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Missing You Posted: 7/29/2009 4:47:42 PM
Heard a song the other day Time heals all wounds I heard someone once say That song opened them all up again The hurt is gone and memories remain the jokes we shared the talks we had the looks we gave the other we knew what the other was thinking without a word being said... How do I miss you your voice I'll never hear your presence I wish was still near You knew me like a book and never judged me when I did something wrong was always there when I needed you and the same with me If I'd known the last time I saw you it was my last I would have told you how much you meant to me I know in a small way you really knew Now you're gone for good no bringing you back for you have closed your eyes forever leaving me with memories of you. I miss you more than anything not a day goes by that I don't think of you. This is about a friend of mine who passed away a few years ago..he was like a brother to me ..we met back in our teen years and stayed very close through the years..

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Lyrics to a song that fits me right now Posted: 7/25/2009 1:51:32 AM
Motley Crue-Afraid Do you, do you wanna bleed? Do you, do you wanna live in vain? Hey, it's only life She's so afraid to kiss And so afraid to laugh Is she runnin' from her past? It's only life She's so afraid of love Is so afraid of hate What's she runnin' from now? Do you, do you wanna scream? Do you, do you wanna face the strange? Do you, do you believe? Are you, are you afraid of change? Yeah, it's only life She's so afraid of death She's so afraid to ask She hides behind her mask It's only life She's so afraid of pain So afraid of blame It's driving her insane So insecure There is no cure Well she's so afraid She's so afraid of death She's so afraid, afraid of life The drama in her head Getting louder all the time Getting louder all the time She's so afraid, afraid to lose Been so afraid of fame Everyday she feels the same It's driven her insane It's driven her It's drive It's

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Love In Disguise Posted: 7/8/2009 11:35:29 PM
Another one I wrote for a friend of mine.... Love In Disguise Months have gone by still he can't erase her off his mind calls he made to see if she was ok just hearing her voice makes him want her even more His heart races and his face lights up no one knows the love he has for her At least he thought no one knew. You see my friend I can see through you. She tells me he's called and hearing his voice made her heart skip a beat or two The love she has for him is more than she can bare they just wish it wouldn't make them so blue. This love they share cannot be shared together miles apart , seperate lives they keep the other in their hearts. Time will come again when they look into each others eyes a love they try to keep in disguise that others won't see.. they hide it from everyone but me.

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Poem....Wishing Didn't Help. Posted: 7/8/2009 12:58:53 PM
I think we all wonder sometimes what might have been.... Your poem hit home to me...

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From A Distance Posted: 7/7/2009 1:32:25 AM
She Said She Missed You! Does she know what it’s like to be in your arms all night? Your body next to mine. Does she know what to say to make you smile ? I do She Said she missed you She doesn’t know how your eyes light up the room When I walk in. I do. She doesn’t know how it feels to walk away from you And hold back the tears . I do She said she missed you Does she know what it feels like to really miss you? Does she know the sound of your breath when you are sleeping? I do Until she knows what it’s like to really miss you .. She’s not missing you at all Does she know what it’s like to hold back the words you want to say? I know what it’s like… Does she know how much I care about you? I miss you more than she ever could imagine missing you. Does she know what it means to fall in love with you Then not be able to tell you? No she doesn’t know what it means to miss you… There have been times I wondered if you missed me As much as I’d been missing you Hurts sometimes when I think of you. I wish we could be more than we are Just know it would ruin everything we have built so far. It seems there’s nothing that doesn’t remind me of you. Everywhere I go I see something I want to tell you about. 12-2008

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From A Distance Posted: 7/7/2009 1:27:18 AM
When I looked in your eyes I saw someone who had been hurt afraid to let anyone in for fear of being hurt again... The pain soo deep hid from view..your eyes told me more than you knew... The wall around you built so high to protect you from ever being hurt again.. You'd rather be the one to hurt someone so you wouldn't be hurt again...it was just your way.

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From A Distance Posted: 7/7/2009 1:03:31 AM
Thank you....it comes from the heart....

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From A Distance Posted: 7/3/2009 10:58:41 PM
I don't understand how you can smile all day long but cry yourself to sleep at night. how pictures never change, but the people in them do. how you can love so innocently, but it can turn into anger so quickly. how your best friend can become your worst enemy or how strange it is when your worst enemy turns into your best friend. how forever turns into a few short months that you'd do almost anything to get back. how you can let go of something you once said you couldn't live without. how even though you know letting go of something is best for you, it hurts just the same. how the people who once wanted to spend every second with you, think a few minutes of their time is too much time to spare. how the smell of a person stays with you even when they're gone. how people make promises, and bear their souls to someone despite knowing how common it is for promises to be broken. how people can erase you from their lives cause its just easier then working things out. this was found on another site on a random page...I did not write it!

