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Dating much more pragmatic as we age Posted: 6/15/2009 4:10:42 PM
I guess we all loose are innocents as we go through life.We get married,have kids,then grandkids,and sorry to say some of us get divorced.So Now What,after the pain,and then ,trying to find a new person for a while,we settle down.And really that why some of us are here.What we bring to table is life lessons,good or bad.a life filled with joy and broken dreams.But I want to believe there is someone still out there,I know some will say,give up,women are too bitter,I do not buy that.Oh well,I want all of my life,not just my past.

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What Women Want Posted: 4/27/2009 9:25:03 PM
Oh My,What Woman want,I am a guy,I do not have a clue,and sorry guys ,if you think so Good luck.Women think so much different,than guys do,I know we go out to conquer the world,and a lot of the ladies also do that now,just to add to the confusion,at least for me.My opinion,Women what equality, in every place in society.I think that is right.But on the other hand,women do not want a whimp,They still want a real man,too be there,for all the reasons,you know,be there for them,be the strong one.and still go out and make her proud.

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What are women really looking for? Posted: 4/16/2009 5:12:26 PM
Well,I wish I had a clue also,what they want.But I would not take it personal.Because I think a lot of guys feel the same as you do.I know I do,What they say in their profile,does not always mean ,what they are looking for,it is what the wish for,I guess.I must tell also ,A lot of these ladies came on this site,and some guys ,really did a number on them,and nice guys like us ,well they do not trust anyone,It sucks for nice guys.

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so, why are you still single? Posted: 3/27/2009 7:28:11 PM
I am going to just guess,The world has changed,Men a for years were needed too make a living for their family,well that has changed guys.women now make up the majority of the workforce.So what does that say,to men.Well,I really do not know,But what I do know ,is as far as money ,she can do just fine without you,so think about it.Women do need to marry any more.so we guys have to figure it out ,for all of the time since cave man days,how to make ourselves needed again

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LADIES......TELL US WHAT YOU WANT MOST FROM US AND THEN TELL US ONCE YOU GET IT ARE YOU HAPPY>? Posted: 3/25/2009 4:41:01 PM
Oh my Gosh,The age old question,I am sure every guy would love to know the answer.I know I would.Well,we can run down the list.Looks,as in finding a healthy mate.Security,good job or a means of support,personality,putting up with a mans bad habits,too many too mention,Loving kids,if a guy does not ,why mate?Respect a womans mind,that is must. But let her know ,that she is beautiful,because they really are ,and needed,because ,that is what it is all about.

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Ladies,Why do guys,always have to contact girls first?We get rejected,we get over it Posted: 3/13/2009 8:17:08 PM
Thank you,Fireman,My son is a policeman,and a vet from Iraq,I do have a clue what u guys do ,and it does make me feel a little silly,being on here,take care

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Ladies,Why do guys,always have to contact girls first?We get rejected,we get over it Posted: 3/13/2009 8:11:29 PM
have you ever got,NOT READ/DELEATED

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Ladies,Why do guys,always have to contact girls first?We get rejected,we get over it Posted: 3/13/2009 8:07:15 PM
Mr.Fireman,God Bless for the job you do.

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Ladies,Why do guys,always have to contact girls first?We get rejected,we get over it Posted: 3/13/2009 8:02:30 PM
We are not as hot as some of you guys,But we are doing are best

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Ladies,Why do guys,always have to contact girls first?We get rejected,we get over it Posted: 3/13/2009 8:00:44 PM
Hi ,You are a young guy.And It is a lot harder for us old guys,Trust me.

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I have been on this site for over a week and no luck Posted: 3/13/2009 7:58:11 PM
Well,what I have learned,I have not been on here, that long,but,you gotta realize ,that a lot of girls get a lot of mail,And why should they take a chance?

