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not a nurse

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Msg: 184 (view)

Shaving or trimming your privates at our age? Posted: 11/7/2009 5:27:48 PM
Is this a mid life crisis thing?? lots of secrets creeping out here getting to know stuff about the posters not even their mothers know _________________________________________________________ EDIT thecatsmeoww wrote; I guess I like the experience when my cats are licking me? Got to love those sandpaper kisses besides they exfoliate my skin.. __________________________________________________________ That is against the law in the UK

not a nurse

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Why are we still so affraid to let people in? Posted: 11/7/2009 8:43:18 AM
OP brilliant post some excellent responses too I have a lot of love to give and the only thing I am sure of I am not going to meet someone lasting off an internet site, people who know me cannot understand how I am not snapped up, I am genuine honest loving and giving and always a good friend to people I like, the problem is with cyber media it is hard to get to know anyone before meeting them, so many are angry and abusive on first contact and that is something I dont need in my life or the ones who talk your ears off on the phone, or type text messages till I turn the phone off in boredom, sorry but texting is boring the ones who turn up for a date looking like they are going to tar mac the drive and the chancers on the inimate encouter route. BUT I LOVE THE FORUMS.

not a nurse

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First meet at home Posted: 11/7/2009 8:33:25 AM
Never ever be so stupid as to invite a total stranger to your own home 1. they could be unsavory/stalker/nutter. 2. married 3. on day release from prison (it has been reported in the forums) 1. THEY ARE CHEAP 2. THEY ARE MAKING YOU CHEAP if he kicks off at a no, then so be it, you still have your pride and privacy intact.

not a nurse

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First meet at home Posted: 11/7/2009 8:30:35 AM
D'oh forget the date forget the wine forget the movie Remember to change the sheets and shave your legs you just got lucky the instant you say YES.

not a nurse

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How soon do you give your number out? Posted: 11/7/2009 8:26:50 AM
jjx11 on 11/6/2009 448 PM Subject: How soon do you give your number out? Message: How do you block someone from phoning you then...? You tell BT and they arrest the little minx after four unwanted calls, they can get up to two years in prison for being a pain in the a*se. BT have been known to take away their right to a phone line too that slows them up

not a nurse

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How soon do you give your number out? Posted: 11/7/2009 8:23:53 AM
Control freak by the sound of it, you best off without it........................ The right time is when you feel comfortable

not a nurse

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How long should we view a profile & what three things do you look for in a person and their profile? Posted: 11/7/2009 8:21:26 AM
Must not be boring Must not be looking for off duty prostitute Must not be married but hey didnt I tick them boxes so they cannot contact me, oh yes I so did along with:- no baldies no fatties no anger issues if anyone is angry enough to get angry when writing about themselves in their profiles - imagine what they would be like in person - eek

not a nurse

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People are too selfish to become parents.... Posted: 11/7/2009 8:03:42 AM
well after having sexual encounters there are a few babies that pop up to marrieds and singles, so dont think he got that right and all the planned babies that are born all over the world every minute. Yes educated people tend to wait for the choice and time to be right, but then who wants a child when you dont have the finaces to go with it. Maybe this numpty should have posted the figures on "Not enough staff for maternity wards" "Over crowding in birthing centres pushes mothers to give birth at home" horror stories of women left alone in hospitals who get into trouble unnoticed, resulting in death! Happy dating

not a nurse

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Are mens lives complete with out a woman? Posted: 11/7/2009 7:56:36 AM
If the want FWB then they sound like not the sort you looking for anyways. Tick no intimate encounters on your mail page, should get shot of them - Happy fishing

not a nurse

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Chronic Fatigue Posted: 11/7/2009 7:54:15 AM
Guess she is not up for dating then, or is she dating friends of her parents too? Bit confused in your question think it is : you and this ex mate were friends but she has dumped you and you want to know how to get her back. Try a letter, "What did I do to you that you are letting our friendship go by the by? Think we could behave like grown ups and talk it out?" If that dont work - Friendship is a two way thing, walk away she aint being a friend to you is she??

not a nurse

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fat-ism, the next one for the pc brigade? Posted: 11/7/2009 7:49:16 AM
Dating a fat person, you dont employ them - it is not your problem if they wheeze or have a heart attack due to stuffing the old face with all the wrong foods - walk away and carry on fishing I say. it is not fat-ist it is fact, unhealthy people are fatter than healthy people.

