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Texas Sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Anyone notice the new feature, Want a date on Friday night? Posted: 6/27/2009 8:24:01 PM
well i found it & applied today, saturday & it says SERIOUS MEMBERSHIP UPGRADES show up first!" well, i'm not a serious membership... so that's unfair

Texas Sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Dates that go well but no further dates!! Posted: 6/27/2009 8:10:33 PM
had a 1st date tonite with a fella who has begged & begged, so we set a time & place & I gave him his chance. i arrived 10 minutes before the meeting time & then i get a call when it was 8 minutes past the meeting time, telling me that he was 35 minutes away from the destination I told him not to even bother, I gave him his chance & he blew it, disappointing me, showing me his character of not being able to arrive on time for a date he "begged" for. There i was all dressed up & no where to go but to super 1 & buy catfood .... These men who constantly brag of what they have, I could really care less, i could tell them i have the taj mahal doesn't mean i ever had it. jerks, just a bunch of texas jerks runnin on the loose...

Texas Sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Appearances & Money Matter? Posted: 6/27/2009 7:50:52 PM
I was really blindsided for the 1st time & very unfairly, considering I ASK alot of questions, but being led to believe that this new man I had 2 dates with held a stable job, actually did not. I am NOT a gold digger by any means, but please do not expect me to purchase all the food, all the wine AND cook it for him while being retired, on government assistance/receiving my monthly SSD check which pays my rent & utilities, leaving me hardly nothing left over. then he hits me up for my pain medication, that was the last straw, bc that is truly something need & cannot afford to give out to anyone & when I attempted to explain that to him, you'd think i'd committed a cardinal sin, so here i sit, alone again, after he took my virginity from me, my not being with a man for more than 10 yrs. i think he was looking at the bigger picture, what was there to be advantageous for him. I'm really getting to where i hate these sites. men seem to want to play these games & it's really cruel & demeaning & unkind.

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Bored, lonely or restless? Posted: 6/6/2009 11:55:27 PM
Now, that's what I say, I'm bored bc I'm sickn'tired of all these idiot men who just don't have the guts to "man up" & meet me in person instead of all this internet crap, it's the same faces every single day & IF your NOT in the same general location as me, then please don't bother me, bc i'm not looking for a blabla buddy. lonely, bc i'm by myself, would like the company of a desirable human being. just don't have the nerve to walk into a bar, i'd still be alone. but i'm never really restless, i always find something to keep myself busy

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Picnic & Scuba Diving Day in Terrell, TX May 2nd! Posted: 6/5/2009 7:34:24 PM
say n search, tried to email u but i'm tooo old please tell me where in terrell this picnic is to take place? i'm off 34, just down the road in greenville... thought i'd come out & bring a chair & some food & chat some with the pofer's, but need to know where it's gonna be in terrell... sky

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Victims of child sex abuse.How does it affect your dating and relationships? Posted: 5/2/2009 6:18:04 PM
while u 2 women are hashing each other's rhetorical comments to each other, the facts remain the same, at least pertaining within my life span, men have been the most un kindest demeaning animals. i need not have a man to build what little i have escaped with once again. i have the brains & capabilities to take care of myself without the need, help or desire of a mentally cruel abusive man, who's sheer desire in his life is to incapacitate me & make me vulnerable to himself in his manipulative world of pain. it has really amazed me, with all my ambitions, all my intelligence, how my life became so manipulated by such a cruel human being AND always remember, a man need not ever lay a hand upon u to become abusive...

