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Dating frustration in your 30s?
Posted: 8/24/2009 12:56:38 AM | | Dating in our 30's is Extreamly frusterating. ... more so than it was in our 20's (for me anyway) i got married young (at 24) and divorced not too long after that (couple years) Not entirely by my choice, but it basically came down to her deciding she married the wrong person (me) instead of her high school boyfriend. ... so through hell i went, and came out the otherside a Much Better man. and once i figured out what it was that i honestly Do want and need in someone, ... and i started to actually look at the dating scene to find it, ... holy crap, .... its the same dating scene i remember from back in my early 20's, .. Full of people in their early 20's that dont have a Clue what they want or need in life, .. and sure as hell nooone that actually likes the idea of settling down, and building a life together with someone, .. and even less that can understand what "working together as partners" actually means. .. And as for those that are past their early 20's, .. there seems to be more drama than the TNT and Lifetime tv channels. Seems that the actual Good prospects that you happen to find here and there, .. are ussually so screwed up emotionally from past abusive morons, that even the Thought of even Thinking about something mroe than "just friends" sickens them. so where does that leave us men who are non abusive, stable, ready, and willing to find 1 Good woman to build a life together with, and Actually start building that life? .. Well for this man, .. its left me here, replying to a forum post about Why its so frusterating trying to date when we are in our 30's, and still looking for answers to age old questions on "how to find THE ONE" | | | |
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