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 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 155 (view)
 
Sexually Active Seniors
Posted: 12/20/2010 9:35:05 AM
I am with you, kari135!
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 87 (view)
 
LADIES: Over 45, how important are looks?
Posted: 9/9/2010 2:00:48 PM
I love sexy, older bald men. The trouble is that the ones I meet are either of the "arrogant" variety or the "skinhead-Nazi" variety.....
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 295 (view)
 
Women with multiple cats - sign of mental illness?
Posted: 8/19/2010 2:33:00 PM
Yep! I love cats. That means I'm crazy???

Or is it because I work for politicians that I'm crazy???

Or is it because I work with the mentally ill that I'm crazy???

Or is it because I'm a "vertically challenged black female over 50 that I'm crazy????

Or is it the cat's fault that I'm crazy????

Can someone PLEASE tell me if I am crazy, and if so WHY I am crazy?
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 132 (view)
 
45+ men and fashion
Posted: 8/11/2010 9:27:34 AM
You are so correct, David. It's even difficult for middle-age men to ge decent-fitting Khaki pants, but not impossible. Most don't try, because "sloppy is the new casual."
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Grown kids & their relationships
Posted: 7/31/2010 7:41:22 PM
My condolences, Green Eyes....
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 30 (view)
 
older adults' inability to communicate ...
Posted: 7/31/2010 7:35:21 PM
I couldn't agree with you more FredHH, although I cannot blame it entirely on "the public school system." I and most of my friends went to public schools back in the days when "teachers were permitted to teach and discipline", and the job of a student was to obey the teachers.

And remember, back then, at least in my world, parents did not defend their children's bad behavior, and worked with, and not against educators.

My grandfather used to say, "not everyone graduated at the top of the class." Not a comforting thought when one is about to "go under the knife", and has no idea of the surgeon's medical school class ranking....
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 121 (view)
 
Smooth Face or Slim Body?
Posted: 7/31/2010 7:31:11 PM
I hear what you are saying, deepa2! I consider myself "petite with curves".....I went on a "blind date" with a man who totally freaked out on me in a coffee shop because he was looking for a grown woman who could wear size 00 jeans.....he actually BROUGHT A PAIR ALONG ON THE "DATE" with him, and was very disappointed that they barely fit over my "toned and firm" arms! To him "petite" meant no boobs and no butt, and weight no more than 80 pounds.

And he had a gut that weighed more than 80 pounds, I'd bet!

 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 237 (view)
 
Why do men like women to wear dresses/skirts?
Posted: 7/26/2010 8:15:30 PM
I love dresses!
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 128 (view)
 
45+ men and fashion
Posted: 7/20/2010 9:40:30 PM
Procolharem, you are correct. And fashion atrocities aren't just limited to the 45+ crowd either!
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 57 (view)
 
AARP
Posted: 7/18/2010 11:10:06 PM
These magazine articles are so contradictory....one month they'll print an article about having "sex on the first date", and the next month about how the rate of STD's (including HIV), are rapidly rising in the over 50 population because they are mimicking the sexual habits of the 1960's, not taking into account today's "sexual realities" (a.k.a. diseases).

So I say use your common sense!
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 116 (view)
 
45+ men and fashion
Posted: 7/18/2010 10:49:25 PM
What about the "older" men with those huge, hard, disgusting guts who wear their pants UNDER the gut so they sag off the ass...

So UGLY!
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
How old fashion are you?
Posted: 7/5/2010 9:19:10 PM
I do what feels right for me....I guess some of those things could be labeled "old-fashioned", and others not so much.

But I was never one to live or die by labels....be they be on people or clothes!
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Do you feel the need to live with somebody at our age
Posted: 6/28/2010 7:01:59 AM
Nah...let's just visit back and forth.
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 63 (view)
 
First time parent at 45+
Posted: 6/11/2010 3:12:30 PM
No thanks. Not for me.
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 133 (view)
 
Lonliest Single Seniors To Come.
Posted: 6/2/2010 2:07:56 PM
No POF events in my area to attend....
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 174 (view)
 
Does facial hair on men over 45 make them look older or younger?
Posted: 6/2/2010 2:03:50 PM
Most men's moustaches and beards are unkempt, which make them downright nasty!.....give me clean shaven, please!
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 1601 (view)
 
older women younger men
Posted: 5/31/2010 12:15:40 AM
I'm beginning to believe I should roll that way....men my age are so physically and mentally unappealing to me....
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 199 (view)
 
