from men who want more pictures and mail from women who say I am not real. I have posted one picture for a reason. If I wanted a man who wanted to be with me only because of my body I would meet him in the bar.

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Why would a woman suddenly break off contact? Posted: 12/4/2008 11:01:34 PM
Simple, someone else took it to the next step before you did. It happens.

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Stereotyping single parents Posted: 11/25/2008 12:50:16 PM
I spend alot of time talking to my kids. I married my second husband after talking to them. I talked to for hours a day as a group and individually when be and their step father started the divore. My head is not in the sand. I am grateful for the close relationship I have with my children. They include me with their friends. In return I am open to tem about mine. I talk to them before I go out. They ask me about my dates when I get home. Given a choice between me full time by myself or having me with their father they chose me. I am not selfish and did not desire to be a single mom. I had the judge ask them. Their father recently remarried and were given the option to go stay with him if they wanted to try. They still chose to stay with me.

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How Do You Get Somone Out Of Your Head? Posted: 11/25/2008 12:25:47 PM
i agree you never totally get someone You loved out of your head. they tend to pop in now and then. it gets less and less. of you do decide to try and replace that person with another realize that it is only going to be a rebound. you will rush it with the new one because you so desperately want to get the old out of your head. then one day you wake up and you have the old and new there in your head. make sure there is room for new.

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Stereotyping single parents Posted: 11/25/2008 9:29:59 AM
I am a single mother of 4. Ages 17,12,11, and 10. My oldest has never been in trouble is taking all AP classes and is going into the navy. The other three are happy healthy well rounded very social kids. They see their dad maybe twice a year (his choice). I am not super mom and it is not always easy. But it has been easier on my own than in either of my marriages. All my children have told me they like it with just me. They do not resent the fact hey dont have a full time dad. They havent turned into little deliquents. My expectations of them and for them didnt change between co-parenting and single parenting. I think children are a product of their environment. If the home is happy and they know they are loved one parent can be just as good as two.

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number one priority Posted: 11/25/2008 8:52:59 AM
I am a single mother of 4. My kids are very important to me. When it comes to their safety and happiness they are number one. On that note if I am unhappy they will be to. Time and attention are imporant to kids, but it is also important to pay attention to oneself. It is possible to be a single mother of happy, healthy, well rounded kids and have a social/romantic life. Love is not something you run out of. The more you have to love the more love you have.

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Dating a guy who is 5'3 Posted: 11/24/2008 11:50:14 AM
clarrification: my last post was for sddude on page 5.

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Dating a guy who is 5'3 Posted: 11/24/2008 11:48:53 AM
Sorry if this comes off mean. But have you thought that maybe it might be your attitude to American women that might turn them off. You seem to have an opinion on all of us based on a few bad ones. In any country any culture there are good and bad. Thank goodness for American guys most of us arent going to judge them based on you. You might just be getting what you are attracting.

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Are Members Who Are Favourited More Than 20 Times Worth The Effort Messging Posted: 11/24/2008 11:27:41 AM
I know I am from Texas but I would like to comment on this real quick. At first I didnt know about this favorite thing until it was pointed out to me. I now know I am on 22 guys. I have made apoint to ask each one why. On all occasions it was the same. They had taken the time to email and compliment my profile. In return I took the time to write back. I have not serial dated off of this site, but I have made several friends. To me that makes POF worth it. I guess all that was to say if you are a favorite for the right reasons how can it be a turn off.

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Are guys more whipped? Posted: 11/24/2008 10:29:16 AM
First off I am going to say as the mother of 4. If a one month old can only sleep at their home terrible twos are going to be a nightmare. Now for your real topic: A strong man will be strong and supportive no matter what kind of woman he is with. A person can only leash someone who allows them to. If seeing this relative is so important then Sunday can also be a day of giving thanks.

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Joey Porter on Vick Posted: 11/22/2008 7:02:46 PM
But that career and what he loved and did best was not enough to keep him from breaking the law. Its not like he needed the money and had no other choice. He did it because he enjoyed it. Apparently more than he loved the game of football or he wouldnt have risked everything.

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Why do women think..... Posted: 11/22/2008 6:24:55 PM
How come a man and a woman can not love equally no more no less. Everyone says that dont want to play games, but everything turns in to a competition. If you are lucky enough to be with someone you love here is a couple of ideas. 1. Dont say I Love You More. Simply say I love You. 2. Try showing you love them. The old actions speak louder than words. 3. And for goodness sake quit comparing your new love with your old. 4. It is love that asks, that seeks, that knocks, that finds, and that is faithful to what it finds.

