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larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 558 (view)

Internet dating: sucks for guys, good for women. Posted: 6/14/2007 1:13:59 PM
Because some people today are attention whores and always crave more.. oh how fun it must be to be vain :P

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 143 (view)

Man gets 10 yrs for oral sex Posted: 6/14/2007 1:11:09 PM
What a bunch of dinosaurs lol... two young people engage in oral sex... OMG it's the guy's fault... let's send him to jail for 10 years, while the girl is completely "innocent".. jeeze give me a ****ing break... Both broke the law there by being willing participants, so both should be punished (or neither at all)...

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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Holy Robot Chicken Posted: 6/14/2007 12:35:21 PM
They're both only 21 guys.... nobody knows true love at that age, regardless of what they think. Best of luck to you though...

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 64 (view)

women always marking their territory. What the hell is that about? Posted: 6/13/2007 12:45:31 PM
OP, there can be two reasons behind leaving stuff around your place: 1) As most have said, it's for necessity and to have stuff available to her, on demand, when she is over. Or 2) She wants to always have a reason to come back ("Oh I forgot my curling iron there" or something like that) Usually 1 is the likely answer, however I have experienced 2 as well :) It's all good.. she definitely digs ya either way!

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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SKEETS! Posted: 6/12/2007 2:24:54 PM
Just a clarification for the older folks.. skeets nowadays refers to kids from the Goulds... kids in the malls are called "mall rats". I dealt with 'em for 3 years when I worked at wal-mart as the cart boy lol Fun times though.. one got pissy one night with me and I flipped and made him cry lol... my moment of cruelty i guess :P

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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Karaoke? Posted: 6/12/2007 2:23:15 PM
Not at all.. I do it once/twice a week, even though I know I am crap lol

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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St John's Plentyoffish Get Together June 18, 2007 Posted: 6/12/2007 2:21:02 PM
lol @ nan60... I didn't know I belonged to the collective :) But yea, definitely getting more jaded due to experiences I've had recently....

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 64 (view)

Man gets 10 yrs for oral sex Posted: 6/11/2007 4:51:23 PM
I'm just glad someone has the common sense to realize the US justice system (and American puritan beliefs in general) are ****ed up, and overturned the jail decision.

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 62 (view)

Man gets 10 yrs for oral sex Posted: 6/11/2007 4:49:49 PM
sweetie, while what you say is all well and good.. the situation has nothing to do with what you are thinking about responsibility of the older teenager. As I understand it, this was a situation where a 17 year old guy, at a party (where alcohol was likely being consumed), accepted a blowjob from a 15 year old girl. I agree that parenting would likely help here (something along the lines of "don't stick random****in your mouth" or healthly sex ed, comes to mind). However, the fact is she did it willingly, and this poor kid is going to jail because of acting up natural, harmless (in this case) sexual urges. I think you are confusing the responsibility of the kid, for the idiocy of the court and judge.

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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Man gets 10 yrs for oral sex Posted: 6/11/2007 2:31:31 PM
sweetie, you are too ignorant for me to even begin to point it out.. I frankly don't have that much time lol When I was 17, a younger girl (just turned 16) gave me a bj, without any pressure from me. Should I get 10 years in jail for something given to me freely? Every teenage boy wants some "action" as we used to put it... simple.

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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St John's Plentyoffish Get Together June 18, 2007 Posted: 6/11/2007 12:50:42 PM
To the 2 underagers: you've never gotten in somewhere underage before??? Hell I was getting in downtown when I was 16.. hopefully nobody evil is reading this hehe Either way, you can all count me out of this one. No more online dating for this man... too many liars and BS. And general nut jobs lol

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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Why does this offend some chicks? Posted: 6/11/2007 12:37:32 PM
Yea any city close to the Carolina Hurricanes (NHL) already has problems lol... you'd love it here in Canada, where our beer is good and our women are "fun"

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 60 (view)

Mom, 20, giving birth to third set of twins Posted: 6/11/2007 10:21:14 AM
Honestly.. 7 kids at 20? someone needs to show this one how to keep her legs shut and/or use a condom :P

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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Women, just stop talking! lol Posted: 6/9/2007 5:32:00 PM
keepitreal, you could go on and on if you were with me lol I would be too busy being stunned by your beauty. Now if you were to be talking during sex, then i'd get worried :P

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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dumped by text Posted: 6/8/2007 3:45:25 PM
Welcome to the age of technology over communication... nobody is required to have any guts anymore.

