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GWSmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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I like her,....but.. Posted: 9/27/2009 7:45:03 PM
Tell her how you feel, not us how you feel. It will do wonders.

GWSmith

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Can any girl learn how to deep throat??? Posted: 9/27/2009 7:30:55 PM
Whats so sexy about watching a woman choke and gag?

GWSmith

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When you get mixed signals, which do you believe? Posted: 9/27/2009 7:17:04 PM
Your guess is as good as mine, probably better because you know him.

GWSmith

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Dating a Gemini Posted: 9/27/2009 7:15:14 PM
HEY! I'm an Aries and I am a radio DJ, comedian, and all around fun guy cries and runs away

GWSmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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Question for guys help me please!! Posted: 9/27/2009 5:52:56 PM
A+. Thats all I can really say.... A+...

GWSmith

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Funniest thing ever happened to you during sex? Posted: 9/27/2009 5:41:10 PM
tried to get it on on a temperpedic mattress and we sunk into it to the point where moving became difficult. From now on I am a sleep numbers guy.

GWSmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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oops! I did it again.... Posted: 9/27/2009 5:24:48 PM
rather than go on the offensive when someone asks for a number or a personal e-mail instead just tell them that your not ready. It works for me...

GWSmith

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Dating a Gemini Posted: 9/27/2009 5:23:54 PM
Don't excuse behavior with Astrology....

GWSmith

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texting,texting,texting...... Posted: 9/27/2009 5:11:00 PM
If you don't like them then you don't have to do them, I only use them in moderation I much prefer to call myself but sometimes its just nice to send a message especially if you are busy. If you don't like them then just inform the people your interested in and I'm sure they will oblige

GWSmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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texting,texting,texting...... Posted: 9/27/2009 5:02:09 PM
Yep, text messaging has become a rather decent substitute for phone calls. Sometimes you want to know how someone is doing but don't have the time for a prolonged conversation so a simple "Hey I hope your day is super wicked" is seen as a good substitute.

GWSmith

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Being a virgin Posted: 9/27/2009 4:57:52 PM
Dude, there is nothing wrong with being a virgin. Seriously don't let it stop you from anything.

GWSmith

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When to call it quits Posted: 9/27/2009 4:56:21 PM
OP, your problem is you seem like the needy, whiny, and less than confident artist type. Those guys really aren't as attractive as some 13th century romances make them out to be.

GWSmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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confused and hard headed :( Posted: 9/27/2009 4:49:38 PM
Find a new and better man. Your only 25, there is lots of life ahead of you.

GWSmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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How do you react.... Posted: 9/27/2009 4:44:22 PM
I go with the honest approach. I dunno why people shouldn't especially if they intend for someone to find out the truth.

GWSmith

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You know what's sad about modest people, NOTHING. Posted: 9/27/2009 4:41:19 PM
Confidence is the key to attracting attention. You can be modest and be confident at the same time.

GWSmith

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What do you do when your EX-GF callls after 14 months? Posted: 9/27/2009 4:38:10 PM
She's an ex, and with a reason. Why try to light a charred pile of wood?

GWSmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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Do you like it when the woman emails you FIRST?? Posted: 9/27/2009 4:03:32 PM
Yes I do, it shows me she knows or at least she think she what knows what she wants in a relationship be it friends, dating, or something else. I'm not put off by confident or self sufficient women, I'm actually very attracted to them.

GWSmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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Pls help, guys and girls, did I lose him? what to do to get him back? Posted: 9/27/2009 3:49:43 PM
New Oracle: He probably thought you were afraid of him from the way you behaved. Just explain to him where you come from things are done a little (or a lot) differently. You apparently like this man and your hugging shows that, I take it as your sense of propriety prevents you from doing anything more than that which is something that I personally can respect. It is okay to show interest in someone in your own way, his was probably kind of extreme to you. What you need to do is consider what you were really feeling, and do what you in your heart and mind feel is right for you to do. Remember that part of any relationship is letting people know where you stand and how you feel about them as an individual. If you wanted to give him a bigger hug or even a kiss then its your decision and your right too OP, be honest to yourself don't do anything you don't want to or feel pressured to do. Dating an relationships are not about sex, sex is just a part of relationships and only when BOTH parties in the relationship are ready and willing to participate. If this guy is how you described him he will understand if you explain what happened, and if he's really interested in you for more something real and honest he will be patient enough to wait for the time and place when you are ready to take the steps you are ready for. Just remember; walk before you run. I hope that helps.

