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cyberian_huskey

Joined: 12/14/2008

Msg: 117 (view)

Why do women scratch your back and bite your lip during sex? Posted: 11/27/2009 10:51:15 PM
Because we thought you liked it. It's an expression that we feel like your ****ing is intense and making us turned on. I guess we could do other things, like clasp on to the bed sheets and tug on them while we scream from orgasmic pleasure. If that's better.

cyberian_huskey

Joined: 12/14/2008

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why can't i meet a girl who just wants sex? Posted: 11/27/2009 10:47:41 PM
Because women don't want just sex. You can meet women who will only do sex, they are called professionals. They do it only for the money. Because they know that's what guys want. Other than that, no woman, not even ones in their prime, JUST want sex. period. goodbye.

cyberian_huskey

Joined: 12/14/2008

Msg: 99 (view)

Creepy Posted: 11/27/2009 10:16:37 PM
Weird. Funny how the unknown can bug us soooooo much. Why did he do this, and why that. He gave you the reason, but it doens't sit well with you because it's weird to you. You are a person whom would politely see the date through, and then probably not pursue it again if not interested. Us women seem to give too many chances don't we? We are soooo nice. and what are guys like? They think of their own feelings selfishly without any inhibitions, or need to be polite. It is rude to leave, after you traveled all that way. Here's a tip: never again travel all that way. Make a guy come to you, and you know what? If you don't like him, LEAVE, because you've seen now that you shouldn't have to suffer through something useless of other people aren't going to pay you an ounce of politeness or respect ANYWAY. Use your judgement though, I wouldn't be impolite to someone who's being nice to you. But next time you meet a jerk, LEAVE. Guys don't give a **** so why should we?? -Deborah

cyberian_huskey

Joined: 12/14/2008

Msg: 107 (view)

What are guys thinking? Posted: 11/27/2009 10:08:21 PM
Yeah, I read there's type A guy and Type B Guy. Type A guy respects you and treats you like a lady Type B guy doens't respect you, and only wants you for sex, and figures the sight of his penis is going to make you turned on in the same way, the sight of a pretty lady in a tight dress with big breasts and long legs turns him on. The body "card" works on guys, but women aren't attracted to body parts. you gotta use your kewl personality, care, and charm to get a girl attracted. anyway, You know type B guy when you meet him. He pays for the date, he arranges it in advance to give you time to pretty up and be convenient with your schedule, he doens't grope, and he speaks about normal things, and not what porn he's into. He doens't invite you to his apartment, or house, he doens't ask you to do webcam, he doens't try to get into your pants ASAP. Type A guy, you know him by where his hands go within 30 mins. If he doens't and waits for the end of the date, I guess that's a little smarter, but still, the same diff. That's all I have to say.

cyberian_huskey

Joined: 12/14/2008

Msg: 92 (view)

Proper Blocking etiquette Posted: 11/27/2009 9:58:52 PM
Etiquette: I believe that it's ok to block someone if you don't know them, haven't talk with them, and aren't planning to...ever. I think it's bad etiquette to block someone after you've say, gone out on a few dates, bugged the person to get to that stage, make the person feel like you meant something by it, and then after a few dates, when everything seems fine, dropping off into space, and with no explanation at all. I find that any attempt I make to find out what happened, even if I hold off for a week or so, so as to not seem like I'm chasing or worried or obsessed, STILL seems to make the person NOT tell me anything. In fact, they BLOCK me all the more. And yet I may have asked only once in the politest way. Why do men come in by storm and parade, act as if they've known you for a million years, and then leave you cold and keep it all a secret to themselves? I know I don't do anything weird or wrong. I'm just sweet. I think it's a little unfair, to be pushed to open you world to someone who chased you like a maniac, and then after a few happy moments, disappear and chop you off like you did something terrible! or it feels like that. I think blocking should be reserved for emergency situations. Like men who are child molesters or men who act creepy and make you frightened, or people who are extremely rude and won't be polite when you ask. I feel that blocking is cruel. If you've been nice to the person, and blocking to me feels like they think you were harassing the m, or threatening them. To me blocking feels like a last resort of the person is threatening, sick minded, and so scary, you are afraid to deal with them. However, after dating someone, and I've actually been so cool, and been so nice, baked them apple pie when they came by or something sweet....it's like a slap in the face. So I don't know what's with guys. why they see a need to BLOCK after dating them, or else attempting to use them. It feels immature. Like what if one day, I became a boss of a department, and they applied for the job. And I interviewed them and realized this is the person who BLOCKED me...I guess they aren't getting the job! haha. Similarly, that's what I think about people who burn bridges...pretty foolish. So UNLESS there is some really really good reason, like, you feel your life is i danger, don't block people. Or unless they are rude and you don't know them anyway. Right? That's my opinion. There is no harm in blocking someone before you meet or speak with them, but after you've dated, it's rude as can be. You can be respectful and tell them that you aren't interested in any more dates and are going your separate way. Any mature adult can grasp that, and move on feeling respected and treated with dignity. lets do that. -Deborah

cyberian_huskey

Joined: 12/14/2008

Msg: 129 (view)

