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1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

Msg: 31 (view)

Busy or blown off? Posted: 8/28/2006 3:19:19 PM
Some people truely are busy people. But she seems a little short in her messages. I knew someone like that once and it doesnt improve with time. Dump her for a real person. Take care

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Why do guys LIKE to torture girls? Posted: 8/26/2006 1:15:21 AM
First off I want to say that not all men are like this. You need to exit the stage at the first sign of abuse from a man. Send me an email and i ll help you. Men that beat on women dont have any respect for them and that being the case what would make them descent in any way? They are uncontrollable emotional and not worth your time.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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What if you don't like the person but the sex is great?? Posted: 6/14/2006 2:23:35 AM
Look up HPV on the internet and there is your answer. Take care

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Woman that want your man! Posted: 6/14/2006 2:11:26 AM
you are kidding of course.

1inamillion7

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What do I do? Posted: 6/14/2006 2:05:42 AM

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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What do I do? Posted: 6/14/2006 2:05:31 AM
Why bother making the first move? Just Be yourself and learn something new everday. Educate yourself.. get a good job and the rest will follow. Take care and ignore anyone that says you are not cute as you are a lovely young woman. Take pride and know that only people that are mean would say such a thing to you.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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men are the head and women are th heart! Posted: 6/1/2006 5:04:09 PM
No I dont believe that for a moment. Relationships like that are in micky mouse land.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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How do you fix whats broken? Posted: 5/31/2006 9:12:18 AM
just a question... why do you wear a hat that says ****. Maybe thats the answer to your question?

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Why do men use me?? Posted: 5/13/2006 11:23:13 PM
You give he takes..... and that is the way it will sta..... only it will intensify with time. Is that what you want? Get rid of the selfish jerk before you get too bummed out. He is turning you into a doormat.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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why do people do this to each other? Posted: 5/13/2006 4:32:09 PM
Well I can say it happens to people all the time. Misunderstanding come between two people. And one person decides to cut it off. It is always mind boggling why someone would do such a thing and not even give a reason. Good luck and I hope you feel better.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Internet Dating Addiction? Posted: 5/11/2006 9:49:42 PM
What a sick world. Where people so blatently trash the love given them by another. People that do this are childish and selfish. Maybe meet someone not oneline? A big hug and hope you feel better . Email me anytime you feel sad.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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HELP............in love to date??????? Posted: 5/6/2006 9:37:51 PM
Run for the hills! This man is a waste of time unless you love drama. Good luck honey.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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What Is Up With THIS??? Posted: 5/6/2006 9:32:27 PM
" Do whatever we decide to do, be spontaneous but give me 2 hours to get ready " closer, romance, solicit and before the " bleep " all imply sex to men. If I can pick it up they sure can. Clean it up honey.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Do nerds actually have girlfriends? Posted: 4/29/2006 1:00:35 AM
Do you know who Bill Gates is?

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Revenge or just walk away? Posted: 4/27/2006 7:55:38 PM
The wife doesn't need to suffer for her husbands addictions. Mail the key to him and say good bye amigo

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Is It Posible ??? Posted: 4/27/2006 7:52:14 PM
With love anything is possible.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Do nerds actually have girlfriends? Posted: 4/26/2006 6:49:59 PM
Well what can I say............you have only asked 8 women out and already you have formed an opinion and given up.... for a smart guy you give up easy.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Smart Women Posted: 4/23/2006 7:33:57 PM
Most men I know find my intelligence and education a very big turn on.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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3 months Married and now getting a divorce Posted: 4/22/2006 2:45:47 PM
Hi Lindsamay, Wow I feel empathy for you. What horrible thing to go through. Well it wasn't "marriage" that destroyed your relationship. You are going to have to back totally off from him. If he calls you on the phone be polite but dont show your feelinga. He is pulling the old Push Pull game that many immature people play. Be glad you are rid of him because he would have continued to pull you and push you away. He is a child not a man.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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sick of it! Posted: 4/19/2006 8:27:49 PM
Dont let the door slam on your ass on the way out!

