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 Author Thread: Giving Good Cunninlingus
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Giving Good Cunninlingus
Posted: 7/22/2009 2:12:31 AM
Alright Tim.

The clitoris is just a small penis for all itents and purposes in this discussion.

Think about it. It gets hard. When it gets hard, you're doing something good, usually. When it gets hard, it also begins to get more sensetive.

Now, I used to think my path to the finish line lay in my ability to somehow start my mouth up like a Huskvarna clit massager or something.

Don't have to. I can't tell you all the tongue exercises I used to do thinking they were necessary. They weren't.

So what do you do with that little penis? What would you do to your own if you could reach it? You'd suck it, right? That's what you do here. Suck the clit in and out of your mouth. Move up and down on it with it being sucked into your mouth. No whirlwind tongue action, just some clit-head.

There is a LOT more to it, but this info can change the whole game for a guy.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 147 (view)
 
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:57:21 PM
Generalizations generalize. Best head of my entire life was also by the most beautiful girl I have received it from as well. Nice combo, that.

Oh, she also gave rim jobs early in a relationship lol.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
First time having sex, anyone ever do something that made you go, WTF!?
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:50:31 PM
Different folks, you know. First time, though. I just wasn't ready lol.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 199 (view)
 
Would you, or have you, ever cyber-sexed?
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:49:00 PM
yes, I suggest doing it with PoFers. They're good at it for some weird reason lol.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 97 (view)
 
The best stimulation for any woman has to be french kissing
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:44:50 PM
Nah, as far as actual "stimulation" as in "let's get this show moving" type "stimulation", the neck is where it's at. That or the vagina. But I'll at least give her a couple of pecks on the neck to show her I am not in a hurry.


^joke, but srsly, the neck
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
ladies.....you wanna know how you can tell if a guys into you or if he's full of shit?
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:42:22 PM
7.) You ask him if he likes you more than just a friend and if he wants a committment and he unhesitatingly says, "Yes."

I'm no expert.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Is having cybersex cheating?
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:17:51 PM
In my opinion it depends on the dynamic of the relationship and whether or not you might have talked about it. If you HAVEN'T talked about it, yes, it is. At least to me.

I believe some 63% of respondants said that it was on a recent MSNBC poll.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 832 (view)
 
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:14:37 PM

Incuubus2113-

Nice that at least you have the balls to admit that you cheated, unlike at least half the women on this thread who have jumped on the defensive.


Not our problem, is it?
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 112 (view)
 
Men that taste test
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:12:50 PM

And guys how do you test? If you do that at all. What do you do if a woman fails it? I'm not talking about horrible smells or you wouldn't need to test, but obviously some failed or you wouldn't do that.


Only test I do is the fly-over. Where you're kissing around her belly area and then lower, you can smell all that needs to be smelled. If something's rotten in Denmark, you turn that plane around and you head back north like you missed her face being down there so long.


WHY do you do that? Is it really a test or to make them feel good about the way they taste?


No idea. I don't do that.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 34 (view)
 
First time having sex, anyone ever do something that made you go, WTF!?
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:09:36 PM

Well, I guess my first WTF moment was with my ex... I'd never been choked before during sex. Needless to say, that was a pretty awkward conversation after!


At least you got to have it! yeesh!
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 829 (view)
 
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:04:21 PM
Also the people who are saying that men cheat more are incorrect. The answer is we do it about the same amount. Or, I should say, in the same percentages. Women, however, tend to be single offenders where as men tend to be repeaters.

Good news, though, from MSNBC:


"Even among couples that have been together for more than 30 years, four-fifths of women and two-thirds of men report being faithful during the entire relationship. "
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 828 (view)
 
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/20/2009 8:46:30 PM
Sorry ladies, but women lie just like men do. There are many, many examples in here not to mention the countless women I have messed around with in my checkered past involved with or married to others.

FACT: cheating is WEAK behavior. It diminishes you as a person in that what you did or do is so repulsive that you cannot even talk about it. What kind of a life is that? If you're looking around for action in a committed relationship, TELL the other person. Do it and THEN look around. Don't hide your existence. It's weak. Plus it's weak to not have the balls to talk about what's going on with you, regardless of how it'll hurt their feelings (my general excuse). Be proud of your life and who you are, otherwise, why do it? I am talking to both sexes as well.

I, myself, have cheated in the past, so I am not speaking from a pulpit. I am not perfect. Thing is, the reason I don't cheat now isn't because "I wanna be a good man," or "I don't want to disrespect her." It's all about me. I don't cheat because I don't want to be a weak person and I couldn't help but see myself as one were I to do that again and b.) It makes me much better at committing in that I will not commit to someone for whom I do not care enough as I have in the past. Basically, I won't "settle" and I certainly will not remain where I am so continuously unhappy that I feel trapped. Certainly didn't make me happy before, I can tell you that.

