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pragmatic

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Home Owners and Do It Yourselfers Posted: 6/18/2007 1:06:44 AM
Amibitious girl..... Yup, I've installed both vinyl and Auminum The vinyl has by far, out performed over the past 20+ years. It doesn't dent or collapse as easily. Living in Western Canada with our usual amount of 3 -4 feet of snow and lots of wet snows in spring and fall, the vinyl has held out great. The only drawback I've noticed is in keeping paint on the products over time, it tends to flake off faster than the rest of the buildings. Price might be a function of demand too. Plastic products can be made by molds and these products require very little special handling to store and ship to markets, while Al. will dent and wrinkle easily. I do work for our local seniors community, and have installed many gutters , most are the vinyl. P/

pragmatic

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Home Owners and Do It Yourselfers Posted: 6/14/2007 2:12:22 PM
one more suggestion, there is a product out there that connects at the downside of your downspout as the "final angle" before you discharge on the ground. Called "Aim a Drain" it is made of plastic, and fits many diff pipe sizes including the aluminum pipes and it SWIVELS allowing you to move your drain pipe into diff directions on the yard..... very usefull if you wan to direct water over flower beds for awhile and then onto lawn if the soils become saturated. I have converted all mine to these and think........ I have reduced watering of many bushes.

pragmatic

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Home Owners and Do It Yourselfers Posted: 6/14/2007 2:08:38 PM
Sounds like you are an ambitious lady and someone who looks at the practical side (and limits?) to projects. The cost of new gutters or any major work always includes the labour compnent. In addtion, its a business for somebody, that means that somebody has all the equipment to pay for, business licensses to pay, insurances for the business and vehicles and al lthe other costs that come with offering services. ... they are surprisingly high in many areas. So now that cost is in perspective, doing it yourself will be a fun project and will give you some great satisfaction when its done. A good ladder is important, but it should be teh kind that is free standing not an extension ladder......as you need both hands free t otake down the old gutters and can't lean a ladder agains them. Since you're doing it yourself, you should consider adding more than the minimum of downspouts if you can. Perhaps they could be placed to discharge into your garden or bushes that would "benefit " from extra watering. There are options t oconsider too. The quote you got was for aluminum ,seamless gutters. They look nice but are very flimsey..... you might want to consider the vinyl (plastic) type instead. The advantages are ,, they don't dent in hail storms, with stand pressure from ladders against them later and take paint fairly well too. All the corners, end caps, and down spout parts come prefitted with gaskets and snap together. The gaskets create a sealed joint, so theres no need for soldering or applying any glues or silicone sealers. You might want to take the old gutters down then carefully look over the facia boards for any loose spots, possible rot if still made of wood and to paint before you put the new gutters up. The slopes are good suggestions and are the minimum required to move water away. With vinyl or if many aluminum gutters they come with a choice of hangers. Some use a long nail and a short hollow pipe to keep the gutter distance from caving in. Alternative choices are hangers that clip inside the gutters and have a prestarted screw installed that only needs to be screwed into the facia board. Those have proven to be more sturdy and don't sag over time. Can be easily removed and reused if you ever have to get up there again. Taking pictures is a great way to look back at what you had and now nice the new ones look now. A friend and an extra ladder is alwways useful. Good luck and post you finished pics..... I think we'd all like to see how it turns out. Peter

pragmatic

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Age requirement?? Posted: 3/19/2007 5:21:59 PM
Take a look at the traffic this thread produced! > Dating and Love Advice > Looking for (enter age range)

pragmatic

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Age requirement?? Posted: 3/19/2007 4:55:34 PM
Good Question....... that comes with a less-than-simple answer! Why do as many women have the sam age require for men? A woman of 46 only wants t ohear from guys 25-39 etc etc. This thread made its way around in January with some rather heated exchanges .......mostly stemming from a sense of "personal attacks???" lol You might find it interesting reading......... the "between-the-lines" personalities pretty well sum up WHY some men/women have those requirements.........goe with their vanities!

pragmatic

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Girls on Bikes - Hot or NOT? Posted: 3/19/2007 4:36:30 PM
Depends! If the realtionship between a woman and a bike (of her choice) is something that she wants to do... then FINE. On the other hand, if the bike is like a snowsuit on SKI BUNNIES....... where they only emerge at bar time and never see the light of day of the feel the snow............

