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Msg: 39 (view)

Middle Aged and Single Posted: 1/21/2009 6:00:32 AM
Kind of reminds me of high school behavior and both genders practice it. If you're "single" (dating, married, etc.) and even look at my spouse they're going to chase you off. Why? Because you're available and their not. The harder they push away is a generally a direct reflection of their insecurity and lack of confidence in any of the following: Their self, their partner, their relationship, and/or any of the above. And sometimes they just don't know what to say or do. It boils down to this. It's really not a reflection on you but upon them.

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Msg: 71 (view)

dont wish to play games .... continued Posted: 1/6/2009 12:12:45 PM
Mick, Can I steal that?

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Msg: 956 (view)

oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 1/6/2009 9:04:25 AM
Clinton/Lewinsky hehehe... I wonder if she swallowed or spit it out and if she did SWALLOW, how much did he give her? :) If Lewinsky swallowed, there wouldn't have been an impeachment trial.

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Msg: 134 (view)

I think I now understand why you are divorced. Posted: 1/3/2009 2:38:44 AM
You should very much talk to your partner about their sliding behavior, they may not realize it's going on. If they're not willing to adapt or the negative behavior continues, then get out and don't look back. People have a natural tendency to revert to old and familiar behaviors, even when trying to adapt. Also, read the book "The verbally abusive relationship", you'll learn signs of what to look for, etc. and change your behavior and then start meeting better men. So my question is, when a man`s behavior starts sliding, when he starts being a pr*ck, do you talk to him about it? Do you try to straighten him out and teach him how to be in a relationship in order for it to be respectful and healthy. Or do you just chalk him up as another dead end and break it off?" Is there hope in teaching an old dog new tricks? Disclaimer:This applies to women too, I just used men because I am female.

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Msg: 451 (view)

Over 45 Men, How should we dress? OK Ladies fire away! Posted: 1/2/2009 8:32:21 PM
That would work for me. I might lose the blazer, but from bottom to top, this is what I'd wear on a Saturday afternoon. Black shoes (or brown), blue jeans w/belt, light pink or pastel dress shirt. How does that sound?

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Msg: 797 (view)

oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 1/2/2009 5:18:50 PM
Hmmmm absolutely, a swallower. It's a natural aphrodisiac (sexual pheromones) just as women cumming, squirting, and gushing. But you know, some guys do not like to drink the woman's cum when she squirt or gush, yahoo...not mine. "Yuk!", said some people. I say, "Yummy!" I'm with you there. Although I'm not a sword swallower. I love the feeling of a woman's orgasm on my lips, face and tongue. If you gush, just bring it on! :)

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Msg: 23 (view)

DOGS, CARS, BOATS, CYCLES, OLD OR NO PHOTOS!!!! Posted: 1/2/2009 5:14:52 PM
Or how about those bare-chested pics? If you are on a beach in your swim trunks, cool. But if you are obviously in a bathroom, looking in a mirror, taking your own pic with your cell, then no.{/quote] What about women who are wearing worn out wife-beater top with her nipples standing at attention, flipping off the camera or doing the same things? I mean, if a woman is going to show her wares, I'm gonna look. (Who wouldn't?) But I have to ask myself two questions. Regardless of how good looking a woman is, would I want my kids to be seen in public with this woman dressed in such a way? And would I want this woman to be with my kids?

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Msg: 436 (view)

Over 45 Men, How should we dress? OK Ladies fire away! Posted: 12/30/2008 8:58:46 AM
mm, intact undies would be a plus, I suppose, if you were planning on an ER run for fun while out on a date, I guess, like mom used to say..."wear clean undies, in case of an accident". [/unquote] If there was an accident, I don't think clean undies would make that much difference. Depending on the accident, they'd probably need a good washing anyway.

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Msg: 435 (view)

Over 45 Men, How should we dress? OK Ladies fire away! Posted: 12/30/2008 8:56:50 AM
Pardon me.... but are you saying that you could possibly help poor peeps like Peter perk up a puny pecker with plenty of practice?......phew! His last name wouldn't happen to be Piper would it?