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From A Distance Posted: 6/1/2009 2:02:32 PM
Thanks...I'm trying to keep all my poems in one section ...

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From A Distance Posted: 5/31/2009 3:52:57 PM
Walls Why do we all hide behind those walls are we afraid to take that fall? Shelter our hearts from the heartache and pain cause the hurting would drive us insane,,, Don't wanna let anyone in and keep the pain out cause we all know it would end the same No one would take the blame All we'd wanna do was just shout Broken pieces on the floor wonder if falling in love is ever worth it anymore We hide behind the walls to keep protected so what do we do when someone comes along that promises to catch you if you fall?

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so, why are you still single? Posted: 5/25/2009 12:10:25 AM
LOL..sometimes I get that question asked..my answer is cause I choose to be single... I do ask that question myself and also answer my own question along with it...

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Best songs for strength and for mourning/pain Posted: 5/18/2009 10:57:49 AM
: Cd 1..Because of You by Kelly Clarkson Look Away by Chicago Don't Know What You Got Till It's Gone by Cinderella Heartbreak Station By Cinderella Don't It Make My Brown Eyes Blue-Crystal Gail Spilled Perfume-Pam Tillis I may Hate Myself In The Morning-leanne womack How Far-Martina Mcbride Cd 2... Nobody's Fool By Cinderella Nothing But A Good Time By Poison Hate Myself For Loving You-Joan Jett More Things Change By Cinderella Baby You're No Good-Linda Ronstadt Life Goes On -Leanne Rimes (played this one a whole lot lately) Cold Hearted Snake -Paula Abdul Bittersweet-Bret Michaels Time for me to fly-Reo speedwagon It's My Life-Bon Jovi Have A Nice Day-Bon Jovi Everyday-Bon Jovi These are some of the songs I listen too when i'm down or for strength...I also made up my own "hate" cd....that cd perks me up every time I listen to it....I refuse to let the actions of one person get me down for too long...life is too short to sit around and be depressed....remember one person's loss is another one's gain..... here is a couple more I thought of.. What Might Have Been -Little Texas What It Takes-Aerosmith Last Song-Poison How Can We Be Lovers If we Can't be Friends-Michael Bolton Hold On To My Heart-W.A.S.P Without You-Hinder Heartbreaker-Pat Benetar Tears Are Falling-Kiss So Tell Me Why-Poison Should've Known Better-Richard Marx Stay Gone-Jimmy Wayne Lot Of Leaving Left To Do -Dierks Bentley Here's a Quarter-Travis Tritt

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What are the benefits of getting a divorce in an Amicable split? Posted: 5/18/2009 8:44:46 AM
Sounds to me more like an open marriage. If one of you actually wanted to divorce you would want freedom and closure. That's what I was thinking too...

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What are the benefits of getting a divorce in an Amicable split? Posted: 5/18/2009 1:50:13 AM
Although a legal separation and divorce have, many things in common there are some advantages to obtaining a legal separation rather than a divorce. Those advantages include: * It allows couples time apart, away from the conflict of the marriage to decide if divorce is what they truly want. * It allows for the retention of medical benefits and certain other benefits that divorce would bring to an end. * If your religious beliefs conflict with the idea of divorce, you are able to live separately and retain your marital status for religious beliefs. * If you are a military spouse, you may wish to remain married for 10 years so that you can take advantage of benefits set up by the Uniformed Services Former Spouse Protection Act. * Remaining married for 10 years or more also means being able to take advantage of certain social security benefits for a spouse. * If the decision to divorce is made, the legal separation agreement can be converted into a divorce settlement agreement. Divorce or dissolution of marriage is the final termination of a marriage, canceling the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage and dissolving the bonds of matrimony between two persons. In most countries, divorce requires the sanction of a judge or other authority in a legal process to complete a divorce. A divorce does not declare a marriage null and void, as in an annulment, but divorce cancels the marital status of the parties, allowing them to marry another. Divorce laws vary considerably around the world. Divorce is not permitted in some countries, such as in Malta and in the Philippines, though an annulment is permitted. The legal process for divorce may also involve issues of spousal support, child custody, child support, distribution of property and division of debt, though these matters are usually only ancillary or consequential to the dissolution of the marriage. In some jurisdictions divorce does not require a party to claim fault of their partner that leads to the breakdown of marriage. But even in jurisdictions which have adopted the "no fault" principle in divorce proceedings, a court may still take into account the behaviour of the parties when dividing property, debts, evaluating custody, and support. In most jurisdictions, a divorce must be certified by a court of law to become effective. The terms of the divorce are usually determined by the court, though they may take into account prenuptial agreements or postnuptial agreements, or simply ratify terms that the spouses may have agreed to privately. In the absence of agreement, a contested divorce may be stressful to the spouses and lead to expensive litigation. Less adversarial approaches to divorce settlements have recently emerged, such as mediation and collaborative divorce, which negotiate mutually acceptable resolution to conflicts. In some other countries, like Portugal, when the spouses agree to divorce and to the terms of the divorce, it can be certified by a non judiciary administrative entity, where also can be served an Electronic Divorce since March 2008. The effect of a divorce is that both parties are free to marry again. (see bigamy) In cases involving children, governments have a pressing interest in ensuring that disputes between parents do not spill over into the family courts. One way of doing this is through the encouragement of a parenting plan. In the United States, all states now require parents to file a parenting plan when they legally separate or divorce.