not a nurse

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On the Cusp! Posted: 11/7/2009 2:46:09 AM
Blimey Can we roll back and discuss the inhibitions that you did have before you hit 45 you sound a bit like a three year old stamping your little foot here, just be yourself and dont worry what others think - thats a good rule of thumb. Happiness is what you want it to be on a daily basis

not a nurse

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Friend vs. Lover? Posted: 11/7/2009 2:43:06 AM
Well that is my slant on friend v lovers anyways - others may differ but its not the end of the world if you dont agree with my post you are allowed your opinion it is open to your posting too........ Happy posting

not a nurse

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Friend vs. Lover? Posted: 11/7/2009 2:41:26 AM
FRIENDS ARE FRIENDS LOVERS ARE LOVERS women who put men on the friend pile DO NOT TAKE THEM TO THE BEDROOM, (unless they get drunk one night and forget they shouldnt do it) she is trying to tell you that she is not into you in that way...................... Although - a woman can make her lover her very best friend.

not a nurse

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how to slow the pace to make it real Posted: 11/7/2009 2:35:26 AM
OP thinking here that 'person' is having a fantasy relationship, forgetting that they are in the real world now, it is only polite to ask what you want for a present, (nothing like getting stuff you dont like and having to say thank you, before throwing it in the charity box). Some guys are booking holidays before you have been on a first real date I do seriously think some people get so lonely, they prepare what they will do when they are dating - this time to get it right - but they forget the other person might have a stand back and let it happen approach and this effects the way the relationship pans out. It is the same with the sex thing - women know on a daily basis men do not stump up, so when they come on all sex and no other conversation, that man is not living in the real world to start with. Over all - planning in advance is a bad thing - unless it is big spending involved and he/she is buying you a five carot diamond ring and of course you want it to fit, or a brand new car knowing full well it is hard enough for men to buy a cup of coffee in the real world ___________________________________________ Not bitter, not ranting, just responding to the post as I see it!!

not a nurse

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Same group of friends breakup what to do? Posted: 11/7/2009 2:27:07 AM
Oh bless - friendship is always stronger than love, it is the first Red Flag when a new partner wants you to stop seeing your friends). Yours is the other way round both of you want to keep the friends, in the settlement, sadly it just does not work that way, friends choose who they want out of the couple and go with that person. Try making new friends outside the 'old gang' of course when you find a new lady you will meet her friends and she will meet yours

not a nurse

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Same group of friends breakup what to do? Posted: 11/7/2009 2:25:46 AM
Oh bless - friendship is always stronger than love, it is the first Red Flag when a new partner wants you to stop seeing your friends). Yours is the other way round both of you want to keep the friends, in the settlement, sadly it just does not work that way, friends choose who they want out of the couple and go with that person. Try making new friends outside the 'old gang' of course when you find a new lady you will meet her friends and she will meet yours

not a nurse

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What's the upside to being over 50 and single Posted: 11/4/2009 12:29:25 PM
For me it is the freedom to choose,

not a nurse

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Shaving or trimming your privates at our age? Posted: 11/4/2009 12:04:47 PM
CassaGo on 11/4/2009 5:03:18 PM Subject: Shaving or trimming your privates at our age? Absolutely fell off the sofa laughing my head off at this response "all women should shave their pubes into a huge arrow pointing to the clit". you are so not wrong there hun

not a nurse

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Shaving or trimming your privates at our age? Posted: 11/4/2009 12:02:45 PM
The burning question is Why do you want to know what is going on in total strangers pants? What are you going to do with the responses? Will any response change your mind about what you do in your pants? And no way am I writing on an international forum what goes on in my pants, thats why I wear them to keep something private to me and who I let in them

not a nurse

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She said im different... Posted: 11/4/2009 9:42:59 AM
What can you do to change stop playing games and treat each new day just as it is, a new day, a new woman a new friend and if you know how you feel about her tell her like it is, BS if you cant say I like/love/cant stand/dispise you - whatever - this is a bit of a troll post. 99% of people using the internet for dates know how they feel, 98% have been hurt badly but are willing to forget the past and give every new person that comes into their lives a chance about 2% actually get dates or mates - so cut the BS and if someone lets you know you are liked meet them and get your life going again, stop wollowing in self pity and think WAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO someone likes me and smile about it Good Luck PS you are allowed to forget the bad bits Not angry not bitter, just responding the post as I read it

not a nurse

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I am having trouble with this one. Posted: 11/4/2009 9:03:21 AM
aww and you got such a nice smile too, her loss move onto another cutie - her loss

not a nurse

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Do You Recycle ? Posted: 11/4/2009 8:57:41 AM
recycle men - lol rolf well if nothing else it made me laugh suppose it is a good thing, if you are sure he is a good guy, imagine if you paired a guy off with a good mate and he turned out to be a nastie, now that would be a sting in the tail of a good deed.

