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Thread: Horrible kisser = deal breaker????
Toronaga
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Horrible kisser = deal breaker????
Posted:
10/27/2008 3:37:52 PM
One thing that just occured to me, what if you had no idea you were the horrible kisser and honestly, everybody is different. So you might think your partner kisses really badly, but someone else might have a totally different opinion. something to ponder... or not lol
Toronaga
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Horrible kisser = deal breaker????
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10/27/2008 3:35:07 PM
For girls the answer seems to be consistantly yes, us guys are a lot more forgiving in this area.
Toronaga
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Planning on leaving - Major issue with Website IM
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9/11/2007 10:31:22 AM
the thing i hate about the im on this site is you can't do anything thing else at the same time, you can't minimise it and then come back to it when you want to. it overrides everything and always comes to the front. annoying as hell. i'm very much a multitasker but the im doesn't give me that option. so i don't use it. it's poorly coded and amateur.
Toronaga
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Why men don't date strong women...
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9/10/2007 11:30:35 PM
I'll date a stong woman, just not a bossy annoying one. My opinion matters just as much as hers and i'm not a child that needs to be told what to do thank you very much.:)
Toronaga
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Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted:
9/9/2007 11:30:37 PM
Hmmm, my 14 year old son just walked in and asked what I was writing. Being honest with my kids in all things, I told him about the forum, the topic, and my feelings on the subject. Wanna know what he said to me? And this from a kid with a disorder in his thinking ability mind you.....he said...."Mom, it would sooooooooooo crack me up, if after being as sad, hurt and lonely as you've been, that your perfect and absolute match turned out to be a 20 year old guy and you dismissed him as nothing more than a joke because of some stupid age-prejudice your mentally paralyzed parents instilled in you". OMG, I just sat here, eyes wide and mouth dropped open in amazement. He is absolutely right!!! I not only feel like the world's biggest fool right now, and yet the very thought still scares the living hell outa me!
Awesome!!!!! I'd have to say your son is a freakin genious!!! He is right, that quote should be send to everybody on this site and on all the others. seriously. to me it's that profound, you should be damn proud. ;)
Toronaga
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Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
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9/9/2007 11:25:29 PM
Yea, why is it o.k. for a male to date a female young enough to be his great grandaughter, which I have seen a lot of lately and yet women are put down for it. I don't know the feasibility of it making for a serious, lasting relationship, but if it is ones preference, go for it. Why should men have all the fun?
Could not agree more, i for one am sick of the double standards. People should be free to do what makes them happy, so long as nobody is harmed and no laws are broken. Who are the rest of the population to judge. I think people seriously need to worry a little more about their own lives. I "dated" a girl who was 18 and though it wasn't a sexual relationship (my choice), it was one of the best experiences both of us ever had. I think older women should give the young bucks a try and stop using the, could be your son excuse, the thing is, they AREN'T your son. Unless he's really confused lol Let loose and live a little. Kudos again on your post madameusoir
Toronaga
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Why do young men think older women are interested in them?
Posted:
9/9/2007 11:21:06 PM
Couple of reasons. 1) It is safe for the woman because the risk of emotional investment is low. 2) Younger girls do it to keep their man happy, but sexy mature women love sex for sex and are more open minded.
Hahahaha you haven't met some of the girls i've met. Trust me, not all of them are doing it because they don't like it, but just gotta keep their man happy. trust me on this. lol
Toronaga
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Over 30 no more PDA?? Why?
Posted:
9/3/2007 1:24:22 AM
I don't want my kids seeing your private life. They ingest enough filth via the television... and I'm not interested either. Get a room.
I'm not gonna do it in front of your kids for crying out loud, but i'm not gonna hide away in a room just because you got a stick up ur ***. lol you live life the safe slow way you like, i'll do things my way.
like sheesh all kidding aside and no offence intended, why is it so important to you that people must hide in the shadows to share passion?
Toronaga
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Over 30 no more PDA?? Why?
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9/3/2007 1:18:38 AM
A lot of people see constant, neverending PDA as a sign of insecurity. Why does it "have" to be public? I am not talking about a quick kiss or holding hands or snuggling up in the movies...that type of thing...I'm talking about out and out "get-a-room-already" groping and making out in public.