pragmatic

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why are a percentage of woman late? Posted: 3/19/2007 4:32:06 PM
Very annoying indeed! I have commented numerous times in the past that I find being left waiting rather annoying and eventually its simplpy "disrespectful" In response its been emphasised that Women are allowed to be "Fashionably Late" !!! ..... When fashionably late translates into 15 minutes, to well over 45 minutes for any date, and well over an hour for dinner invitations as a regular pattern of behaviour, I eventually become "Socially Unavailable"!! Other than emergencies, or unavoidable situations, lateness has no excuses. Plan ahead. P/

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Women want to change men - do men ever want to change? Posted: 3/19/2007 3:59:53 PM
CHANGE ? Two people find each other in a giant sea, and find enough of each other that they want to live together. GREAT.!! But is there enough respect and consideration for the other to "accept them"? What is it with this age-old habit of having to CHANGE your partner? A good relationship of two people will grow,evolve and meld together.....NOT be a fixed plateau where one is bent on "converting" the other . Smacks of manipulation more than anything; and is probably the one factor that will break the bonds of (potential) realtionship ....from my point of view. If I like the persons, its because I like how she has come through life thus far....those values, principles, ethics, skills, habits are all part of the package, just as much as if children are involved. I'm old enough and experienced enough to know that my tolerance for manipualtive, greedy, self-serving, pompous, arogant people will make me leave them in the middle of a crowded room............

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Looking for (enter age range) Posted: 2/27/2007 8:12:26 PM
Seems this thread has gain considerable momentum in the last days. Fox.... I agree in aprt with you, each to their own, however I think there's responsibility missing. Men/women looking a generation below their own age group are probably seeking their own lost youth? perhaps the the "assurance" that their looks still get considerable attention and many will use their expereince and successes to dazzle the younger ones. No baggage? Perhaps true. But on the same sense No Experience either. After the novelty has worn off of dating a 25 yr old, where does the connection of peer level come in? Personally, I find the enthusiasm of youth refreshing, they are not calculating their hand based upon 30 yrs expereince as we so often do; but I would see myself more as a friend/mentor/supporter than much else. Those looking to seriously date a generation younger must accept disporportionally more responsibility if and when that relationship dissolves ...... P

pragmatic

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Man fired over adult chat room sues IBM Posted: 2/23/2007 3:11:53 PM
Sad... Sad that anyone thinks they have "entitlements" to use tools (computer) supplied by their employer to persue personal interests and on payroll time too! Next thing, we'll hear that taking home building materials from construction sites, clothes from a retailer or fuel from a refinery is an entitlement of employees too! Surfing porn sites at work at anytime, is a social blackmark! I would have fired him too!

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Canadian men--would you move to the US to be with a woman? Posted: 2/23/2007 2:47:11 PM
THANKS for Noticing!! lol Theordically, I would move for the right person. However, it is much easier for an American to move to Canada and find work easily than it is getting all the authorizations required for a (White ) canadian man to move to the USA. WE have a "funny reciprocal agreement between the countries. US professionals move back and forth freely, Canadians can't!

pragmatic

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Looking for (enter age range) Posted: 2/23/2007 10:37:11 AM
lol Really..... sounds a but like Vanity at work. If you look at women's profiles, you'll find about the same porportion of profiles of women in their late 40's looking for men in their 20's - mid 30's. There is much more to relationships than just "looks", toys and giggles. Mental connections by Both parities is essential. That doesn't mean that age ranges are not healthy or practical...... in some cases the maturity levels between people maybe very similar; as long as there's potential for the compatibility to remain that way into the future.

pragmatic

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Transitional Relationships Posted: 2/19/2007 8:53:02 PM
Geee I missed a class I never got the idea we should LOVE THE ONE WE ARE WITH, unless its real and from the heart. That can easily be interpreted as deception. And, why does February 14 create such anxiety? Can't June 12 or August 8 or October 13 also be Valentines Day if the mood is right??????? Too much stress is created around the DAY and not the theme