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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honest ? for my sister Posted: 9/27/2009 3:06:34 PM
This is actually easier than it sounds, she should get the **** away; nobody needs anything like that in their life. I fyou really care about your sister do everything you can to get her back to reality. It doesn't matter how she feels about him now once she gets away from she will start to realize how daft she is being.

gwsmith

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belly button kissing and licking Posted: 9/27/2009 8:41:24 AM
OP: Maybe try waiting until sex to do that?

gwsmith

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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me? Posted: 9/27/2009 8:33:34 AM
People always ask other people how they can get their lover to do this or that... how about ASK THEM.

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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How (not?) to end a relationship Posted: 9/27/2009 8:19:14 AM
After 6 months? By E-Mail or text message is real bad after 6 months. I can imagine worse though, what if she chartered a plain to skywrite: WE SHOULD SEE OTHER PEOPLE or something?

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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Why delete messages? Posted: 9/27/2009 8:11:27 AM
Some of us get a lot of messages.... sometimes I delete them because I got page after page of back and forth correspondence.

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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Should I do this? Posted: 9/27/2009 7:57:18 AM
No Reply = No Interest Sorry man, that's how POF works.

gwsmith

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Anyone have this happen to them before? Posted: 9/27/2009 7:46:54 AM
HAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA Come on now...we all KNOW what's in the popcorn bag don't we? POPCORN! Exactly, with extra butter.... at least on the first date

gwsmith

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Wife finds porn on computer and.... Posted: 9/27/2009 7:28:12 AM
Dude if that is the worst issue you are currently facing than I would say you are doing OK.

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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How do I get (politely) out of a threesome Posted: 9/27/2009 6:45:15 AM
Ok OP, listen up. Honesty is the most important thing in a relationship. Tell him what you think about his fantasy, explain to him you were only curious and it does not mean that it will ever happen, and remind him that most fantasies are never anything like they play out in someone's mind. That's my advice; if he's mature enough he'll accept that.

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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Is it a good idea for a couple to tell each other how much money they make? Posted: 9/27/2009 6:32:01 AM
Perhaps when you are going to be living with them... however I don't see why it matters otherwise.

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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Anyone have this happen to them before? Posted: 9/27/2009 6:28:57 AM
You just never know with some people, I've been trashed on a date because I didn't play whats in the popcorn bag with her....

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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How to reply Posted: 9/27/2009 5:37:13 AM
OP: Not everyone has time to get online every single day. The fact that they replied should be enough to carry on the conversation as long as you are still interested in it. If its a problem than talk to someone else. This is more like an e-mail service, not an instant messenger or a phone call. Sometimes replies take time. I'm on once a week, I get replies to messages I sent on Sunday on Thursday 2 weeks later. Either don't sweat it or don't bother with anyone who doesn't answer within ten minutes or whatever your arbitrary time limit is.

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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Men and Dating and Looks... Posted: 9/27/2009 5:30:35 AM
My physical standards are: 1. Is Female Yeah that's about it.... its far more, the emotional and mental that I am really interested. Its hard to find what I truly seek.

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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Closure. Posted: 9/27/2009 5:28:21 AM
I think when you spent two weeks trying to figure out what to do next you already dropped off. However, if she's not going to take the initiative to try and get in touch with you then it seems like a moot point.

gwsmith

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Ladies, How can I be more like one of you? Posted: 9/27/2009 5:24:53 AM
Okay OP, I may just be an ignorant Heterosexual talking but if he's not happy with you trying to be more like a woman it could be that perhaps he wants you to be yourself and not try to act like someone else all the time.

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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Shorter man Taller woman Posted: 9/27/2009 5:18:54 AM
OP: Why should it matter? It might seem awkward at first but eventually you'll adjust. Don't be so superficial to let something like someone's height affect your feelings.