not a nurse

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What do you think of video messages? Posted: 11/3/2009 11:13:21 AM
it was bad enough when they turned chat into video chat, no thanks to video chat due to bad experiences - not a pretty sight from that angle

not a nurse

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Whats with all the one word answers? Posted: 11/1/2009 6:25:21 AM
Interested = lots of typing Not interested = one word answers

not a nurse

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Would you ever let your friend have your child? Posted: 11/1/2009 6:22:57 AM
Do you mean give away a living child? or Impregnante a friend, so they can have a child without you around? As you refer to this being a 'guy', it must be giving him one of your children OMG OMG OMG what the hell has the child done to deserve this?? OP THINK YOU ARE NUTS FOR EVEN ASKING EITHER QUESTION, children are not toys to be shared out........................................

not a nurse

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What do you think? Posted: 11/1/2009 6:14:37 AM
Thinking that it is over:- 1. She stopped messaging you, clearly not interested. 2. You turned nasty and vented through text message - too late to take back what you typed. 3. Then you try to take control by texting more stuff. I am wondering if you had really really liked this lady, you would have been ringing and apologising for the childish texting right after you did it. Let it go hun, think it is over for both of you her first, then you totally blew it with the insults - its called burning bridges = not going back everrrrrrrrrrr. Not bitter or venting just replying to the post as I see it

not a nurse

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First Contact: Generic emails vs. Creative Writing Posted: 10/31/2009 5:58:41 AM
Think you should stick to the forums and learn the real stuff about this site. It appears no one has 100's of e-mails per day, blocking and deleting goes on all the time for no reason, read/delete happens too because they are not interested or have a relationship and have kept their options open by not closing down the account. 99% of the members are here hoping to find someone cute to spend time with. There are tons of trawlers looking for a date a night pretending they are looking for love, when they are looking for control. And then there is the married brigade who mess with peoples heads and hearts. Just take each day as it comes, if a cutie messages you meet them quick, cos they are few and far between. Block and delete any nasties then you never have to hear from them again if they are real nasties report them and hopefully you will save someone else too. Do not take this at all too serious - treat it like a bit of fun, if you hit lucky, smile because you are one of the lucky ones And I know two people, face to face friends, that have hit lucky on this site, one in her fifties and one in her twenties, so keep an open mind dont try to second guess - ask outright!

not a nurse

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fighting because of facebook..... Posted: 10/31/2009 5:48:58 AM
Emotions do run high with facebook In the UK a guy murdered his girl friend, because she changed her status to single. No one will ever know if she changed it, or facebook did an upgrade and reset everyones setting, which it does quite often. Either way she is dead and her children motherless. So remember at all times, not all people can cope mentally with facebook, would be a good idea to shut it down while you got this girlfriend she does not sound like she can take you having friends .................................... now that is more what this post should be about, and it comes to mind she does not want you to be having fun with your work mates. Lets face it facebook is great for crossing the world and keeping in touch with friends in different time zones, if someone is jealous of it - geesh SHOULD THEY BE ALLOWED AN ACCOUNT??

not a nurse

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Going over to his place..?? Posted: 10/31/2009 5:32:32 AM
Sorry but this so sounds like he is desperate to get you to his place one way or another. Go with your gut instinct, if it feels wrong - dont do it. If he wants you he will wait and date first EDIT: for a while stick to lunch dates, till you get in the swing of things. ********************************************************************************** SECURITY AT ALL TIME : Always leave his/her name and address and contact info off the site with someone who is likely to miss you, and get someone to ring you, to make sure you are ok on the date - Simple security for men and women.

