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sequoyah61

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How do you older women feel about a younger guy in a relationship Posted: 11/17/2009 1:23:44 PM
Have dated and married men 5-6 years younger. There were never any age-related problems. The majority of my female friends are 13-20 years younger. Recently, I dated a man 11 years younger - his choice. Our friends didn't seem to care, but his older brother (who is my age) was, not quite sure how to say this, quite taken aback (and I'm being very nice with my choice of words)! I did run into problems with this one because he has a 16-year old daughter whose opinion, I feared, would not have been a positive one either. Any other problems that surfaced were not related to age. I have since moved him to the "friend" category. Can I help it if I attract younger people? Must be my spirit speaking!! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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What's the upside to being over 50 and single Posted: 11/13/2009 5:40:05 PM
I guess the downside would be that you never mastered finding one who would do those things for you,,, Oh, contraire, Monsieur NewToMichiana, I had the distinct pleasure of finding two who could cook and didn't mind helping with the cleaning either! Lucky me! Now, about that hot water thing........... Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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What are your favourite sayings? Posted: 11/13/2009 5:26:27 PM
I feel a little bit more like I do now than I did when I got here! Handle every stressful situation like a dog: if you can't eat it or play with it, just pee on it and walk away!

sequoyah61

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What's the upside to being over 50 and single Posted: 11/13/2009 4:48:01 PM
OK, I will admit that I haven't read all 7 pages and hope this is not a duplicate: One less egg to fry. One less plate to wash. I never run out of hot water. Muwhahahahahahahahaha! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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Sitting solo on a scary Saturday (Halloween) Posted: 10/31/2009 4:22:37 PM
I didn't buy any candy this year.....had to buy a new battery for my car instead. Boo-hoo! Ah, well, any excuse is better than none, I always say. Have been invited to a couple of parties, but I know the local police will be spying those locations very closely. Late hubby's youngest daughter dropped in not too long ago with her 2-month old baby boy so I could see him in his first ever Halloween costume. He slept through the entire visit, but I took pix anyway. Later, I think I'll retire to the bedroom and turn on the TV in there. After spending Tuesday and Wednesday helping hang sheetrock on the walls and ceiling in an upstairs bedroom that's about 14' x 22', I'm just a little sore. Ah, heck, I am mighty sore! So I definitely need the rest. As for Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's, it's definitely too early to tell. If nothing pops up, I'll be here. Drop in and see me - I'll make popcorn. I may even have a few beers in the frig and I'll be happy to share! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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Just want to be friends Posted: 10/19/2009 3:08:01 PM
Can you spell friend? That's what it appears to me. Sorry if you wanted something else.

sequoyah61

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The Bottom Line Posted: 10/7/2009 7:50:15 AM
Ah, sapphireeyes, thanks for posting that little gem. It's difficult to say how many people I've met in my life who have that "poor little pitiful me" attitude. They don't stay long in my world. Everytime I find myself sitting on my own "pity-pot," I think of all the people who are worse off than me. It's amazing how quickly the tears disappear and I feel my backbone stiffening up to face another day and do it with as much dignity as possible. Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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I'm on the couch ! Posted: 9/29/2009 11:50:30 PM
Ladies - I don't even know what my profile says, I'm not trolling, don't have the time. Alll internet sites are for chiks, oops sorry, for ladies. Ah, c'mon now, stelco....you do too know what your profile says. And, by the way, this internet site was designed by a man, not a "chik." Methinks your attitude is showing. Remember, you asked the question....we're just responding. I totally love it when someone posts and then attacks the respondents. That usually means the poster is looking for approval, not constructive opinions. JMO.

