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zapped

Joined: 12/19/2008

Msg: 63 (view)

H1N1 vaccine. Are you getting a shot? Posted: 11/11/2009 2:19:50 PM
OT this is for steno. Youre not alone..ive encountered some people who got lots of tats and piercing but when it comes to needles/shots they were terrified..kinda funny or weird ..but ...

zapped

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H1N1 vaccine. Are you getting a shot? Posted: 11/11/2009 2:03:55 PM
yeah ive got it last night. I was upset to get one but I have encountered few people already who are positive and im not protected.These days so many cases already coming in the hospitals. I was very skeptical at first until ive got those patients who are positive to H1N1. I love my family and dont want them to catch it because I am exposed..i work in a health care setting. I dont want my family to be ended like that what I saw to those people who are H1N1(+). even though I didnt t like the idea of getting one...its for my love ones that I need to protect them. I just thank God that I havent feel anything yet, from the shot...im crossing my fingers.

zapped

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Tempted to contact him Posted: 9/28/2009 5:27:10 PM
youre a pretty woman to chase a dude who's feelings wasnt the same as yours. Just think that you guys werent really meant to have a relationship that's why he stopped communicating with you. plenty of fish,girl. just keep on dating and best of luck.

thegirlintheforum

Joined: 12/19/2008

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take it as it comes Posted: 9/20/2009 10:13:54 AM
thats right farceur. ive seeing a guy for almost 5 months ,I dont ask him where are we now as he told me in the very beginning 'take it as it comes" so I said okey. we enjoy each other's company..we always have fun. the set up is just like that--he calls when we both free to go out and have fun. these days my friends are asking if we have a relationship...I said..no we are just "friends" then lots of asking from friends "whats going on"....like "ohhh youre seeing this guy for awhile and just "friends" so I said"well, he said "take it as it come, so"......................

thegirlintheforum

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take it as it comes Posted: 9/18/2009 7:48:11 PM
so that means a woman has to wait when a man wants to have a relationship? so it means that a man will do the lead? I think I like deacon's what he said.

thegirlintheforum

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take it as it comes Posted: 9/18/2009 10:16:27 AM
what does "take it as it comes "means in dating? whats your view in that statement? does that gives you positive or negative out look if a person says that to you? I wanna hear your input re:the statement above.

thegirlintheforum

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AGE DIFFERENCE? Posted: 9/12/2009 10:23:34 AM
ive dated a 26 year old man ..I felt that I was intellectually matured than him..then ive dated a 39 year old man--I felt that he was too way old for me in everything. I onced asked myself wtf...i was dating too young and too old and I dont know where I would be?

thegirlintheforum

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first meeting etiquette Posted: 9/11/2009 5:45:51 AM
update: the meeting went well..he said we will do it again sometime. I ended the meeting and reached my hand to him and give him a handshake. Told him"sure,thanks for the coffe and nice metting you" so its been 2 days now.He never emailed me yet. Im going to see a concert tonight,im planning to invite him,but im shy to call because what if,,he didnt really mean it when he said "well do it again sometime"? thoughts anyone?

thegirlintheforum

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first meeting etiquette Posted: 9/9/2009 12:06:10 PM
capricorn 40..thanks for ALL your responses.im glad you heard me, I appreciate it. well....I guess we gonna meet tonight he emailed me last night, I just got it today..so wish me luck. hey,Landra,thanks for the input,eh! this is what he said: See you tonight at 730 _____________. If you want to meet at 700 instead...let me know and that should work also. wish me luck guys I hope it's gonna be a lucky 9/9/9.

thegirlintheforum

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first meeting etiquette Posted: 9/8/2009 6:59:23 PM
call me ridiculous or anything...I feel like im doing the effort...close to chasing him.. I dont know... but im going to stick for my plan no reply by tomorrow at noon...im going to cancel the meeting.

thegirlintheforum

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first meeting etiquette Posted: 9/8/2009 6:23:48 PM
I sent it at POF sending box ..it showed (he) read @1207am--on 6/9/09. I want a confirmation--a want a reply thats all.

thegirlintheforum

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first meeting etiquette Posted: 9/8/2009 5:20:50 PM
im glad I wasnt sounded unreasonable If I couldnt get any reply til tomorrow noon,I WONT show up. But for being polite ,Im going to phone him tomorrow( at noon time) that I ve changed my mind and cancel the meeting. He recieved my email he read it but no comfirmation., so................

