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fightersbreath

Joined: 11/17/2005

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Putting our best foot forward Posted: 11/30/2005 1:49:38 PM
I try to fill up my time with work and school. Trying to keep myself busy and remembering I'm not a bad person because of the break up. and that no one NEEDS to be in a relationship to be happy. ^_^

fightersbreath

Joined: 11/17/2005

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Is there anything I can do? Posted: 11/30/2005 1:42:25 PM
Find someone knew. You are too good for these mind games.. you should find a guy who will appreciate you and love you and not try to turn his back on you. You are worth being truly loved and not messed around with. I'm really sorry to hear about everything that happened.. just know you are worth being loved. And dont deserve to have these people play headgames with you. good luck!

fightersbreath

Joined: 11/17/2005

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Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 11/29/2005 6:12:49 PM
Sometimes guys do really love you but they have relationship problems with serious commitments and they get scared... so they push away what they love. I think he is attracted to you... just afraid of what he loves. Lots of guys, I think, have this problem. It happened with my ex and I and we were together for 7 months. Good luck! <3

fightersbreath

Joined: 11/17/2005

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would you take a partner back after they had sex with someone else during a breakup? Posted: 11/29/2005 6:08:47 PM
I dont think dating an ex works... but good luck. Follow what your heart tells you.

fightersbreath

Joined: 11/17/2005

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Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them! Posted: 11/29/2005 6:05:06 PM
For all of you who have taken this topic WAY WAY OUT OF HAND .. I want to tell you all that I just wanted to point out that guys come on here and say "Im a nice guy and cant get the girls! Why?" And I wanted them to stop. Even though this topic is brought up several times and the answers are mostly the same people still dont get it. I just wanted the whining to STOP. Yes those who struggle need help.. I understand that. but they can look at OTHER FORUMS and see what other people have said about similar situations instead of just whining about it. Plus, half the time advise is given. You dont follow it anyways. For those of you who think I've been to **y and Im not a nice person. Screw you all. I wont ever meet you so it doesnt matter. Dont waste your time and come onto this forum just to whine about how y I am. You dont know me and I dont know you.. if you think Im a ** let's keep it that way.

fightersbreath

Joined: 11/17/2005

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Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them! Posted: 11/29/2005 5:58:39 PM
YOU HAVE THE PROBLEM Yes I have a problem.. I have a problem with people taking this forum too damn seriously. I am a nice person.. just not to stupid people.

fightersbreath

Joined: 11/17/2005

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Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them! Posted: 11/29/2005 5:57:09 PM
you are a b i t c h maybe? Yes I am a ****. I am a free thinking, free speaking female, independant female who does not put up with bullshit. At least Im not 47 and relying on the internet to find a long term relationship. Say whatever you will about me, it doesnt matter. You're just the internet to me.

fightersbreath

Joined: 11/17/2005

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Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them! Posted: 11/29/2005 1:55:15 PM
maybe her boyfriend was a "nice guy" and that is why she did this thread No.. my last boyfriend was not a nice guy .. I started this thread because every other thread on this forum is Why dont nice guys get the girl? I'm sick and tired of your guys whining... dont assume shit.

fightersbreath

Joined: 11/17/2005

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the temporary breakup. does it ever work? Posted: 11/27/2005 11:56:09 PM
I dont think it's strange. Breaks are good things. As the earlier posts say.. just keep in contact. Cool things down a bit. Love is more than just couple hood.. so you dont have to worry about it fading away. ^_^

fightersbreath

Joined: 11/17/2005

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Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them! Posted: 11/27/2005 8:46:59 PM
Dont judge someone by their age. Some 20 years olds are more mature then people like you.

fightersbreath

Joined: 11/17/2005

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Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them! Posted: 11/27/2005 8:46:15 PM
After reading all your answers I have but one thing to say. I never said women werent horrible beings. We're minipulative and miserable half the time. But if we have interest in you we show it. We do work as well. Not just you guys. So stop blaming us.. if ANYTHING. Both sexes are to blame. Im just sick of guys doing NOTHING complaining about why nothing happens in return. Karma in a way, ne?

fightersbreath

Joined: 11/17/2005

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Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them! [Closed due to the cognatively challenged] Posted: 11/27/2005 3:32:04 PM
Okay seriously.. every other time I look at this forum I see "why dont nice guys get the girl" ? or something related to that. Look ... for all you guys who think you're so nice and caring. Let me inform you that half the time girls have been completely burnt by guys just like you who think they're all nice and then go and totally back stab us. We dont trust you. Plus, you're usually too damn shy. You dont show interest. It bores us. Stop complaining! If you're interested in a girl LET THEM KNOW!! And don't try this "Im super nice" crap! Just be upfont and say "we like you... wanna get coffee?" See if that changes anything.

fightersbreath

Joined: 11/17/2005

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OMG, HE DIED! Posted: 11/27/2005 3:28:33 PM
Dude.. Im surprised it took you this long to find out =/ He will be missed.. sniffles

fightersbreath

Joined: 11/17/2005

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Your Dream Partner Posted: 11/26/2005 12:08:50 PM
From a woman's perspective... Tall Not too hairy ( haha ) Knows what anime/manga is Someone who can make me laugh Someone who likes to cuddle Seriously... Someone who knows what they want Someone with goals in life Someone who is smart

fightersbreath

Joined: 11/17/2005

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Now I know My problem Posted: 11/26/2005 12:01:07 PM
I think that you are right. You shouldn't be sinking to her level... I think that eventually the police will find better things to do. Just watch your back for now and party else where. Some women are really awful people... minipulative freaks with nothing better to do than to make others miserable. Trust me, I've known MANY. and yes that may sound harsh.. but I'm a woman and I'm not afraid to admit it. Just take each day one at a time.. and as others told me. Be happy you found out their true colors sooner than later... As for finding other girls on this site. Just talk to them, message them, KNOW what you want and don't be afraid to express it. A really good friend of mine who is married told me that "dating is finding someone who fits into what you want"

fightersbreath

Joined: 11/17/2005

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What do you do now? Posted: 11/22/2005 3:15:24 PM
Being over weight, as I am, is one of the hardest things to do.. My last boyfriend and I tried to help me loose weight... which worked well for a while... but how does one deal with the pain when the guy you loved leaves you for your over weight sister? ... and she accepts and doesn't think there's anything wrong with it?

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