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Stay put or bail?: one month in with a Bipolar young woman Posted: 5/18/2009 12:48:25 AM
Get out , get out now before it goes any further ....My ex was bi-polar and I was very miserable in the marriage....you can only be supportive for so long and you will feel as if all your efforts are in vain like you feel now..... I forgot to add this in...it wasn't until later on in the marriage that we both found out he was bi-polar.......I knew something wasn't right with him a few years into the marriage ...just couldn't figure out what it was...until he was diagnosed with it.....then it all made a lot of sense after doing my research on it....yeah meds will help for a while until the body gets used to them...then it seems as if they are no longer working.....

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Be careful out ther ladies Posted: 5/18/2009 12:30:04 AM
from the experiences I've had on this site....all of them (only 3) have been straight up honest with the pics they have posted on the profiles. They looked like the pics they posted...although sometimes pictures don't do them any justice at all because they are a heck of a lot better looking in person...I still talk to 2 of the 3 all them time on the phone or go hang out with them when time permits ..they are both sweet and caring. One of them is dating someone now and has come to me for advice on women and what they think....I give them my advice and opinion ..He has done the same for me when I needed advice about another one I met here...Boy sure wish I would have listened to him on that one...he was right on the money when it came to that one for sure. This guy and I are good friends and those are hard to come by these days....

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Best songs for strength and for mourning/pain Posted: 5/17/2009 11:02:11 PM
Cd 1..Because of You by Kelly Clarkson Look Away by Chicago Don't Know What You Got Till It's Gone by Cinderella Heartbreak Station By Cinderella Don't It Make My Brown Eyes Blue-Crystal Gail Spilled Perfume-Pam Tillis I may Hate Myself In The Morning-leanne womack How Far-Martina Mcbride Cd 2... Nobody's Fool By Cinderella Nothing But A Good Time By Poison Hate Myself For Loving You-Joan Jett More Things Change By Cinderella Baby You're No Good-Linda Ronstadt Life Goes On -Leanne Rimes (played this one a whole lot lately) Cold Hearted Snake -Paula Abdul Bittersweet-Bret Michaels Time for me to fly-Reo speedwagon It's My Life-Bon Jovi Have A Nice Day-Bon Jovi Everyday-Bon Jovi These are some of the songs I listen too when i'm down or for strength...I also made up my own "hate" cd....that cd perks me up every time I listen to it....I refuse to let the actions of one person get me down for too long...life is too short to sit around and be depressed....remember one person's loss is another one's gain.....

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I honestly ain't trying to hate... Posted: 5/17/2009 9:14:44 PM
just come out and ask her how she would feel about a guy who had a "P/A" ? Some women do not know what that means at all....

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Stay put or bail?: one month in with a Bipolar young woman Posted: 5/14/2009 6:39:29 PM
Get out , get out now before it goes any further ....My ex was bi-polar and I was very miserable in the marriage....you can only be supportive for so long and you will feel as if all your efforts are in vain like you feel now.....

