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Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 251 (view)

smokers dating non smokers!!!! Posted: 8/18/2007 4:33:48 AM
I smoke cause it's fun to blow O's, If I was dating a non-smoker I'd probably date her and if she kept nagging me in a nice way I'd probably give it up for her and expect some heavy brownie points for it in recognition!! So I'd have to date a tolerant non-smoker but It's not like i'm gonna shut you in an inclosed space and make you breathe 2nd hand smoke (that often) cause if my girlfriend doesn't like something I do my best to erecticate the situation , haha the first way of weaning me off would be not coming outside with me, so if I wanted your attention I have to stay inside with you and not go outside for a yucky smoke :p

chainlink

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Msg: 128 (view)

The Challenge is on...Men's opinions are needed! Posted: 8/18/2007 4:12:27 AM
OP: Yes I can attest I've made friends off this site a couple and they're really nice and we still talk :)

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 154 (view)

If a guy went to jail for beating up his girlfriend... Posted: 8/18/2007 3:55:08 AM
OP: Depends if she wants to be in an abusive relationship, if she feels like being a statistic then yeah!! date him!! /sarcasm ok yeah theres a time and a place to grab a girls shoulders and push her against a wall but I'm damn near certain it's only if you're being nice and you know it's ok, not all mean like how it sounded in that story. One of my toughest skinhead friends totally gets pwnd regularly by his GF he's a total **** where she's concerned haha it's funny watching him being all rowdy and like YAAA YAA!! running around, and then next moment he's on teh phone with his "gf voice" saying "mhhmm ya ya" "yup yup" And then look around pretending we can t hear and say "k mluvubye" It's ok to kinda like play around wrastle with your girlfriend jsut don't scare her and play nice for godsakes !! if she squeaks wrong or something you gotta act all worried and start petting her all concerned for her safety not screaming at her as if you want to eat her face or something truly gruesome like that. hold on I worded that wrong eating her face is a good thing, whatever you get the idea

chainlink

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Msg: 181 (view)

Re: Does True love Exist? Posted: 8/18/2007 3:38:33 AM
Of course it does!! Havn't you seen the princess bride? Pshhhh

chainlink

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Msg: 50 (view)

why i won't have sex Posted: 12/1/2006 10:58:35 PM
first off blusey you're analising it WAY TOO MUCH. It's ok if you don't want to have sex, while you're dating seeing who's out there nowadays that is a rare thing and if thats what you want feel proud for sticking to your beliefs. 2nd off the probationary thing is very fair I assume you're looking for long term right? In that case whats a few months or weeks compared to the years you'll be together, it'd be fair enough for me. it Sounds like you've just had too many 2month and 6month things where just when you start to like they guy he takes off or something stupid happens. You just need one of your girlfriends to pick you up give you a good shake and say "ITS OKAY!!!" and smile at you and then have her run around screaming laughing eating candy and then wrestling in skimpy clothes with you! ok that last bit was more my imagination please forgive me Dating is confusing as the apocryphal christian hellfire breaking loose on earth ! I yearn to be in a good long term relationship also, but the only way you can ever get there it seems is to weed through all the chaff. There's lots of nice people out there, I wish you luck in your search and when you DO find them that weeding makes the tasting of them that much sweeter for the ire you've had to go through!

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 58 (view)

I need opinion on what is important in relationships? Posted: 12/1/2006 10:40:12 PM
Mind, Body, Heart, and Soul

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Msg: 59 (view)

What are the secrets to keeping girls interested? Posted: 10/4/2006 6:20:21 PM
Make them feel special and make them feel happy. Ding ding ding

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I am not sure what he wanted, Please help Posted: 9/22/2006 1:05:44 AM
Well if you think about it in a hollywood movie you can get born live your life to 18 get married to your highschool sweetheart steal $1000000 from the bank with your husband, get away scot free only to find that he's left you to a foreign country with all the money, you can then go find him kill him find your true true love and live happily ever after in under an hour and a half. So him telling you he loves you after an hour isn't THAT bad is it? Lol J/K RED FLAGS they're probably trying to make you sleep with them or something I never understand why guys try and "trick" girls into bed.

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 64 (view)

Cars and Women Posted: 9/22/2006 1:01:40 AM
Sorry not a tire biter but it "turns me on" to see that a girl can drive responsibly and not road rage or speed or tailgate or act like some kind of psycho B.Itch when she's driving.

