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Joined: 11/15/2008

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Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/9/2009 8:32:56 PM
I can only speak for myself. I know my worth and it is not silver or gold. I am a good man with a great sense of humor that can laugh at myself too. I have had problem relationships and good ones that just didn't work out. if anyone is truely honest about it you can usually find that you can't say nothin good come from any of it, because all of it is what has brought me to this point in my life. that don't mean I am thankful for abusive relationships"who is?" the point is if you never give someone a chance then you really don't know whether a person is good or bad. I do not judge anyone by what has happened to me in the past,because if I did I would have the idea that everyone cheats and lies,or plays games which I detest. Instead I try to find the good in everyone and take each at face value, because we are bought with a price more precious than silver or gold. there are all good men,and good women out there, all I am looking for is one,and that I hope is the last one.

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help Posted: 3/8/2009 12:49:23 PM
While I am educated,I never said that I knew a lot about computers. I have double spaced and have been trying to apply the corrections. I am not takin this personal and trying to stay respectful. But I'm not an idiot either, I do have the credentials I claim and can prove it,but that don't mean I'm perfect either. I do thank you for your cander,and the help. Hope it meets your approval now.because I done just about all I know to do with it.

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help Posted: 3/8/2009 11:28:07 AM
Keep in mind that when you are trying to do something at 3 in the morning with no sleep,you will make mistakes. I am very educated and did not realize I was writting an essay here,yet I guess that is what it really is. No matter aboout the spelling,it does need to be correct. However I was trying to get some help as to what was wrong.thank you all.

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Single Dads Posted: 3/8/2009 1:30:26 AM
simple yet satisfying,thank you I just read your post and couldn't have said it better.I have had the pleasure of being raised by a stepparent that became my dad and best friend in every sense of the word.I have also been a step parent in my first marriage and it wasn't all good but wasn't all bad either.both of them kids have appologized for the way they treated me when after growing up they realized where they were wrong.not that I was perfect but just tried to do what was right while still making mistakes. it takes all kinds and really matters what is important to the individuals and what they value and respect most and sometimes don't even mean that that is what they want,or need.or that they don't respect it,man or woman.

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Single Dads Posted: 3/8/2009 1:05:06 AM
I am a single dad with custody of my kids.yes they live with me full time.I cook ,clean house,do laundry,wash dishes,manage the budget,work in the yard and still find time for myself.we all do in one way shape or form.I don't need a pat on the back or a standing ovation for doing what is responsible as a parent.untill I meet the one that wants to be part of a really good and full life.that can accept my kids and if they have em too,be able to put each other first and mesh the families together.that is not to say that kids become any less important.but they grow up and move out and to learn what a relationship really is or is supposed to be the husband and wife relationship must be the most important with that everything else should fall into proper place.intill I myself find that to develope then I am daddy first and unfortunately that means that going out is limited to everyother weekend unless you gonna be around for awhile,then we can spend time at home and all do things together.JMO.but thats the reality of it I think,if that person can't understand or deal with that then that person wasn't the right one anyway.

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Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 3/8/2009 12:34:16 AM
I am a single dad also,and have wondered about this also.I myself have kids with a mother that walked out on us all.and took a pretty big fight to finally get her on the same page as to what was really important for them.we now get along really good.she is re-married and is involved in the kids lives.but I am kinda reluctant to get anyone involved with them to much because of abandonment issues left over from their mom.and unless someone is going to be around for awhile there really is no reason unless the kids think it's only as friends.that way the kids don't get confused or hurt if that person is not there anymore.I have personally experienced this and it hurts to hear them say I miss so-n-so when it didn't work out and they don't understand.if you are going to be there more than a month or two.I think it's ok because a relationship is not going to go anywhere with alot of absence.JMO,but you got to show up for it.

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help Posted: 3/7/2009 10:19:36 PM
back up to the top.

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help Posted: 3/7/2009 8:00:30 PM
ok , now I have takin the critique,and have tried to apply it hope it is right,more pics will come soon.thanks for the help.review again and let me know what ya think.

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help Posted: 3/7/2009 6:19:56 PM
well I changed it so I hope this is better.please let me know.tried to make different paragraphs but when I submitted it put it all together.don't understand why.

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help Posted: 3/7/2009 4:57:52 PM
just so as I understand,you are talking about my interest right.didn't realize I didn't list them,will fix that.most of the pics were of what I do I know that but didn't have but the one of me that someone had told me was kinda scary.the others were of me and some friends out for the nite at a valentines get together.thank you stilwater

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help Posted: 3/7/2009 4:37:03 PM
first I want to say I myself didn't see anything wrong with my profile.but evidently there is,I have been a member since mid nov.I am a great guy and have much to offer.that not a concieted statement.but have been told by others,not been really impressed by this whole online bit because I have not seen much come from it and would really like to know why.can't judge a book by it's cover and also I don't see how you can get an idea of what someone is like from just a few lines and a picture.please read and tell me how to convey that I am a great personality very considerate and easy going with a great sense of humor.I am a very intelegent and educated person but by no means boring. need honest opinions,but please I am not a rude person and not asking for that either.thank you for the help.

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Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/6/2009 3:08:49 PM
all I can say is that I know I am and the friends I have are.rather picky about who I hang with and call friend.I have been rather disalusioned with the whole online stuff.haven't had any luck and don't understand why really.had one person say my picture was kinda scary.ok,well you got me there,so posted more.it seems I get no responses to e-mail and that is rather discouraging.I am a very down to earth fella,devoted to family and friends.mostly to wy kids and have custody of them.I have been a member of this site for a few months to no avail.that is sad because I know I have alot to offer and know how to treat a lady with respect and dignity.and am a very outgoing individual with a great sense of humor,have to have to in family full of cut-ups.not to sound concieted because I'm absolutely not.but some just don't know what they could be missing,and ya never know if you don't give someone a chance and find out it could be the one for you afterall.JMO but you can't judge a book by its cover and besides looks may have something to do with attraction but is not the whole package.

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