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plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 49 (view)

Ladies stop settling for bootycall status... Posted: 5/8/2009 3:20:53 PM
I think OP needs a B.O.B. ....

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 64 (view)

Is being rough good or bad??? Posted: 2/20/2009 5:15:04 PM
There's nothing wrong with knowing what you like and going for it. I say kudos!

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 29 (view)

Women and Wet Dreams Posted: 2/20/2009 5:13:33 PM
Damn, orgasms in my sleep? That would be freaking amazing. Especially close to the morning. It would be nice not to have to work for it for once.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 44 (view)

How long should sex last? Posted: 2/16/2009 11:36:43 PM
I'm gonna say 20 minutes. On average. Otherwise it starts to get sore down there. But there are always exceptions to the rule. Always.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 93 (view)

Doggie Style is painful to me ...anyone else? Posted: 2/16/2009 11:34:46 PM
It's most likely because he's hitting your cervix (which seems to already be established) I had the same problem too. Although the more aroused you are, the more your vaginal walls stretch. Perhaps you may need more forepley and have him start off going slower. When you aren't turned on, the vaginal walls are only an average of 3 inches deep as opposed to when a woman is extremely aroused in which case those walls can elongate up to six inches. Just my two cents.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 36 (view)

Queefing Posted: 2/16/2009 11:29:25 PM
I think it got flagged for redundancy.

plaidpink

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Msg: 24 (view)

the art of THE KISS Posted: 2/16/2009 9:33:27 PM
Oh kissing. It can almost be better than sex. I woke up this morning to my boyfriend brushing the hair away from my face and leaning in and kissing nice and softly. Then I looked up and smiled and he smiled back and said that he didn't want to get out of bed to go to work and cuddled up nice and close. Morning kisses are the best (without tongue) for obvious reasons.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 34 (view)

Queefing Posted: 2/16/2009 9:30:55 PM
Haha! it happens all the time. It's hilarious! You just keep on going and laugh your ass off while you do. :D

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 442 (view)

Her sexual past.....ur business? Posted: 2/12/2009 9:33:10 PM
It depends on the situation. If a guy has had a lot of sexual partners in his past then I would want to know, as that would increase the risk of STI's. It would make the difference in wanting him to get tested or not. So for that sake, yes. But just knowing for the sake of knowing? Well...I only ask if I'm prepared to hear the worst.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 22 (view)

Howcome I never see a woman alone at an Adult movie store ? Posted: 2/12/2009 9:31:38 PM
There's this thing called the internet. It's extremely convenient and saves the trip of going to a sex store. In fact...you're on it right now! Why go to a sex for for a dvd of porn when you can watch it at home for free. The only time I ever walk into a sex store is to replace my vibrator.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 34 (view)

Lactation for Recreation Posted: 2/12/2009 9:30:16 PM
It appears Freud was right about something when it comes to those that enjoy that...except they act on it.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 92 (view)

Cum placement Posted: 2/12/2009 9:33:39 AM
SSFOX I would never want to sleep with you. Just thought you should know.

plaidpink

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Msg: 85 (view)

Spending the night Posted: 2/11/2009 11:34:35 AM
I wouldn't spend the night nor would I want to spend the night with someone if I hadn't slept with that person yet. There also needs to be enough time that you're dating before you stay over I think.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

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do bigger women orgasm more than skinny women Posted: 2/11/2009 11:33:08 AM
Personally I've lost forty pounds and I have a lot more orgasms now that I'm thinner than when I was bigger. But then again, I've never really been insecure about my body in bed either which perhaps some women who are thinner feel oddly enough. But I figure, if the guy wants to sleep with me, he probably likes my body as well.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 39 (view)

States of undress Posted: 2/11/2009 10:06:13 AM
I used to wear men's dress shirts with underwear all the time, but now I've lost the shirt and need to go and get a new one :( That usually stayed the same though when I was in a relationship. He found it actually pretty hot. But now it's either just naked or my pink flannel pjs when it's cold. That doesn't really change either, and usually warrants the "You're so freakin' adorable" reaction.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 105 (view)

