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alone in the garden

Joined: 12/19/2008

Msg: 7 (view)

How long before you say/said I love you? Posted: 7/3/2009 5:39:53 PM
lol i think i waited a week, but i was drunk and having the most amazing sex and he said it first

alone in the garden

Joined: 12/19/2008

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Should men pay half of the expense of women's birth control? Posted: 7/3/2009 5:05:04 PM
I wouldnt ask my SO to pay half the BC expense...seems kinda petty but he is always very generous to me in other ways.....$30 a month is a helluva lot cheaper then a baby!!!!!

alone in the garden

Joined: 12/19/2008

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Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/2/2009 12:01:53 AM
Wow everyone has an opinion on this one.... I'm not really tall, 5'8 (but i like heels) and in 3 out of 4 of my relationships the man was shorter.. but considering there is never a shortage of tall men, i think it comes down to me liking short guys.... now i'm wondering why.....

alone in the garden

Joined: 12/19/2008

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I guess I'm going to hell for this... Posted: 6/17/2009 9:21:19 PM
HMMMM.. well thanks again for all your remarks, some of it hit pretty close to home and some things are so far off to be laughable, No doubt due to the limited scope of information i've provided. As it stands I broke it off with Rod and am avoiding Jon basically because, i'm moping around about Rod. And Yes I totally realize i sound like i'm in highschool, in fact i made that very remark to a friend of mine. I called Rod and when he stops over i'm gonna tell him the whole story because my GD concience is giving me pain and then the chips can fall where they may.... Outmind yours is the only comment that hurt my feelings, I've endured more than you can even imagine and i am an incredubly strong woman and dont consider myself a victim. Well except from my inability to make decisions and trust people but i'm working on me!

alone in the garden

Joined: 12/19/2008

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Doesn't want to go too far? Posted: 6/16/2009 11:16:11 PM
He's probably married or in a relationship and his concience will only let him take it a certain point across the line or he's just not that into you sexually or he has herpes! Actually if you think about it there could be lots of reasons.....

alone in the garden

Joined: 12/19/2008

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I guess I'm going to hell for this.... Posted: 6/16/2009 10:14:09 PM
OMG I knew Rod was gonna make it hard to break up but that was killer hard, i can't stop crying, He was crying when he finally left...and hugging me and begging me to reconsider and telling me how hard it was for him to lose such a special friend, he reminded me about how comfortable we feel around each other and how much fun we always have. Thats when I started bawling because he's right and i've been struggling with those same thoughts. He asked if there was someone else and I said no (maybe i should have bite the bullet and told him before it blows up in my face), i just wasnt ready for a commited relationship, we were moving way to fast and it wasnt fair of me to be with him when i wasnt sure it was the right thing. Now I'm even more confused then before...

alone in the garden

Joined: 12/19/2008

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I guess I'm going to hell for this.... Posted: 6/16/2009 6:59:40 PM
...I cancelled my "date" with Jon but can't find it in me to break up with Rod so instead i'm finding myself avoiding him, he knows something is wrong, i imagine he knows that I'm thinking about letting him go but he has been extremely good about giving me my space. I feel like at this very moment I'm at a huge crossroad in my life and I dont have enough faith in myself to make the right decision. Perhaps being single is my only option at the moment.

alone in the garden

Joined: 12/19/2008

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I guess I'm going to hell for this.... Posted: 6/16/2009 10:36:20 AM
Thanks Everyone.. I was having a real hard time with this and your comments gave me the reality check I obviously needed, My best girlfriend doesn't like Rod at all and has been trying to get me to break it off with him, so she had me almost swayed to sneak out on a date. I sat up half of last night, thinking and crying, it hurt to admit that I wasn't treating Rod with the respect a relationship demands and I came s to the conclusion that I'm not ready to be in a relationship so I need to gently but firmly tell him so. Although I will admit I still have doubts in my mind, I keep thinking about how sweet he is and the fun we've had, regardless its not fair to him so I know what I must do.

