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Joined: 12/26/2008

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Too much baggage to start a new relationship ??? Posted: 8/3/2009 10:46:31 AM
Are you confusing intensity with intimacy. Ambivalence increases the intensity; not the intimacy. Your heart and your gut know what love is--and it is not the same as confusion, injury and suffering. Be kind to yourself as you find your way through (and most likely out of) this one. The intensity vs intimacy is a common 'mistake'.

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Too much baggage to start a new relationship ??? Posted: 8/3/2009 10:43:06 AM
Sometimes of us confuse intensity with intimacy. Ambivalence increases the intensity; not the intimacy. Your heart and your gut know what love is--and it is not the same as confusion, injury and suffering. Be kind to yourself as you find your way through (and most likely out of) this one. The intensity vs intimacy is a common 'mistake'.

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Could being psychic affect your relationship? Posted: 8/2/2009 7:08:34 PM
“I don't believe in psychics. I wouldn't be in a relationship with someone who believed they were psychic. I've known several people who say they are psychic and they were all goofballs. I had a friend who accused me of being psychic because I was good at intuiting what was going on with her, but it was just a matter of paying attention to subtleties.” Being psychic is not what you might think. . .here's an example. . .My husband and I were in Greece at a street fair, I decided to have dinner at an outdoor cafe with friends, and he floated through the fair. We had no time or place arranged to meet because we thought our cell phones would allow us to call each other--but, apparently, his sim-card ran out, and we were not able to reach each other by phone. At one point (after trying to phone him again), I started getting concerned about meeting up with him-- I have many sensitivities: First, through clairsentience (body sensations as signals) I had a physical feeling of discomfort. Next telepathic (transmission of emotions) I had a feeling of impatience (no doubt how my husband felt), and told my friends I / we needed to go; they said 'fine' and continued to dawdle--I felt a knot in my stomach, and was next flooded with a sense of urgency. Suddenly I saw a picture of him in my mind's eye standing in the middle of the street a few blocks from where we left each other. His hand on the door of a taxi. (this is called clairvoyance--clear seeing) I said "We have to go now" and we left the table . Fortunately. .. . He too is psychic, and intuited the direction we went for dinner. He walked several blocks in our direction, (through mobs of people, mind you), looking for us . . . I began to walk quickly toward where I had seen him in my mind's eye, my sense of urgency continuing to build--and found him, as I had imagined/'seen' him, in the middle of the street, ready to get into the taxi. He was only a block and a half from where we had dinner. . .I called to him--and we went home together. Being sensitive to each other allows us to have greater compassion and understanding . . .We don't lie to each other--though we respect each others privacy. For example, he knows I am on pof --I enjoy the forums and conversations, and have used it to meet people when I travel--And he has never asked me about any of the conversations or meetings. I extend the same respect to him.

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Could being psychic affect your relationship? Posted: 8/2/2009 6:57:29 PM
Being psychic is not what you might think. . .here's an example. . .My husband and I were in Greece at a street fair, I decided to have dinner at an outdoor cafe with friends, and he floated through the fair. We had no time or place arranged to meet because we thought our cell phones would allow us to call each other--but, apparently, his sim-card ran out, and we were not able to reach each other by phone. At one point (after trying to phone him again), I started getting concerned about meeting up with him-- I have many sensitivities, First, through clairsentient (body sensations as signals) I had a physical feeling of discomfort. Next telepathic (transmission of emotions) I had a feeling of impatience (no doubt how my husband felt), and told my friends I / we needed to go; they said 'fine' and continued to dawdle--I felt a knot in my stomach, and was next flooded with a sense of urgency. Suddenly I saw a picture of him in my mind's eye standing in the middle of the street a few blocks from where we left each other. His hand on the door of a taxi. (this is called clairvoyance--clear seeing) I said "We have to go now" and we left the table . Fortunately. .. . He too is psychic, and intuited the direction we went for dinner. He walked several blocks in our direction, (through mobs of people, mind you), looking for us . . . I began to walk quickly toward where I had seen him in my mind's eye, my sense of urgency continuing to build--and found him, as I had imagined/'seen' him, in the middle of the street, ready to get into the taxi. He was only a block and a half from where we had dinner. . .I called to him--and we went home together. Being sensitive to each other allows us to have greater compassion and understanding . . .We don't lie to each other--though we respect each others privacy. For example, he knows I am on pof --I enjoy the forums and conversations, and have used it to meet people when I travel--And he has never asked me about any of the conversations or meetings. I extend the same respect to him.

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Firefox doesn't let me in Posted: 12/29/2008 7:56:51 AM
Did you ever get this solved? I ended up opening a new account because I still cant get into my old account ( the name is joy22). I would like to get back to joy22 read the new mail and close this new one (b-joy22) any ideas?

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