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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i think i've been wasting my time Posted: 4/18/2006 10:53:58 PM
I don't know how long you have known this man.... but I believe he is jerking you around. He wants you but doesnt want you. If what you desire is a man that will never make a commitment you dont have to look any further. You found him! The key to the issue is in his bio.... where he states that he hasn't met "miss right" yet.. You are a pretty woman why waste your time on this manchild.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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broken heart .... yeh 4 my dog Posted: 4/18/2006 3:46:54 AM
Hi Jody9671, Many people grieve when their pet dies. Pets are like a family member. And a pets love is unconditional. I have lost pets I dearly loved but you know what.... there are always pets that need someone. Best way to get over it is to get a new pet.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Do women read profiles??? Posted: 4/17/2006 10:07:43 AM
Hello, Sorry but you are pigion holing people. You cannot assume that all people are the same. By the way the pictures of you with the little kids. Why did you scibble out their faces? The best of luck to you in finding a woman that reads.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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any one ever lost a loved one to addiction? Posted: 4/17/2006 9:58:30 AM
My sister died from it. It was one of the hardest things in the world to watch her fall down a hole like that. She couldnt get out of it. She tried many times. But in the end she gave up and died. Everyone tried to help her. I loved her a great deal but she put everyone in the family including her son through a living hell. I will always love her and never forget her. But you know what.... When someone destroys themselves especially when they have a child to love it sickens you and if you stay with them they will destroy you. Best of luck to you and may you have a good life. This is a new start for you. Dont look back too much as you made the right choice.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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How do you build self-esteem when you have none? Posted: 4/16/2006 10:59:14 PM
Sanschele, You may consider a psychiatrist. Hating your father is not healthy. I dont care what a pig he was to you. It is not healthy to hate him. Think about it .... by observing his behavior you learned early what a person should not do and that ... is to treat people you love poorly. If he gave you one thing he gave you the ability to see compassion. Get some psychiatric help for yourself. You deserve to love yourself and to forgive your father. Good luck honey.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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what is so wrong with being alone? Posted: 4/16/2006 11:12:02 AM
And a very nice thought it is! Thank you for sharing it.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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letting go of the past Posted: 4/15/2006 4:58:41 PM
Since you have loved someone deeply and they passed away... you can never forget them. And you want someone that can make you just as happy. You can never replace them ...... but you can learn to love someone again as much... when the right person comes along. It is hard to let go..... but know there is space in your heart for her and when the time ....and woman is right a new love. Dont rush it as it will come.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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ADVICE Needed? The one who won't STOP. What to do?? Posted: 4/12/2006 3:42:13 PM
Hi, Don't talk to this man ever again. Dont call his work or leave him messages. Change your phone number as soon as possible. Tell People at work to not give out any info about you to this guy. And also tell them that you are not accepting phone calls from him. Make sure you have some good locks on your door. Next time you meet a man dont meet him in a bar. Meet him in a open public place. Also next time if you find no connection after 5 minutes say.... This isn't working out for me sorry I have to leave now. Then get up and leave. Do not let him talk you into staying. You gave this guy the wrong message by staying with him for 2 hours. Some men think just because you talk to them you are interested. I know it is insane but that is the way it is. Take care honey

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

Msg: 234 (view)

What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight Posted: 4/10/2006 1:44:23 PM
First thing his eyes, then lips , then his walk.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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How stupid am I ? Posted: 4/10/2006 7:03:01 AM
You may be exhibitionist but you are not stupid about this mans feelings for you. You said he is using you. Don't guestion your gut instincts. Don't talk to this man anymore. Don't see him anymore. It will probably hurt for a few weeks but after that you will love yourself again. Good luck honey.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Why do men say long term, one on one, and run when they find it? Posted: 4/9/2006 11:40:34 AM
Well from my observations about men I would say that they have to be in love with you first or else they run. It is sort of like the boogie man to them to have a woman love them like this. Although there are some men that appreciate this type of love. Many do not understand it. Good thing to remember when some guy is bugging you and you want to disinterest him is to proclaim undying love for him. Fun to watch them barf.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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how do you get over someone you loved with all you heart that has passed Posted: 4/9/2006 11:26:23 AM
I know a woman that was engaged to two men and both died. The third man which she married died after they had been together 10 years. All three had given her a diamond engagement ring. When she married she put all the stones into one ring. Lesson.... you can never forget a person you loved who has passed on. You put them in a special place in your heart. You undestand there will always be room in your heart for them and room for someone new to love. Take care honey. I wish you the best. PS 5 years is not long enough to forget someone you loved that has died. But it is long enough to realize that they will not come back and can only be with you in memory.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Why do women feel the need to Test their man? Posted: 4/8/2006 8:55:02 AM
If a woman trys to test you by having a friend try to hit on you....... imagine what she may do when she is cooking your food. One has to have respect and trust in others. To do less is unethical.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Slept with Ex! OOOPPPSS???? Posted: 4/7/2006 8:31:30 PM
MY MY you dont believe that baloney do you????? That's like coughing in someone face and then saying it is their fault you coughed. This man is a baby.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Never Dated, Many Hurts Posted: 4/7/2006 2:13:42 AM
well just because a few girls said no is not a reason to thinks millions of other women would do the same. You girl is out there and dont worry about it. It will happen. Keep yourmind on getting a good life and helping others. She will appear when the time is right take care

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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WHY ARE MEN SO MEAN Posted: 4/6/2006 9:50:51 PM
Things are really funny sometimes. People can be all levels of personality. I have met some very nice people and some really mean people. You just got to learn to stop the minute tehy wave a flag at you. hoping it will go away will not make it better. There are wonderful men in this world and then their are hunters. On this site I talked to a dentist who told me that 90 percent of men are pigs. Well i dont believe that but he sure did. Made me wonder why he would state that first thing. And he said he was one of them!!!!!