It just seems like the people who do that feel like they have something to prove.
I'm so totally the same way. I don't give a damn, i personally think people who do are just a little too uptight and worried about appearances. When i'm with someone and the mood stikes us both, i could care less who's watching. I definitely have nothing to prove to them. lol
Toronaga
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Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
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9/2/2007 1:23:07 AM
I think it's completely ludicrous that some many of you guys assume just because she's Asian, she must be submissive and docile. I know a few asian girls who would chew you up and spit you out. especially you antieuro. lol
i love asian girls, and i'm far from tiny, i'm 6'4" 235 pounds and don't date off sites, i meet my girls in real life. at my work, the black guys seem to get most of the attention from the girls, but i'm the standout. i get the attention from the black, white, asian, hispanic and i love it :P
seriously though, i think too many people are preoccupied with race. when i find "the one" the one that makes me feel everything i should when it's right. i don't care if she's purple. lol
Toronaga
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Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
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9/1/2007 4:20:05 AM
Personally, as a white guy, I prefer Hispanic women. Perhaps white guys go for Asians because Asian women (at least those who haven't been Americanized yet) tend to be more submissive. I like the Latina fire myself.
Personally i loooove firey Filipina's. Especially if they have the accent and yes i love hispanic women, for the same reason. submissive is boring as hell.
Toronaga
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are there any guys out there who are actually on here for more then just sex
Posted:
8/20/2007 3:10:10 PM
i'm looking for more than just sex, but i'm not going to find anything real on here, that much i'm sure about. too many people are all talk behind their computer.
Toronaga
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Over 30 no more PDA?? Why?
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8/12/2007 10:34:50 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
awesome bro!!!! good to know i'm not the only guy who believes in true passion. ;)
Toronaga
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Over 30 no more PDA?? Why?
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8/11/2007 1:10:35 AM
^^^^^^^
I'm never gonna tire of hot PDA, no matter how unsophisticated or w/e people say it is. because i love it and , they don't have to look. they can go about their church going ways and i won't bother them either lol
Toronaga
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Over 30 no more PDA?? Why?
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8/3/2007 8:34:05 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
exactly!!!!! i could not agree more.
Toronaga
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Over 30 no more PDA?? Why?
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6/15/2007 3:01:08 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^
Great to know, this gives me a lot of hope :D
thanks.
Toronaga
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Over 30 no more PDA?? Why?
Posted:
6/15/2007 2:46:10 PM
It might have something to do with your definition of "make-out". That's how you phrased it in the original post, and to me that means swallowing each others faces and groping one another which I would never do in public, and would be embarrassed to observe in others. "Get a room" pops into mind.
On the other hand, when strolling together I love it when my DB holds my hand, and when meeting up, parting ways, or sharing an exciting moment together even in front of others, I enjoy being kissed (no tonsil hockey please, just a kiss).
I would feel a bit like a dirty little secret if my DB wouldn't even kiss me in front of anyone, and that is hard on the ego, but as a previous poster stated, some people are just really private people, and they are uncomfortable drawing attention to themselves. Perhaps you are drawn to shy women, and this resistance would be natural for a shy person.
If you want someone bolder, perhaps you should look for bolder women.
Exactly, you hit it dead on. I feel like a dirty secret and yes what you say is all i am talking about. not deep throat tonsul hockey. lol
Maybe i should look for someone bolder. just want to avoid someone bossy. lol
Toronaga
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Over 30 no more PDA?? Why?
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6/15/2007 1:46:20 PM
It's nothing to do with being insecure. It' s because i love it. I'm a bit of an exhibitionist i guess and not willing to conform for anybody. Why are people in such a hurry to be old anyhow?
Maybe i should move to a country where passion isn't so taboo and people don't become puritans when they finish college lol
seriously though, thanks for the input so far. i still dont' understand the aversion, but maybe i never will.
Toronaga
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Over 30 no more PDA?? Why?
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6/15/2007 12:59:48 PM
I believe i answered that question. Everyone i've been with who doesn't like it ended up cheating on me, leading me to think it's a "keeping options open" thing. when i'm with my g/f i don't want people to think i'm with my sister.
You don't want to show you are with me. Then i see a serious problem there. What's so wrong if teenagers do it anyhow? And if it's about offending other people, than that just goes to prove my point that the woman cares more about what other people think than she does about me.