sequoyah61

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I'm on the couch ! Posted: 9/29/2009 11:17:48 PM
I think you both need a wake-up call. Divorce is not all it's cracked up to be. Listen to Rock-Man...he gave you some good advice. Plus, I cannot tell you how many times I've read it here in the forums...for gawd sakes, TALK TO HER! Ask her what you can do. And there must be a reason why she thinks you're fooling around. Sounds like there's a lot missing in the romance department here. I have to ask what ages the children are. Is she allowing them to sleep with her because she doesn't want you in the same bed? If she thinks you've cheated, maybe that's why the children are where YOU should be. You said you haven't cheated YET and that you don't trust yourself. Maybe, just maybe, she's honing in on your thoughts. Maybe you're not attentive enough. Maybe you come home from work and expect dinner on the table, the house all clean and tidy, and the little Mrs. to take care of you.....after taking care of everything else all day long. Maybe, and I'm saying maybe (again), someone should take care of her for a change. I'm not saying this is the case, just making suggestions. Can't do much else given the info provided. However, as a woman, I think she needs some serious attention...from you!

sequoyah61

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It can't hurt, right? Posted: 9/29/2009 9:26:08 AM
Change it back Ra. There are way too many delusional old men here for you to leave that open. If there's someone you want to chat with send him/her the first message. S/he can respond to any message you send and the channel is open that way. Ah, halftimedad, this struck me as being the first negative comment on this post. It sounds to me (notice I said "to me") as if you're harboring a suspicious nature. Sigh! Of course, there are delusional old men as well as delusional young men. And for the sake of gender parity, the same goes for women. Usually it doesn't take long to spot them! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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DARE to be DIFFERENT! Posted: 9/28/2009 5:58:26 PM
I like to visit the hat section in department stores. They are invariably empty. I then start trying on hats, looking at myself in the mirrors and laughing. Soon enough, there are lots more people in that section trying on hats. Try it. I swear it works! I've also tried coughing in a meeting, seminar or movie theater. If no one else coughs immediately, I cough again. Do this until it catches on. Eventually, others will start coughing. That's when I start to giggle. I know, I know, it's a bit evil, but no animal was harmed in the making of this fun! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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For those looking for FRIENDS on POF ~ What is It? Posted: 9/22/2009 2:54:44 PM
Look at it this way: why post a profile on a dating site if you just want friends? makes no sense. Ah, grendal, it makes perfect sense if you honestly don't want a relationship at this particular point in your life. I live in a small community (I mean, VERY small) that has virtually no social venues unless you like to drink all the time. I'd rather spend my spare time on the forums relating to real people than drinking or watching TV. JMO. Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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how long to wait??????? Posted: 9/22/2009 8:33:49 AM
I don't like the situation but at the same time i don't want to be pushy! Could somebody please give me some advice on this? If you're willing to wait, then wait. Just be prepared for this to take a loo-o-o-o-ong time. Only you can say when enough is enough. Enough time waiting, enough of your time wasted. Good luck. Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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ART! Posted: 9/17/2009 11:49:54 AM
I am a novice. I create art because I "must." If I'm not creating something, I begin to wither and feel old. I am sometimes disappointed in the outcome, sometimes pleasantly surprised, and on occasion simply overwhelmed that "i" actually did "that." There are no accolades involved or desired. It is either appreciated or not. That is simply not my reason for participating in it. Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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Older women wanting caves? Posted: 9/17/2009 11:07:17 AM
I find myself of late needing, nay, requiring my “cave,” the place where only I reside with my feelings and thoughts. I seem to have spent too much time around those who are out of balance, at a crossroads, not at peace with themselves. I often seem to (feel) that their imbalance is somehow or somewhat acquired by me as if through osmosis and I begin to feel likewise. This uneasiness / unrest is what drives me to that place, knowing the effect it is having upon me and the “non-desire” to let it happen. I find that I am also quite aware of the changing of seasons. Fall has typically been a time of retrospect and preparation for me. I feel the nearness of Winter, the “hunkering down,” so to speak, for the cold and isolation that are its handmaidens. This preparation involves the centering of myself with me and the ensuing peace that I will need to see myself through to Spring. CW, I am glad you have discovered some causes and effects and hope they will lead you to a place of comfort. Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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Woodstock! Posted: 9/7/2009 1:47:07 PM
