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 chocolate_honey
Joined: 12/21/2008
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Is the Swinger lifestyle appropriate for a couple that is not married?
Posted: 2/1/2009 1:15:14 PM
In reply to arabianangel, just to clarify, I said the swing lifestyle prevents couples from cheating on each other. I'm not speaking of an individual swinging to prevent the other from cheating.( that would be a sign of security issues) It's the lifestyle itself. And that was told to me by couples that have been in the lifestyle for a very
 chocolate_honey
Joined: 12/21/2008
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Is the Swinger lifestyle appropriate for a couple that is not married?
Posted: 2/1/2009 12:48:10 PM
Thanks for the opinion Ursulamajor. Swinging is definitely not only for married couples. In fact, you find alot of couples in the lifestyle that are dating. I've been told by dating and married couples that the swing lifestyle prevents the mates from otherwise cheating becasue the spouses and girlfriend/boyfriend know about everything and they don't have to sneak. (ridiculous)
 chocolate_honey
Joined: 12/21/2008
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Is the Swinger lifestyle appropriate for a couple that is not married?
Posted: 2/1/2009 12:01:08 PM
Thanks for your opinion toyoux. I appreciate it. Maybe I should clarify a few things. I've experienced the lifestyle in a past dating relationship and I had no issues with it. During my experiences, I realized that I may not be able to accept that lifestyle with my spouse if I were married, whereas, I could accept it with a guy that I was dating/in a committed relationship with. However, I've discussed this issue with married couples in the lifestyle, and they all agree that the lifestyle actually enhances their relationship. In my perspective, I feel the opposite. That is why I posed the question.
 chocolate_honey
Joined: 12/21/2008
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Is the Swinger lifestyle appropriate for a couple that is not married?
Posted: 2/1/2009 11:35:23 AM
I have a few questions I'd like to pose. I'd love to hear some opinions on the mattter. Do you think a couple that is dating should explore the Swinger lifestyle, or do you think the Swinger lifestyle is more beneficial for a couple that is married? What do you think? Do you think age plays a big factor when it comes to that lifestyle and relationships? When are you ever old enough or secure enough in a relationship to allow your mate to be intimate with someone else? I'd like to know.
 
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