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sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

Msg: 24 (view)

warning to newly separated Posted: 5/3/2009 5:30:58 PM
Yep, this has happened to me too. Had to go through and change all my passwords on everything. Unfortunately, here in Australia, restraining orders aren't worth the paper they are written on.

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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Ladies can you tell me Posted: 5/1/2009 1:27:01 AM
"I have answered with a polite no - and received back another email trying to convince me - or just nasty rants...I think that a lot of people have experienced this and just don't bother to answer at all." Ditto :-)

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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Best Songs to Dance Like A Slut to? Posted: 4/29/2009 5:00:55 AM
Dirty by Christina Aguelira (sp??) is a good one ;-) I Touch Myself by Divinyls is also awesome to be a pretend slut to.

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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Are there jack of all trade guys out there somewhere? Posted: 4/29/2009 4:57:07 AM
Isn't this simply a case of variety is the spice of life. Not necessarily variety with different "partners" but different scenarios, even pretending to be different people, role play, toys, places. I'm only speaking for myself but if sex was the same day in and day out then you know what to expect and sex would become another thing you do ie. work, housework, cooking, washing, sex in the same ole same ole routine. Would drive me fricken insane! Give me a jack of all trades for this jill of all trades anyday.

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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sex with older man Posted: 4/28/2009 11:44:33 PM
^^^^ Why bother with a next time?

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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sex with older man Posted: 4/28/2009 11:29:24 PM
Maybe I'm just cruel but after mentioning your "needs" to him and getting that response the first time, I would have simply broken out my favourite toy and dumped him there and then. Mutual satisfaction - bring it on!

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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Your Tells? Posted: 4/21/2009 7:52:04 PM
This is one of the funniest threads I've read yet By the way can someone please tell me how to get the box thing with what other people have said to come up in your own post? For the life of me I can't work it out.

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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I have this gut feeling... Posted: 4/21/2009 1:34:47 AM
And this is from the same girl that wants to be a stripper??

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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3somes Posted: 4/21/2009 1:31:09 AM
"Normal women with sustem of values ans some moral standards do not do it." So I guess there are a lot of abnormal women with no moral standards. Don't knock it til you try it hun

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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Natural ways to beat depression Posted: 4/20/2009 9:57:35 PM
"I'm no medical professional, however I really do believe that a great deal of "depression" is in the mind - it's in your head." Mike1968, depression is a chemical imbalance and yes it's in your head but it's not something you can "control". It annoys me that people assume that a depressed person actually wills it on themselves to be in the hell that is depression, and that they can just "snap out of it". So is the ADD you suffer from in your head too and you can just snap out of it???

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 4/20/2009 9:35:46 PM
I would leave a man rather than cheat on him. I wouldn't like it done to me, so don't do it. The guilt would eat at me too much.

sultry11

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Define Kinky Posted: 4/15/2009 11:44:46 PM
Isn't it only kinky the first time

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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Why do so few men take part in yoga.? Posted: 4/15/2009 11:34:16 PM
"Yoga will NOT give you instant gratification, it takes a while. It does help with stretching, something we all need. It's not the answer to everything but it's an integral part of your well being. As a runner, I appreciate the benefit of many yoga poses and I recommend it to anyone who cares to listen lol" I have found yoga harder than a lot of other "classes" I have taken. It doesn't just help with stretching but all over muscle strength, flexibility and if you do Bikram both physical and mental strength and stamina. The benefits of yoga are plenty not just "stretching".

sultry11

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what is with camera phone pics of dcks / come on Posted: 4/15/2009 4:12:09 PM
You are spot on with that quote Herding Cats

sultry11

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what is with camera phone pics of dcks / come on Posted: 4/15/2009 3:47:51 PM
It's actually very common. I mean, when I want to see a pic of them I prefer to see the top head first not the one that controls them. Plenty of time to see their "salami" if I want to

sultry11

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I was told I am a bad mother because I smoke marijuana. Posted: 4/15/2009 3:37:39 PM
And what does alcohol do to you? Alcohol does much more damage to society and families than marijuana does.

sultry11

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I was told I am a bad mother because I smoke marijuana. Posted: 4/15/2009 4:47:44 AM
As others have said as long as you don't smoke it around or in front of you, how can that possibly make you a bad mother. That's just ridiculous. To me, him saying something like that is just a way to get at you because you rejected him. Keep choofing babe!

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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Why do so few men take part in yoga.? Posted: 4/14/2009 11:37:01 PM
Have found that quite a few men participate in Bikram yoga but not other types.

sultry11

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How much sleep Do you Actually Get per Night ? Posted: 4/14/2009 11:32:53 PM
Another insomniac here. I've tried everything and refuse to resort to medication to help me sleep. On most nights 4-5 hours max and very rarely unbroken, unless I've had a few drinks to knock me out I generally don't feel tired at all during the day and at night can be yawning and feel really tired but when it comes to actually falling asleep, can take hours to do so. I don't think I function any worse than the average person because of it though.