thegirlintheforum

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first meeting etiquette Posted: 9/8/2009 12:17:12 PM
Im going to meet someone from POF tomorrow. the funny thing he asked me what time works for me and the place to meet. I said 5pm he then asked me if we could meet @730 pm as he still sleeping around 5pm as he work midnight shift. So I emailed him last Sunday and agreed to meet @730pm. He didnt reply..not sure,if we still going to meet. Im expecting that at least he would follow up a common courtesy --a lil note like saying"looking forward to meet you on Wednesday". now,I feel a bit sour ..what do you think..am I being unreasonable here? No.im not going to call nor email him to remind about the meeting tomorrow. your thoughts,please?

thegirlintheforum

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am i just an idiot for going with my gut? Posted: 9/7/2009 8:17:12 PM
IMO -he didnt respect his OWN dad what's your assurance that he will respect you or your love ones? probably he is still young and in rebellion stage, he might change once he becomes matured....just be careful with him. Ive read in your profile that youre closed to your dad probably talk to your dad about the guy youre seeing and see what your dad's assesstment on him. Even im 29,I still share to my dad about who I am dating/seeing --he gives me pointers about men and so far..my dad never got wrong.

thegirlintheforum

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What are your thoughts about a woman who has been twice divorced? Posted: 9/4/2009 6:13:25 PM
divorce once is okey second divorce ..uh oh something wrong divorce 3x ..run Tania run

thegirlintheforum

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WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE INSPIRATIONAL QUOTE, STORY OR POEM? Posted: 9/1/2009 10:00:48 PM
The Road Less Travelled Two roads diverged in a yellow wood, And sorry I could not travel both And be one traveller, long I stood And looked down one as far as I could To where it bent in the undergrowth; Then took the other, as just as fair, And having perhaps the better claim, Because it was grassy and wanted wear; Though as for that the passing there Had worn them really about the same, And both that morning equally lay In leaves no step had trodden black. Oh, I kept the first for another day! Yet knowing how way leads on to way, I doubted if I should ever come back. I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-- I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference ...Robert Frost

thegirlintheforum

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It wasnt a desparation after all..what next Posted: 9/1/2009 4:00:05 AM
whoaahh! take it easy there ,WackOmc.

thegirlintheforum

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It wasnt a desparation after all..what next Posted: 8/31/2009 10:41:16 PM
haha well my grammar sucks..ive just saw what I have written...the "threw "part...Im not offended..at least ive made you guys laughed..isnt that make me unique...my cute grammatical error? so people stick to my questions,please. Next time im going to look for a man who will help me "polished " my grammar/english. yep jackass errr jackal. scratch off..I think there's no silly questions only silly answers. I dont know why my question is being silly, it makes me think why a woman cant invite a man for different types of activites on the first meeting aside coffe ?But a man could invite a woman in different activities like wacthing hockey even they havent met yet? There was a man who invited me to watch a hockey game with him but I declined his offer as we havent met in person yet?

thegirlintheforum

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It wasnt a desparation after all..what next Posted: 8/31/2009 9:53:54 PM
Hello guys once again im back..feeling hehe.....happy? this is the update of my thread titled"I felt I came out desperate..what now" This afternoon ive received an email from the guy..he said he logged off and he didnt read my email.He explained that yesterday his male friends threw a birthday party at him ,he was busy and didnt read my email.He checked his email today and he was hoping that I would call so I called him..(earlier this time ),we talked and planned to meet next week. Im thinking that I would invite him to watch a concert with me on Sept. 11 but I feel its too early for me to do that because I dont know if we would click in person. He said that he enjoyed talking with me over the phone, I still didnt give my phone number.But I promised him once we meet and if we click he could have it. my question is..do you guys think that inviting him to watch a concert with me is a little bit early or ill stick to my plan that we are just going for a coffe? thank you in advance for replying this post.

thegirlintheforum

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I broke up with you - dont contact me Posted: 8/31/2009 12:51:15 PM
Its called a BREAK-UP because its BROKEN". I think that is what the dumper wants to put at the forehead of the dumpee. no matter if one wants to be friend with the other if one doesnt want a contact that means NO CONTACT <<<<< that needs to be respected.