If i'm with someone, i want the whole world to know how happy i am.
Toronaga
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Over 30 no more PDA?? Why?
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6/15/2007 12:38:14 PM
I have been wondering something. i posted a thread ages ago about a female that i met who made out with me in public and all the women were saying she was really young, she had to be, nobody in their late 20s and beyond would ever do that.
I was thinking how sad that was and wondered why? when does being sophisicated and caring so much what others think become more important than showing your passion.??
You can see my age in my profile and i love PDA, very much so. Are there any women my age who don't hate it or think of it as some immature thing?
I can't stand to be with someone unless they are proud to be with me and are not embarassed to be seen being affectionate. Part of me wonders, what are they worried about. Everyone i've been with who doesn't like PDA has ended up being unfaithful. So my paranoid side thinks, "she doesn't want potential partners to think she's taken"
Would love some views on this, thanks. I really hope this doesn't get locked or something stupid, it's very important to me to know. If it's in the wrong forum could it be moved please. thanks.
Toronaga
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would you date/marry someone you thought was unwilling/unable to defend you
Posted:
6/9/2007 9:01:43 PM
no way, i want my woman to go all bruce lee kung fu sh*t all over my enemies. hahahaha
Toronaga
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What are the woman in intimate incounter looking for
Posted:
4/20/2007 8:28:31 AM
I'm more than sure that most if not all the female profiles who claim to be seeking an intimate encounter with a male are completely bogus or they don't understand the catergory.
Toronaga
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What are the woman in intimate incounter looking for
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3/5/2007 1:02:02 AM
But like the other posters said, IF a woman is looking for an intimate encounter, there would definitely have to be a physical attraction. I'm not sure men are that picky.
I am very picky, not so much for my friends, the one he doesn't care anything about anything so long as sex happens, it's kinda sad really.
Toronaga
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guys who don't like blowjobs
Posted:
3/2/2007 7:03:51 PM
Guy's who don't like blowjobs are freaks. Not the good kind of freak either.
Toronaga
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Looking for (enter age range)
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3/2/2007 12:51:52 AM
You know what really kills me, is how ignorant some people are, making broad assumptions that just because a female is under a certain age, she must be a clueless, selfish and petty person and is only capable of talking about the latest boy band. And that guys only want younger females for sex. Few years back i dated a girl briefly was 18 and she was extremely intelligent. I'm very proud of what's she's achieved in her life already, heres the kicker we never once had sex. We wanted to, but wanted to wait. Oh yeah, it was also incredibly difficult to get her to let me pay for anything for her. I truley enjoyed her company. We could talk for 8 hours and still not be done or bored. We talked about things like biology, religion, politics, notice nowhere did i mention nsync or pokemon. lol
There were other factors that made us not work out.
I love women my age and older too, but i just had to stick up for the younger females who seem to always get dragged through the mud unfairly on POF and to point out not all men who date someone younger have some perverted needs or want a trophy.
The younger ones tend to be the more serious about dating me though and there are a lot who show interest in me, and i am neither rich, nor famous. Because if they want rich,famous or GQ looks, i'm the wrong person for them lmao
People should stop judging others. If someone is happy and not hurting anybody, why should that be torn apart.
To make sure i don't come across as hating the older women, you have so much to offer and deserve tons of respect.
Now as to the point of this thread. I would date anybody 18 and above, assuming it just felt right.
Toronaga
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Man who does not want sex?
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2/28/2007 11:51:33 PM
I would say normally he's a total freak, but sounds like he went through some nasty things.
toronaga
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TORONTO ST. PADDY'S KARAOKE MARCH 17, 2007
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2/21/2007 11:00:44 AM
I wish one of these parties was on a friday, I never get saturdays off, but i'll do whatever i can to get out early. I should be able to be there for the last few hours anyhow.
toronaga
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Is sex over-rated ?
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2/21/2007 8:40:27 AM
Only an infidel would say it's over-rated!!! :P
Seriously though, without it, all you have is a really close friend.
toronaga
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Ever had something really unexpectedly funny happen while being intimate
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2/21/2007 2:00:43 AM
I was thinking about something that happened when i was with a girl once, we were heavily making out and manually stimulating each other, well and i have no idea how to put this delicately, i was inserting my index finger into her and ... well you know that sound that happens when you cup your hand under your armpit and crank away?