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Victims of child sex abuse.How does it affect your dating and relationships? Posted: 5/2/2009 12:21:12 PM
having been a victim as a small child & my husband knowing the facts only gave him ammunition during heated arguments between us, which totally tortured me inside to think that he would used something so sensitive which happened in my past as a child against me, over & over & over during the length of our marriage & tell me that I was the 1 who had a problem. the conflict combined with my ex-husband who cruelly physically abused me, he also would throw into my face, he would take great pleasure in doing so & in the end I could not function sexually at all with him for these last 10 years & now he has walked out on our marriage of 23 yrs saying I made him do it. making me feel so inadequate as a woman, allowing the men who have assaulted me while in his presence. when u combine sexually abuse with physical abuse, they go hand in hand, but when an outsider with whom u think that u can trust such as your husband with such a delicate discussion, uses is against u, it is the worst kind of mental abuse u can imagine...

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Are you getting tired on Internet Dating too? Posted: 5/2/2009 12:05:46 PM
this internet dating, the terminology is fictional... bc no one really has a date. if i receive an email from a fella that does not become me, there's really no reason to reply & get his hopes up, that would be cruel. on the other hand when u do meet someone online & u hit it off & then all the sudden WHAM u don't get anymore response from them, even after they have given u a call & u've fallen for them, besides the fact that he lived out of state... my heart was broken. i've just given up... if the fella doesn't move me in the right direction, there's no need to waste either of our times, it's as simple as that.

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Dating after divorce. Posted: 4/14/2009 2:05:21 PM
I was married 23 yrs. he walked out & left. for the last 10 of those yrs we did not even sleep together due to his narcisstic personality. when someone keeps U secluded from the rest of the world & the only friends that U ever knew belonged to him, your own child turns away from U, getting out into the world & dating is really a scary thing to do, the fear that it could happen all over again, there's safety being inside where no one can harm U. however when U meet someone online & U make a connection with them & U truly want to reach out to them, yet the both of U are in different states, how do U deal with that?

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Has anyone broken up from a narcissist Posted: 4/2/2009 9:24:38 AM
I was admitted into the hospital bc my guts were killing, had a colonscopy & egd & the anesthesiologist asks where my family members were, I told him I had none there, he was then hesitant to preform these procedures, bc of my seizures & heart & called my doctor who admitted me, she stayed with me bc he was out mowing grass. later he argued with my doctor that the surgical procedures I had done were not serious enough to require him to be present, she then banned him from my room, where I stayed for 14 days, releasing me on much pain meds & lorazapam, hydro, robaxin & then he expected me to drive him around the day I was released bc he wanted to drink, so I just refused & went to my room shaking & took a lorazapam. that was in 2006, it's 2009 & all he does is dish out verbal threats to me, now that we live totally apart. My life is at a stand still, lonely, but certainly not for him

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

Msg: 263 (view)

Is divorce like mourning a death? Posted: 3/29/2009 10:42:40 PM
Hey gfd, I'm with U, GF, that's right when we stayed home 24/7 & raised the kids, washed the dish's, washed & sewed & ironed the clothes, made all the meals & had them waitin on the table for all to enjoy back in the day, cleaned our houses, cleaned our yards, schooled the kids, did the PTA & after school meetings & any emergency they needed us for bc we were the Mom's, did the groceries, did ALL the Xmas shopping & wrapping, decorated & took down the Xmas & thanksgiving & halloween trimmings every single year till I just gave up & quit, was the built in doctor, dentist, therapist, veterinarian & barber. got on our hands & knees & scrubbed our floors, scrubbed them dam toilets, packed & unpacked every single box when we moved, hung all the clothes organized by size & time of year, found the mates to the socks, hung the clean towels in the bathrooms, scowered the black rings from the bathtubs after they "all" bathed & then said "Calgon" take me away when it was around 12:30 am, that was when our day was done, but not really, bc then it was "honey, do U have time for your daddy" & U want to tell them U don't have SEX with your daddy, THAT is perverted....but nooo have it their way to keep them happy & there we laid in all our misery, pretending to be "sexy" when the fact was we were so wore out as their lazy ass's just laid on the couch for the last 5 hours relaxing watching TV & refusing to lend a helping hand, but with their effortless remark "is there anything I can do to help" AW yea, your gonna get right on it as soon as wrestling goes off I have NOT shed a single tear over his walking out after 23 years, the ignorant, lazy SOB, let him do it all on his own, all that I did for him, putting his life together for him over all the year of our marriage & all he can ever say is " I Worked" and I tell him U would have worked with or without me, so what do U want a medal or a chest to pin it on?

