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vixen07

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I am not a senior! Posted: 5/18/2009 10:24:26 AM
I think now this particular age has a new name, called Cougars. No we are not seniors YET ....LOL

vixen07

Joined: 12/6/2008

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Follow up to What makes people respond or not to a message? Posted: 5/3/2009 9:17:50 AM
I have probably gotten several emails myself and I didnt respond due to having to work, helping out my son in a situation, alot of things in my life that needed my attention I had to deal with, I been off here for over a month....so take it how ever you want to take it. Some of us just has to break away and deal with life outside of the PC.

vixen07

Joined: 12/6/2008

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Blue Balls... Posted: 2/24/2009 3:36:57 PM
hhhmm...power/control issues???? I think I would be some what weary of that. You could turn the table, just to see how she would deal with being on the flip side. OK I JUST READ THE PROFILE! Looks like you put yourself out there for that sort of stuff

vixen07

Joined: 12/6/2008

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2 yrs not 1 message and every sent message unread deleted Posted: 2/21/2009 2:28:36 PM
I agree (((Ally063))) It is kind of funny....I read of a woman who took an interest and did alittle research on this subject. She happen to run right into one and because she knew how to handle herself she was spared her life ((((true story))))). Im sure some one who knew her thought her to be a strange one for her interest at the time!

vixen07

Joined: 12/6/2008

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How to keep the perfume smell on you? Posted: 2/21/2009 2:19:43 PM
try putting a little vaseline where you want the scent to last the helps it from evaporating so fast

vixen07

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2 yrs not 1 message and every sent message unread deleted Posted: 2/21/2009 12:21:24 PM
So your interested in serial killers, huh? Ever think about going to school for forensics or be in that line of work, that might look better in that light you know. Take criminology something like that.

vixen07

Joined: 12/6/2008

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What does it take for a man to suck in bed? Posted: 2/21/2009 7:09:44 AM
Its flustering when a man dont realize that women does not function sex wise like they do, that infact women need the foreplay on the most part and it takes a few minutes to get the motor in them running up to the right level. A man that dont take the time to understand this about women, then they are undeserving of any time for them. Esp. when they get offended when trying to communicate with him, just give back to him what he gives get him all hot and bothered and .....uuummm well im done now roll over to sleep

vixen07

Joined: 12/6/2008

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Deleting Account Posted: 2/20/2009 2:28:31 PM
No matter where ya go there will be weirdos, and gamers, paid or non paid. Good Luck to ya any ways

vixen07

Joined: 12/6/2008

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women who need space Posted: 2/6/2009 8:33:56 AM
Give her that space....while that is in motion you work on your self, yes you will push her away if you persist on trying to make things go your way and on your time schedule, that is selfish. life does not work that way, the results are never good. start making positive results in your life like landing a job get it going in a good direction this might do her alot of good to see this and draw her to you....use the positive stuff and loose that negitive. quit trying to project (lookin ahead what the future will be) stay in the NOW, and do the next right thing in front of you to bring on positive results...(look at you).

vixen07

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Q&A: When is it OK to be friends with an ex? Posted: 1/30/2009 4:45:27 PM
When is it ok to be friends with your ex????? When there is respect, and no expectations of each other.

vixen07

Joined: 12/6/2008

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Advice on hurting someone you care about. Posted: 1/29/2009 4:52:47 PM
YES INDEED.....((((forumnerd))))) she does know exactly what she is doing to him.

vixen07

Joined: 12/6/2008

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Advice on hurting someone you care about. Posted: 1/29/2009 3:19:41 PM
Casheyedblond.....made a very good post Ever consider that not allowing her to go ahead and fall apart, to hit the bottom, that you might be hindering any kind of recovery for her self. might be a good idea to step out of the way let her fall, throw a hissy, or what ever she attempt she has to minipulate, or control you. Let her set with her miserable self, let her know you dont have to be miserable and wont be any more, then if she wants to try the suicide thing again call 911, give her that attention....all in the right ways that she doesnt want of course. she might have to fall hard to get to come up out of that rut shes in, and baby dont cushon the fall either. sounds mean???? try tough love may sound cold but she isnt the only woman thats been violated there are 100s up on 100s of women that has, even survived child molestations really bad stuff sadly...and actually have happy healthy relationships. dont feel guilty on her account ....YOU didnt do this to her, and why are you having to pay the price for it. The only thing you might even should feel some guilt about is the neglect and abuse you have put your self threw. wish you all the best....wish you good luck