I have bright hopes for the future and I give props to those who have the fortitude to own up to their own truths.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 34 (view)
 
What If....
Posted: 7/20/2009 7:59:44 PM
I think hardly anything would change. Men and (contrary to popular belief) women like sex! A lot! They like it good, too.

That being said, women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
OMFG I am NOT a love toy!
Posted: 7/20/2009 7:38:42 PM

ok, this was a mistake :S Funny how being honest and truthful comes across to some people as bragging,showing off or whatever. sigh... whatever.

Thank you for some of the real advice I'll keep a look out it is appriciated.


I don't think it's so much they think you're bragging as maybe thinking you're full of it.

Answer, there's no way to tell. Not saying this is 100% rule or anything, but be wary of women directly out of a long term relationship. They'll generally be more promiscuous (certainly not all the time).

Other than that, women who really don't seem to care about who you are as opposed to what you're carrying as a weapon. Basically everything you're NOT doing that gets these girls to attack you.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Three questions that tell me a lot...very quickly...
Posted: 7/20/2009 7:35:02 PM
OP, really dig those questions because I REALLY wanna answer them lol.

Thanks!
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 548 (view)
 
WHY ARE WOMEN OVER 30 A FAILURE WHEN THEY ARE SINGLE AND CHILDLESS?
Posted: 7/20/2009 7:29:32 PM
To the OP, you're not considered a failure to me, you're considered a prime target :)

That being said, me being 33, childless, and unmarried, lots of girls think I am a failure :(
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 41 (view)
 
what do you feel is the most UNATTRACTIVE piercing commonly done today?
Posted: 7/20/2009 7:25:55 PM

I met a lady last year who showed us her new piercings...not that I wanted to see them. Both nipples (of which she pulled out her breasts), and then explained to us that she had her her labia (just above her clitorus) pierced so that she could hook up 2 chains from her nipples through her bottom half so that her husband could pull on them. My God...she was 48 years old!?!?!?!

My daughter (who was 14 at the time) without my permission came home with her tougue pierced. So I read the "how to take care of your piercing" sheet, which distinctly outlined that there is to be NO dairy product consumed for the next 48 hours. I then proceeded to make her favorite pudding, milkshakes and lasagna for dinner. She wasn't feeling very well when I took her to the hospital later that night. Next time...listen to your mother.

The piercing that really drives me nuts is the large earing hoops that are put inside your earlobe. The tongue piercing, such as my daughters have been now removed with no visual damage...however those huge suckers...think of how that is going to look when your 50.

I had my third piercing done when I turned 50. I now have my one ear pierced 2 times. (Whoohoo!) I figured that I would be able to wear the one earring that I lost my mate to years ago. Damn it, as soon as I had it done, I LOST that earring.


Wow, you're a jacked up mom. Too hard to just take it back out, I guess? lol
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Should I give up?
Posted: 7/20/2009 7:22:15 PM

Hi guys, I could do with your insights here, I'm at a loss. Guy messaged me a few days ago, sounded interested. I responded with a similar, chatty tone. I liked his profile and he sounded nice. We have exchanged about 4 messages since. I have been friendly and asked a question about him in each message, leaving the ball in his court. He started out asking me questions at first but now isn't for past couple of emails. He is responding and revealed a bit about himself in the last message, but I feel I'm slipping into doing the work somehow. He seems to be answering my questions rather than showing interest. We haven't really got to the point where we would exchange phone numbers and he hasn't asked. I suddenly feel discouraged. I'm wondering whether to bother responding now or give up. He may think I'm rude, I don't know, but there is no question to respond to. I feel I need him to show interest now. What do you think? I know it's early, but still ...


You need him to express an interest in you. I think that's the important message to take away from this. If he's not expressing enough interest in who you are, it's time to find someone who will. BE attracted, it makes things much easier.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 70 (view)
 
prostate massage
Posted: 7/20/2009 7:16:31 PM


I think that's what manly men don't like about it, it isn't the "gay factor".. They just don't want to lay down and take it like a lady.


just a question, but do you read what you type before you hit "Post"?
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 301 (view)
 
Are women afraid of Attractive guys?
Posted: 7/20/2009 7:11:59 PM
The more responses I read, the more depressed I'm getting. Is it impossible for a good looking guy in the scene anymore?
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 26 (view)
 
The Y chromozone is dissapearing = homosexuality
Posted: 7/20/2009 7:07:55 PM
Nope, up thread posted about it. I swear, you never listen!!!

As far as I know, a woman has to go up to around her elbow or so, then do something with a wrist, then you're cumming/crying and all is good.

