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Joined: 11/27/2005

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Grief vs. Depression Posted: 6/26/2006 3:28:51 PM
One of the side-effects to losing a loved one that was very surprising to me is how it makes you question life. Bizarre. about this last comment jena. i have lost a few loved ones very near and dear to me, and the worst part about it was they were all within a 3 year span. but that was a few years ago now. and yes life does go on, and it will be different cause now that something as drastic as that can make you look at life alot differently. and it might be that reason why i am in the process of being tested to become a living liver donor to my step father. who is also knocking on deaths door, but i will ay this much it made me cheriseh the ones that i love and i will do asoultly anything for any one of my friends or familly. so going through a drastic experiance has changed the way i look at life but i think in the end it is for the better

Joined: 11/27/2005

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Pregnant= Bitchiness,,,how do you tell them?? Posted: 6/26/2006 8:15:50 AM
i would say that the couiple of times i have had to tell someone that there were going a little over board i would give it a day or two so that i wouldnt be holding a grudge..cause lets face it when you are trying to talk to someone it is better to be calm and collected cause the tone of someones voice says more then the words coming out of there mouth sometimes.. but i would take them out for a coffe or a drive and just start talking. the problem is that there is no real nice way to tell them that they were a complete ***** the other night but there are ways that you can tell them with out it seeming so bad and i have found that is usually does work for me

Joined: 11/27/2005

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It's not you It's me! Posted: 6/26/2006 7:58:28 AM
on what you have said i have used that with 2 relationships. but when i said it i was telling the truth. becuase i was scared of letting somone get to close to me at the time cause of something drastic that happend in my life a few years ago.. ie i had someone very close to me taken away and i turtle shelled for probably about 5 years.. everytime someone would try to get close to me i ran, or i would not say anything to them when they asked me questions especially about my past. and i found that but not answering them hurt them more then telling them a lie would ever... so to make it easier on me and not so hard on them i would break it off with them.... unfortunitly if i would have opened my eyesi would have noticed the one that got away...... so you see sometimes that is true when it is used just depends on the person thats using it but mind you though when i have said it if they wanted closure i gave it to them i would explain what it was about me that was making me end it

Joined: 11/27/2005

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Pregnant= Bitchiness,,,how do you tell them?? Posted: 6/26/2006 7:45:26 AM
i will say a couple of things that i have learned from my family and friends that have been or ar pregnant.... i have learned that while they were in there pregnancy that they can be very prone to mood swings, problem #1 arises cause when you try and let them know they either get very emotional or get even worse. ad even after they give birth they can still be very moody and emotional... i have also noticed that if they were taking there prenatal/post vitimans it does tend to help alot with this.. other then that there isnt anything that you can do with out making them feel like you are offending them....

Joined: 11/27/2005

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What's your favotite quote? Posted: 6/21/2006 7:29:12 PM
i would have to say one of my favorites is.... "it is better to have loved and lost, then to never love at all."

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 6/21/2006 7:11:13 PM
i am not speaking for every guy on here i am speaking for myself.. i have read every profile that i have looked at... an i even sent a stupid message to someone cause i asked them if the had more pets then just the 2 cats, and if i would have looked at the pictures more then read the profile i would have seen that there was a picture of her dog to.... so i would say that i am more guilty of reading the looking at pics..

Joined: 11/27/2005

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WILL RATE YOUR PROFILE Posted: 6/21/2006 7:03:42 PM
let me have it .... i know it needs work

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