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Msg: 434 (view)

Over 45 Men, How should we dress? OK Ladies fire away! Posted: 12/30/2008 8:54:49 AM
How about a blazer, nice shirt and blue jeans with dress shoes. My white sneakers are green from yard work and mowing. Include well groomed in that equation. (At dinner, try not to wear your food and make sure you get the gunk from between your teeeh after eating.) Ladies, how about not borrowing your teenage daughter's mini skirt and rhinestone studded bustier. How about either a well fitting skirt or nice jeans with a silk or satin top. forget the leather boots and thigh highs. Sandals work just fine. Now, if you're going to a bike rally for your first date, a skimpy pair of cut-off jeans (the ones you won't let your daughter wear) and a thin t-shirt is fine. Guys when at a rally, just remember one word - leather.

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Msg: 284 (view)

Do I ever miss physical touch! Posted: 12/30/2008 8:32:28 AM
The worst and best thing about being single is that you go to bed alone and you wake up alone. I miss the closeness and intimacy but like the extra space in my bed. Go figure!

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Msg: 186 (view)

A Touch of Grey Posted: 12/30/2008 8:14:41 AM
Well, as I approach 50, I'm seeing the treeline start to go down and the frost line rising. It doesn't bother me, I still have a mostly full head of hair and at least I don't need a hat when it's cold.

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Msg: 21 (view)

DOGS, CARS, BOATS, CYCLES, OLD OR NO PHOTOS!!!! Posted: 12/30/2008 8:11:24 AM
As soon as the ladies stop putting pictures of there pets on their profiles in silly costumes we men will stop putting pictures of our toys. LOL. Really, if a woman does not like motorcycles, fishing or snowmobiling it takes care of things right away. DITTO! BTW, I don't have Harley. :(

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Msg: 20 (view)

DOGS, CARS, BOATS, CYCLES, OLD OR NO PHOTOS!!!! Posted: 12/30/2008 8:09:43 AM
As far as expecting men to update their picture every 2 months... I've seen a lot of women's pics on here and other sites that haven't been changed in years, so don't hold the men solely accountable for this. And 2 month updates is pretty unrealistic. That said, I graduated high school over 30 years ago and I'm NOT posting my senior picture either. I don't look the same as I did then. I think if someone still looks like their photo, leave it up.

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Msg: 345 (view)

What if Prostitution was Legal? Posted: 12/26/2008 5:52:59 PM
I'm pretty sure that it would not have a positive affect on relationships. Aside from that my guess is not much would change. Those who want to will and those who don't won't. It's pretty simple. BTW, I've never "visited" one and have no intention of ever doing so.

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Msg: 212 (view)

Titties: real or fake? Posted: 12/26/2008 5:05:55 PM
As long as you're happy with what you have, I'm happy for you. No opinion on this one.

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Msg: 52 (view)

if you walked in on a sexy chick wanking.... Posted: 12/26/2008 5:04:53 PM
I would ask my mom why she has to do that so much. That's just wrong. LMAO Dare we ask how close you and your mom really are?

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Msg: 23 (view)

Orgasms Posted: 12/25/2008 7:21:39 PM
I echo what many here have said up above and do suggest you do some reading. The other thing is to really relax and allow nature to work for you.

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Msg: 153 (view)

Dating a Widow Posted: 12/23/2008 2:08:30 PM
First of all, you can't compete with a ghost so don't try to. You're not in a competition here. More important, her late husband is very important to her Keep in mind that if he were alive you and she wouldn't be talking, much less dating. Ask her about him, let her talk, and you PAY ATTENTION. Appreciate the incredible relationship she had and learn from it. As for the ghost thing, I don't know what to think there, but if you gut instinct leads you to believe you would have gotten along well, then let it be.

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Msg: 187 (view)

She's too pretty for me Posted: 12/22/2008 2:31:47 PM
Buddy, for whatever it's worth (3 years later), if a lady takes your arm and is happy to be with you, she is. Just be yourself and keep in mind you're not the one looking at you, she is. And if she doesn't like being with you, she won't be.

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Msg: 515 (view)

oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 12/22/2008 5:40:20 AM
Same goes for the ladies, and a shared shower saves water and is more fun.

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