vixen07

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Advice (Repost because posted originally in wrong place) Posted: 1/29/2009 12:08:58 PM
She does need help and if she refuses after all this time she probably wont, That is truly selfish in the extreme to expect you to just do with out a natural desire, and to be made to feel guilty over it. Of course you want a natural normal relationship! But I hate to say it I dont think you will ever have it with her. And as far as her trying to take her own life you are in the positision to put her in a place for her to get help screaming and kicking every step of the way if it needs be. If you dont do something you will look back on you life and resent it, if you havent started to already. She isnt the only person that this is happened to she should get help, sadly there are 100s of women that has had to get threw this and live a happy married life. As far as you feeling guilty well...DONT really I have never seen a guy stick it out as far as you have with this myself you must have ALOT of patients and a stretched tolerance. Tough love dont just apply to raising children.

vixen07

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Harassed too many times... Posted: 1/29/2009 7:22:33 AM
Can you not block those harassing you? We all have the weirdos to weed out. I have never been threatened on here, myself. That should be reported.

vixen07

Joined: 12/6/2008

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Bush's Legacy Posted: 1/29/2009 5:56:06 AM
[The only reason the public turned around after the attack is because Americans had yet to figure out how to support our wonderful and heroic troups while concurrently protesting against a wrongly acting administraton and Congress.] THANK YOU FOR THAT STATEMENT.....CNCGRANDOLF (((((Cotter)))) I agree ......... [His presidency was a failure and he left a trail of destruction behind that was unprecedented in the history of our country. For THAT ... he will be remembered until the end of time.]

vixen07

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Tell me if this isn't ridiculous Posted: 1/27/2009 9:00:24 AM
Yeas same thing happen to me........sort of....he was on (((((MY PC))))) and i ran into where he had been.....I discovered, He lied about all kinds of stuff too....and made his self look and sound soooo true blue,,,jjjeese made me sick best you move on, he is being a baby about being caught just like the person i ran into on here exactly. this one is a player and an idiot! be glad you found out early jjjeeeseee i just saw how old this thread was tooo

vixen07

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93-year-old freezes Posted: 1/27/2009 7:07:13 AM
This is a sad situation that should not happen......... this thread needs to be put together with this one and vise- versa ....... http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts11693419.aspx

vixen07

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Truly outrageous Posted: 1/27/2009 6:18:24 AM
You are right on the point ((((((simplyme1960))))))) No it would not hurt the electric co to lighten up..........Just like it would not have killed the gas co here to lighten up. I have a friend out of town just had a threat from electric co to pay up on his bill yesterday or else would have been shut off today, here he is disabled pace maker uses oxygen (need electric for that to run). he borrowed the money, before this ice storm hit here. no its not the common workers fault of these places, it does go over their heads.

vixen07

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Truly outrageous Posted: 1/27/2009 5:27:56 AM
Let me tell ya...this does make my blood boil also and yea I think they should be a law against it you bet ya!!!! and I am sure in some places there is....but not here where I am at, I happen to be living with a 10 star veteran, who was a retired federal person, helping him out. The winter came up on us...and it was very cold the gas ran out on us it was the end of the month as I had my own room there was one kerosine heater I bunked with him to keep us warm that night. I had already called they wouldnt bring it out knowing he had income first of the month which was almost a week and a half away, I nearly begged but saw no use the dirty B_strds, (I thought to my self) ....well the next day I borrowed 200$ called them up to have it brought out.......(had to be a certain amount too) the voice over the phone came back... and you do have cash right.......yea yea yea i got your cash.... to this day my blood boils over that. criminal charges ..........HELL YES!!!!! there should be, we are talking about DISASBLED PEOPLE HERE on a fixed income! He would have done with out any heat otherwise, completely. This was a few years back, and as far as I know the rules are still the same on the gas...I just will never under stand, how they can get away with it leave some one to freeze. One day they will have the same mercy upon them, that they have shown to others, perhaps.