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

Msg: 197 (view)

Which characteristics do you find LEAST desirable in members of the opposite sex? Posted: 4/6/2006 12:47:39 PM
1.arrogance 2.meaness in any form or shape 3. yelling 4 ignorance 5 hunters

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Is it considered cheating when.................... Posted: 4/6/2006 12:43:12 AM
If you have to toss a coin over your boss or your husband.... i would say heads up for your husband. You can always get another boss.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Beauty in the eye of the beholder Posted: 4/6/2006 12:40:30 AM
Obviously he thought you where attractive or he would not have married you. I think you worry too much. Take care honey.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Guys that cry.....Good or bad? Posted: 4/6/2006 12:38:50 AM
Nothing wrong with having emotions.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Being abused because of pets? Posted: 4/6/2006 12:33:20 AM
That is indeed sad. But couldnt the women have a friend or a family member take the pet? And yes animal abuse is real out there. Ever watch the animal channel with the prevention to cruelty to animals people. Any one that tortures an animal is mentally ill.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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I quit..... Posted: 4/6/2006 12:30:19 AM
A cry for help? Well if life is depressing you need to see a therapist and quick. good luck i hopeyou feel better soon.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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SHOULD I DATE FOR LOVE OR GOALS? Posted: 4/6/2006 12:27:43 AM
Love makes the world go round.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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11 years of marrage down the drain. Posted: 4/4/2006 11:55:36 AM
She has not slept with him YET. You have not been the best husband in the world. You dont walk away for a 16 year old marriage and a child when you still love the person. You fight to get em back in your fold. The other option? Pain, loneliness and regrets for a start. Dont bother to forgive her as she has not slept with him. Find out from her what has motiviated her to go astray and see if there is something to be done that can repair and bring you back together. Good luck and a big hug.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met? Posted: 4/3/2006 2:18:29 PM
It is this way because you are seperated from him still. You are in love obviously. Yes it can happen. But will it last? only meeting them and daily life with him will tell.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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How do you keep your man once you got him?? Posted: 4/3/2006 11:33:21 AM
This is my viewpoint from what i have learned from men. Men seem to be attracted to women that a loyal, HONEST, fun, positive, independant, and have interests of their own. Cooking and cleaning is taken for granted after a short while. While these other attributes are not foggoten. A little bit sensual mixed with intellect and you set them on fire! good luck honey

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Did i get what i deserved?? Posted: 4/3/2006 10:53:45 AM
Hi and lets see if I can answer this without being biased. Having a child is a full time job. You will figure this out when you have your daughter over. The lies and drug abuse your wife was partaking in was probably demotivating her from everything. Grass and booze as you well know are a way to escape uncomfortable situations. People suffering from depression are negative and have a hard time working. I'd say from what you wrote about your wife that she was depressed. Perhaps very stessed also. With a husband withdrawing from her emotionally and physically she most likely felt very alone and lonely. When you brought up moving on and out of her life it more than likely was the last straw. She wasn't the only one with a bad attitude as you had a negative attitude also towards her. Your feelings of negativity was probabaly from her being unhappy and not helping you finacially by getting a second job. Remember raising a child is a full time job. She got up and got a job because you broke the last straw on her back. She moved on so fast it is somewhat amazing. But she was probably digusted with you when you stated you where moving and and deserting her and your child. As for you daughter ... she need you very much. Dont let your feeling for your wife interfere with your love of your daughter. A daughter needs a father .... a real father cannot be replaced. Dont kid yourself if you think some other guy will be her dad. Not too many men able to sacrifice all for another mans child. The redeeming factor in all of this was when you realized your wife meant something to you. With that understanding try to sort out what could have been done differently to avoid this in the future. She may not love this man she may be only in a state of denial. Having the thought of your support stripped from her probably scared the hell out of her. And it probably in her mind justified her being with another man. Sad very sad. It is too bad she was not willing to stick it out for a little longer but with the bickering continueing after she got the job she probably figures what the hell. Nothing i do pleases this man. I hope you two forgive each other as you apparently once loved each other. It would really help your daughter grow up normally if she had all your support and love during this time in her young life. She has just lost someone that means the world to her. YOU! Good luck and take care. Dont feel bad a lot of people when they are young they do things they regret later. YOu can make it all up and feel like a descent man by remaing a father to you child that is active and interested in her life. PS next time around date only women that are independant and work. Take care and a big hug for you ... i hope you feel better.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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this is unbearable!!! Posted: 3/27/2006 9:46:54 PM
Think this to yourself. Is this man worth going hungry for. Is this man work being broke for. Is this man work living in the street for. may help .. good luck

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Confused.............need advice Posted: 3/27/2006 4:16:29 PM
Hi Sayonara7, You sound like a very sweet girl who deserves a wonderful man. Start by meeting this man in public places. Get there and back in your own car. Meet with him many times before you make a final judgement. Try to pick up any warning signs. And why is your self esteem so low? You are kind and very pretty.

1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005

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Are you attracted to Abusive people? Posted: 3/27/2006 4:07:36 PM
First I am sorry you have been the victom of abuse. I think abuse by anyone is untolerable. It is great that you recognise your falling for this type of person. Now you will be able to watch for the red flags and exit fast the next time it happens. Name calling is a form of abuse ... verbal abuse. There is emothional abuse, sexual abuse, and physical abuse. Anyone that is mean to animals has a high chance of becoming abusive to children. I hope that in the future you steer clear of people that are cruel. For your sake take good care of yourself.

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