not a nurse

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ladies tell me whats going on? im confused? Posted: 10/31/2009 5:24:36 AM
Sorry but to me this is quite clear You are interested but not interested enough to take it off the keyboard. You are in the same place and the same time, she invites you to join her and her mates, you dont go over, sorry I think she was right to go without saying good night (if you had gone over it would have been different me thinks). You text an invite to lunch, why not a quick phone call and you could have heard her voice and maybe if I am right, heard her disappointment and switched it to an early supper after her meeting. Try ringing the lady, stop acting like a teenager with the texting, when an adult is busy they dont always take in what is written or what emotion you are trying to get across. Texting can be like sent e-mails, afterwards, when you read them you think 'bugger' wish I had used punctuation on that it could be read wrong............................... Its not too late - try ringing her, talking to her, then you will know what she wants and what she does not.

not a nurse

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False profiles Posted: 10/31/2009 5:14:52 AM
Maybe a profile check?? You do come across angry in the first two paragraphs. Try getting a lady friend to talk you through 'your best bits', and help to write a realistic profile about yourself not including anything that makes you angry - just an idea

not a nurse

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Letting the walls down Posted: 10/31/2009 4:59:47 AM
BIG RED FLAGS run for the hills, let him take his confusion out on someone else. Wow - reading the forum through like I always do - typical, seems that there is a half and half vote here, no hunni you are not wrong to be worries about this man, seems like he wants you to be what his two ex's were not and sadly they were BLACK & WHITE which leaves him nowhere to go with a new lady. As for being intimate in a car park ffs what is he, 16?

not a nurse

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What ever happened to Love Posted: 10/31/2009 4:43:22 AM
Do I spot a couple in the making here, now that would be too cool, if a couple became a couple meeting on a forum about love. Ever the dreamer

not a nurse

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what a gemini girl wants ? Posted: 10/30/2009 5:20:26 PM
or you could work systematically throught the alaphabet and work out which star sign is best match for your star sign orrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr you could just date here and see where it goes

not a nurse

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Questions for moral women. Posted: 10/29/2009 12:21:19 PM
here here, its too late once you got some disease you cannot get rid of with anti-biotics, in a former post about this subject men ganged up on me and called me every name under the sun (not nice) because I dont s*ag on the first meet. I just feel in real life sex takes a back seat to real life, work, stress ect., so why should it be the be all and end all of meeting a stranger so agreeing with a man yeahhhhhhhhhhhh! Wait for the nasties to read this - I am so going to get it in the neck

not a nurse

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Slutty/Sexy Halloween Costumes Posted: 10/29/2009 12:10:00 PM
OUCH! So I guess we all getting slutty on one night of the year just to keep you happy, I dont think so - carry on fishing hun Novel troll post, this one could get an award

not a nurse

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Putting the Cart before the horse Posted: 10/28/2009 2:39:41 PM
I know I will be bashed heavily for responding like this Men who do message lots of women, "are hoping you will respond with your details straight back", therefore, they have a lot of information about you without ever meeting you. You do not know for sure that the information they have given you is theirs or even real. But the strangest thing just like the OP says, why do the men get so shamefully agressive, nasty and insulting when you ask to e-mail for a bit first before giving out your details. Anyman who scares women - mmmmmmm think it is the block and delete button

not a nurse

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First date flake. Posted: 10/28/2009 2:00:03 PM
"I never had the intention of having sex with her that night, but you could say I got to know her very well aside from that. She got wet very easily and enjoyed my touch, which was very thorough" ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ She just didnt feel the spark you did.

not a nurse

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What ever happened to Love Posted: 10/27/2009 12:35:54 PM
clockwork lime on 10/26/2009 1006 PM Subject: What ever happened to Love thank you so much for the insults - if I choose to post something that is my choice it has nothing to do with your opinion one way or another ATTACKING ANOTHER MEMBER OF THIS SITE PERSONALLY IS A NO NO. :modhammer: THE QUESTION WAS ARE YOU LOOKING FOR LOVE nothing to do with my posting or non posting

not a nurse

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What ever happened to Love Posted: 10/26/2009 11:40:46 AM
This wont make ten votes but hey?? I read and actively enter into the frey of the forums and reply and set forums which get deleted by the regulars so feel that I do know what people are thinking and saying in the forums. Todays were about her not ringing him, giving out your phone number too soon, and sex when should she put out, before or during the meal he bought her................................!! The prenups and the sharing the bills from the first cup of coffee etc., Whatever happened to love? Is anyone else other than me looking for old fashioned love, where you meet fall in love, the world goes on without you while you sort out which way you going with life, listen to music eat go, out stay in, just live for one another, you dont over think it you dont want it to end. My question is - IS ANYONE ELSE LOOKING TO FIND THE LOVE OF THEIR LIFE?