vixen07

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ughh messed up a great thing... Posted: 1/27/2009 4:39:52 AM
That is a wise move ....(to be willing to wait and learn) good for you. 22 years young you are same age my son is (1 of them). ((((seekngnsd)))) good post. The 19 year old sounds a bit to flighty right now, I think it might be better to just focus on you right now. If it is ment to be it will be....if there is anything real in her for you I dont think she would be out there some where else not answering your call. (I dont think you messed up anything here) . If she does call you again, make sure she is sincere, and NOT been drinking or wanting you to bail herself out of a mess she put herself into only to leave later on after something like that....unless she is in a dangerous situation something like that is alittle different....Im just saying dont put your self out there to be used. Who knows, what the future will bring, perhaps one day when she grows some more in life, and you will too.....then maybe perhaps. Hang in there Baby PS I can see you do have some smarts to ya, and thats a great thing, now just keep building on them!

vixen07

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Apparently he likes me but he disappears every time he sees me...? Posted: 1/26/2009 6:05:33 AM
I remember When I was a young kid at school they where these 2 teachers at the time they where young probably late 20s perhaps, they taught 5th , 6th grade. boundries where never crossed in front or our eyes......when they would meet up out on the side walk and such, how they exchanged their looks to one another and the warm smiles that where exchanged. upon the end of the day they would walk to their cars they would exchange words as he would shut her car door for her........well they got married the following year and are to this day, I was in 5th grade at around that time myself. Maybe you should take him aside, and talk to him really, I figure he must be shy or maybe send him a note......(check) YES OR NO That was a good one on the note (((((navigator6))))))) I didnt realize you had already said that one LOL

vixen07

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I'm not ugly am I? Posted: 1/26/2009 5:48:19 AM
NO YOU ARE NOT UGLY!!!!! Im sure like the other posters the (separated) status ....may very well be slowing things up for you.

vixen07

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Bush's Legacy Posted: 1/25/2009 2:40:24 PM
[I believe that much of the unreasonable hatred directed towards Mr. Bush is because many people feel they have lost control of their own lives and need a scapegoat. As time goes on, there will be other scapegoats, and the legacy of Mr. Bush will be viewed in more objective terms.] Im sure that would be a comforting thought to the families who has lost their loved ones.

vixen07

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What kid habits will you never outgrow? Posted: 1/25/2009 11:39:46 AM
putting my feet up off the floor on to the couch while watching a horror movie, I love the oreo thing too, but had to cut out the sugar now pretty much!

vixen07

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Bush's Legacy Posted: 1/25/2009 10:58:22 AM
NO BUSH BASHING huh???? I say what ever the h_ll I want to on a public forum, He is responsible for a lot of blood shed, My son has had 2 trips to this BS war in IRAQ, where he saw 2 of his closes buddies blown up and almost his self too. too many peoples victimized by him. After living in H_LL with the worry of my son coming home dead or alive that is my right! You dont like it ....dont post a thread on a PUBLIC WEB SITE Good points SEPIA777 AND MR RATIONAL There is just toooo many people Bush has made their lives a true living H_LL.

vixen07

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Finding The one! Posted: 1/25/2009 7:21:32 AM
I have to agree with MSG2 Have you read any of the forums here in the U.S.????????? You could find your self in the same situation here too. Good luck to ya, what ever you decide!

vixen07

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How a Broken Heart affects the rest of your lifestyle Posted: 1/25/2009 5:43:09 AM
So sorry you have to go threw such pain, My son has just recently going threw literally having his heart torn out, its been painful for me too as I am here for him walkin him threw the mess. There is no magic words as I tell him Just TIME, AND TIME WILL HEAL. Baby you will become stronger, it is just too soon for you to look into what other relationships will be like in the future, threw the eyes of your pain and adjustment. threw this motivating for fear to be turned into faith. In life I have learned that what we fear, has away of coming up on us, for it is the opposite of faith! a day at a time is good....but sometimes you may have to take it an hour at a time, sometimes you find yourself ok then it will come in blows ...yea baby it is hard. But you are young very attractive ....educated a plus! You have alot of good going for you! Just look at what you do have......take it from there I wish you the best.....

vixen07

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Bush's Legacy Posted: 1/25/2009 3:59:59 AM
And not only did he have 2 shoes thrown at him......I was watching TV where he was giving some sort of speech out on the White House lawn and a bird flew over him and crapped on him. Makes ya really wonder!