What's up with young guys coming on to older women? Posted: 7/21/2009 5:19:44 AM
For me, I decided it could be the "solution" because I have a low social IQ, in my 20's I've been told because I have ASD (ASperger's Syndrome). I'm very proud to be Aspie, and it causes me to be hyper intelligent and creative, and yet at the cost of my social ability. so I'm more naive like a 20 year old! when I started dating them, I felt the social connection for the first time in my life and it's wonderful, but what is depressing me is, they only want sex. And they still want to marry the younger girls! But I'm 39 I look about 30 and I still have the dreams tht the young girls have. I feel sorta lost and confused in a muddle of a women in her prime sexually, with the energy and almost social mentality of the younger guys, but I can never have what I need all because these guys label us as sex objects ONLY. and then the ones the REALLY like older women, actually like the maturity! So, I'm stuck. It would all be perfect if I didn't look older than I am. So in order to fix up my situation, I guess I'm going to have to get a lot of surgury to make me look younger and then lie about my age, and THEN I might get a proper relationship. maybe...but who knows. I feel doomed.

cyberian_huskey

Joined: 12/14/2008

Msg: 457 (view)

SHORT GUYS Posted: 2/1/2009 10:03:30 PM
actually I should mention, I'm not hung up on this guy anymore, I was for a "short" while. I would probably like this peson again if he tried to convince me again. However if he didn't, I would just see him as a friend/acquaintance. but I guess really, you just like what you like. And I've liked different types of men. I dated one short guy that I didn't like after a while, for example. But yeah, I mean, some "people" have impact! Some people leave a lasting mark. It doesn't matter if short or tall, you can end up liking someone whom you never thought you would. It is just a matter of realizing it. I think men can sell themselves to women better than women can to men. I think a woman can change her mind more easily. That's just from hearing a LOT of stories where the women didn't like the man and didn't think he was her type, and he persuaded her. But men on the other hand, once they make up their minds, they don't seem to budge. You just have to give up and say "NEXT!"

cyberian_huskey

Joined: 12/14/2008

Msg: 148 (view)

Can a relationship work out if the woman does the chasing? Posted: 2/1/2009 7:15:12 PM
Well it depends. if it's chasing too hard, then it makes the person feel like you are not as valuable. You see, we associate value with rarity, and rarity with things that are harder to obtain. So then if you chase, you are hence making yourself overly available, so therefore you seem less valuable. But since women want a man to protect them and take care of them, it makes sense that women would want to be chased. Men however don't like to feel small, so if a woman chases, it might render away their natural aggression and desire to obtain what is rare and beautiful. However we all want some feedback. Being too cold on either side doens't work. What seems to work is, make yourself valuable. By having a life first. Then really you will not be overly seeking someone, and then when you meet someone, they will see you as valuable, and pay you some respect. It doens't mean that you "cannot" call them. Certainly that's ok. And if both parties made themselves impossible, that wouldn't work. So, it's a matter of people coming together who have their own lives first, being able to respect each other. You have to be on the same level. I think also if you are very available and the other person is too, you won't seem non-valuable to each other since you both have too much availability. However this leads to too much dependency. Then that leads to people being too needy for each other, and not exploring themselves and learning enough about themselves to know how to work in a relationship.

cyberian_huskey

Joined: 12/14/2008

Msg: 455 (view)

SHORT GUYS Posted: 2/1/2009 7:04:51 PM
I was really really REALLY attracted to a man a tiny bit shorter than me, or maybe "just" my height, and really the reason why is because of his personality and the way he looked seductively into my eyes, as well as his EXTREME intelligence and people skills. I don't know where he is now, but I wish I could have dated him. Plus he had a really manly personality, and he was a really good person and cared about people. He really SOLD himself well. I'm hung up on him, and yet I'll probably never see him again. He was one of a kind. He KNEW how to do it. I guess it all comes down to a few things: confidence is number one! Not egotistical but just really healthy positivity extreme intelligence is next reasonably good job Flirting is next. being a master of flirtation. caring for others, talking about how they try to help if they can really make themselves seem successful and go getters if they take care of themselves, wear nice clothes if they treat others well, is a good person treats you with respect has a romantic quality If a short man does all that, and he isn't ugly, he can get any girl he wants, even a model.

cyberian_huskey

Joined: 12/14/2008

Msg: 404 (view)

Talking about sex before even meeting Posted: 2/1/2009 6:46:30 PM
My opinion is this: I think if you don't want to have hot chatting sessions, or to feel obligated to have sex upon meeting the person, or if you just simply want to be mysterious and just lead them through knowing your first before sex (the right order of things if you want a relationship to mean more than wham bam thank you ma'am), then don't talk about sex. If all they want is sex and you try to talk about other things, and you end up saying you don't want to have sex until marriage, they leave. the saying goes "resist temptation and the devil will flee from you" and you save yourself lots of agony this way. Really what they are saying is: "I am on here to only get laid and I don't really care who you are, I am a desperate loser looking for some action, ONLY. And if you don't give it to me, I'll get it elsewhere" However if you DO want to have hot chatting sessions, and you want to have sex urgently, and you want to sort out these details now because it's really important to get the sex, and then if there's anything left over after that, fine or who really cares??? then talk about sex right from the start. Because that's all you'll get. But don't expect that anything else.

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