thegirlintheforum

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I felt I came out desperate...what now? Posted: 8/30/2009 1:40:51 PM
thanks all for the replies. It felt relieved that I didnt come out desperate. message #10-I didnt call him I sent an email if he still awake,I could have phoned him..he didnt email me back .so I didnt call. Yes. I will wait for his answer. I have a prepared speech for him just in case we would chat again just to cover up an awkward moved, moment and situation. I would say Im glad I didnt call you as I was suffering from a slurred speech due to too many Jack Daniels--haha-- lame lame lame If he's not going to email me back then thats fine,im okey with it.Im going to move to the next guy who is next inline. Ill better behaved next time,learned from my lesson. Ahh ..dating sucks,sometimes im acting crazy..it happened that I like the dude and I dont know how to relax and just let things happen.(blushing). PS...I liked all the answers, you guys are great!

thegirlintheforum

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I felt I came out desperate...what now? Posted: 8/30/2009 8:29:52 AM
Guys I need help I think I blew it and I need my self respect back .lol I met a guy here at POF we exchanged emails for almost a month he gave me his number to call him anytime.Two weeks ago I phoned him but it was a wrong time as I called him @ 11 pm -I didnt know that he had to work the next day.( I didnt give him my phone number) We lost contact for 2 weeks,havent heard from him and I never called him again. Last night I saw him at POF,I just came home from a girls night out.I was bit tipsy too much alcohol but I was still "coherent"lol. Anyways I sent him a message and greeted him a happy birthday.It was his birthday last night. He was suprised to received an email from me plus he was suprised that how did I know his birthday.I said that he told me before, so he said : you have a good memory! We exchanged few emails last night and I was excited to be in touch with him again..so I decided to call him @130am.I said:youre still awake?I can give you a call,im not sleepy yet.He didnt respond.I dont know,if he logged off. I felt embarrased of my action...ahh damn it..I want my dignity back.

thegirlintheforum

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Super interested in a guy but.... Posted: 8/28/2009 10:18:55 PM
OP if youre not comfortable giving your phone number then dont do it. I dont give my phone number to men until we meet in person for safety reason. If he really likes you,he can wait until you are comfortable enough that you can trust him. For now, just relax.Since youve already given your celphone number to him let him call you. let him do the effort to call. good luck.

thegirlintheforum

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Did I come on too strong? Posted: 8/28/2009 2:45:23 PM
it could be that the feelings of excitement fizzled out. Too much texting back and forth sometimes wears off. give him sometime to cool down a bit and see from there..if he's not going to call you again ,then thats it-its gone he doesnt want to pursue seeing you anymore. that means youre not the one.

thegirlintheforum

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Should I be worried? Posted: 8/28/2009 11:06:26 AM
Its better NOT to date anyone who is just came out from a relationship.It just safe to do. Mostly either they are just using someone as a rebound.But most of all they are vulnerable, confused or just simply not there. Some of them have still an excess baggage or some of them have still unfinished business, just like your boyfriend is facing right now. next time,do some relationship background check before jumping in. Sometimes its not the man's fault--its ours we dont think wisely and at the end we are the one gets hurt. its just like saying...face the consequences. the last statement kinda brutal but its true. Moving in is not a joke,its not like youre sleeping with him for a day or two. It means moving in EVERYTHING you have right now,it seems its too fast,too soon, you dont know the man yet what IF he changed his mind after few months and told you things didnt work out as what it planned? what you gonna do?

thegirlintheforum

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know if the guy is just looking to hook up? Posted: 8/25/2009 5:56:18 PM
its only a sex talk ....as long that you wont end up having sex with him youre still in the safe mode for a hook up ..let him talk til he would have hard enough to get blueballs. seems like a sex tease for him...dont give in girl...you have the power of the upperhand.

thegirlintheforum

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What are you looking for in a relationship? Posted: 8/25/2009 11:34:07 AM
commitment,commitment ,commitment

thegirlintheforum

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No shows..... Posted: 8/25/2009 6:17:01 AM
think twice before liking him his behaviour showed up that he is an irresponsible dude. Youre just starting to know him and you felt already a pain in the asS of his attitude. Or it could be he wasnt that attracted to you he probably treated you as a biker girl while he's in town?