That's pretty much the sound, we both broke out laughing and couldn't stop.... heated intimacy to hysterical laughter in seconds. Was a new thing for both of us. Hope this isn't too crude... Wanted to see what humorous moments fellow POFers may have experienced.
toronaga
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why do people post the dumbest photos ???
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2/20/2007 9:44:24 AM
Why? Becauset hey can and we're powerless to stop them
toronaga
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Men posing with cars
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2/19/2007 4:58:38 PM
I think if someone is truely confident in themselves they don't have to pose with anything materialistic.
toronaga
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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
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2/17/2007 9:40:39 AM
I know of one person personally who waited and guess what, there was no sex after the marriage either. it was like some 50s sitcom thing. marriage didn't last long, mercifully.
toronaga
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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
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2/17/2007 9:39:15 AM
Hey mistyme send me a msg, it doesn't seem to want to let me send you a msg, pof sometimes does this, it's not mail restrictions, my msgs just go into the dark void. lol
toronaga
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Am I wrong? What is your favorite cheese?
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2/17/2007 9:12:10 AM
I love real cheese anyday, i only tolerate the fake stuff. Though some of it isn't too bad.
I tend to spend about $50 on cheese a month. lol But i'm getting 10 year old chedder, 7 year old goats cheese. God i need some cheese :P I haven't bought any since i moved from Hamilton to Toronto. Need to find a good supplier.
toronaga
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Am I wrong? What is your favorite cheese?
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2/17/2007 9:12:00 AM
I love real cheese anyday, i only tolerate the fake stuff. Though some of it isn't too bad.
I tend to spend about $50 on cheese a month. lol But i'm getting 10 year old chedder, 7 year old goats cheese. God i need some cheese :P I haven't bought any since i moved from Hamilton to Toronto. Need to find a good supplier.
toronaga
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Ever met a sexual God/Goddess?
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2/17/2007 8:17:17 AM
I am a sexual goddess, this is why I keep my vagine for special people!
Not everyone can experience this
*flips hair*
:|
Some day i breaka my cage
High five
lol
toronaga
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Ever met a sexual God/Goddess?
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2/17/2007 8:16:17 AM
Nope and at this stage in my life, i really doubt i will. Almost thought i did once, but she was all talk.
Toronaga
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Canadian men--would you move to the US to be with a woman?
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2/15/2007 8:08:53 AM
australia sounds nice. Friend of mine moved there to be with a girl and has had an amazing life the last 3 years. none of this minus infinity winters for him. sigh...
Toronaga
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castro's death party
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2/13/2007 11:28:39 AM
^^^^^^^
Interesting, thanks for sharing your thoughts. It's definately a very complex issue. I wonder what will happen once Cuba does become free. Will there still be a reliance on tourism or will the economy switch gears.
Toronaga
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Canadian men--would you move to the US to be with a woman?
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2/13/2007 8:10:55 AM
Give me the occasional tornado or hurricane at least i won't be frost bitten from them :P
Toronaga
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Canadian men--would you move to the US to be with a woman?
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2/12/2007 2:09:49 PM
For the right woman, absolutely. I love to travel too, so it would be a double bonus :)
Toronaga
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castro's death party
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2/12/2007 7:55:22 AM
Respect... for what?
For his ability to stay in power as a dictator?
For his excels in sumerging a whole country in economic depravation coupled with political repression?
For the sistematic violation of basics human and civil rights extented to the supression of the right to emigrate in order to avoid incarceration claiming those rights?
Or...
because the brilliant idea to divide the country in one area for its citizens and another different one for the tourists and giving away the idea of a 'dream' completly different of the daily reality
Granted, i don't know the inner details of Cuba so well, but i'm talking about being able to basically take on the U.S. and pretty much win hands down every time. Personally, i would love to see a free Cuba. But i'm not holding out much hope that will happen in my lifetime.
Toronaga
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castro's death party
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2/10/2007 10:22:11 AM
This is rather distasteful, though i can understand cubans feeling this way. I might if i were in there situation. So maybe it's not my place to say.
I will say that regardless of whether you like Castro or not, you have to respect the man.