Why would a guy turn down a fuck buddy? Posted: 2/11/2009 10:01:07 AM
This guy sounds like an insecure douche bag. I'm sorry, but if you didn't intend on having sex with me again then why would you ask me if you 'pleased' me? I wouldn't be very pleased with that question if he wasn't interested in anything more. Although for a lot of guys, the chase seems to be more fun than the end goal. So my guess is that you may have given it up to fast and now that he feels like he can get it whenever he wants, he doesn't really care to have sex with you again. Even if it was good.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 45 (view)

Eye Contact During Posted: 2/11/2009 9:55:25 AM
It seems to be different with anyone. Sometimes eye contact can be uncomfortable during oral if he's giving you the wierd creeper eyes. For the most part I seem to keep them closed. During sex though, I couldn't imagine it without eye contact. It makes it so much more intimate.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 64 (view)

turning women down for sex Posted: 2/8/2009 6:31:39 PM
I more or less have a problem when the previews are nothing like the movie. I'm sorry, but if I start out in a relationship with a very fulfilling sex life, then it should stay that way. If a guy consistently turns me down, then I'm not going to stick around for very long and I'll find someone who will fulfill my needs. Why would anyone want to turn down sex? I don't care how tired I am...if it's 4am or noon. I'm ready to go.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

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I don't think anyone has enjoyed the 69 position since 1969. Posted: 2/7/2009 12:14:21 PM
It can be a little bit overrated. When I'm receiving, I don't want to have to concentrate on giving. I just like to lay back and enjoy.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 85 (view)

how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman? Posted: 2/7/2009 12:06:42 PM
Well OP, I have to say that I don't think you should try to stop it. Why would you want to? It's something natural. Sure, you're taking it slow, but it's okay for you to be turned on by her. I've almost always taken it slow when I've first started seeing someone and if I feel his little "pop up and say hello" it doesn't really make me think that he's pushing to take it further. Just think about it like this...if you're turned on by her, she's probably just as turned on by you. Except you don't know that she's that turned on because she doesn't get an erection. So seriously, I wouldn't worry about it. If I were her, I'd take it as a compliment.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

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To Tell Or Not ToTell...? Posted: 2/3/2009 5:32:26 PM
It's definitely not okay. If these girls expect honesty from you, then you have every right to expect the same in return.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 308 (view)

I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair. Posted: 2/3/2009 5:28:47 PM
OP, I understand your point about your ex, but to have a negative attitude toward "American" women. That's unfortunate, because not every female in North America is like that. However, shaving your pubes sounds like a reasonable enough request. But if you wont't shave your pubes, then you can't expect a girl to do it for you. If you can let it run wild, she should be able to as well. That goes along with hair legs and hairy arm pits. If you find it so emasculating, then maybe you should at least trim. At least if you expect oral sex, because I definitely wouldn't go down there. I don't know about everyone else, but I don't like going down their only to come back up feeling like I've just flossed.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 90 (view)

The shower thing - overrated or not? Posted: 2/3/2009 5:22:45 PM
If the guy can get enough grip on the bathtub, it feels amazing when he just lifts you up and pushes you against the wall. ow ow!

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 44 (view)

What is it exactly about pulling hair?? Posted: 2/3/2009 5:21:44 PM
I guess it's partly because it almost intensifies the moment. Having my hair pulled just brings out this crazy primal instinct. Don't get my wrong...I don't want my hair yanked hard or anything. But when that person runs his fingers through my hair and just grabs it, it feels amazing.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 1010 (view)

oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 2/3/2009 5:11:05 PM
I did it once and it was horrible. I will never do it again.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

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Tag Team Posted: 2/2/2009 6:14:25 PM
I haven't really met any guys that have been interested in that. However the 2 girls, 1 guy thing has always been pretty popular from the guys I know.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 29 (view)