vixen07

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Man given Death Penalty in China. Posted: 1/24/2009 5:28:54 AM
I myself do have mix feelings about the death sentence, the penalty should be harsh especially if it was deliberate, done out of greed to make money or what ever. But dont this country have any of their govt. workers watching over what gets put out on their market to prevent this kind of crap from happening. We do here in U.S......Its called U.S.D.A. workers. and the use of H.A.C.C.P. (hazard analysis critical control points) a method use to prevent this mess. I believe the country's govt. is at fault for their neglect of not monitoring the foods and such going out into their market. They need to take responsibility too. As long as they just kill these guys, and not look at themselves to prevent it from happening again EVER.....set up some kind of educated government monitoring, something will happen again and it may not be deliberate, could be just out of sheer ignorance. Something will sure enough happen again later down the road.

vixen07

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Would you give back an engagement ring if the relationship fails? Posted: 1/23/2009 7:18:09 AM
either way I would rather just hand it back over my self....but thats me.... I do agree totally with MSG2....that is the rightful and proper way.

vixen07

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Found out my partner is secretly bisexual!! Devastated!! Posted: 1/22/2009 2:41:44 PM
HE POSTED TIMES HE WOULD BE AVAILABLE...........How much more info do you need. Dont kid yourself here! You caught him! Now you got to ACCEPT THE TRUTH IN FRONT OF YOU.

vixen07

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What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You? Posted: 1/22/2009 1:42:32 PM
OHHHH!!!! THAT IS SO RUDE!! I wouldnt date someone like that myself, I would have to tell that person....and yes I dated persons with better smarts and manners, I prefer that any ways, and got up and walked out and left him there on the spot.

vixen07

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Man given Death Penalty in China. Posted: 1/22/2009 7:02:51 AM
When I think of a death sentence....We all live under a death sentence and walk on death row, from the very moment we draw our first breath. Including the ones doing the executions. I think the death sentence (man killing another man) is an evil act, but what happened to those hurt by this was evil too. Is there an executioner who is qualified to kill these guys, someone who has never did anything wrong, never made a mistake, who is not living under the death sentence we all live under our selves.

vixen07

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Playing dangerous games of jealousy Posted: 1/20/2009 5:38:32 AM
You got some great advice on here so far...I do agree with SPOKEN FOR also, sounds like she really needs to GROW UP. And best you not bend to the games, unless you enjoy mental anguish. confront her on the spot, wash your hands of it, if it dont stop.....I really dont think it will. sounds like she is one of those who is hooked on drama, and stirring crap up. And as far as you need to be more controlling ......YEA THAT IS A RED FLAG, Might ought to think about finding a (WOMAN) and loose the twit. With the way she has displayed her self you will find that you can not trust her. Wish you all the best! and good luck!

vixen07

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41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this! Posted: 1/19/2009 10:03:19 AM
Im with you on that statement ((MissKittyValentine) But when I read in their contact limits that they will allow a 18-45 year old woman message them, but the man is late 40s and into their late 50s, I am completely uninterested, and sometimes even disgusted. And what the usual come back on that is....an accusation of jealousy, when in fact its an out right turn of the stomach TURN OFF. Of course thats just what I prefer, to just pass on by.

vixen07

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Asking a guy if he finds you attractive Posted: 1/18/2009 11:45:09 AM
I agree with msg#2 I never ask such a thing as am I attractive.......Im told pretty often. I dont have to be told this to feel better either. check your self esteam sounds rather LOW, and you and only you can fix that.

vixen07

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He's separated/getting divorced Posted: 1/18/2009 11:04:46 AM
I have to agree on the (((((((REBOUND)))))) statement. I dont usually like to get to close or too involved with separated or freshly divorced man because they are adjusting and going threw a battery of feelings and healing up, and they can be confused on there feelings its foolish to expect any different no matter what the situation is of their split up if she was the one to cheat still dont make it better. most of the time they just (((( lookin for a soft place to fall))))))(that is a song by allison morer) I know I am not so fantastic that I can make him forget the wife he had or years of being married to some one, in an instant. Ive learned the best thing for me to do is be a friend, with NO expectations, for self preservation other than that I would be a glutten for punishment. And this statement from MSG15......reality he will be very reluctant to settle down with the first woman who is willing.