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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Organic food costs where you live? Posted: 4/14/2009 11:29:14 PM
Organic food is generally quite a bit more expensive here in Australia. But I honestly think that the more people demand and buy organic food the cheaper it will become. We are already see more organic food in mainstream supermarkets here. Of course growing your own food organically will obviously be cheaper than buying it. I'm lucky in that my mum grows all her veggies organically and always has plenty to spare and love how much nicer it tastes.

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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make butt bigger thur exercises question... Posted: 4/14/2009 11:21:22 PM
Squats, lunges and step classes!

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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Noise during sex? Posted: 4/14/2009 12:00:53 AM
That one is easy to answer. It's a turn on!

sultry11

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Masturbation in public places? Posted: 4/11/2009 5:36:27 PM
Hey Mike.... You got webcam

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

Msg: 96 (view)

Masturbation in public places? Posted: 4/11/2009 5:16:53 AM
Hahaha.... I'd probably stop and watch too. And egg you on!

sultry11

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Pregnant girl threatening Posted: 4/11/2009 4:37:43 AM
"Every time you step in the bedroom to have sex you run the risk of pregnancy. If I ever got pregnant I sure in hell wouldn't be having an abortion. Abortions are emotionally damaging and especially at such a young age could scarr her for life." Hear hear. Her body, her choice. She lives with the decision she makes for the rest of her life either way. Personally, I think he should "man up". Financially difficult for him???... come on! What men have to pay for child support rarely covers the costs of raising a child. And if he has nothing to do with the child he has no emotional and physical investment of time to make either. I say bravo to her for having the strength and guts to continue with her pregnancy. And... there are two sides to every story :-)

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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Antidepressants Posted: 4/11/2009 4:02:03 AM
I agree with NOLA chick. Try natural therapies first. After a particularly nasty start to 2008... I went to see my Dr, was feeling very down, unable to eat, tired but unable to sleep... blah blah blah. Did the whole survey thing. Dr says... oh, you aren't just depressed you have anxiety as well. So he prescribes me Avanza... well. Biggest mistake ever! Within 2 weeks I could not sleep at all, my legs jumped and ached all day and night, I cried constantly and couldn't even speak to anyone. I was not eating and yet gained nearly 10kgs. I knew in myself something was very wrong. Took myself to the hospital. They took me off the Avanza, and transferred me over to Effexor. Effexor gave me "brain zaps", made me want to sit on my arse all day and do sweet fa, and although I could sleep again, I was having the most horrible vivid nightmares. I personally found eating walnuts, bananas, getting fresh air and daily walks, sunlight everyday, yoga, uplifting music, keeping your universe simple and as free of negativity as possible, surrounding myself with positive people and on those occasional days when I felt "the blackness" kicking in again, I would take St Johns Wort. Cut out caffeine and alcohol completely and eat as much fresh fruit and vegies as possible. I don't doubt that medication does help and is needed by some people, depending on their condition but it's certainly not the best way to go for others. I still have "brain zaps" and jumpy achy legs from my encounters with anti-depressants and haven't taken then for more than 12 months. I hope you find what suits you best

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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Natural ways to beat depression Posted: 4/11/2009 2:50:23 AM
No excuse.... seriously.... "marijuana has been shown to be one of the most effective cures for depression. It has been proven to work better than almost every prescription anti-depressant and is non-addictive " You are pulling my leg aren't you.

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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Cum placement Posted: 4/11/2009 12:03:48 AM
Personally.... I'd be impressed if he can hit the roof

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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abortion Posted: 4/10/2009 5:18:12 AM
"And the facts are, most women who have an abortion do not feel anything other than relief." I think you will find, with research, that this is far from the case.

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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Natural ways to beat depression Posted: 4/9/2009 10:19:30 PM
Fresh air, exercise (especially walking in the fresh air and yoga), a handful of walnuts (high in natural serotonin), a banana everyday, sitting in the sun (without glasses) for at least 10 minutes everyday. And no coffee or alcohol. Keep your "universe" small. Eliminate negative people and situations from your life as much as possible. Talk about how you feel - don't bottle things up. It's a given that 1 in 3 of us will suffer from depression at some point in our lives. :-)

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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Signs of emotional abuse. Posted: 4/9/2009 9:09:43 PM
"I don't really want to say I keep them private. I have depression in my family and he knows I'm on anti-depressants. As for counselling, he knows I have someone I confide in and helps me through this stuff. He says I need to change and he won't change unless I do. I'm trying to be a happy person but I don't know exactly what I need to change." What you need to change is to get out of that crappy relationship you are in. Especially if you are suffering from depression, trying the change or deal with an emotionally abuse partner will make your depression worse.

sultry11

Joined: 11/20/2008

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Zoloft question regarding sex Posted: 4/9/2009 8:42:03 PM
Zoloft sucks! I had no sex drive whatsoever when I was taking them and my sex drive is normally off the charts. Had no such problems with St Johns Wort but then again I changed my whole way of living... ie eating better, getting more sunshine and exercise etc.

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