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Is this really what the dating scene is like? Posted: 3/29/2009 10:11:12 PM
Well HEY can I in... this thread has really made me laugh 1 had her husband leave her on 1 wkend & geez she's had ALL those dates, do U work? mine left me back in december & I haven't had a single outing. AND how many times have I said your ACTIONS have caused MY REACTIONS... seriously ppl 1 single date does not constitute the entitlement of exclusive rights to any person & those who think that way are kinda on the "possessive" thinking side of dates.

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Is honesty even a good quality to have now? Posted: 3/29/2009 9:51:04 PM
Azureabs, I disagree with U on a number of issues. for some ppl they can be separated from a spouse, be living a separate lifestyle, a separate residence from them, receiving a separate income & be receiving no benefits of any substance from that person & after having been separated in heart & soul from that person for the last 10 previous yrs. only remained in the marriage due children, certainly not for any reasons of love existing between the 2 parties & then only remained together for financial reasons. But when 1 spouse leaves the marriage, the door is closed. the honest thing to do would be to admit that the marriage HAS been over, despite who is to blame & stop procrastinating on filing for no fault divorce, when no children are involved, no property is involved. however there are those who do not always see it that way. PPL can live their life daily & honestly as they are singly, as long as they have no intentions of becoming immediately involved romantically causing harm to another's heart. most are in no rush to become tied back down with 1 single mate, they need some room to breath. then the games begin with attorneys & court servers, the expense's begin. so to say that IF u are still legally married on a piece of paper is being "dishonest" until that finalized legal document becomes a current ad in the daily divorce decree blotter news & then & only then are you to become a more "honest" person to be a divorced person then U were 4 months earlier, what actually makes the difference when I've been living my life honestly all on my own? My point is different ppl have different situations & when he packed his shit & walked out...I honestly said, Good it is over except for the paperwork & now I wait...SINGLY & that's how I have chosen to live my life.

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Are old people starting to look good to you? Posted: 3/21/2009 8:43:17 PM
I like younger Men, a few yrs younger... but these smirky babies that are my son's age are just ridiculous when they come around with their yahoo IM crapola, I tell'em I'll have my son kick their dumb azz's & to get lost... they are lookin for a mama & I done raised my kid

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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I was told I am a bad mother because I smoke marijuana. Posted: 3/21/2009 8:33:06 PM
U know what U just said is like someone drinking say to their kid, here kid have a whiskey with me... when the kid is 15, now that is child abuse. Now plzz let's not exaggerate this on your ridiculous basis to condemn this mother bc of your beliefs. Do U smoke cigarettes in your household? what about 2nd hand smoke floating through the air as it has been for years damaging ppls brains. I smoked pot for 20 yrs & I NEVER did ANY other drug in my life & quit cold turkey with no problem...of course I am suffering now in pain. I NEVER offered it to my kid & I NEVER shared it with my kid & ANY parent that does needs to be arrested. Y do I write such a sentence? BC I was 30 yrs old before I even seen my 1st J, yea, ya'll go & laugh... but adults just don't do those type of things with minor children, it's a type of molesting their life, just the offering of a drug to them, the enticement would give reason to abuse the minor child. That is totally sick of U to say such a thing.

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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I'm disabled Posted: 3/21/2009 8:10:30 PM
Now see I have Epilepsy too, had a seizure today as matter of fact while sitting in the apt. office, hit me right out of the blue, but ppl look at me & think there in not a thing wrong with me..