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 76 (view)

Iraqi Lives vs. American Lives Posted: 6/8/2007 3:19:01 PM
Here's hoping the rest of the world grows a set and puts the Americans in their place :)

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 68 (view)

'Something' in a background check,,,, Posted: 6/8/2007 12:19:27 PM
Personally, only a coward would simply walk away from someone based on information that may be inaccurate or false (if they had stolen identity or whatever). I support only the people who say to bring it up with him. I mean, think about how you would feel if someone just disappeared or changed for no known reason. You would be hurt right? Why do you think you have the right to possibly do the same to him? Just my thoughts...

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 71 (view)

Iraqi Lives vs. American Lives-------- Cash Posted: 6/8/2007 8:25:16 AM
yup.. like I said myself.. except oil is important, a ignorant rich person like Paris is not...

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 69 (view)

Iraqi Lives vs. American Lives Posted: 6/8/2007 7:59:38 AM
Anyone who foolishly believes there is honor in America's presence in Iraq is clearly delusional. They are only there for one reason only: to ensure we get the oil. There's no honor in harm foreign innocents for greed. Everyone should pull out, end of story.

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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Why men wont date independant women Posted: 6/7/2007 10:41:47 AM
One possible reason is that some girls use the word "independent" as a synonym for "ball busting ****"

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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How many of you get tired of lot of e-mails and confusion Posted: 6/6/2007 4:16:46 PM
Yea it does take a lot of time to say "thanks but no thanks" after all hehe

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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How many of you get tired of lot of e-mails and confusion Posted: 6/5/2007 11:34:23 AM
It sucks for us above average gentlemen too, as I'm sure everyone is blatantly aware. More than a few times, I get the old "u r cute" which drives me up the **ing wall. At least give me something to reply to. Makes me wanna write back with "wish I could say the same lol". Unlike some of the posters, I am far from a people pleaser. Other people's opinions mean nothing to me... they are like *holes, every has one and they're usually full of shit. Between the sex starved and the nuts, I don't know if I can honestly say I met one normal individual off this yet (as in, in person). Although they are a few cool chatters, including the lady above me here :P I came here hoping to find more prospects, but alas, this is worse than the bar scene. Oh my, sounds like a tired old rant.. gonna end it now :)

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 219 (view)

Okay! That's enough of the expected ESP BS! Rules are, please? Posted: 6/5/2007 9:43:46 AM
Rules are for sports, not for relationships. Any man that thinks he needs rules for dating, needs to check to see if his boys are still firmly attached and working. Be a leader, be a man... see a girl you want to talk to? go do it! Got a cute friend who you want to sleep with? try it! Only idiots are not attracted to men who go for things they want.

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the firs Posted: 6/5/2007 9:36:08 AM
Honestly, the last girl i met off here that did send near naked pics.... did turn out to the a mental case. She's even tried to contact a few people I know. What she doesn't know, however, is that I have enough evidence to expose her for the nutjob she is... shit's gonna be fun haha.

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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Do Not Dating List Posted: 6/5/2007 9:27:47 AM
I don't know where you live, bud, but younger women spread shit about their age group (both men and women) around here all the time. If a woman told you that they don't talk to each other about their men and relationships, there's a 96% chance she's lying.

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 71 (view)

Hard Nips in Public Posted: 6/5/2007 9:16:04 AM
Tell me the number and I'll dial it.. like the rejection hotline the other day (oh my.. what a laugh that was! :p)

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 1199 (view)

Game 6 Posted: 6/5/2007 9:13:59 AM
The Sens were lucky to get past the Sabres hehe. Buffalo was only a shadow of the team that dominated the regular season. If they played the same as they did all year, Ottawa would have been toast in 4 (maybe 5 if they got lucky). I agree with the guy above about Alfie being a cheap shot artist. Unlike Pronger, his dirty trick wasn't even provoked. Too bad Tucker didn't nail him hard enough after his hit a few years back.