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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Do nonmuscular skinny guys have a chance? Posted: 9/27/2009 5:12:09 AM
OP: Anyone stands a chance as long as they are confident. I have a bad job, I'm overweight, and I'm not all that good looking. But I'm honest, open, and confident in my self; that shows in everything I do and women genuinely like me. Stop doubting yourself, and if you do start doubting re-evaluate things and make the necessary changes. If you aren't confident in yourself than nobody can be confidant in you; your own insecurity is what holds you back.

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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Can someone gve me some tips for my first POF date...PLZ Posted: 9/27/2009 4:42:53 AM
Meet in a public place; for personal safety and comfort. Other than that its really no different from any other date: be yourself, remember that in theory they are going out with you because they like who you are and want to know more.

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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Guy Gets close -backs off and gets close again??? What? Posted: 9/27/2009 4:07:04 AM
Confront him; ask him why he gets hot and cold. If you don't like his answer or you think that because your just a little something on the side then dump him, you deserve better.

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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i like this guy Posted: 9/27/2009 4:05:38 AM
I just wanted to make sure you met him in person. I'm not certain but I think that last time I checked this is the 21st century and women are capable of doing whatever men are if you want to tke the man out then ask him; don't wait around asking him to ask you because he might not.

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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depressed post-sex Posted: 9/27/2009 3:47:03 AM
Maybe OP you need to get some counseling about your bad sexual experience. Your problem could stem from that, it could also stem as some people have suggested from the casualness of it. Sometimes we have a desire for something physical but are not actually prepared for it; maybe try and get to know your partners better before you have sex with them OP. If you know someone well enough then you should know if they'll still respect you in the morning and your depression might disappear. This last bit is just opinion but I think that someone should be excited and happy to have a new sexual partner in their life; when it happens to me I can't wait to start exploring them.

gwsmith

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i like this guy Posted: 9/27/2009 3:39:32 AM
Errmmm.... how well do you actually know this guy?

gwsmith

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Am I over reacting Posted: 9/20/2009 8:33:26 PM
I think you're overthinking it all. If you wanted an escort to your car you should have asked him.

gwsmith

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Let me give you the tour... Posted: 9/20/2009 7:17:09 PM
Hey, the hand lotion comment was a bit rough. I suffer from OCD and I have to wash my hands constantly; its no fun and its really no fair to make fun of people like me for it. We are like everyone else, just a little eccentric at times.

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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pof ethics...not sure if this has been asked before Posted: 9/20/2009 6:10:44 PM
Totally a non-issue then.

gwsmith

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I will survive! (new version) Posted: 9/20/2009 5:50:27 PM
I find it much more expedient to not lie about the farcically small size of my french fry.

gwsmith

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She threw my car into park... Posted: 9/20/2009 5:47:00 PM
I'm struck speechless.

gwsmith

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Let me give you the tour... Posted: 9/20/2009 5:33:12 PM
Perhaps he's obsessive compulsive? Its not him being rude its that he has a mild or severe problem that makes him like a nice orderly house or any number of things. As a OCD person myself I can understand where he comes from if so, he does not mean anything by it but it troubles him to have those things happen.

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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why do woman see men as just friends Posted: 9/20/2009 5:28:17 PM
Your problem OP is you never seem interested enough, or perhaps you are attracted to the wrong kind of women for a guy like you. Romance can be a pain in the ass aye?

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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pof ethics...not sure if this has been asked before Posted: 9/20/2009 5:20:49 PM
You know, until things get serious with someone there is nothing wrong with it. I've had best friends date me at the same time, we had fun. When i was in college I took out a group of four women whom I was 'dating' and we all had a good time; I guess its all about perspective. If i start taking someone seriously than I begin to phase out the others from romance.

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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Girlfriend going on holiday with her male friend? Posted: 9/20/2009 4:38:56 PM
You know, its a judgment call. Do you trust her to go around with this male friend of hers? If not than perhaps you should re-evaluate the relationship because one of you (it could be either you or her) is in the wrong. You if you are unfoundedly suspicious and her if she is going behind your back.

gwsmith

Joined: 12/18/2008

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Kiss + Chemistry Posted: 9/20/2009 3:38:33 PM
Its easy in my opinion. I can tell if a kiss is lackluster (not interested) or not (interested) and depending on the volume or length of kisses just how interested they are; at least physically interested. It takes more than physical things to divinate romantic interest.

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