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environmentalists Posted: 2/19/2007 8:49:09 PM
Well just for the record: An environmentalist ( professional in the natural sciences ) is not an ECO-FREAK. There is a big difference between those champions the idea that they're going to save the world from their laptop and armchair, and those who are willing to modify some of their "learned behaviors" of contributing to mass waste. I know many colleagues who are in your position! They do the recycling and their spouses let them. New cars, sporting toys or annual upgrades to new computers are a compromise, just like any other realtionship based issue that comes along. Go for it!

pragmatic

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Can a person deeply love someone and have doubts about their love at the same time? Posted: 2/19/2007 8:31:39 PM
Tough spot you are in Sounds like a guy who feels comfortable with you, but "thinks" he should be with a different kind of person. Too scared to let go and be on his own or to "risk" not having anyone, so he's keeping all options open. If he meets someone else, it will be easy(?) to say "its the right one" and move on. In the mean time he'll stay with you. YOU have to decide how much you want to invest and if you can deal with the fluctuating level of uncertianity....

pragmatic

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Do i push the issue???? Posted: 2/19/2007 8:24:38 PM
Seems like you've "just met" and in 9 months none of these unusal characteristics came to light? I would be set back if someone kept asking me "why does it matter"? It does matter, big-time! Its about knowing, trusting and sharing. Doesn't sound like he's scoring many points in any of these areas. What have you talked about and done together in 9 months? You might want to step back and look at this whole thing as if you were a friend advising someone else. MY best wishes that this works out for you, but I would be having sleepless nights.

pragmatic

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Have Dating Sites Raised the Level of Paranoia? Posted: 2/9/2007 8:46:19 AM
A timely question.... I have begun to ask myself that question lately too. I certainly appreciate Enchantability's and others point of view. The opportunity to "hide" or "become" the person you've always dreamed of being is very real here. Perhaps it's like many other challenges we face in daily life. When we were in our adolescent years, talk or taunt was the norm but we had to "learn" the art of Body Language. In our 20's/30's the body language became second nature but then we had to learn(?) the art of blending our careers, goals and accomplishements/commitments with gestures of interest without seeming forward in those large gathering places reputed to be The Place for Connections! Now the internet has offered a bridge for many who have not kept pace with social clubs or want to match their lifestyle and preferences with the opposite sex. What we probably Have to "Learn" here is the art of "FILTERING and Interpretations" Many of us have been let-down or dissapointed by those we've met who...seemingly were not what we expected. It might well be that How a preson sees themselves and Describes themselves are accurate within their own perceptions. WE have to take more time to understand better the person behind the profile. Jaded? Yes...sadly I think many are jaded not just from the sites but pehaps in otehr aspects of life in general. I still believe that this is a good venue, but recgonize that more chat time is required to sort out those who share a similar lifestyle and value system as myself. P/

pragmatic

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Sunday Drives!! Posted: 2/6/2007 2:25:49 PM
Reading the responses thus far is interesting..... what the idea of Sunday drives brings up. But it also reminded me of how those "drives" were really a FAMILY DAY ..... looking for something to do. Some saw show homes, others went out of the city to view landscapes, horses, or an excuse to spend it so removed from city life as to fish. It was a time of "past-times". I too experienced almost all those things, either with parents, grandparents or close friends. It seemed easier to do when the conflicts of Long shopping days, Sunday mall traffic, and "2" working parents wasn't there. My parents acquired some land in my earlier years that became an excuse to spend our weekends out of town during the no-snow months. It made a lasting impression on me, such that I have done something similar. There's alway someplace beyond the city to go, always something to do, and always a total change from week day routines. ..... With computers and long hours, we should be able to make those "Sunday Drives " a reality now more than ever........ if we try!!! P/

pragmatic

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white lies and exaggerations Posted: 2/1/2007 4:13:36 PM
I think lilwhskygirl and bucsgirl have good points. Why bother with the exaggerations and drama scenes.... if the relationship is built on those, sooner or later, the truth will surface and loses will be extensive. I would feel severely let -down and rather distrusting from that point forward. BTW... the illutrations apply equally to men and women. Don't think its fair to pointat onyl one gender. P

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Does ignoring a guy really get his attention? Posted: 12/1/2006 3:52:22 AM
As for me; If you ignor me I'll go away! Simple!