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 75 (view)

I miss Newfoundland women!!!!!!!! Posted: 6/5/2007 9:08:18 AM
The only difference between George Street and Toronto girls is the price haha and that guys like myself get molested alot down on the street.

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 74 (view)

I miss Newfoundland women!!!!!!!! Posted: 6/5/2007 9:07:04 AM
There's no secret for men to find out. Most of us simply do no prefer grossly overweight ladies (this comment is directed to nobody in particular). It indicates a lack of concern about health and appearance, generally. Like the old saying goes, "water seeks it's own level" (??). Basically, most skinny individuals are going to be more likely to want a person physically similar to themselves. Simple laws of attraction. P.S. Plus some of us are deftly afraid of having our hips crushed during the missionary sex. lol

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 13 (view)

Connecting with someone...really...or is it just a place to be very open with someone Posted: 6/4/2007 2:02:38 PM
I am capable of saying both, depending on the girl obviously ;)

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 142 (view)

Please help, i might be looking at this all wrong. Posted: 6/2/2007 2:53:05 PM
OP, did he at any point say he wanted a relationship with her? sorry if you answered that already, but if he didn't, she should have known he was just into the sex (they got together a few times and had sex. That does not a relationship make. If that is indeed the case, while he didn't lie, he should have been more upfront. He was under no obligation to her, but definitely should know that guys are better off for being upfront. When I first started one night stands, I didn't realize some girls considered sex to be the start of something more... so I learned to be completely honest. And it works out for the better, most times.

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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Game 3 Posted: 6/2/2007 9:04:13 AM
Ottawa's getting swept in 4. They could barely beat a grossly underachieving Sabres team and people expect them to knock off perhaps the best playoff team of this year?? crazy ye all are. Until they get a captain who actually wants to win, Ottawa is going to be the laughing choke artist of the league. Like I said to a friend last night, when things get hard, Ottawa goes down faster than an Asian wh*re. lol

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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living in hope,but kidding yourself,should accounts be deleted after 12 months Posted: 6/2/2007 8:16:14 AM
The simple fact is that most people here expect more than they have to offer another person. This is common amongst men and women, and is definitely not gender specific. Ugly guys expect a thin model (or someone skinny in general) and overweight women expect an attractive man. Both of these expectations are unrealistic.

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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Connecting with someone...really...or is it just a place to be very open with someone Posted: 6/1/2007 3:37:44 PM
Hey, I am well aware of that sweetheart... I wish I could remember the missus from Breakers last Saturday night.. she'd be able to help you. She came up to me when I was standing talking with someone at the bar (about attractiveness and meeting women) and said "I'd take you home right now and f*ck you, if I wasnt married". Bold eh? I did notice you were kind of shy, by the way.... I'm still waiting on my poem from that party :P

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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Connecting with someone...really...or is it just a place to be very open with someone Posted: 6/1/2007 1:54:23 PM
Try telling them what you think :) It works with me...

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 37 (view)

STOOD UP BUT WHY? Posted: 6/1/2007 1:22:55 PM
No worse than my experience last night. Met this girl at her place (after she was 45 minutes late) and she never said a word for the hour we were there.. just chatting with some other guy on MSN. Luckily, just as I was about to get up and walk out... she called a cab to go take her kid for a ride (to put him to sleep supposedly). Anyways, I got a free ride to my fav bar and had a good time after that.. beer really does make one feel better :)

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 109 (view)

Why Do women dump men who are nice to them. Posted: 6/1/2007 9:40:43 AM
Listen, it's really simple.. if you turn her on, she won't leave for anything.. if you don't, she's as good as gone already.

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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Do Not Dating List Posted: 5/31/2007 4:16:51 PM
Hopefully that guy wins his lawsuit.. the****of an owner (if she can be called that) refused to apologize publicly even after the allegations against him were found to be false. Idiots like his ex and her need to be sent a message... post slanderous shit, and be prepared for a backlash.

