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day off pilot

Joined: 12/21/2008

Msg: 34 (view)

Older men for the younger women Posted: 7/14/2009 6:34:54 PM
I prefer someone younger for the simple reason I know I can meet her emotional physical and mental needs. Experience has been the teacher and if she is 10-15 yrs younger I know she will have the security and passion she desires. Not****..confident. Women my age and older seem way to jaded when it comes to men and relationships...and thats just my opinion...I'd be happy to be proven wrong.

day off pilot

Joined: 12/21/2008

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Men/Women Please dont make this mistake... Posted: 6/23/2009 10:04:07 AM
Some people have communication issues and some just don't know how to deliver a compliment. Either way, should we be so thin skinned that we take everything to heart? It is hard to know a persons intent...only they know and it would be good of us to try and believe that the intent was in fact good. Take the positive out of it and throw the negative away.

day off pilot

Joined: 12/21/2008

Msg: 1718 (view)

so, why are you still single? Posted: 6/23/2009 9:50:13 AM
amen. can't say it any better than that.

day off pilot

Joined: 12/21/2008

Msg: 745 (view)

What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 6/23/2009 9:48:44 AM
Her intellect and class. Her ability to converse on a wide variety of subjects. Mostly its her self confidence that she is in control of her world.

day off pilot

Joined: 12/21/2008

Msg: 102 (view)

Should a 42 year old male email a 31 year old lady ? Posted: 6/23/2009 9:45:38 AM
Yep...go for it...the worse that can happen is no reply at all. She might be tired of all the "boys" pretending to be men...and want something real.

day off pilot

Joined: 12/21/2008

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borderline personality disorder-any info? Posted: 6/22/2009 3:52:36 PM
My ex suffers from BPD. It's a very difficult illness to deal with if you don't understand it. That is how I ended up with a divorce...I wasn't equipped to deal with it then as bpd's are very abusive and then docile and have a hard time owning up to thier behavior. One of my friends who is a therapist and helped me understand this disorder after the fact put it in very simple terms...I love you I hate you **** me get out. That is bpd in a nutshell. It is treatable but it takes a big heart and the patience of Job to deal with a person with it. If you find yourself in a relationship like that and can get them help great...if not I recomend running the other way...you'll be glad you did.

day off pilot

Joined: 12/21/2008

Msg: 598 (view)

The instant chemistry demand Posted: 6/22/2009 7:14:03 AM
I agree with you. I have said that chemistry is the combining of elements and it takes time for them to bond and become cohesive. I think you are on the money with the physical attraction part..it does change. I also believe that hollywood and media have told us for so long that the beautiful and thin are what we should want...and we bought into thier theories and made lawyers rich in divorce court. If we all set aside this 5 minute fireworks thing and take the time to get to know one another and realize that we all have flaws and perfections...we might find the relationship we have always pictured for ourselves. Yes we have our ideal body types and being open instead of ridged in what we like opens up our possibilities. My ex was a size 3 and still is...I was used to this and thought that was what I wanted till I met someone who wasn't a size 3 but a 12 and looked like a 7...even though it didn't go anywhere she opened my mind to more. It was a valuable lesson and taught me a lot about chemistry and about myself. Quit looking for that instant spark. It's merely a distraction from what we truly want for a longterm relationship.

day off pilot

Joined: 12/21/2008

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Wheres the missing piece? Posted: 5/9/2009 4:14:09 PM
Thank you again for all the comments and I changed what I could. I wish I had more pictures of me smiling but I'm usually the one behind the camera...I guess I'll have to work on that. As for humor...its hard to convey my sense of humor sometimes...some days its dry and flip and others its slapstick. Something to work on. Again thanks for all the suggestions and comments.

day off pilot

Joined: 12/21/2008

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Wheres the missing piece? Posted: 5/9/2009 2:00:20 PM
I gave it a bit of a lift. If you get time tell me what you think...I thank you for all the comments...they helped out.

day off pilot

Joined: 12/21/2008

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Wheres the missing piece? Posted: 5/9/2009 1:58:19 PM
Good advice...I like your candor and made some changes. Thank you.

day off pilot

Joined: 12/21/2008

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Profile Review for 47 yr old female! Posted: 5/8/2009 2:32:40 PM
It's full of energy and rings positive. A few more details about your interests..you know..teasers about what you like but leave us having to ask questions to find out more. Your pics are awesome and you're smiling which is great! You'll have them lining up!

day off pilot

Joined: 12/21/2008

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Wheres the missing piece? Posted: 5/8/2009 1:42:02 PM
What is missing in my profile? I think I've covered everything that I know of without putting my entire lifes story out there...which would leave very little to discuss. Any suggestions would be welcome.

day off pilot

Joined: 12/21/2008

Msg: 3 (view)

Rate my profile. I think it needs it. Posted: 5/8/2009 1:03:03 PM
To be honest it sounds angry and defensive. You're not smiling in your picture. Between the lines you sound like someone that can be easy going and carefree when not having to be in your position of responsibility. Take your time in writing it and present you that exists in between the lines.

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