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Would you go out with someone in the 45 plus group that has never been married? Posted: 4/26/2009 4:09:31 PM
I was trying to read all of the threads before responding to your first post I totally agree for myself with the analysis. I have many friends who will never marry. In fact at 39 I admitted to myself all I ever really wanted was to be in a loving rel and make a big family. Well the clarity was good to have. Now I want to marry as an expression of our love and commitment, joy and passion. I'm more able to make that commitment now. I have put my foot on the path and I am willing to engage in the social intercourse to find a partner. I don't think he needs to be anything but in love with me, oh and available. Really. For me atleast I want to support my lover in his life. I'm very open, and good communication will enhance every rel. To the OP: Take care of your feelings, date and try to go at a pace that respects where you are.

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Women, what do you want from men other than money ? Posted: 4/26/2009 3:41:45 PM
Money doesn't buy LOVE!!! However, I like to treat my friends and family. Come on.... people some of you have made me Laugh Outloud, right here in this cafe, some have added to my understanding, or made me feel interested in them, but some just need to realize they have issues and as long as they leave the trust or what have you undealt with they are going to keep getting the same situations over again. Many of us have been hurt. Perhaps we have even misinterpreted a recent experience based on previous experience. I wish everyone all of the clarity and joy they can handle. Be as open as you feel safe with. Good luck!!

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Three Day Rule Posted: 4/26/2009 2:46:26 PM
Wow never heard of it before. I messaged the man I went out with after I got home to say thanks very much I enjoyed the evening and I hope he did to. Now to my mind I don't have time to try and remember three days yada yada... If I don't feel the attraction when I meet someone and they don't either then clearly we need to keep on going. Seriously how odd and archaic really ppl, is this necessary? I'm an adult and being quiet about my attractions has not assited me in getting closer to anyone. If he doesn't call until day three and he hasn't got a sick child, animal, out of town, prior commitment, then maybe he's just not that into me, fine... Good luck with that three day thing. If I call you and you are interested but busy, will you text or call me and let me know? If you think you may like me tell me, thanks.

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The shaving craze Posted: 4/26/2009 2:21:52 PM
Not trying to be perverted, however, I was wondering is there any women who do not shave thier lower regions anymore. I actually find shaving to be a turn off. However I notice that it is getting harder to find women who don't. I was always a trimmer or some such. Then a lover asked me to shave and I had no hesitation. It's true the stubble inside needs constant attention, but I can handle that. The thing is it feels incredible. I shaved him also. I think personal grooming is individual and I like body care as foreplay. I think if you like hair and she's into you she'll grow it, I would if asked.

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Snowshoeing at Cypress, Sunday March 15, 2009 Posted: 3/9/2009 3:06:56 PM
Hi thanks this event has all the possible questions covered. The bus service looks straight forward enough. See you there!

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Sick and tired of kids being refured to as Posted: 1/9/2009 12:44:06 PM
Hello everyone, I really enjoyed reading all of the replies on this thread. I had an out loud belly laugh at some of the witty responses. Myself I am a storage locker for my off-spring as much bcs I want to keep some of her bits and pieces when I down sized and she was away in U. Now life is interesting. I did put quite a few restrictions intially bcs I was feeling a bit nervous about the whole experience. What I really want to say is whatever we publish, whatever we say, it is ourselves. We can't really not be ourselves and I find it so much easier to be open about myself and have only the ones who are intersted knocking on the door. I am open to being invited to meet someones children. The man I want to meet would be able to decide if I was someone he wanted to introduce his children to & when. I respect your parenting and will support your healthy happy choices and never presume to know more than you about them. I wouldn't have wanted anything else myself. I found it challenging to date and single parent and her father is in her life and is a wonderful father. All of us have life experience and that can be useful or detrimental. I didn't get any wiser on my own. I've have family, friends, past lovers & employers who have all contributed to my self-awareness. My daughter, Piglet, is my number one fan and lately full of amazing insights What I've never found but I know is possible is the partner who is secure enough to realize that the more love the better. When eeryone in my family is happy, healthy and participating I feel sexy. I don't think I'm alone in that or why the heck would some families bother to keep reproducing. There is magic in them thar hills people.

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