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Has anyone broken up from a narcissist Posted: 3/20/2009 7:55:08 AM
I don't know how to recover, I spent 23 yrs with him & it was always my fault & he also left me in 12/08, telling me that everyone liked him & I was the one who was NUTS, yet on the other hand, we never had any friends, we never associated with anyone outside of his wrestling & that was slim & none, we never went any where but to shows & training & yes I was his emotional bag,yetr on the same hand as I grew stregnth I fought back & verbally punched him, it was all I had when these wrestler began to physically assault me as he stood by. I began to hate him, hate living with him, hate doing anything with him. the destruction had already been done. he had already made his choice when he began abandoning us for the road of his "lifestyle" now I am totally on my own & his lies on top of lies continue. he is in his 11th PI case & has totally cut me out & I'm fixin to cut him right out of the water & call the insurance company & ruin it for the both of them.

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Has anyone broken up from a narcissist Posted: 3/20/2009 12:03:46 AM
the depressions I have went in to, the way my self esteem has withdrawn, the fear I have suffered from the emotional cruelty & emotional abuse. The panic attacks when driving. the constant arguing fighting, but he would never hit me, he knew I would dial 911 & he'd go to jail like he did in rockwall. like all his wrestling buddies did when they assaulted me, beat me up & he stood there & watched & if it wasn't them it was their girlfriends jumping me from behind. All the cruel insults that everyone hates me, thats why I have no friends. telling me what to do & how to do it & all the while each & every time a fight would start bc I would fight him for telling me what to do. he did NOT own me. My X husband physically assaulted me during my marriage this one stood by as his buddies did it & he emotionally & mentally did it. Y did I stay? BC I have Absolutley NO living family & my only income is SSD & when I took my SSD check from our joint checking in december he packed his shit & walked out. He has been under the elusuion our entire marriage that my SSD check was community property.

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Has anyone broken up from a narcissist Posted: 3/19/2009 11:54:21 PM
OMG, my ignorance has just over whelmed me! ya'll reading your threads, that is exactly what I have been married to for these 23 yrs a Narcissist! Everything U have identified with these traits, making me feel like I am the 1 who is nuts, turning the tables around with subjects & ppl included, he did this today. His lover is his Wrestling, his "lifestyle" which he manipulated his family into accepting. he was not a wrestler when I met him, just an ordinary man with a newborn infant. but his way of becoming so cruel & telling me that everybody likes him & everybody hates me,well it stopped the day he left & now when his bookings get cancelled or he can't get booked, he doesn't have me as his reason to blame, yet he still DID today, OH they still remember, I could have went o the WWF but everyone hated U, so it was all my fault, your abilities weren't good enough when I wasn't there, U got a ticket in MS for speeding in '96, I wasn't there & now they want U to pay it & now it's MY fault they want to issue a warrant for your arrest, YEA bc I have to pay your utilites too, he blames me for everything, yet I did everything for him but wipe his azz. I told him I wished he was dead. He calls me back & said I threated to kill him, so then he says & the 2 black guys out front I got their phone #s as witness's they heard U say it & I tell him, I know EXACTLY what I said & I'll tell ya again, I WISH u WAS A DEAD MF. Then I called the PD & told them. He always played these games with my mind, my memory...so hat's what he's called a Narcissist, well dummy me... I dam well learned something tonite!

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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I'm disabled Posted: 3/19/2009 11:22:58 PM
I have disabilities as well & when ppl look @ me, I don't look as though I do. I have disc problems & cannot wear high heels either. I have had surgury on both feet & had tumors cut out. My main is neur/epilepsy & most all ppl don't understand it. men want perfection & lets face it, they are hardly perfect themselves it's hard when they ask if U work & U tell them know I'm on SSD... they think U are a bum, but what are we suppose to do, my fibro & RA now contribute to dibilitating pain to the disc problems.