alone in the garden

Joined: 12/19/2008

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I guess I'm going to hell for this.... Posted: 6/15/2009 10:28:43 PM
Ok I guess I already knew the answer to this, LOL i guess i was just hoping someone knew of a loophole. I still dont know what I will do but I will be honest and above board about it.

alone in the garden

Joined: 12/19/2008

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I guess I'm going to hell for this.... Posted: 6/15/2009 9:54:51 PM
I'm not looking for an excuse.....and i truly would not consider myself a player. The commitment issuse thing you have bang on. I told myself I would stay single until I sorted out some of my "me" issues. I'm beautiful and sexy and have had no shortage of offers...I just needed to be single.....I thought I was finally ready but I detest cheating and in essance that would be what I would be doing (even though nothing would have happened) pgem, Thank you! Your line almost made me cry, it hit so close to home "The grass on the otherside, knows how to tickle your fancy but also carries alot more unforseen issues"

alone in the garden

Joined: 12/19/2008

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I guess I'm going to hell for this.... Posted: 6/15/2009 9:03:43 PM
Ok here's my story... I'm writing this (my first forum thread ever) with the hope that someone's advice or comments will put this in better perspective for me. I realize that I'm probably gonna be critizised for this but here goes.... I"ve been single for almost two years, well that is until about 2wks ago. I started seeing Rod and thought it was love at first site (ok no i am not that naive but i really liked him) So i agreed to be his GF Now i'm finding Rod is exactly the typical guy i've been with in the past, slightly possesive and wants all my time, even though we always have fun... he's a sweetie, a real nice guy...but its moving so fast my head is spinning Maybe i should also mention that the sex isn't all that fantastic. Enters Jon, he is so increduably hot, recently divorced and he wants to go out with me. I dont know him at all but he is persistant and makes my knees weak...I so want to find out, in fact, I made a date with him for tomorrow night. How wrong would it be to go have dinner with Jon (and alsolutly behave....) and not tell Rod, I feel compelled to find out if the gress is greener on the other side.. I'm in a moral deliema over this-I really do like and have fun with Rod but I cant stop thinking about Jon, wanting to find out if he is the one. I need to break up with Rod.... Dont I? I guess I owe him that but how do I tell him? Can I put him on the backburner? He likes me so much, he told his Mom he loves me. Its going to be like kicking a puppy! What if i'm wrong? WHAT DO I DO.... The last two years there have been no men, now I have to make a hard decision. I'm so completly lost.... PS plz no grammar police...you make me cry)*:

alone in the garden

Joined: 12/19/2008

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If you're single and not dating, what's your reason? Posted: 5/28/2009 11:59:33 PM
Ive been single for just about two years, for the first year i was a serial dater...mostly first dates with me always playing the friend card. In the last year i've been on 5 and lately i've given up on dating.......i will find Mr Right when im ready without the hassel of dating

alone in the garden

Joined: 12/19/2008

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Have you ever slept with someone just because you were drunk? Posted: 5/28/2009 11:14:28 PM
3 times..... The First was awful, Sam, he was hot but the show only lasted 2mins, i waited around another 20mins but it wasnt happening. The next guy, Shaun he knew what he wass doing but he was also just about chew my arm off ugly. Um I dont remember #3s name, but damn! To date that has been the most mind blowing sex i have ever experienced, for one thing he was a beautiful specimen, rock hard body and equipment and wow stamina! Did i mention he was a body builder lol he also licked my armpits when we were having sex, said it was his kink ...i remember thinking, this is kinda strange i bet my deodorants giving him drymouth.... I have also promised myself i will never have another...but there are my stories.

alone in the garden

Joined: 12/19/2008

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Confused... Posted: 12/26/2008 8:22:02 PM
Give up....Give up now....You can change your self but you will never change him.....Was myself in a very one sided relationship, gave him the moon and stars, gave until there was nothing left to give, it ended and he misses the moon and stars and wants me back but i'm gone.....

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