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Ladies,Why do guys,always have to contact girls first?We get rejected,we get over it Posted: 3/13/2009 7:38:28 PM
Hi ladies,I just was just wondering why ,guys have too contact ladies first,I mean things have changed a lot.Women have powerful careers,they know what they want, and go after it.But still they do take a chance,and risk rejection,Guys do IT we get very thick skins

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We have grown up,but the battle goes on. Posted: 3/6/2009 7:41:33 PM
I guess what I am really trying too say,I know a lot of you ladies get awful e-mails,from guys looking ,just too get laid,But A lot of guys want a chance,and are honest.And are very serious,about finding someone.

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We have grown up,but the battle goes on. Posted: 3/6/2009 7:26:34 PM
Please understand,I was not THE MR PERFECT, I an very glad I was not,I had to develope a personality,I was the guy that worked at getting dates.I am just as confused as a lot of guys are,I am wondering ,I have had women say too me,and read that on this site ,a lot,"THIS TIME, IT IS FOR ME,I WANT SOMEONE THAT IS PERFECT FOR ME NOW"That is fine,I hope also to find that person also,but I guess I grew up,and I will find the right person,FLAWS AND ALL.

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We have grown up,but the battle goes on. Posted: 3/6/2009 6:26:28 PM
I agree with you,about dating people you have no attraction for.Yes let them down easy.Just Curious,Why do you go out for the first date? Guys want to know.

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We have grown up,but the battle goes on. Posted: 3/6/2009 5:47:29 PM
I read a lot of the Info here,and sometimes it just takes me back to grade school,and high school.and just the differences between women and men.We are all trying to meet that special person.When we were younger,we wanted to be WITH the most attractive,and popular person.Well sorry to say ,a lot of us ,got our wish and married them.Well OOPs here we are now.I Really do have a point,I know it is important to have a awesome picture,and a a profile that tells the world about you,and what type of person you think,would match you.We do get a clue by pictures,and profiles,I just wonder how many of us really want to take that chance and meet someone.And after the first meeting ,do we really know that person.I would never have married ,and had kids after ONE date.SO people do not be so Picky.Give it a chance to bloom.

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Why do the dark hair guys have all the fun + rant =) Posted: 2/17/2009 3:37:07 PM
I HAVE RED HAIR,AND I AM DOING JUST FINE,LOTS OF DATES HERE.

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This is Serious Posted: 2/10/2009 8:03:08 PM
I do agree with you so much,Really My worry about a getting a date ,well ,is silly now days,a lot of my friend have lost thier jobs,and they are hurting,i really do try help them,I want to say, YES we need to try to help people that are not doing well.But also,I am looking for someone,to back me up,and let me bring out the strengh in her,and her in me

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This is Serious Posted: 2/10/2009 7:53:00 PM
I do really agree with you,But natural selection,was when I was In my 20s and 30s,,Things have changed a little,I raised 4 kids,did my part to populate the earth,Gosh,just looking for a girlfriend,

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This is Serious Posted: 2/10/2009 7:06:33 PM
I was wondering,if I go out ,and says she likes me,goes home,Gets back online,and thinks,well I really like him ,but she thinks JUST MAY DO better,gets back online,are they online professionals at dating.

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Time for a new start. Posted: 2/10/2009 6:42:51 PM
Yes I do agree,But when I do meet someone,I want to be judged, on myself,because I have a open mind,all people are different,and I take that on a case by case,oh I am not a attorney,LOL

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Time for a new start. Posted: 2/10/2009 6:19:39 PM
ITS very interesting,I posted this,I am in know way looking for pity,I am doing just fine.THe reason i posted this,was to let folks know,we need to move on to a better future.

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Time for a new start. Posted: 2/10/2009 6:06:40 PM
I am still kinda new here.I have been meeting so many nice people here.I have had about ,12 dates.On most of my dates the ladies ,have had a hard time healing,from past relationships(I also had a hard time to let that go)I just wish the ladies would judge us as new friends,and try,I know that is hard,but with a open mind.

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GLOW BOWLING,BILLARDS,D.J,DANCING, JAN 24TH- 9PM TO 1AM, WESTERN BOWL Posted: 1/22/2009 5:37:37 PM
HI,Sign me up,I will be the only one coming.

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