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Stupid, Demeaning, Degrading pick up lines: are they supposed to turn girls on or make us puke? Posted: 11/21/2008 2:37:23 AM
Why would you date any guy that asl 50/50 on rape. Have you ever been raped. Any guy worth dating wouldnt ask that. Any woman worth dating wouldnt answer. RAPE is not a question or a joke.

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She's gone, the EX won Posted: 11/21/2008 2:26:42 AM
On this I am not ganna read any thing else. If you are to the point of reading her cell phone. Move on. Do you leave your cell phone out to read? To the point. Get married have joint everythig. A threesome does not mean a PI. If it does say good buy.

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Whats he really doing? Posted: 11/21/2008 2:21:42 AM
how old are you? really? I am 31 yrs old. My step son that lives with me goes through this sam sh**. If he is confused move on. Took me 2 divorces to figure this out. You are the best lover but i need someone on the side figure this out. Do you really want your kids to figure this out in therapy when you already know the answer?

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Met this guy on POF - Tell me if I'm right.... Posted: 11/21/2008 2:12:34 AM
i a gonna ignore what all the guys said. Did you ask if he had kids? Do you? on time funny How come it took so many times? is this baseball? its dating till u see it on ESPN its not a sport! leave out the strikes. Either you want him or not! Why is this site always anti guys?

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Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him? Posted: 11/21/2008 2:01:48 AM
I am sorry but im not usually a meaen person and i am hoping the people monitoring this forum will forgive this. Good God hell no it is not okay. We forgive alot of things. The fact men can be half naked on their profiles. Women Can show their knees. Bit know one not even a women unless she hass slept with the others husband calls another woman that.

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If you have any suggestions.... Posted: 11/20/2008 7:46:57 PM
just remember this is just my point of few. you are 38 alot of women would be interested if you care if a woman has kids. if you are looking for a woman in a certain age group. just my quick opinion. other than that it looked good. if i was only closer.

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Having trouble letting go Posted: 11/20/2008 7:14:00 PM
one more piece of advice. just remember that the younger ones are watching. if you let him play you. the youngers will not know you have your limits. most of all his actions are not a reflection on you as a mother. it is often just a kid being a kid. testing boundries before young adulthood sets in.

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Having trouble letting go Posted: 11/20/2008 6:57:31 PM
Hi. I am also a single mother of 4. I had the same issue with my oldest when he was 15. He did not like my rules thought it would be better with dad. It was the hardest thing I did. He is now 17 and back with me. He called this summer and wanted to come home. My rules are the same, but his and my attitude are better. Leave the lines of communication open. Let him know you are always there. Just don't let him ping pong back and forth. He will soon learn the grass is not always greener. I will keep u in my prayers. And you can message me if you need someone to vent to. Rebekah

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Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here? Posted: 11/20/2008 4:36:34 PM
I disagree to a point. I am 31 and have been on here about 2 weeks. I get about 5 pages of messages a day. I try to answer each one every night. Even if its a quick note. I have several that I have been talking to for the whole time on hear. I may not be near by all of them. But if you want someone to talk to or give you a return message. Send me one and I will get back to you. This site has been an awesome experience for me so far. So I would like to return the favor for those who need it. Good Luck

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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men? Posted: 11/20/2008 1:22:57 AM
was she asking you to do this with her? have you done anything in your past your not proud of? just checking

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Confused and perhaps denying the obvious!?!?! Posted: 11/20/2008 1:14:59 AM
I will be short and sweet about this. I was 17 he was 25 married had kids was never happy. Divorced single mom of 4 (one being his son my stepson). Lessoned learned. The hardest thing to do is leave even when you know its the best thing for everyone. I cant get those years back. I will tell you what i tell my 17 yr old. Be young be happy experience life. Good luck

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do men actually exist that date women with kids?? Posted: 11/19/2008 11:01:11 PM
i saw what this started out to be. not sure what it has turned into. just wanted to say yes there r men out there who date women with kids. i am a single mom of 4 (yes all the same dad) divorced twice. but have met a wonderful guy here on pof. my advice though is "I hope U like the brady bunch" together it is nine kids.

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I Want To Leave... Posted: 11/19/2008 10:08:38 PM
just alittle advice. if u r going to ask people for advice. get ready to listen accept or dont accept and move on. relationships r hard, confusing, fun, difficult, and no matter the outcome worth it, if u learn from it. it is okay to go home to family just dont make it your last stop on your journey. by the time i was 21 i was a single mom of three getting divorced and the judge gave me custody of my step son. so i put on my big girl panties. and ten years later i am better for it. i have a career and a home. but best of all four healthy kids. so im not judging just encouraging. hope things get better for you.

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