Ah, breath, I do envy you your "trip." Artz and oldfolkie: My enlistment was over in 1968. I left Kansas a naive and sappy flag-waving American and returned 3 years later a lot sadder and wiser. I did not attend Woodstock, but spent many weekends going to the old Filmore Auditorium in San Francisco (with side trips to the Haight-Ashbury district - woo hoo!) and was fortunate to see most of the Woodstock artists live in that venue. The light shows and music were fan-friggin-tastic! Also attended the Monterey Folk Festival. I remember being astounded that Richie Havens could use his thumb to chord on the guitar! So few people now even remember who he is! Ahhhhh, the memories! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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Flirtatious Fifties? Posted: 9/2/2009 10:17:20 AM
Phoebe, I'm sure I've forgotten more about flirting than some folks have learned so far. If it's like riding a bicycle, I am going to assume that I haven't lost it....merely need to dust it off and try again. Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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Is there life on earth? Posted: 8/31/2009 1:37:43 PM
Aaaah! The sweet sound of voices of reason.....how beeee-uuuu-tiful! I have no cell phone. I only answer my home phone and my front door if I so choose. My youngest step-daughter will come over, apparently to see me and visit. It's difficult to tell sometimes. She spends half of her time either talking or texting on her cell. It makes me feel like chopped liver at a vegetable convention. Humanity - where art thou? Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 8/25/2009 9:09:02 PM
-shameful look in my eyes- I've stared talking dirty to my hand,,, Now, THAT was funny! Thanks, NewToMichiana! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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Send Messages...But NO Replies Posted: 8/23/2009 5:28:05 PM
13 different males responsed and only 3 females responsed (not including me) in the "Ask A Girl" forum. Whoa! Am I in the right place? Just asking. Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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How do I balance this? Posted: 8/23/2009 5:21:23 PM
Maybe you need to find someone who's into building custom cars!!!!! Just a suggestion. Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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very complicated question Posted: 8/23/2009 5:13:30 PM
I believe I'd wait, if for no other reason than to ensure I have my wits about me in Afghanistan. Depending upon what you will be doing over there, any daydreaming or lack of concentration might lead to a mishap. Come home safely. Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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How many of you actually have dates for the weekends? Posted: 8/22/2009 6:19:12 PM
Aaaahhh! Well, now, let me see. It's after 8 pm Saturday night. Let me check my social calendar.....(pause whilst I blow the dust off and rifle through all the blank pages to get to August)..... Nope, calendar's blank. No date! No worries! No problems! But I can go throw the Frisbee for my dog Maggie May. She has such tremendous enthusiasm. And when she catches it, she makes a victory lap around the trees. Can you spell J O Y? Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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Ending an affair Posted: 8/22/2009 2:11:43 PM
I tried to resist responding here, but feel a definition is in order: af·fair (-fâr) n. 1. Something done or to be done; business. 2. affairs Transactions and other matters of professional or public business: affairs of state. 3. a. An occurrence, event, or matter: The senator's death was a tragic affair. b. A social function. 4. An object or a contrivance: Their first car was a ramshackle affair. 5. A matter of personal concern. 6. affairs Personal business: get one's affairs in order. 7. A matter causing public scandal and controversy: the Dreyfus affair. 8. A romantic and sexual relationship, sometimes one of brief duration, between two people who are not married to each other. Apparently most responders have chosen definition #7. Since the OP stated that neither were married, I must conclude that it falls under definition #8. Some people (not necessarily "just" men) have problems ending a relationship with honesty and integrity, for whatever reason. If he is unwilling to tell you, it will remain a mystery. I see only one course of action: move on. It has happened to me; I have moved on. Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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What's the RIGHT answer? Posted: 8/21/2009 1:53:09 PM
Ahhh, FFS, I was going to say "blue." Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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what do you miss? Posted: 8/20/2009 8:04:00 PM
Intimacy - with all its myriad nuances. The "knowing" look when you're thinking the same thing and don't have to say it. The hand on my thigh in the middle of the night. The appreciative eye when you know he likes what he sees and says so. Cooking together......and sharing it with friends and family. The knowledge that someone cares how you feel and checks in to see how your day is going. The secret jokes. Ahhhh - my list could go on and on.......Sigh! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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How do we Unlearn behavior? Posted: 8/17/2009 11:04:44 AM