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 26 (view)

Speaking of scars, would you... Posted: 9/22/2006 12:58:54 AM
Any cute cutter that I meet I tell her to watch the movie "Secretary" It's about a cute cutter that quits and falls in love with a lawyer that also happens to be quite the sadist. A touching love story for those who can get their heads around it.

chainlink

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Msg: 89 (view)

What do women do, that pisses you off? Posted: 9/22/2006 12:50:51 AM
not much really, I actually tend to LIKE women and all their little ideosynchrasies

chainlink

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Msg: 30 (view)

Is short hair a turn off? Posted: 9/22/2006 12:41:43 AM
Depends on the girl how she does it and if she's suited to wearing it. One of my alternative style friend-girls has short hair is a little bit chubby knows totally how to dress. I think she's HOT, but then again I've seen other girls with short hair that it didn't look quite so great on whatsoever. Depends if you have the clothing fashion sense to go along with it or not. Think about it like long hair on a guy, very few can pull it off and still look good.

chainlink

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Msg: 23 (view)

How long should you wait....? Posted: 9/22/2006 12:31:50 AM
Just do what feels right, it's ok to kiss and cuddle and do anything you want. I'd say wait until your heart knows it's right to sleep with him. Good luck!

chainlink

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Why do women always think we are trying to pick them up ? Posted: 9/22/2006 12:23:15 AM
Probably because the way you worded certain things to them seemed that you were hitting on them. Girls can be tricky that way but I assure you with a little practice you can actually get friends that are girls!

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 68 (view)

How to tell a man that you are not interested after meeting. Posted: 9/22/2006 12:19:11 AM
I guess girls have it worse in this department classicly speaking. Seeing as it's usually expected for the man to make the move if I'm not interested I just be her friend and have a good time. Maybe girls on the first date just tell him you're not the type to jump into anythinig and that you want to hang out first a bit just to see what it's like to be in each other's space. Then if you're lucky and he has a clue the issue won't even come up at all, just make sure not to lead him on if you can TELL he has a crush on you put him in his place so that he can go be romantic elsewhere.

chainlink

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Msg: 63 (view)

Perfect guy....except.... Posted: 9/21/2006 11:27:24 PM
It's probably because he had an ex that babied the dog. Perfect example my buddies rottweiler used to be the big tough man-dog that he's supposed to be but then my buddy got in a long-term with a girl and she started telling the dog that he's so cute and special and always giving him love and attention and next thing you know he starts developing feelings and acts all hurt if you don't tell him how beautiful he is, now he's just this big cuddle-muff that looks up at you with those adoring cute brown eyes. (I like him better that way) As to the girl not liking the guy, it's simply cause she's not a dog person. He was probably shy about directly telling her how beautiful she was so told his dog in an aside the way Mr. Garrison does with Mr. Hat. he wiped the dogs butt??? OH NOOOOS !!!!! PLEASE NO!!!! You said he had an expensive house?? What's worse, wiping a dogs butt or having dog sh.it all over the persian carpets and hand-made venetian furniture? Please.

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 9/21/2006 11:05:48 PM
I look at the pics first if they appeal I'll read the profile, and honestly a lot of the time after reading the profile I pass on messaging them.

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 59 (view)

How Long Before Sex? Posted: 9/21/2006 10:56:17 PM
I usually try and hold off until a couple dates down the road so that the girl feels I respect her and also so that I can make sure she's not a head-case. I had the WORST experience this one time.. I went on a date with this girl I was really digging her and I thought she liked me a lot, and well things got a little bit heated and we ended up doing the deed on the first date.... Then she never returned my phone calls and was busy all the time! I felt SO USED!! Lol what a juxtaposition of the stereotypes of the sexes. Anyways I found that if you make the girls wait for a bit you can see if they're going to be the type to just chuck you or if they're cool chicks that will call back and can have a normal ongoing relationship.

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 364 (view)

What sends shivers down your back? Posted: 9/21/2006 10:50:47 PM
Nothing specific really, but I get that feeling a lot more when I'm being intimate with somebody I'm deeply in love with.

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 58 (view)

if you could get your virginity back? Posted: 9/21/2006 10:43:00 PM
Nope. First time I had sex it was with the girl I loved. Puppy love none-the-less at 16 but it was great and I'd never change it for anything.

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 162 (view)

what does the guy think of the woman - after sex? Posted: 9/21/2006 10:40:08 PM
I usually think "that was nice, now get over here for some cuddles!"

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 39 (view)

How has withholding sex affected your relationships? Posted: 9/5/2006 12:04:12 PM
haha I've witheld sex for an hour or two while she was tied to my cast Iron bed frame but thats another conversation alltogether

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 38 (view)

How has withholding sex affected your relationships? Posted: 9/5/2006 12:01:53 PM
I never have had this problem because I'm usually quite up front that sex is important and an emotional issue. For as long as I can remember in relationships we've been like bunnies right up until the bitter end. And besides that I don't date controlling bi.tchy chicks cause for some reason they don't seem to like me and the way I deal with girls like that. Maybe they find my up front honesty and low tolerance for bullsh.it annoying or something.

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 38 (view)

Meeting someone for first time: how long do you take from email to cell calls to in person? Posted: 9/3/2006 4:40:04 PM
The way I see it is if I saw you in public I'd have said hi, emails can be fun if the other person answers your questions and comes up with their own, it's somewhat reminiscent of teenage love letters, But I'd rather chat on the phone then msn cause I have a godly speed of typing so the conversation tends to get one sided unless the other person has the WPM, so phones are better. And as to meeting I say when it feels right and besides coffee is pretty damn innocuous and can go from 10 minutes to 3 hours if you want.

chainlink

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Msg: 125 (view)

Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 9/3/2006 4:31:48 PM
Sorry I don't love "****es" I really apreciate a nice girl who's got morals and knows how to comport herself.