not a nurse

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what is with the phone number Posted: 10/26/2009 8:48:29 AM
I think it's just something for women to be paranoid about in order to give their lives some exciting drama bwana217 on 10/25/2009 9:08:54 PM ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Responding to your post - paranoid hey? There are two sides to all this mens and womens. * When you get guy/girls sending pictures of various parts of their bodies and no message?? wtf is that all about anyways? never understood what they want you to do, (I post them on facebook, with their full name and telephone number) so if anyone does want to buy it!! they can. * When you get men/women threatening your life because you dare to go to work and will not interrupt a meeting to take his call. * When men/women rant on because you wont answer their text in 10 seconds. * When you get men/women drunk out of their head ringing 300 times then hanging up (and that is not joking) all through the night. * When you get men/women sending text after text containing nothing but self indulgences Yes women/men should be careful, because a new cell phone does cost money even if it is pay-as-you-go. Yes it is a womans/mans choice to give out their telephone number BUT sometimes this is a big big mistake that you realize very quickly.

not a nurse

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is she just being friends or being safe Posted: 10/25/2009 10:36:04 AM
eweweweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!! NO WAY THIS IS WRONG ON FAR TOO MANY LEVELS urgh!! your daughters best mate and you hoping to get in there...............................!! ARE YOU FREAKING SERIOUS girls talk about their men OH MY GOD HOW FRICKING WEIRD IS THAT GOING TO BE?????? think about it the daughter is going to know about you, who is going to share with her siblings and her other parent and grandparents urghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh have some self respect man.

not a nurse

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conversation after the first date Posted: 10/25/2009 10:30:32 AM
that would be NO blimey how many more threads on - she is not responding what do I do? Come on guys if she is ignoring you she just is not into you - geesh

not a nurse

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Should I make my move? Posted: 10/25/2009 10:27:48 AM
H E L L O K N O C K K N O C K She has said yes twice, you are on the limit of being a pain in the a*se. Stop asking her out if you are busy and dont mean it - mmmm thinking you are loving the attention of a beautiful woman but too scared to date her. fyi - she will block you if you keep standing her up, thats just plain rude, once is bad twice is rude.

not a nurse

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what is she saying by this Posted: 10/25/2009 10:24:10 AM
start a new thread and tell us why the month of april is to be avoded?

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False I.D. to Proove We're Younger?? Posted: 10/24/2009 12:07:53 PM
MSG - 126 lets face it a liar is a liar no matter what age they are and the OP is a self confesser

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What do i take of this? Posted: 10/24/2009 2:52:42 AM
Hey sounds like you met someone like you Sounds like you both are touching base with lots of people and occassionally touching base with eachother at a loose end, Is it me or didnt you start this little game, now you dont like the rules WELL CHANGE THE RULES and stop messing her around by slipping in 1. dates with other women, 2. invites to parties that you dont want her to go to 3 posting on web sites that you are a junior player and whinging when it goes wrong

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what is she saying by this Posted: 10/24/2009 2:47:48 AM
Not interested in the older man - put her down as a mate and find someone nearer your age, dinner dates are good for some women to get the freebi and then they move onto the next free meal - be warned

not a nurse

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needs advice Posted: 10/24/2009 2:37:42 AM
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr What is it with you men, if you take it to msn, wait six months, you turned it into being MATES then **** cos the woman is on dating sites looking for Love. FFS if you wanted to date the woman, you should have asked her out, not typed the relationship to death. If any man wants to take it from typing on a dating site to msn, then it is obvious to most women 'he has put her in the holding pen while he works out if he is going to bother to make an effort or not' OP you blew it mate, left it way too long, friends rarely turn into boyfriends. Destined to remain 'msn mates' on this one I think. EDIT MSG 20 - nice guys finish last troll posting - he left it so long she knew he gave up any thought of dating, one typing medium is just like another, dating site messages, texting, msn they are just a way of saying NOT SURE I WANT TO DATE YOU sod all to do with being nice or nasty, scammers can wait months before hitting on vulnerable people.

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