In the presence of so much good advice and heartfelt stories, I am humbled to offer my opinions. Indeed, they are just my opinions. While many have explained what has worked for them, AA, there is one thing that must be understood first. We all have our own ways of working through difficult times. What might work for SoldierByte and TrueSamarai might not work for, say, vannaheim or packagedeal3x or Silken Fire. Some people are motivated by a challenge (for instance, I was challenged once by these simple words: "Only 10% of people ever overcome this.") I believed I was or could be in the top 10%, and so I prevailed and overcame. Some are motivated by the dare: You CAN'T do so-and-so. And they go about steadfastly proving someone wrong. Some find solace in religion; some in counseling. These are merely examples of many tools that can be used. Whether they are successful or not depends entirely upon the individual. Some people are natural "self-healers." Like you and I, we had that "moment" when we realized it must be something WE were doing. We then seek to find out WHY. While some have said that you cannot heal in a bubble, I have found that being still and listening to yourself as Silken Fire described is a good way for me. Understanding, or at least attempting to understand, another's motivations does help. We are all flawed. To admit that our parents are/were flawed can be easier than understanding why. If this works for you or helps you, then use it. I also believe that, at some point, we must try out our new wings, so to speak, and see if we can actually fly, or if we can only flap our wings and get from branch to branch. Some day, we hope to be able to soar with the eagles. My sincere desire is that we will all meet someday in that clear, blue sky and know the joy that is self-realization..............being the best that we can be. Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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Second time around Posted: 8/17/2009 9:21:59 AM
I am finding it difficult to open up my heart. Is it caution or fear or something else? I do not know. There is currently a man in my life who thinks I am all that and a banana split, too! I find myself holding back, unwilling (or maybe unable?) to let him completely in. Maybe I'm like "wazhiz:" no longer willing to overlook things that I had in the past. I'm just not as willing to bend & compromise as I used to. I do believe we can love more than once, twice, or any number of times in our lives. I also believe it becomes harder as we age and gain more life experiences. I may have thrown out my rose colored glasses too soon. I pray for wisdom. Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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FINDING OUT SECRETS Posted: 8/11/2009 7:56:07 AM
The Rock Man totally rocks on this one! 'Nuff said! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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When are you most happiest? Posted: 8/10/2009 1:06:36 PM
I am happiest when time ceases to be a dimension.......this occurs when I'm writing, painting, or working on some creative project. At some point, you happen to look at your watch and..........geesh............4 or 5 hours have passed and it seems like only minutes. Love that; absolutely love that!!! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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Styles of Beauty Posted: 8/7/2009 12:06:27 PM
vanaheim wrote: I am a good man. I try, I love and I stand tall. When fallen I gather and walk and move the Earth. In respite I fly and dream and appreciate. When loved I respect. When forlorn I work. When troubled I live. And if I should find hope, I uphold it. In the depths of a feotal watery dream I saw love and damned if I don't want that for me. vanaheim, you are indeed a gifted writer. This absolutely took my breath away. Thank you. In a feeble attempt to describe myself (which we all know is so-o-o-o totally subjective), I believe I am a strange mixture of intellect and childishness, with an ability to draw people out, inspire them to share their thoughts with me with the confidence that I will respect them and their viewpoints. I love children and the elderly; they are sometimes very similar. Then, if you throw in a very oddball sense of humor that just might catch you completely by surprise, then voila! This is me.........in all my flawed beauty. P.S. This was harder than I thought. Thank you, OP, for bring this topic to the table. outmind: My thoughts are with you and your lady! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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Dating a woman only to find she still has a boyfriend Posted: 7/30/2009 9:21:09 AM
I think you need a good thump on both of your heads! Just sayin'! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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I have only one question, WTF?! Posted: 7/30/2009 8:47:26 AM
OMG! If I only knew the answer to the infamous WTF question, I'd probably be a millionairess. Then I'm sure folks would be flocking to me with advice on how to spend all those dollars. As it is, I must say I'm not only going through a dry spell, I believe someone dumped me in the desert and forgot to tell me. I'd write more, but I'm feeling a mighty thirst and must go get a gallon of water to quench it. Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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necessary losses, hidden treasures.... Posted: 7/28/2009 8:17:26 PM