When your SO has a lot less money than you do
Posted: 5/23/2010 3:52:44 PM
One poster here said "economic parity is a real life necessity", and I couldn't agree more!
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 246 (view)
 
So Round So Firm & So Fully Packed! So whats the Problem!
Posted: 5/5/2010 7:14:37 AM
I'm petite, and I just can't deal with overweight men......not in a "romantic" way.......if I can't get my arms around someone to hug them, then I'm not interested in having "that kind" of a relationship.....I hate feeling this way, but it is what it is....
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Lonliest Single Seniors To Come.
Posted: 5/5/2010 6:56:18 AM
I agree with you StatuesqueLuckyCharm!
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 207 (view)
 
Have any of you guys dated black women and if not why?
Posted: 4/27/2010 11:40:41 AM
Histidine and Almondcookie, as an older black woman, i couldn't agree with you more! I resent it when other people, who are "non-black women" attempt to define who "we" are! I'm glad that there are younger women out there, such as yourselves, standing strong for the beauty and integrity of black womanhood!
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 102 (view)
 
Accumulation versus simplifying - which phase are you in ?
Posted: 4/27/2010 10:59:11 AM
Please reach out to the television show, "Hoarders", Ailinn....they have professional people with the commitment to help individuals such as yourself, if you truly want the help.

Peace and Blessings
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 62 (view)
 
How do you deal with anachronisms
Posted: 4/15/2010 10:17:56 AM
My wise grandfather said that everything old isn't good, and everything new isn't bad.....to embrace that which works for your own life......some old and some new....so that's how I deal....
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 402 (view)
 
Men over 55!
Posted: 4/15/2010 10:06:51 AM
Men over 55 watch too damn much porn, and they expect every date to end like the last nasty porn video they watched......
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 49 (view)
 
Waiting to have sex, a deal breaker?
Posted: 4/15/2010 10:05:21 AM
Amen, Discerning, Amen!
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 100 (view)
 
penetrating her cervix
Posted: 4/15/2010 9:58:36 AM
Let's not be too hard on the menfolks....they read all this misogynistic crap, and watch misogynistic porn and begin to think that ALL women want things rammed up their vaginas, down their throats, and up their asses.....
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 99 (view)
 
penetrating her cervix
Posted: 4/15/2010 9:57:46 AM
Let's not be too hard on the menfolks....they read all this misogynistic crap, and watch misogynistic porn and begin to think that ALL women want things rammed up their vaginas, down their throats, and up their asses.....
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 162 (view)
 
Anal Sex...he wants it, but I'm scared to try
Posted: 4/15/2010 9:52:56 AM
Only do it if you want to......or if the possibility of ending up with anal cancer somewhere down the line doesn't bother you...
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 126 (view)
 
What are the reasons to remarry after the age of 45?
Posted: 4/15/2010 9:46:11 AM
what are the reasons to remarry after the age of 45?

If both parties are childless, fine. If there children involved (grown or otherwise) -- no -- too much damn family drama!
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 353 (view)
 
Men in their 60s
Posted: 4/15/2010 9:39:07 AM
I would love to date an emotionally balanced man in his early to mid sixties who had good hygiene habits, and wasn't grumpy, grouchy, and generally "mad at the world" (i.e. younger people, people of other ethnicities, etc., etc.), but so far, can't find him!
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 303 (view)
 
rich man poor man and how they treat you
Posted: 4/14/2010 2:09:33 PM
Poor men can be just as nasty and abusive to their women as rich men. And who would stay with an abusive man who can't even buy you (or himself) a stick of gum??
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
white men who love black women and vise versa.
Posted: 4/9/2010 1:12:26 PM
Too bad we're hundreds of miles apart...I'd go out with you in a heartbeat!
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Is life passing you by?
Posted: 4/9/2010 1:06:27 PM
In some respects, yes.....
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Men of a certain age...women too..
Posted: 1/14/2010 1:36:38 PM
Most females "see who they have become", and fret about it.

Most men "don't see who they have become", and become hostile and defensive when it is brought to their attention...