vixen07

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so confused..advice needed Posted: 1/18/2009 9:33:28 AM
taken it slow is a wise thing if that is what he is doing.....keep your head clear and if there is wrong motives on his part there will be red flags. There is usually signs, as long as the mind dont take you in denial of them. Its only been a month realistically it isnt time to jump in with both feet. anything real takes time to grow and cultivate! Anything fast then watch out!!! sight is always clearer when the dust of attraction settles down, then see what you got.

vixen07

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41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this! Posted: 1/18/2009 8:01:10 AM
It is odd to me too, In no way could I ever be interested in a guy that young, my sons are that age, one of his buddies flirted on me LOL Thanks but no thanks. I can still smell the baby formula on the breath. I figure its a challenge to a young one to have some one who might show them something they never experienced pretty much only thing I can figure on it any way.

vixen07

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Why do i always get fucked around Posted: 1/14/2009 10:30:04 AM
TRUE CDN ICEMAN You cant demand respect if you dont respect your self, the showing of respect does begin with self and not just others.

vixen07

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The key to a good relationship Posted: 1/14/2009 9:25:16 AM
TRUST AND RESPECT ARE THE (2) KEYS IN A RELATIONSHIP every thing fallows suit on these 2 keys including honest and communications, THE FOUNDATION IT GROWS UPON IS FRIENDSHIP FIRST, FOR SOLIDNESS

vixen07

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Why do i always get fucked around Posted: 1/14/2009 4:55:17 AM
In order to have respect......this is my experience with it anyways, #1....you got to show it....then #2...you got to DEMAND IT set your bounderies, to a respectable level and if a guy cant appreciate that ...then tell him get lost. have zero tolerance of this BS. I rather be lonely myself than to put up with a jerk.

vixen07

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pleaseeee help Posted: 1/11/2009 11:58:34 AM
I would wonder about him being CONFUSED AND DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO DO! If he was confused about it and not knowing what to do.....I think I wouldnt want that. I WOULDNT WANT IT UNDER THEM TERMS. That dont seem right at all. If it is real it isnt confusion or wonderment, IT IS ABSOLUTE KNOWINGNESS good grief

vixen07

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pleaseeee help Posted: 1/7/2009 1:38:48 PM
He did cheat once......NOW you say he is seeing another and talking to another on this site. For goodness sakes WAKE UP. Looks like he is trying to brush you off . Or string you along while he is shopping for another, and he has distant him self to you too, it looks like. HERES YOUR SIGN!! Get away from it, would probably be a great idea.

vixen07

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You know you should end it but .......... Posted: 1/6/2009 1:16:20 PM
Keep it simple if its ment to be it will be!!!!! mean while focus on something else awhile. let it come to YOU.

vixen07

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She cheated, and I left. Posted: 1/6/2009 1:07:17 PM
Good for you....You sure dont need that mess. Truthfully though I dont think she will pay for the damages up on your stuff. I would take her to court make sure she does pay. Im glad for you that you dont care and probably felt a since of relief when she left, thats got to feel better than having your heart ripped out and stomped. Look ahead better things will come, cant find Ms right hanging on to Ms wrong!

vixen07

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She's smothering me Posted: 1/6/2009 12:41:33 PM
I agree with spokenfor......I too would have told her to GROW UP By now myself. For get the ice cream and cheese cake.....If it continues Id just sit a babies bottle, or passafier in front of her and walk away....really ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. Some times we have to do tough love on friends too. Sometimes being too kind is the worst thing we can do.

vixen07

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Looking For true love. Posted: 1/6/2009 5:48:39 AM
HE HE EEEHH ....??? What in the world is a PINCH CHICK??

vixen07

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Just Not Caring... Posted: 1/4/2009 3:58:24 PM
HUGGIE BEAR I got to ask you a question....I just looked at your profile, I noticed one of your pics and what you are wearing.......are you in the service? If your are or was this might have something to do with it perhaps. It will change a person My son had 2 trips to Iraq he is different too

vixen07

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People on this dating site far too long :help: Posted: 1/4/2009 2:05:52 PM
My self Im just pretty laid back. I dont come here With such high expectations, I meet friends that I do enjoy talking to. myself, I'm not going to rush into anything nor am I going to beat the bushes in a mad search either...for get that mess. To me nothing real just happens instantly or all at once. There are those that pair up end up with each other and do great but still come back in NOT TO LOOK but to check out the forums see how others are doing due to the friendships they have developed here.

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