serenity: I, too, have suffered the loss of several precious pets and my heart goes out to you. I now have 2 dogs who have helped me in ways beyond description get through the sudden loss of my late husband just over a year ago. When I cry, one of them gives me kisses, the other stays close to my side until the tears have passed. The comfort they give me can never be repaid. They are my constant and somehow, even in the darkest of hours, can bring joy to my heart and a smile to my lips. I am so sorry for the loss you are experiencing. My childhood, too, was difficult: Five years in a children's home after my father's suicide, an older half-brother who was sent away to live with relatives in Texas (and I never got to know him), an abusive step-father.......the list goes on. My youngest (and closest) brother was killed in an automobile accident in 1997, my mother had a very debilitating stroke in 1996 and finally passed away in 2001. These, along with the loss of my husband, are the painful memories I hold. However, on the flip side, I've had many joys: flying a small single-engine plane through clouds, sailing in San Francisco Bay, camping in Big Sur, beautiful sunrises and sunsets on Okinawa, the love and devotion of the dearest of friends, the true and deep love of a wonderful husband..........too many to recount here, both large and small. How do we go on? We just do. Time passes and pain, though it may always be felt, seems to subside to a tolerable level. We live, we learn, we love, we hope. And if we're extremely lucky, we find ways to impart the wisdom we've gleaned from our experiences to others. I have seen the silver lining and know, deeply and inexorably, that it exists. It is this knowledge that gives me the courage to face each new day with the conviction that this, too, shall pass and I will know joy again! Kudos to your spirit and the spirits of all who have survived tragedy and still embrace life as the splendorous gift that it is. Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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Lost the ability to focus? Posted: 7/27/2009 1:40:13 PM
Has our modern society lost the ability to focus? I think so. What with cell phones, texting, the on-slaught of "multi-tasking" being considered an asset (when, in fact, it decreases one's ability to focus and causes more mistakes), etc., etc. Has anyone noticed you can start a discussion here and many people will get so sidetrack on small issue of the thread and not discuss the main topic intended ? Yes, I've noticed. However, some of those "side trips" are very entertaining! Do many people need to go back to English101 to try to understand identifying the main topic? Possibly. There have been some topics that, after reading the original post, I sit back, scratch my head, and say "What the begeezus are they saying?" Now, where was I? You'll have to excuse me, but the dogs started barking, the buzzer on the clothes dryer just went off, the phone rang, and welllll-llllll, you know how it goes. Multi-tasking does have its drawbacks. Now if I can just remember where I put the phone, I'll feel much, much better! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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Male/Female Friendship Posted: 7/23/2009 2:32:41 PM
Women on the other hand see things in black and white with no gray areas and once you are put in the friend column, you might as well be gay or dead. Uh, exactly where did you get this information? Your "theory" just does not hold water; i.e., your bucket has a gigantic hole in it. Beware! You might want to duck your head as I think there are some highly intelligent women on these forums who might take a big whack at your head. Maybe that's one of the reasons that women are so bad at choosing mates Really? I am so glad you've explained everything to me so succinctly. The air has been cleared, the mystery solved! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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What exactly do I have with this Man? Posted: 7/23/2009 2:22:16 PM
All you need to know is one, simple thing - do you want it as it is, do you want to change it, or do you want to drop it? Well put, perigee123! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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Early Ultimatum Posted: 7/23/2009 1:57:33 PM
Sorry, I have no clue! It does, however, sound like a train wreck waiting to happen. 'Tis a good thing you got off the tracks quickly! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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What's for dinner? Posted: 7/15/2009 11:44:47 AM
Yummy! There are some fantastic meals and cooks out there! Reminded me that I haven't had anything to eat today except a Nutri-Grain bar. AARGH! Better find something to choke down. Tonight: Baked pork chops, brocolli au gratin with rice and pasta, and sweet corn. Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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am i intimidating Posted: 6/30/2009 5:23:50 PM
haha. i love how this site is never used to help people. only for stupid people to crack stupid jokes. haha You mean, just like you helped him? Or do you fall into the second category? Many have suggested he take his inquiry over to the profile review section. THEY are trying to help him!