Toronaga
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Is kissing cheating...?
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2/9/2007 6:14:12 AM
One of my best friends is a girl and she's frustrated that she can't find a guy who will let her kiss other guys and girls. She says she just likes the experience of different kisses, and yes we are talking about deep kissing. She tried this with me once and as tempting as it was i thought it was wrong, because she had a boyfriend she lived with.
Chances are likely that someone in the kiss will be thinking something more than, isn't this kiss grand. lol
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second annual valentines day party @ The GroundHog Feb 10/07
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2/8/2007 8:14:59 PM
I'm gonna try to be there, going through some serious financial difficulties now due to pretty much being laid off from work.
Hopefully it's gonna be more than like 6 people, but even if it's only 6, it's gonna be a case of quality over quantity like Christine said ;)
I've never lived so close to the groundhog before. which will make it easier for me.
Toronaga
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Question for the guys...Should us women say NO SEX on the 1st date BEFORE the date?
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2/7/2007 6:57:42 PM
This is something no woman has ever had an issue with me about, because I never try for something like this. I know i'm far from the only guy with this attitude.
For myself, sex is something that either happens naturally or it doesn't. It's not some prize i'm going to work towards, too many people see it like it is a prize. Some Guys see it as a goal and some women see it as a reward once the guy has earned it. Which is sad. Should be something mutual, because it's right for both.
Bringing up the subject can be a good or bad thing, depends on the motives of the guy, if he indeed has any beyond enjoying your company. Myself I would be a tiny bit offended, but keep that to myself and on the whole would understand and let you know it's ok.
But it would be extremely difficult to get me to engage in anything sexual after that. I wouldn't feel comfortable.
Now a guy with the goals of sex I would think would just see it as a setback. But i'm not into that mindset, so i'm only guessing.
What i think it comes down to, is you have to do what your instincts tell you to do. If you offend some guys along the way. oh well, they'll live lol
Toronaga
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Valentines Day for the Broken Hearted
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2/6/2007 5:25:51 AM
I don't think i'd like to be with someone who thought Valentines day was just another day. Yes you should show your love each and every day. But my understanding is most women don't like it when guys over-do things. So it's a great reason to do something extra-special. Plus i'd have to wonder, would other days that are considered special hold no meaning for her. I'm a sentinmental romantic type and I gotta be able to show it. hehe
Of course i'm not inflexable on this. But nobody i've been with has allowed me to do anything remotely romantic. It's a deep part of me screaming to get out.
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Boston police attack billboards!
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2/5/2007 5:25:18 PM
These are the same types of people who decided to police the internet when they didn't even know what a mouse was, much less a computer.
Toronaga
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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
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2/3/2007 8:52:52 PM
nice sentiments Toronaga, and interesting coments all round really, nice to know you guys still exist even if its on the other side of the world.
on another note...... not sure if your profile is actually accurate or your just really looking for younger girls or they have your age totally wrong on the site?
contact settings says your looking for 18-23 and your 37? might have a hard time finding someone, who the system lets them to contact you, if your search is so young, on your mail criteria....... might be an error?
best of luck either way, Angela
Thank you i very much take that as a compliment.
lol the age thing, it's a long story. Theres a bit of a few things behind that age restriction.
I am actually 37, but everywhere i go people think i'm no older than 23. I've even had one person guess i was 15 last year, no kidding. lol I apparantly have a baby face.
I've been hit on by many teenage girls. But not so much by women my own age. I seriously had one woman who was 4 years younger than me shoot me down saying she was old enough to be my mother , i'm not kidding.
So for some reason, I decided to change my age restrictions to let in the age group that finds me interesting, actually, i was a little drunk when i did that. It made sense then. I just ended up forgetting about it, i haven't looked at my profile in months and have abandoned using pof to date anyhow.
Thanks for pointing it out, i'm gonna go fix it.
Toronaga
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Is being drunk an excuse?
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2/3/2007 6:17:31 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^
Also happens to be my opinion. Dead on. Too many people get away with violent behaviour because they use the "i was drunk" card. Pisses me off. Being raised around drunks, i've seen it all.
Also , I know a few girls that use the "it was the alcohol" excuse to sleep around, but i know them well enough to know they just love sex.
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