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What song lyrics fit your life right now? Posted: 5/14/2009 5:23:53 PM
I have several that fit my life right now.... Afraid -Motley Crue do you, do you wanna bleed? do you, do you wanna live in vain? it's only life she's so afraid to kiss and so afraid to laugh is she runnin' from her past? it's only life she's so afraid of love is so afraid of hate what's she runnin' from now?? do you, do you wanna scream? do you, do you wanna face the strange? do you, do you believe? are you, are you afraid of change? it's only life she's so afraid of this and so afraid to ask she hides behind her mask nothing's ever right she's so afraid of pain so afraid of blame it's driving her insane so insecure there is no cure well she's so afraid she's so afraid of death she's so afraid, afraid of life the drama in her head getting louder all the time getting louder all the time she's so afraid, afraid to lose been so afraid of fame everyday she feels the same it's driven her insane... it's driven her... it's drive... it's... another broken pretty thing Never Enough-Five Finger Death Punch Never Enough lyrics I'm so fed up with everyone around me (No one seems to care) I'm just so far gone and nothing's gonna change (I'll never be the same) It's always do this, do that, Everything they want to I don't want to live that way Every chance they get they're always Pushing me away [Chorus:] It's never enough No it's never enough No matter what I say It's never enough No it's never enough I'll never be what you want me to be It's all so messed up and no one ever listens (Everyone's deranged) I'm just so ****ed up and I'm never gonna change (Wanna lay it all to waste) They're always say this, say that, Nothing that you want to I don't want to live that way Every chance they get they're always Shoving me aside [Chorus] I'm Done [Bridge:] In the end we're all just chalk lines on the concrete Drawn only to be washed away For the time that I've been given I am what I am I'd rather hate you For everything you are Than ever love you For something you are not I'd rather you hate me For everything I am Than have you love me For something that I can't It's never enough It's never enough No matter what I say It's never enough No it's never enough No matter who I try to be It's never enough No it's never enough No matter how I try to change It's never enough Never never enough I'll never be what you want me to be.

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From A Distance Posted: 5/12/2009 7:47:21 PM
Dreams Late at night he comes to me wraps me in his arms and tells me everything is gonna be alright. Sweet gentle kisses , soft voice he caresses my body with his hands. Holds me tight in his arms all night. I wake up in the morning ,reach out for him he's not there. opening my eyes looking for a trace of him . Waking up completely and finding myself lying in bed alone. Why do I find myself disappointed to wake up with no one beside me? Dreams are just dreams . Late at night I see his face, hear his voice, feel his touch his kisses so hot. his body next to mine. I reach out to touch him and find he's not there once again. Is this the way it's always gonna be ? waking up alone no one lying beside me?

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From A Distance Posted: 5/12/2009 7:46:00 PM
More of my Poems....Trying to keep these all in one place..... Untitled untitled I used to sit and wonder how you were I wondered if you had found the girl you'd been waiting for You had let me go..and never said why All I could do was listen to what I'd been told I couldn't show my true feelings for you when you were around..I had to hide them somehow you saw through me... you knew I still loved you without me saying anything at all. The hardest secret to keep to myself without him finding out the deepest love I still had for you. I never loved him the way I loved you.. You had my heart and always would. ___________________________________________________________ JUDGEMENT Who are you to judge me? You Haven't lived my life, nor do you know the hurt and pain I'm still trying to work through. They are slowly passing with time. Still more to let go of. don't judge me for what you see on the surface ..for you see I won't let anyone get to me. I keep a lot of things hidden way deep inside Afraid to tell anyone for fear of being judged even more. Inside I'm falling apart , while on the surface I pretend I'm alright.

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Dating websites Profiles, Fake or Real???? Posted: 5/12/2009 3:14:24 PM
I've found some profiles to be real..some fake...you just gotta weed them out... Mine on the other hand is real...it's who I am and if people don't like what I have to say ... well the back button is at the top of the broswer....not being witchy...just the way I feel...LOL

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Re: Your Favorite Music Lyrics Posted: 5/10/2009 8:48:00 PM
Life Goes On By Leanne Rimes Life Goes On lyrics Life goes on, life goes on Life goes on, life goes on You sucked me in And played my mind Just like a toy You were crank and wind Baby I would give till you wore it out You left me lyin' in a pool of doubt And you're still thinkin' you're the Daddy Mac You should've known better but you didn't And I can't go back Oh life goes on And it's only gonna make me strong It's a fact, once you get on board Say good-bye cause you can't go back Oh it's a fight, and I really wanna get it right Where I'm at, is my life before me And this feelin' that I can go back Life goes on [repeat 2X] Wish I knew then What I know now You held all the cards And sold me out Baby shame on you, if you fool me once Shame on me if you fool me twice You've been a pretty hard case to crack Should've known better but I didn't And I can't go back Oh life goes on And it's only gonna make me strong It's a fact, once you get on board Say good-bye cause you can't go back Oh it's a fight, and I really wanna get it right Where I'm at, is my life before me And this feelin' that I can go back Life goes on Na, na, na, na, na Life goes on Na, Na, Na, Na, It made me strong Oh yeah, got this feeling that I can't go back Life goes on, life goes on, and it's only gonna me strong Life goes on, life goes on, and on and on shame on you, if you fool me once Shame on me if you fool me twice You've been a pretty hard case to crack Should've known better but I didn't And I can't go back Na, na, na, na, na Life goes on Na, Na, Na, Na It made me strong Oh yeah Gotta feelin' that I can't go back No I can't go back Oh yeah I've gotta go now I'm moving on No turning back 'Cause you made me strong