sequoyah61

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just wondering Posted: 6/30/2009 5:12:53 PM
Maybe I hit my head too hard on that wall because I now hear a strange noise ringing in my head. It sounds like a low growl. No, wait, that's not it. It's more like a groan. No, no, that's not it either. It's more like a whine.......yes, that's it!

sequoyah61

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just wondering Posted: 6/30/2009 4:37:46 PM
I may not have found my true love, but I'm pretty sure I found a very dependable wall. And guess what? I bounced right off that old wall!!!!

sequoyah61

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Flavour of the Month Posted: 6/30/2009 2:42:56 PM
All I can say is: If HE were Jamoca Almond Fudge, he'd definitely be my "Flavor Every Month!" P.S. If he's anywhere near your age, I'd switch to Dunkin' Donuts! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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Trust ? Posted: 6/30/2009 2:24:19 PM
Are you serious? Take your blinders off, PalmBayMom, and let the sun shine in. His ID could be as fake as the BS stories he's been handing out. JMO. Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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What do you do in this situation?? Posted: 6/30/2009 2:05:04 PM
We communicated and laid it out on how I feel for him. This was good. Told him I love him.. What??????? (As in WTF?) His response he has feelings for me as well, but would like to take it slow...and take it one day at a time...and see where it develops from there. Hmmmmmm! but if it all doesn't work out...we will be friends for ever... Sure, Chris, sure. IMO, this looks like a train wreck. Anyone else agree?

sequoyah61

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just wondering Posted: 6/30/2009 1:01:05 PM
Wall? What wall? Will someone please tell me where it is before I run smack dab into it? Pretty please! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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When to pull the plug on a pet Posted: 6/30/2009 9:22:46 AM
I, too, have had to make the difficult decision to put my beloved pets down. My heart goes out to all of you who have had to do the same. It is heart wrenching and tears still flow sometimes when I think of them. They truly gave me unconditional love - something that is very hard to get from human beings, albeit almost impossible. I only wish that I could be treated with the same kindness and compassion when "the light has gone out of my eyes." Peace! Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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Death of the Demigods… Posted: 6/30/2009 8:56:10 AM
Don't get me wrong, I get WHY people get accolades, and undulation for these great works Uh, I hope you meant "adulation" instead of "undulation." Sequoyah

sequoyah61

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Big Brother's Book.... Posted: 6/30/2009 8:39:05 AM
The ones we still have left. AMEN! And I decry the Patriot Act for the ones it took away from us! Chip, chip, chipping away!

sequoyah61

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Thought of the day? Posted: 6/30/2009 8:07:50 AM
Handle every stressful situation like a dog: if you can't eat it or play with it, just pee on it and walk away! Sequoyah

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