Losing your virginity. Good,bad or funny Posted: 2/2/2009 1:53:46 AM
Bad. For the most part. I was 17, he was 20. I snuck out of my house at 1am and we did it in the back of his Volkswagon in the bowling ally parking lot. I pretty much just laid there because I didn't know what to do and wanted him to hurry up and finish. But after all of that it was alright. He bought be McDonald's breakfast, and I snuck back into my house at 4am.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

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im losing interest.... Posted: 2/2/2009 1:45:20 AM
I know what you mean OP. But I think it's probably because it's been so long that you forget what it's like. Once you start again that desire will probably come back. Once you pop you can't stop. ;)

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 21 (view)

How do i cross the sales man to asking a customer (woman) out? Posted: 1/30/2009 11:28:23 PM
LMAO Hermit... I guess I was kind of asking for that. haha.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 17 (view)

How do i cross the sales man to asking a customer (woman) out? Posted: 1/30/2009 4:12:20 PM
Work is a bit difficult. I would be concerned about a possible complaint about sexual harrassment. I'm not saying don't go for it. I just suggest you tread carefully. A guy that I worked with got fired for asking a customer out because it made her feel uncomfortable.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 20 (view)

too interested Posted: 1/30/2009 4:10:24 PM
Tell her exactly that. You don't want anything but friendship. I hate it when guys beat around the bush....

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

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Freind zone regrets Posted: 1/25/2009 10:48:54 PM
Definitely have. But at the same time, you can never have too many friends. ;)

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 18 (view)

Can a girl tell if a guy is not experienced ? Posted: 1/25/2009 10:47:45 PM
You can generally tell when a guy A)Doesn't know what or where your G-spot is B)Can't find the right hole C)Doesn't know where your clitorous is D)Only seems to know the missionary position. But either way, if you're bad in bed, then you're bad.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 18 (view)

Are guys simply becoming more needy? Posted: 1/25/2009 10:43:35 PM
I completely agree with you. I've had this guy I was seeing who just didn't know how to give me space. I needed this past week to get caught up in school work, go to meetings for clubs I was involved in and catch up with friends and he just didn't seem to get it. He was texting me every single day, and eventually said that we "needed to talk" because he thought I was 'avoiding' him. It seems like there's something wrong with me having a life outside of the dating world. Some guys just don't seem to understand that I have other things going on as well. I mean, isn't that an attractive quality? Having a life that doesn't revolve around one person all the time? It's been a problem with a few guys. I mean, hanging out maybe once or twice a week is cool, but it seems like some guys want to be with you for every single moment of every single day. It's annoying. :S

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

You can go talk to her... Posted: 1/25/2009 10:32:28 PM
Perhaps she's testing you to see if you'll take her up on the offer? and then when you do she'll act all angry? Some people I know play mind games like that. It's sick, but that's all I can think of.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

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The honesty is too much! Posted: 1/25/2009 10:31:01 PM
It would be way too much for me to handle. But, what I would suggest is seeking out groups/forums online of people who share this same kind of fetish and use it as an opportunity to figure out how they deal with romantic relationships.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

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Can a guy approach a girl? Posted: 1/22/2009 12:22:41 PM
Well you're on POF aren't you? That's a start.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

Ladies; a question about money.......... Posted: 1/22/2009 8:40:33 AM
Well let me first start off by saying that finding out a guy's income makes absolutely no difference to me. Actually, when a guy came up to me at a club the other night and told me about his five hundred dollar shirt, my reaction wasn't. "Wow, he must have a lot of money. I should get with him." My reaction was "Why the hell did you spend five hundred dollars on some shirt when you could have bought a similar looking one for about 20 dollars somewhere else?" I feel like a lot of times, a guy has to tell me he makes all this money to impress me. But it doesn't change anything. I look at him with the "Why the hell do I care that you have money? because it's not mine." look. There isn't much more of a turn off for me than when a guy is so insecure he has to tell me about his income to have a date. Those are the guys I usually avoid. OP, if you think it makes that much of a difference then it seems like you're dating the wrong women.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 18 (view)

ability to drive? Posted: 1/20/2009 8:09:19 PM
It hasn't ever really been a problem for me. I guess that's what public transit is for. :)