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 45 (view)

From your first boy/girlfriend to your most recent, how has your type changed over the years? Posted: 9/3/2006 4:30:00 PM
You know that's somewhat of a funny question, it's like apples and oranges. Well my first girlfriend was a cute little submissive BBW 16 years old, I almost feel dirty thinking about it lol. My last one who lasted for 2 1/2 years was really great for the most part 22 year old goth girl with a maryln monroe body but a little bit skinnier. And to tell you the truth I'm not really sure what I want in my next girlfriend I'm kind of keeping an open mind and all I want is a meeting of minds and where my soul feels comfortable. And of course there would be the over-riding passion for each other but that usually flows naturally.

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

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Cant seem to find cute and honest !! Posted: 9/2/2006 9:03:42 PM
ahh well, you can be with somebody for years and years and still not know them. Main thing is look forward and maybe next time you'll find somebody who fits better. Luck of the draw?

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

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Bad kisser or no kisser....why? Posted: 8/31/2006 10:31:58 PM
Not kissing?? IS HE INSANE?????!!!! You need to break him of his evil habits! Join the kissing club, I'm SURE you've read about them they're in the vancouver news sometimes. I'd honestly even pull the "if you love me you'll kiss me" card not in any near such a brash way though! Initiate a conversation with him and explain how kissing is something that you attach great emotional importance to, or you could even threaten him to be handcuffed naked while watching sappy chick films and keep rewinding for the kisses and then uuuh kiss him downstairs as he's brainwashed with good feelings and stupid tv kisssing scenes. I for one don't stand for it. If I'm dating a freeze, she either warms up (And they generally do) or she's got to go, because I'm not happy in a relationship unless I can phsyically express my love for this person, or for those of you with trouble with Multisyllabic words either put out or get out! But I council a soft gentle aproach that he will just start melting, or you could initiate the new rule of no handjob unless you're kissing me! God I dunno I hate to council a woman to be controlling and use sex as a power play but I really like kink, so I generally find a really nice, romantic and good way to PROVE that the kink i'm on about is a good thing! Good luck, and if you need I can tell you where to get police handcuffs ;)

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 54 (view)

The most important thing about sex Posted: 6/13/2006 3:20:06 PM
Just F*ck her good and then she'll be begging for the cack. End of story. THEN AGAIN, when we have normal sex, most couples would call it rough sex. We do make love too, and yes we sometimes even do our version of "rough sex"

chainlink

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The most important thing about sex Posted: 6/13/2006 2:40:58 PM
Most important thing is just before you cum, Pull out, take off the condom and then Shoot it somewhere good!!!! Open wide baby!!

chainlink

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Why can't we just date if we're married? Posted: 6/13/2006 2:36:27 PM
Basicly what you are seeing here is what would happen if you walked into a crowded room at some top 40's bar where you get all the lowest common denominator people all hanging around and you brought up this same discussion. Honestly, you'd be best to go try talking to a more receptive crowd somewhere. Normal people don't like to be challenged. I'd say talk to your wife and let her know about how you feel she's having more luck at the whole thing then you.... From what I skimmed through here the girls are saying they all would worry about the wife. What if your wife went out and picked up girls for you?? That pretty much cancels out any of those girls worries about infringing on another woman's territory. Good luck

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 466 (view)

Morning SEX..... LOVE IT or HATE IT!!! Posted: 6/5/2006 12:59:48 AM
generally i like it, but usually i'm not awake fully enough to enjoy it, assuming we're talking just woke up morning breath and all hop aboard the love boat. After a morning coffee and a shower tho? Hellsyes!!

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 101 (view)

Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 6/4/2006 11:59:32 PM
Usually i end up going on dates with submissive girls who i know like certain things. But yeah Plan A. Look into eyes at right moment. Grab. Make her knees weak. Grab her bum for a second pretend it's hot potatoe, pull her close hug the lower back then push her to arms length and and look into her eyes. Theres kissing, and theres kissing.

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 35 (view)

Being a Cam-Girl and the problems with relationships Posted: 6/4/2006 11:52:08 PM
Hon, don't fret. Different people are ok with different things, hell if my girlfriend didn't have issues with her family about doing it i'd get her signed right up i don't see the harm in a little solo show. SEE there theres somebody out there who doesn't think you're totally insane, and if I have this opinion you'll probably be able to find another person with the same opinion! and good luck

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 59 (view)

showering?? Posted: 2/6/2006 11:27:47 PM
I smell like oil grease and metal a lot of the time But i also know how to shower, pretty impressive huh?

chainlink

Joined: 11/30/2005

Msg: 63 (view)

Confused Posted: 2/6/2006 11:21:22 PM
Well if i'm taking her out and pampering her, then when i bring her home she better pamper me!! And or vice versa I'm pretty good at pampering myself... My girls a sub, she's the cutest thing ever! There should be a balance no matter what. No one person should put everything into a relationship. And if you're talking first date type thing, then i let her pay if she wants, or we go halfers or I pay and she buys me desert down the road. Depends what we're doing really i'm pretty casual about things but i think the main thing is we pay the bill before we go I hate getting chased down by rabid employees.

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