The butchering of the English language gets on my nerves. Textspeak has taken over and sometimes it seems like people are just plain lazy. i just dont no whats wrong with ppl

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The girl I like is 26, never had a BF and never kissed before

I plan to tell her my true feelings for her next time I see her 1 on 1

So is it ok to date 7 women at the same time and sleep with all of them? As long as I don't commit to any one of them, it's cool, right?

well ill put my 2 cents in for one most black women seem to want a black guy, or they value his penis size only, this is not saying that white men men have small penis but black women seem to be stuck on the idea that all white guys r small, but i feel the truth of the matter really is that black women r close minded and prejudiced to the idea of dating white men and i think alot of it is becuz black men and their community as a whole says to them do not date white men i live in dallas tx and i can say from observation there is very little why men blk wmn dating here i will say to those white men who like black women go for women from africa or some foreign country rather than american black women, african women are far superior mentally, emotionally and spiritually than american black women trust me i would definitely marry an african woman never a blk american woman they are like shit beneath my feet

The battle of the sexes continues

this is sad because i have really seriously thought about trying to be a little bit of an ass not be so nice to girls because it seems like it gets me no where and they always like the guys that will treat them like s**t . dont make sense to me .. does it to n e one else ?

Women aren't always in the "boy meets girl" mindset, where as men almost always are. However if a girl sees a guy she likes, she's not going to be hard to distract by that guy. The guys who have to angle and try to get their time in are generally men who don't have that kind of attention. You can be sane and decent but not necessarily interesting or attractive enough to stop the ipod for...in fact if she wants to enjoy it - I'd say let her do that and find someone else.

Why don't you shoot your target and talk to her once you knock her over? LOL...again, stupid comparison. I take it you must be a psych major since you pointed out that I am not...how long have you had your degree?

If it's next it's next. If she's interested enough, you won't have to fear when her stop is, she'll make sure you can find her. I'm not sure why men think women don't take some initiative when they're interested. I think if a girl likes you before you approach, you can make anywhere interesting...to her. There's no strategy to it, you either approach a woman who was hoping you would, or you approach a woman who saw you coming and didn't get out of the way fast enough.

BTW, is the subway the only place you see women? You do talk to women elsewhere right?

If I did, I guess I would have had to do something else in the first 5 years...not that my job skills have anything to do with being social when not working - but again, what works for each is what works for each.

The train is the common ground, you're both traveling somewhere. If you are both standing somewhere the place and what goes on there is the common ground. It's almost impossible to not find something you have in common if you are both in the same place.

Salespeople do that, too business like...an over the shoulder casual comment regarding common ground is better...intro yourself after the conversation starts to flow with a BTW. That's when she's probably more interested in talking and might actually care what your name is (or care to tell you hers).

When people walk straight at me, extend a hand and/or do an intro, I immediately wonder what they want from me. It's too in your face. Just talk...