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Technology: The death of relationships Posted: 12/1/2006 3:45:53 AM
Not sure I could agree with Technology destroying relationships. Seesm like other problems there first. Technology is just another tool You learn to use it, place it into an appropriate level of use/value in your life BUT you don't let it run you.

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Starting a relationship with a woman who has a ??????????? Posted: 12/1/2006 3:43:00 AM
Does it matter? "we're not in (high school) anymore Dorthy...." Live lessons shape us into who we are today, good and bad. AS with her and a child, you too have history and its that history that comes with the package. If you're worrried about what others think, maybe its time to review the OTHER list of freinds.

pragmatic

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Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met? Posted: 11/29/2006 5:18:41 PM
A very timely discussion- considering the great number of people using text windows and Instant messaging these days AND the growing number who rely on thie computers as a "first contact" device! I think that is hard to "honestly" create an aire of love without meeting. Body language, contact-chemistry, and the other senses that tell us "right person, wrong person, maybe friend" is missing. There are inherent weaknesses that many of us have in writen text: its subject to our interpretations, we don't have the benefit of voice inflections to put meaning and emthasis on things said. To be connected with a person wh oshares common ideas is encouraging but it also can create false emotions. It is likely that the IMAGE created of this person may never hold up to the real thing.

pragmatic

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Cute New Dating Commercial Posted: 8/3/2006 12:24:16 PM
Ha ha ha I have seen that commercial and it always makes my "smile" I love it. And for somebody who finds most commercials so ignorant and even offensive, that's saying alot! A & W will be proud of the response.....I suspect P/

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Irreconsivable Differences or Not?? Posted: 8/3/2006 7:55:24 AM
Those conditions would seem extreme to some. I think it depends upon age as much as the strength of inner attractions. At younger ages (20's) it's likely that the two differences may meld together to form some combination of balanced drama and organized chaos, that both can accept. As we get older and have established our own priorities, likes and identified condtions that lessen stress or create stress (with controls), it seems less likely that a meld will occur that can last. Attraction in the short term will only give way to frustration in time. In my experience, the philosophical discussions of "love can over come anything" may be only that....... philisophical! We seek something stable and lasting, where energies in the relationship are focussed on growing and sharing ...... rather than supressing frustion. But, if you can find a way to make it work GREAT!!! please share the secret. P/

pragmatic

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Unconditional love?? Posted: 5/26/2006 12:22:49 PM
All Love should be unconditional! If its a situation where love/caring/attention etc comes with conditions or a price..its probably not love! Of course , ther are different kinds of love.. that of family is prehaps more an one of "love-of-understanding" while Love of a partner/lover.. is chosen and free-flowing from the heart. If it comes with a bargained condition.... you might want to step back a nd reflect a bit. I now have a totally different mental image when I hear chirps from crickets........ and I so love t olay in bed half asleep, with the window open...... lsitening to the frogs and crickets.... now I'll be wondering "who's Lunch" P

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How to recognize an Abusive person? Posted: 5/26/2006 12:14:21 PM
Tender subject: However, for yourself, consider this.... if anyone keeps putting you down, tries to force you to do things that are not comfortable to you or wants to control any part of your adult life..... it might be time to move on!!!! People you choose to be with in your life should compliment yourself.... don't have t obe the same but should share your general values, directions or at least be supportive of your initiatives. There are a lot of people in this big world, don't settle for less than you deserve!

pragmatic

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Are Men Intimidated By A Woman Who Is More Successful? Posted: 5/26/2006 12:08:18 PM
If that success comes without a nasty ego.... Not at all intimidated! Why should we be? To be in a relationship with a person who is successdful and probably satisfied with her accomplishments, hence no "unfulfilled stresses" can only bolster a relationship aire. as far as I'm concerned "Good For You Girl!!!!!!!!!"

pragmatic

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Tall=Intimidating? Posted: 5/26/2006 12:05:01 PM
Not at all intimidated. Hieght has little to do with "the person" that appeals to me..that is the heart, mind, enthusiasm and mindfullness of others. Howedver, I have expereinced more of a reluctance by women to date shorter men than the other way around. It's almost a social rule that woman + heels msut be equal or shorter than the dat (normally men...but these days ..humm)