thegirlintheforum

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late phone call...what I have done? Posted: 8/23/2009 11:19:24 AM
WackMC..lol that was a cute response and the frustrated emoticon i liked it...ok im going to phone him im just collecting my composure back again because I felt embarrased after that wrong timing call.I feel chicken to make another move...dang it! DDB--thanks for the insight,yes,I know it wasnt a deal breaker I think what I did phoning him out of nowhere was a bit weird though I just wanted to suprise him that he got a call from me.I seemed creep him out--lol. I like to surprise people..haha im going to suprise him of another call on his birthday, this time I wont call in a late hour. wish me luck for our first meeting. DDB ive just checked your profile...it was hilarious!

thegirlintheforum

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last 5 forum posts.. gone. Posted: 8/23/2009 10:12:34 AM
I dont understand either why the favourites has been removed The site keeps on changing many times and mostly it turned out crap. Just like the favourites. I dont really care if I only have 4 favourites since I became a member here last December..my point is why you have to delete it if some people have 1 million fish favourites?Who knows some of them were dead ,carcass,frozen,salted ,stinky fish? You cannot please everybody...you started and designed the fave lists and it became a part of the sucess of your lucky fortune so why you decided to delete it at this time? By removing the favourite lists,you cut half the fun...(thats cruel) Markus,put back the fave.lists and let it stay that way. Dont be so eager to keep on changing what you have started because it looks good that way it was also,if it aint broken then dont fix it as you came out screwed and look retarded.

thegirlintheforum

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late phone call...what I have done? Posted: 8/23/2009 7:45:00 AM
Thank you all to those people who gave me their input as well to those who emailed me. Rainman is right I didnt know that he was going to work the next day actually he said that it was very rare to happened to work a little bit early on his job and it happened again that week. He really wanted to call me sometime but as what I said I dont give my phone number unless I have to meet someone in person and to like a man.If we dont click at least no one would bug me to call and I wont call a man again. I am being careful who I give to my phone number. The same reason why I didnt give him my msn messenger ,I gave him my yahoo messenger but he has no yahoo account so he suggested that we could keep in touch at POF forawhile until I am comfy enough to meet him. When he asked me my number I said"yes Im willing to give it to you when we meet...look were getting there,we're exchanging emails,now I phoned you and more phones to come and when will meet next week..you can have my phone number"I gave him a hint that I was interested and started to like him. So it sounded that he agreed to that. His birthday will be next Sunday,I am planning to call him again but I dont know if that would happen as I havent received any emails from him yet. Probably he is busy these days as I havent seen him logged in. at POF.If he would drop me an email then I would call him again and greet him a happy birthday if not,I wont pursue calling him and that would be it.......end it. message no.15...I am looking for a man who knows how to wait..if a man couldnt wait..umm..ill drop him.Its a matter of me being comfortable ,I havent seen him yet what he really looks like ..he still a stranger to me.Besides, I didnt ask his number he gave it to me....if I called a man good ,if not nothing to loose...its not being an exchange deal of phone numbers.

thegirlintheforum

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late phone call...what I have done? Posted: 8/22/2009 11:37:21 PM
Ive chatted a guy at POF for a month now..he gave me his phone number and he said that I could phone him anytime.Last Monday ,I phoned him for the first time.He was surprised of my call he was laughing when he knew it was me he said"I almost go to bed as I have work early tomorrow"I apologized for a late and unexpected call.Weve chatted for 10 minutes and I let him go.Its been a week that I havent heard from him. My question to men...is an unexpected ,late call from a girl you havent met yet weirded you guys out,rude, a turn off? just want to hear what you guys think on this one. He sounded happy to hear my voice but I think it was a wrong timing to call him late--my bad :( I phoned him at 11pm. edit--we are just chatting over POF I havent given my msn messenger yet because its only for close friends and I dont really know him that yet so we decided to communicate at POF for awhile .Actually he asked me for my phone number before we ended our convo.Ive told him that Ill give him my phone number when we decided to meet.I dont give my phone number unless I like a man.We seems we are liking each other and we planned to meet soon.

thegirlintheforum

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I get too nervous to go on dates so I always cancel Posted: 8/7/2009 1:39:34 PM
OP..deal what is behind your fears.It is normal to feel nervous but to the extent that youre feeling negative then something is wrong. Dare to date, and trust, again . Dare to overcome your fears,dare to fall in love and hurt again..live and learn thats part of the conquest to find what you are looking for. good luck,cast aside your fears ,get out and date , youre beautiful to waste your years and stuck being single and being fear of the unknown. feel again the magic of kissing.. when was the last time you feel the euphoric of kisses? arent you missing those?Of course i didnt say that you kiss any men out there if you know what I mean.