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

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I don't get this ladies Posted: 1/20/2009 7:56:42 PM
At the same time drunk girls will do almost anything. haha.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

if u meet a girl and Posted: 1/18/2009 9:34:37 PM
I think she's looking for an excuse to get out of the relationship she's in.

plaidpink

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Why!! can't a women ask a man Posted: 1/18/2009 9:33:40 PM
Let me first start off by saying that I've never been in a relationship that started off as me being the person who pursued the guy. And you know why? Because it doesn't work! At least in my experience anyway. I mean, a guy can tell me he likes a woman to takes initiative all he likes, but when it comes down to it, it's the thrill of the chase, and I like being chased.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 11 (view)

Starting conversation. Posted: 1/5/2009 11:59:01 PM
I like it when a guy starts off making sure I know that he's read my profile. I have a lot of my interests listed there, so if a guy says something such as. "That's really cool that you're into rock climbing? How long have you been doing it?" I'm so used to getting generic messages that are just copied and pasted, that when a guy really takes the time to send me a unique message, I can't help but send one back. I hope that helps. That's at least from my perspective.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

Double standards or just different? Posted: 1/5/2009 11:52:16 PM
Personally, when I see those pictures, it seems like a way of that person tell me that they're just out for a quick lay. Because when i see a guy posing topless, what he's telling me is that he wants me to look at his body, not his personality, whether that was intended or not. So when it comes down to it. If you're looking for friends or something more, keep your clothes on so I don't get the wrong idea.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

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Need some womanly help!!! Posted: 1/5/2009 8:43:54 PM
This is one of the moments in life where you have to look at the signs and realize that She's just not that into you. Because believe me 5'8 isn't too short. It's just an excuse as to why she can't date you.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

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Can I get a quick check plz? Posted: 1/4/2009 3:38:14 PM
lol. I have to agree. Definitely lose the "Who's your daddy?" picture.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

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Men who have ladies paying for dates Posted: 1/4/2009 1:58:48 PM
I'm going to assume he's a freeloader. I don't mind paying for things once in awhile, but I'm not about to let a guy mooch off me. If he can't grow a pair and pay for things himself, he's not worth my time.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

Msg: 20 (view)

girls and privacy Posted: 1/4/2009 1:55:47 PM
I think you just need to respect her privacy. At the same time though, she needs to separate herself from the technology world and acknowledge you're there when you spend time together.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

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MUST ASk. read please Posted: 1/4/2009 1:27:45 PM
Alright, here is a quick response to your questions 1) Many of us want what we can't have. If something seems unattainable, we want to see if we can attain it 2)Missy has a point. You're only nineteen. Chill out. From this particular question, you sound a bit desperate, and to women. At least most women, desperate is not cute. 3)Girls assume guys just want to f*** them, because let's face it: the majority of them do. When you take the time to show that you want to take things slow, and that you have genuine respect for a girl, that's when you'll get a good catch. Other than that, that's all the dating advice I have for today.

plaidpink

Joined: 12/5/2008

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what are the green lights from msging to coffee? Posted: 12/25/2008 9:18:36 PM
For me, it's a total turn off when a guy wants to meet too quick. Especially when someone IM's me and then five minutes later he wants to meet for a coffee. Personally, I prefer getting to know someone better through msn, seeing if I'm interested or may be interested and then if so I go and meet that person. But quite honestly, I'm busy and am not about to waste my time going to meet someone I barely know at Starbucks, and taking the small chance that there could be chemistry. I usually gather more from talking on msn for a bit and possibly on the phone before meeting. If you can't keep me interested there, how are you going to keep me interested when we go out for a coffee?

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