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$15/hour to flip burgers!?!?! Posted: 4/10/2006 10:05:38 PM
Not a Rumor! ThatStory Aired on CBC last week. Interview with a Pizza Shop owner who outlined those wages/benfits I guess its really true! Albertans have soooo much money to spend, working fast food has more benfits than A BSc degree!

pragmatic

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how long does one have to be separated in...... Posted: 4/10/2006 9:36:21 PM
Might not be as much about TIME as attention and honesty with others. different stages of meeting new people afte a separation. first its more likely to be for company and a reflection of where you fit in again and with what kind of people. The other part is how much attention you can pay to a new date. If you're mind is always racing back to unfinished business, there less of YOU to be avaiable for others. for some , its unacceptable. For others, its OK as long as you tell them upfront. Big dangers for yourself and for new dates is the REBOUND effect. Too much, Too Soon and move Too fast.... somebody gets hurt. Be as kind to others as yourself! P

pragmatic

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Health Care Posted: 3/5/2006 3:54:26 PM
Tink While you're checking it out, you may also want to look at the Fed Gov't authority in approving generics in the market place. Costs are partially regulated in a complicated arrangement that also assures that drug companies will not see redistribution from canada to the countries for many brands. The greater question of health care in Canada is seemingly cheaper than in the US "IF" you only look at the premiums charged. ADD into that , transfers from Federal Budgets, Provincial Budgets and often, offsets within insurance plans (employment benefits) and you might find that the total cost is not much different than in the USA Add in now, the territorial desires to privatize many procedures in ALberta and the "Open for Business" shingle hanging out there for business to attach the "Adminstrative Costs" to those procedures and the end result is rapdily emerging into a "level playing field" with US medical facilities.

pragmatic

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Does Anyone ELSE Feel A Bit Inhibited by the fact that our Forum Posts are shown on our profiles? Posted: 2/26/2006 6:08:57 PM
I think the forum link is a great way of learning about each other. It provides a glimpse into the thinking, diversity (or not) of a person and how they might be in a brad range of conversations/situations. Profiles are, generally, polished ads. They often lack the "humanity" that many of us seek in others. Forums add that element of humanity. As for asking a "sensitive" question, perhaps it could be beneficial to be read by the person in question or consider a membership for forums only.

pragmatic

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What Would Your T-Shirt Say?? Posted: 2/18/2006 3:06:16 PM
Depending on the day...... "I'm Still Learning" or " Next LIFE-I'll Get it Right"

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Dont know what to do?? Posted: 2/13/2006 1:20:36 PM
If you like her and enjoy the time with her cherish it.... Respect her wishes and feeling now. It's quite likely that there ar many unresolved issues in her mind and possibly emotions. Better to have a great friend that might last a lifetime, than push or walk away and loose everything. A life long friend who really knows you and has your best interest at heart will be invaluable when you need advice later on.

pragmatic

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Anyone have any good advice for dating SEPARATED people? Y or N? Posted: 2/13/2006 12:54:56 PM
mishielou63 you are probably more "almost divorced" that jsut separated

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Anyone have any good advice for dating SEPARATED people? Y or N? Posted: 2/13/2006 12:52:55 PM
DATING a separated person is fine , as long as you keep in mind its Only Dating, that is there is a good chance that this will not be a lasting relationship. I have found that there tends to be an attraction because we represent something "familiar" or totally "opposite" from what was theri past expereince. "Separated" is a bit of a gray area for the emotions and self-confidence. When the dust settles, they often move on .... The upside of dating Separated people is that they often are more willing to talk about feelings as they are at that time .......

pragmatic

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What kinds of smells do you like? Posted: 2/2/2006 4:33:21 PM
so many smells (some also linked to special memories) Early morning air after a rain Puppy breath the first cultivation of soil after the winter that first day of a (real) christmas tree in the house the smell of pine in a hot summer forest crispness of a very cold winter day Antilope perfume freshly ground dark roast coffee so many kitchen smells too that subtle aroma of bread baking in a wood fired stove (mmmmmmm) that simmering smell of onions, chopped bacon, peppers and celery simmering .... before the main course is added I better stop, I'm becoming delirious!

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u can't have a plutonic friendship with opposite sex Posted: 2/2/2006 12:38:06 PM
Absolutely you can !! I have a few friends (female) that are very important in my life, provide a very unbiased level of support and opinion... including how well a potential girlfriend matches me. I trust in them and I think they trust in me.