Can anyone verify?
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
what do you feel is the most UNATTRACTIVE piercing commonly done today?
Posted: 7/20/2009 7:04:36 PM
Bottom lip piercings.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 138 (view)
 
How many is too many?
Posted: 7/20/2009 7:04:01 PM

That would be me you just called a "a total whore who is complete trash" ......
and I'll take that "label" over the picture you just painted of yourself with that statement.
and thank you for reinforcing my statement for me!!


Suprised to took the time away from being a sexy goddess to respond, myself.

The poster you quoted is 100% douche. From posts about orgasms he'd given to women he then promptly left by giving a wrong phone number to gems such as you've quoted, this guy is gonna be around here for a loooooong time it looks like.

Most girls wouldn't fVc|< this guy with Liz Taylor's pu$$y
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 299 (view)
 
Are women afraid of Attractive guys?
Posted: 7/20/2009 7:00:29 PM
we've all got egos, sister :)

They're just as scared of us as we are of them, guys!!


/runs before the hot girl responds
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
The Y chromozone is dissapearing = homosexuality
Posted: 7/20/2009 6:56:21 PM

As a woman, I'll tell you I hardly find myself concerned when my lover wants anal play. I am all for it. I seriously doubt this makes a man gay, rather that he wants to feel a good.

...butt tickle.

fixed that for ya
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Where did that thought come from??
Posted: 7/20/2009 6:55:15 PM
Thx for the story, made me chuckle.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 71 (view)
 
Women Don't Always Cum
Posted: 7/20/2009 6:52:12 PM
Everyone is a winner if you're both making love. I think a lot of us realize that even if we can't iterate it in the spoken word.

That being said, cumming when you're in love feels even better. Nah, you don't have to, but it sure is nice.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 57 (view)
 
RETURNING THE FAVOR
Posted: 7/20/2009 6:48:34 PM
Sorry, didn't answer your direct question

How do you bring it up that you don't like to give but like to receive? Present it as something you're just not confident in doing, that you're not very good at it. Present options of other things, maybe, that he might enjoy more.

That's the way I'd do it.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 56 (view)
 
RETURNING THE FAVOR
Posted: 7/20/2009 6:47:07 PM

so when it comes to 'returning the favor,' how can you tell someone that you care about that you don't like to give, but love to receive. I know it sounds selfish, but I can't help it, (i've tried)


It's all about how you present it.

Some people just aren't good at doing it. Forcing them to or asking them to, I would guess, is akin to asking me to go on stage and do a Tchaikovsky Ballet. Not good and the response is gonna feel worse.

I used to really stink and going down on women, I still think I kinda do, but I am better now, to an extent (really trolling the ladies now, watch out!)

That being said, with improved performance comes an improved desire. Think of things you can't do. How often do you find yourself doing it? Never, right? It's embarrassing, doesn't make you feel good about yourself, nothing.

Now think of something you KNOW you're good at. Like better than almost anyone you know. How often are you doing that? I would imagine much more often.

So my theory isn't that it comes down to selfishness so much as it comes down to confidence.

Just an opinion.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 45 (view)
 
How can a younger guy, pick up an older women.
Posted: 7/20/2009 6:39:26 PM
Brother, I suggest you learn about the art of pickup first. What women want, what gets them interested in you romantically as opposed to friendshipally (not a word).

After that, seeing as you're of age, head out to a more elderly crowd place. Show that you can mingle with not only the older girls, but the older guys as well. That indicates that perhaps, since you can converse with him, you might have something to share that she might find interesting as well. Basically, taking you out of the "kid" frame.

Around where I live there are also couger spots where older women pick up on dudes exactly like you, young guys with some stamina and little cares. Check around at local bars and you'll hear things.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Acting or overreacting?
Posted: 7/20/2009 6:35:15 PM
Subscription to a website is SO far behind the fact that they haven't committed to each other yet.

They, as well as all couples having casual/non-casual recurrent sex need to discuss things with each other. So many messages get mixed and so many feelings hurt otherwise.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 263 (view)
 
Penis Bulge.
Posted: 7/20/2009 6:32:04 PM
Hello? Hello. Eyes up here, thanks.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 136 (view)
 
How many is too many?
Posted: 7/20/2009 6:27:47 PM

Only a total whore who is complete trash would say something like this. LOL Yes it does matter how many people you've been with because what guy wants to be walking around with some whore who's been with the whole town?? What an embarrassment and a disgrace to the guy. If i'm gonna be with a girl and call her my "lady" she ain't gonna be no dirty ass whore!! LOL


You don't meet my definition of the word "man". You're not one, sorry.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 135 (view)
 
How many is too many?
Posted: 7/20/2009 6:26:19 PM
2.6

How in the hell can you have sex with .6 of a person? It just isn't right, I tell ya!!
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
The Y chromozone is dissapearing = homosexuality
Posted: 7/20/2009 6:23:39 PM

Less and less porcupines are liking humans. It's as plain as day.