thegirlintheforum

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Does honesty hurt more than just dissapearing? Posted: 8/6/2009 4:15:34 PM
Honesty will set us free,disappearing leaves a person worthless and disrespected.

thegirlintheforum

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Unsure where I stand with him Posted: 8/4/2009 6:44:21 PM
its been like that for 4 years now, arent you tired of the set-up? 4 years is very long to waste your time to a man who doesnt know what he really wants yet youre asking where do you stand? Its not his fault anymore if he treated you poorly as YOU let him take you for granted. Time to wake up and do some soul searching. It looks like you dont have a healthy relationnship with him.It looks like he doesnt love you enough. Do you want to be with a man who is uncertain what he really feels for you?

thegirlintheforum

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What would you do if your daughter was being abused by her boyfriend? Posted: 8/4/2009 11:55:31 AM
OP--just think that NOT all people have the same opinion think that you are talking with strangers with different views of the situation.Just dont get carried away with your emotions.Good or bad take it ..take the good advices and learn from it,the bad ones..are just bad ones and drop it.Relax and dont get pissed.But I for one was disturbed by the pictures,I felt horrified to the situation but I was bothered by your picture.I agree that you shouldnt posted it at the dating forum.It could be better to posted it at off topic ...or probably just post it without your pictures.Some people looked at the picture as a gross. We saw your pain and what youve been through but showing your pictures, I wanted to puke not on you but to the pictures.If you know what I mean? If i were you its better to remove your pictures, we believe you. thanks.

thegirlintheforum

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What would you do if your daughter was being abused by her boyfriend? Posted: 8/4/2009 9:36:59 AM
Op sorry for what happened. Always bring pepper spray with you. Next time kick the man on his balls. Both you and your daughter enroll in self defense class. Be careful or better yet find another place to live.Who knows your daughter's bf will come back and do more harm to both of you. take care.

thegirlintheforum

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Is he 'into me' or not? Posted: 8/3/2009 12:43:27 AM
OP how long youve been separated? It could be one reason why he seems cold to you?

thegirlintheforum

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Vista or XP-- i feel crap need help pls Posted: 8/2/2009 12:12:44 PM
thank you all for the input. you guys are great. I would definetly back to XP and would install Windows 7. Blade Runner,you made me laugh the way you typed the word M$--lol I saw money. thank you also to those who gave me some sites to download re: my HP problems. you guys rock!

thegirlintheforum

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First date etiquette: Should men pay? Posted: 8/2/2009 11:53:45 AM
my first meeting with a man is always for a coffe nothing fancy nor expensive..though im not expecting him to pay but I do test him if he would pay my coffe or not. If he would pay,I would assess him as a gentle courteous man.I would definetly go out with him again.If he let me pay my own coffe..then I wont go out with him again. First date if the bill is more than $50.00 dollars I offered to contribute with the bill.If he insisted to shoulder it, I would appreciate it and do something like buy him a coffe aftter dining.Or I would tell him that Ill treat him next time. For me its matter of give and take or reciprocate that makes dating turns out fun and successful. Its a matter of how a woman being sensitive, do common sense ,how much is too much for a man to shoulder the bill and how willing a woman to offer the amount of bill in order that a man thinks that a woman only wants a free meal or wants to be treated like a princess. just my opinion.

thegirlintheforum

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Vista or XP-- i feel crap need help pls Posted: 7/30/2009 12:18:39 PM
I just purchased a new PC and I am using Vista and is complicated.My knowledge in computer is limited. At Vista i have to look around where I stored my files etc, and the most complicated is downloading pic and fix it. Also my HP 4 in one doesnt scan at Vista. Some of my friends suggested that I should go back to XP...what do you guys think? I need opinion which one is better Vista or XP? thanks.

thegirlintheforum

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She says she wants to keep things casually now. Posted: 7/26/2009 1:05:18 AM
do you like her? do you want to have a serious relationship with her? do you like it when you had sex with her? if both of you just stay because nothing else comes along ..better quit now than just delaying the time and find out later that nothing is so great for both of you.

thegirlintheforum

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Why is going out with someone your not attracted to a waste of time? Posted: 7/25/2009 10:02:44 PM
nice pic dwf...love your pair of tits too haha jk. hey im not a lesbo okey.