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Waz up with Multiple profiles? Posted: 2/1/2006 3:53:25 PM
Not that uncommon for people to have multiple profiles. One might be who they are and another who they want to be? There a few women who have more than 2 profiles. The pictures are quite different and not current. I wonder how anybody has time to keep up with all those pesonailites........lol

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How Guarded Are You? Posted: 2/1/2006 12:27:04 PM
@Coastergal touched an important point .. ..don't judge men by those in your past...... ........ .... In principal, a good motto for many things. Perhaps though, the type of person you initially get attracted too is more "familiar" to you than a "good fit". If you look back and evaluated rather than Judge people in your past... is there a familiar pattern? Pehaps it's the pond you are fishing in or the priorities you Think are important when you meet a new man... aren't the ones that are really Important to you. I think we have all been wher you are at some time, Understanding the person looking back at you in the mirror - might lower some walls on its own No matter what else, never give up or accept less than you feel is right for you! P/

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/1/2006 9:05:39 AM
@squirrly I see your point, however there is an growing culture of "False Advertising " happenig these days. Many of us resent the attitude taht commercials can operate without the basics of accountability. If personal profiles take on the same philosophy, then you shouldn't be surprised to attrack all the "Wanna-bes"

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 2/1/2006 8:56:46 AM
YES !!! I read all the profile to get an idea of the person's lifestyle, interests, and even more important how flexible (or not) they may be. What I find frustrating, are profiles of One line, filled with all the standard cliches...... some don't even apply. The LIST of characteristics their ideal date should have is often exhaustive. I usually Pass those by. Thank you

pragmatic

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Muscles Posted: 2/1/2006 8:51:07 AM
Muscles? I like a healthy/toned body; but muscle bound or body buiding physique on women is a total Turn-off .

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What exercises keep your body sexy? Posted: 1/30/2006 8:39:45 PM
Healthy body AND healthy mind make for good partners. Keeping a regular form of physical activity is my form. Including a helathy dose of fresh air. Holiday periods of rich foods and alcohol slows more than the reflexes .. ('.applause.')

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setting up my mom Posted: 1/23/2006 1:19:41 PM
supplemental thought Ms Wonnder... As we get older ( hummm I hate definitive terms) We have the advantage of E x p e r i e n c e. The downside is the experience ....... can hamper a bold initiative. Your Mom will probably appreciate you giving her a bit of initiative

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setting up my mom Posted: 1/23/2006 1:15:14 PM
While you'rw talkin to this man, you might want to find out what type of woman he is looking for. You know your mom better than anybody else. You know what makes her happy and what annoys her. You know the little things that mean so much to her. If this man fits reasonably well with those things, perhaps ask your mom to join you for coffee and a visit. I assume (???) that you've told your mom about who you see, talk to at work. You might want to tell her about some of the things of this man that would appeal to her. If they both meet each other while visiting with you, it's up to them to stay and chat longer if they enjoy each others company. If it doesn't go anywhere, each has gained a bit more insight about YOU and the kind of people in your world. P.

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~Feelings~ suck.... Posted: 1/20/2006 9:05:03 AM
Thats very good philosophy/advice. Far too many REACT before thinking. Context and frame-of-mind can distort situations. Time puts perspective and allows for careful choice of words/actions P/

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To the Men,,,,what is the coolest gift? Posted: 1/19/2006 8:57:17 PM
Probably the most memorable and impressive gifts have been from friends that canceled an event, date, trip, game.... on short notice to do something for me. It has been a surprise visit, a BBQ and set table in my backyard upon arriving home from a fieldtrip or simply to come out and visit while I was away from home when they could have joined a group trip for a weekend. A simple dinner of my favorite dishes; a collection of photos pasted in the remains of a backpack that encompassed a decade of trips was special. It more the efforts than the value that leaves a lasting impression!

pragmatic

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How do men feel about a woman with short hair? Posted: 1/19/2006 8:40:50 PM
Short hair is just as appealing to me as medium or long hair. It's all about how a woman feels with he decission and ultimately the style. If she feels sexy ... she will be sexy! And... with age, there are changes in clothing styles, shoe choices, and activity. Hair style compliments all those too.

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