Just my opinion........
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 167 (view)
 
Men over 55!
Posted: 1/14/2010 12:56:44 PM
Men over 55 are the most unpleasant creatures on earth.....
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 316 (view)
 
Erectile Dysfunction
Posted: 1/12/2010 9:22:55 AM
Any man who puts down another man because of erectile dysfunction should be VERY CAREFUL.....because one fall down the stairs, one trip off the curb, etc., could render a man a paraplegic or quadriplegic, and thus he would have a permanent case of ED....
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 191 (view)
 
Dating in Your 50's - Is It Tough?
Posted: 1/11/2010 2:04:58 PM
It's difficult, but like many of the women here, I have a life independent of a "man", and by God, I'm going to live it to the fullest!
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 88 (view)
 
Precautionary measures
Posted: 1/8/2010 8:07:20 AM
I work part time in a group home for mentally ill adults, and their hygiene is not always the best......I have observed people coming to the dinner table with fecal matter underneath their fingernails, and because of the ways Pa's laws are written, I cannot "force" a mentally ill adult to wash their hands if they don't want to.....I can only suggest that they do so....

So to protect my own health, I get whatever flu vaccine is available, in addition to being vaccinated for Hepatitis B, tetanus, and whatever else my physician suggests I get vaccinated against.
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Dating someone who lives in a rough area
Posted: 1/4/2010 1:57:37 PM
I don't live in a "rough" area, but some sections of the city I live in are considered "not so great", or "rough." I have a very nice house, a nice car, and am a nice person.....but sometimes when I tell men that I live directly inside the city limits, and not in the suburbs, they make "value judgements" about me and my character....

Oh , well.....
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 119 (view)
 
Dating in Your 50's - Is It Tough?
Posted: 12/30/2009 12:25:01 PM
Moraima said, "I would date more, if I ran into less whiners."

I say, "I would date more, if I ran into less snide, control freaks."
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Guys who carry condoms with them
Posted: 12/30/2009 11:36:27 AM
I think men who carry their own condoms are being extremely responsible, and they are caring about their health!

And if a man doesn't care about HIS OWN sexual health, there is no way he can care about mine.

Let's responsible men!
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Odd Relationship History
Posted: 12/22/2009 3:57:00 PM
ALL of us have a "relationship history" that is "odd" to someone else.

If you don't believe me, just share your "relationship history" with a few people, and someone is bound to tell you it's a "strange one...":
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Men over 55!
Posted: 12/22/2009 3:38:53 PM
Yes, men and WOMEN over 55 have fantasies...

My fantasy is that I will find a nice man, around 55 years old, give or take a few years, that is mentally, emotionally, and financially stable, has a few things in common with me (including good morals), and doesn't look pregnant.....and that we will meet, spend time together, and develop a long term relationship......

My daughter says I sound like someone who is "on crack", or some other mind-altering substance.....
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Tiger Woods - Why
Posted: 12/22/2009 1:57:10 PM
He humiliated a woman who appears to be a perfectly good wife and mother. That's not cool..

Now, she wants to leave him. I understand that.

My problem is that she is taking the children to Sweden -- I worry about the children -- she is a very beautiful Caucasian lady, and the children are biracial....will they be mistreated in Sweden because of their color? Will their father's misdeeds be taken out on them in some cruel fashion?

I wish the children could stay in this country with their grandmother.....
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Speed Dating for Seniors
Posted: 12/22/2009 1:28:54 PM
NO THANK YOU!
NO THANK YOU!
NO THANK YOU!
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 93 (view)
 
As you age.... are you willing to try new things and date differently?
Posted: 12/22/2009 1:26:50 PM
If Santa doesn't bring that "kindred spirit" (who I find physically appealing and vice-versa) to me, it is not likely that I'll find him on my own. My record of success in "datingland" is dismal.
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 12/15/2009 1:28:41 PM
Only if he were a plastic surgeon willing to "do some work".....
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
What works in PA?
Posted: 12/15/2009 1:25:23 PM
I don't know; if I did, I wouldn't be here.......
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 31 (view)
 
PGH POF HOLIDAY PARTY ~FRI., DEC. 18~8:00 P.M.~ALCOMA GOLF CLUB
Posted: 12/15/2009 1:16:13 PM
You Pittsburgh POF'ers are off the hook! Wish I was there! Happy Hanukkah and Merry Christmas!
 brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 47 (view)
 
friend afraid of her age
Posted: 12/15/2009 8:32:10 AM
I suggest counseling and marital therapy.
 
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