Citation needed!
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 261 (view)
 
Penis Bulge.
Posted: 7/20/2009 6:21:46 PM
I really don't know the correlation from bulge/size etc but I know it's a pain. You can sometimes actually see the head of my****through my pant leg. That's not the kind of advert I wanna be showing, ya know? Ladies, think nipples.

The OP is right, usually is much worse in dress pants as opposed to jeans.


The reduction surgery worked wonders and turned my life around. Thank you Dr Shofhausen.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Have condoms gotten skinnier?
Posted: 7/20/2009 6:16:00 PM
Some are smaller than others. I tried a Kimono on my first time back in 1992 or so. I broke it. I was rather worried after that.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 66 (view)
 
prostate massage
Posted: 7/20/2009 6:12:46 PM
I'll admit, I am so unknowing of this, all I have gotten is from that movie Road Trip. I just assume this has to do with a girl getting about as far inside of you without being your soul as she can and then.... I don't know. A button is pushed or something and you go from zero to cumming in no time flat.

Pretty accurate?
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
smack that. . .
Posted: 6/30/2009 10:48:20 AM
Question one: yes
Question two: talk to him
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Explain.Good in Bed
Posted: 6/30/2009 10:41:19 AM
It's subjective, in my opinion. One guy's dream lover can be someone else's snooze fest.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
jumping the gun
Posted: 6/23/2009 11:43:07 PM
I am sure you know the experience of being with your girls, drunk, hugging them, "I LOVE YOU GIRLLLL," even though you really don't love that particular girl.


Kinda like that. But much more emotionally complicit on this guy's part.

Part of him DOES, I think love you. Another part is stopping him. Only my own personal view, other guys' may vary.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
i have a problem keeping them..y?
Posted: 6/23/2009 11:35:27 PM
Some hot guy out there LOVES that. Go out thinking, "I am the best thing that's ever happened to this guy," then proceed to be yourself.

Confidence + honesty = win win
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Do you get turned on reading this forum
Posted: 6/23/2009 11:32:43 PM
Of course. I haven't posted in a while, but talking about sex and things that are arousing is, guess what, arousing!

Not ashamed.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
jumping the gun
Posted: 6/23/2009 11:31:27 PM
Sorry, typed up a reply and it got deleted. I'll re-type.


That's unfortunate. Alcohol often brings out that, "I LOVE YOU," within us. Unfortunately, in our innebriated states, we sometimes do not realize the implications of those statements.

He's close, but he's not there, is my answer to you.

Don't push it. Relax, be yourself. If he likes it, he'll stay. If not, he'll go.

Good luck.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
dating women in the military
Posted: 6/23/2009 11:28:01 PM
I wouldn't make that judgement, honestly, because it's irrelevant to me. It doesn't change the person she is as far as I am concerned.

That's just my opinion.

And yes, I know what you mean by what people might think you might be like.]

Who cares?

You're you.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
i have a problem keeping them..y?
Posted: 6/23/2009 11:25:00 PM
No fricken clue. You need to be interesting, yourself, honest, engaging, funny. All the things, basically, that you're looking for. As far as sex, no sex, is concerned, you're the only person who can make that decision. **** societies rules regarding that, it's your life, be responsible, pick the good ones, and have fun. I wish you luck, eventually you'll hopefully find a guy for you who loves you for exactly who you are.

That's where the magic is.
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
bi-curious
Posted: 6/23/2009 11:18:25 PM

have you talked to your boyfriend about this. he may nor be into sharing... but how does he feel about you experimenting?

He wants me to get it out of my system before we get serious, because he is the old fashioned type.. one girl to one boy kinda thing


Have you thought about what might happen if you really like it and want to do it again?
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
nornal/abnormal
Posted: 6/23/2009 11:14:34 PM
Holy crap did I misread this post. I totally skipped the "attention" part. My sincerest apologies for being a dip-@%#.

No, it is NOT normal. Guy should be into YOU. Make a connection with you. That's where it all comes from.


/facepalm
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
unexplained looseness...
Posted: 6/23/2009 10:49:19 PM

Be careful of men pretending to be women.


..pretending to be men
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
WHEN A DATE TEXTS ME AFTER THE DATE
Posted: 6/23/2009 10:47:45 PM
Throw away comment on the surface, but I don't know your relationship. I mean, if you gave him head, then he could have meant, "You're the best head."

Joking, but really, dunno.
 
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