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From A Distance Posted: 5/10/2009 8:37:27 PM
I wrote these poems for a friend of mine ..these in a sense is what I saw when I was around her and someone else for a short period of time... From A Distance From a distance he watches her hears her voice in his mind wanting to be near her and knows he can't be. From a distance she watches him wanting to be near him yet knows that's not possible. From a distance they look into each others eyes if only for a moment..he turns and walks away shaking his head. She watches him walk away and it kills her inside. In his arms is where she wishes she could be. Her arms holding him is where he wants to be. They both love each other know they can't be together even though they want to . From a distance is all it can ever be. ___________________________________________________________ Protecting Her He walks out and scans the crowd, see's her standing there near the front but , not to close to him. In his own way he protects her without anyone knowing she's the one he's protecting. She knows she's the reason why he said what he said. He looks her way for just a moment then looks away He watches to make sure she's ok. He knows he's the reason she is there the most. Wanting to be near her and hold her in his arms. The lights go down for the last time He walks away , looking back to see her smiling. She wants to find him and knows he's wanting to see her. He walks to the crowd waiting to see him and get pictures. He spots her standing near him from the corner of his eye as the crowd passes by. Wanting to go to her and kiss her lips yet knows he can't. She walks up to him and they talk for a few minutes as they put their arms around each other for a picture, he puts his head on hers...being so close to her if only for a moment is more than he can bare. Knowing he has to let her out of his arms and walk away She doesn't want to let him out of her arms yet knows she has to. They smile at each other and say nothing at all. He walks to the others waiting on him. This kills them both on the inside. Knowing they will see each other again, and the same things will happen each time they are near the other! ____________________________________________________________ Dreaming Late at night I close my eyes and pray I will see you standing there. Thinking about you brings a smile to my face. I wanna be with you if only just for a moment in time Wanting to hold you your body next to mine. The scent of you drives me insane. Why does it have to be this way? I stay up late at night cause I know in my dreams you will be there. I take you in my arms and hold you tight. Never wanting to let you go. When I wake up you will slip away from me once again. Oh how I wish when I woke up you'd be here. So many miles apart, no one knows how I wish I could be with you. So tonight I pray in my dreams I will see you standing there holding out your arms for me. Hoping one day it won't be a dream I will wake up and find you lying beside me. _____________________________________________________________ Wishful Thinking I saw you smile and my mind cannot erase The beauty of you face. Just for awhile I want to shelter you. I wish I could give and be more with you. Can’t explain something that took me by surprise, Something that is real , just in disguise. What happens now I don’t know. Can’t stop feeling this way. The way I feel about you makes me Long to be free , wanting to be yours Is driving me insane. Sleepless nights I can’t explain Not being with you is making me A prisoner to this pain. Now I’m back to where I was before you I’d give anything for just one night Where I could hold you in my arms tight And never let go. Hoping for the day we can be together And never have to walk away from each other Or say good-bye. I want to hold you close Kiss away your tears Make you feel safe in my arms Until that day comes I will Keep you close to my heart. _____________________________________________________________ This one was written last year about someone whom is a dear close friend..we are no longer the way we were back then...we both knew we could not take further than friendship .. Untitled My feelings for you are growing stronger I don't know if I can hold out much longer I want to tell you What would you say would you turn and walk away? Every time I'm with you I am holding back the things I want to say. I never thought I would feel this way towards you. Not wanting to rush things and take it slow. You look at me and smile brightening my world always on my mind wishing I could be with you when i'm not Afraid of the answers if I asked you Maybe I'm waiting on you to tell me how you feel about me...would you ever do that? Do you feel the same way and are holding back as well? Wish I knew..how do I keep this locked up inside me until I know for sure this could be real? Wanting to be in your arms wanting to feel your kiss on my lips What is it we are waiting for? Are we afraid of being hurt again? Are we afraid we'd hurt each other in the end?

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