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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Connecting with someone...really...or is it just a place to be very open with someone Posted: 5/31/2007 2:20:44 PM
Haven't you ladies learned that men don't respond to hints??? we are just not as in tune emotionally, and probably never will be (one can only hope... I love being "mysterious" hehe).

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 37 (view)

He doesnt want oral from me.. Posted: 5/31/2007 9:28:04 AM
I can't understand NOT liking it.. i love it all..

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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Tricks for guys with a small tinkler, I know you're out there. Share Posted: 5/30/2007 9:31:09 PM
you mean you discovered the clit and g-spot stimulation.. best be keeping that one a secret ;)

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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Please help...it's really important. Posted: 5/30/2007 6:16:46 PM
haha you're kidding right? McAfee/Norton will "end" your virus related problems? I work in the IT field, seeing thousands of computers per year. And I can tell you three things: 1) Norton/McAfee are both POS. PC-Cillin, AVG, Comodo and several others are quite good. It's not the price that determines the quality of the software, it's the coders. The only reason both are popular is because they are bundled by every major vendor with a new computer for the "average joe" as you put it. 2) Windows is insecure by it's very design. You cannot plug holes in a sinking boat with duct tape... Have you ever seen the code for Windows?? I have seen (leaked obviously) for both 2000 and XP. It is quite good in several places, but the legacy stuff (and some new) is just horrendous with buffer overflow problems everywhere and poor data validation. Vista is a step in the right direction for MS though. 3) At no point did I advocate Linux/Firefox/whatever. While technically superior to Windows in almost every way, there are still major rough edges in Linux-based systems. Software installation can be archaic at times, and driver support is lacking for esoteric hardware (most common devices are supported well simply because they all use generic components). The reason behind attacks is not because of popularity, as Linux and others own the server market (a common attack area too!), but rather because of the fact Windows is not designed for "security first". Until Microsoft drops the legacy crap in their code and force strict coding practices, Windows will always be insecure. But they won't do that, simply because there is too much money involved for everyone.

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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Bottom line- what do you look for in a bf/gf? Posted: 5/29/2007 10:19:22 AM
Good mouth and hands hehe

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 41 (view)

Internet or Sex Posted: 5/29/2007 10:18:52 AM
Internet.. it costs more usually haha

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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Please help...it's really important. Posted: 5/29/2007 10:16:36 AM
Ad-aware and NOD32 are good for protecting crappy Windows XP computers... make sure at least Service Pack 2 (XP update from Microsoft) is installed, as it gives alot more protection that older versions. AVG is good to have as well. Avoid anything by Norton or McAfee. Both are crap and seemingly get worse each year. Personally, I tend to stay away from Windows altogether and have a much easier time hehe.

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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If you see this man KICK HIM IN THE GROIN! Posted: 5/29/2007 10:06:31 AM
haha he must have recently resumed dating again, and realized a kick in the groin feels better.. j/k

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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So what's with all the Bi women... Posted: 5/29/2007 9:55:18 AM
Perhaps sometimes MissRenee, we all know how the average "girl" craves attention from anyone who'll give it to 'em. There are alot of fake girls out there was act bi simply because the idiotic American media says it's hot. And like Paris Hilton, it's not really.

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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He dumped me 2x why? Posted: 5/28/2007 10:09:39 PM
First of all, why date a guy TWICE? dating someone more than once is beyond stupid. When I was in his position, I was just looking for some older ****. Sorry to be so blunt, but that's likely all you are to him. If you want a relationship, try dating someone your own age.

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

Msg: 55 (view)

she gave me wrong (fake) phone number Posted: 5/28/2007 9:48:59 PM
haha I love that number.. gotta make a note of it.. wanna call it right now just to test hehe

larwilliams

Joined: 11/24/2005

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So what's with all the Bi women... Posted: 5/28/2007 9:46:16 PM
Welcome to double standards lol Men are pigs and girls (not women) are truly the beacons of enlightenment. I said not women, because this post doesn't apply to them. Real women don't act trashy to attract attention in public :)

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