thegirlintheforum

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Creative assertivness... Posted: 7/25/2009 9:47:47 PM
tell her..hey do you want to make out tonight?im soooooooooooooo ready how about you? creative,assertive..sleazy and funny.

thegirlintheforum

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Whatever Happens Happens Posted: 7/25/2009 6:36:34 PM
bump to the old post. I used to date a dude for quite sometimes..he said that phrase to me he added.."take it as it comes, whatever happens happens just go with flow"..I dont know what the heck he was trying to convey...but all I know he wanted to sleep with me..but I stopped him. He tried twice but no to avail...so he gone with the wind. so it could be that what he was trying to say he wanted sex..it didnt happen? because what I understand of the phrase is that...ok lets date and see where this goes...if we clicked then we are going to have a relationship,if we wont click then we will stop dating...I dont know if dating includes sex? because to me..im not going to sleep with a man if he isnt my boyfriend. dating is just dating. but I want that both party agrees that we are in a relationship if he isnt telling me that we are in a relationship then no SEX will happen.

thegirlintheforum

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one night and no more??? Posted: 7/25/2009 3:41:12 PM
it was only a ONE time date..so go ahead let him text whatever he likes to say but dont take it seriously until he decides to date you again. at ONE time date only ..dont assume anything yet.Dont wait ,just do nothing. When you feel the time is getting rusty of not calling for another follow-up then the ONE time date ended before you knew it. good luck

thegirlintheforum

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Why is going out with someone your not attracted to a waste of time? Posted: 7/25/2009 1:38:41 PM
Ive read your original post again and some of your replies just to be sure I didnt misread nor misunderstand what you trying to say. I think I got your points ..yes, its not a waste of time (for just one time)going out and having fun to the one who youre NOT attracted with.But being said NOT ATTRACTED WITH is negative words..as if for me, I interpreted like this way"wow, he goes out with me but he isnt attracted to me".I think its better to say that you dont believe that its a waste of time going out with someone with the opposite sex without feelings involve.May it be an acquitances,just meet while youre out for the day/or night . But OP for me,I couldnt stay going out with a man for a long period of time,ill get tired--I just cant dance night away with the opposite sex for the "meantime",because I have nothing to do or because its better than staying home and get bored. Its kind of waste of time for me,because Im with him rather than taking my chances to look around to the one I like. For me,I feel stuck, I will not be happy hanging out with a guy,probably enjoying the moment but at the end of fun things...im still empty. lol..ya know what..i dont know ..... bottom line..I dont want to spend time with someone that Im not attracted with even just for pure fun.I cant see myself why I have to hang out with a guy that I dont feel anything with him.

thegirlintheforum

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After being burned Posted: 7/24/2009 7:13:55 PM
OP when was your last relationship ended? are you ready to date again? being burned is normal,but dont just let it stop you to find love and happiness again. dare to trust,to fall inlove,to express what you feel and get hurt once again. by past and present experiences will teach you to become stronger and wiser as you grow older.That makes you mature as well. all the best to find the love of your life.

thegirlintheforum

Joined: 12/19/2008

Msg: 56 (view)

How do YOU know when it's over? Posted: 7/24/2009 7:03:37 PM
good points arabianangel. OT im thinking to say "hi 'to you here, as well.

thegirlintheforum

Joined: 12/19/2008

Msg: 44 (view)

Why is going out with someone your not attracted to a waste of time? Posted: 7/24/2009 1:06:45 PM
I just checked your profile youre looking for an LTR..it made me confused what you want. whats your style in finding the right one? in a contrary why spending going out with opposite sex hanging out,if you could do that with your male friends to avoid getting women feelings complicated? As what I said mostly people date to know if theres a future..so why date them if you feel there's no future? and youre not attracted to them?I dont understand...do you just want activities with a partner? I think the convienience is onto YOU..not with anyone else. you may not be an ***hole,but probably just a Feck up a bit. Probably you just want a hook up--then say it! say what you mean..and mean what you say...thats all. anyway,for me I dont want to date anyone just because he feels alone...im not his entertainer.I rather be alone and watch TV than with someone and I feel irritated or just to be with someone as my companion. I can go out with my friends male or female watching movies etc not with just someone that I dont really barely know and he just there because there's nothing he can get with. dating is like that..either its there then go for it if there's nothing there then walk away..why wasting their time?..what for,man, what for? The way you explain that you want to go out with someone that youre not attracted is not fair.

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