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Toilet seats and toothpaste Posted: 3/19/2009 11:08:09 PM
Well I loved this 1 for shore QUOTE "Expectations are just pre-meditated resentments" there is so much truth to that being said, give that there Man a TEXAS size STAR And speaking of cleaning, who do U think does the majority of cleaning those commodes? Where the piss don't shine as it carress's down the sides of the white kiln dried enamel. All the cum that has been washed from the walls of bathroom, from the floors below where the commodes sit bc he's too dam lazy to clean up after his self & his pubic hairs. his vile filth & vermin as if to leave his callin card behind, I collected & put right in his ham sandwich & with a note telling him to wash his own dam filthy commode bc I refused to clean up after his personal filth. yea LOTS of resentment, TEXAS size.

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Do women over 45 feel nervous about the first sexual encounter? Posted: 3/19/2009 10:49:11 PM
I'm 55 & I look FANTASTIC better than ever but I would still feel nervous with any 1st sexual encounter, since I have not been with any man outside my marriage in 23 yrs & I kicked him out of the br 8 yrs ago

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Childless by Choice Posted: 3/19/2009 10:42:32 PM
I could not have children, however I raised a child from infancy,was NEVER given the legal right to adopt him. He's 23 now & has disowned me due to his bio/father leaving me, as he sided with him. He became entitled to all my SSD benefits during his childhood. As I told his father today, U don't anymore than I do whether U are truley that boys bio/father than I AM his bio/mother... U never had a DNA with him, U just took him from the bio/mother who has NEVER been found walking the face of this earth since 1987 & NEVER met the boy. As he said he got rid of 1 dirty **** & he'll get rid of another...ME. I have done ALL the methodical paperwork over the yrs so that he could have custody, obtain HIS name on the boys birth certificate bc it was NOT, she did not name him as father, she left it blank & he is the spittin image of her. Children are a huge responsibility & I took on that task bc I wanted a child & couldn't have children.

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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My ex.. I need to understand this? Posted: 3/19/2009 10:29:29 PM
how 'bout this 1, will get counseling but NOT with a woman! yea right! that isn't love, it is just words coming out of his mouth, just like ole whats his name... forever does NOT last the way it is spelled. And believe me, U depart long before there is death & the actual death is the death of the marriage. there is always 1 who gives more into the relationship more than the other. problem is there is no cash value surrender balancing as a life insurance policy when it's over & he walks out that door & the kids have been raised...that IS his plan B, so he doesn't have to poney up entitlement. & then they say U MADE ME DO IT...

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Daily Beer Drinking Posted: 3/19/2009 8:31:30 PM
STRESS is NOT an excuse to drink. My life is overfilled with stress & I do not drink alchohol. I do not take illegal drugs or quanitize drugs as they should not be, hell I can't even get scripts for them. Using it as their before dinner martini beeratini which turns into a 6 pks bc he can't stop after 1 is NOT due to stress... it's HABITUAL bc he's been doing it for much too long & as many times as he's aid he's gonna quit & fell flat on his face in front of his small minor child & the child says, geez daddy's tired & U tell the child NO, Son Daddy is flat out Drunk & then U refresh his drunken memory & tell him just what a scene he caused in front of his young son & again he swears off the crap. The NEVER quit & they NEVER will, they are abusers.

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Daily Beer Drinking Posted: 3/19/2009 8:18:13 PM
Having been married to a "functional beer drinker" I remember when I met him, he said to me, I'm a very simple man, all I need is a 12 pk of beer. Yea every other day. he learned how to hold a job after I made sure he got up for work each morning. He always thought he was the life of the party, even though he was repulsive. He'd always pass out with his mouth hanging open while being driven home by me the wife who couldn't drink bc she had medical disabilities,didn't matter I had to take daily medications too & drive, when he had 2 or more drinks. Or how bout when I got out of the hospital in 06 & was REALLY medicated & he expected me to cart him around town, that's when U know U are with a selfish **stard alchoholic who thinks only of his self. Or when they call U up drunk from a out of town bar bragging about the women who are hitting on him? like I could really care @ 11:30 pm. functional... they can only function as far as they have the percieved guidance to do so, to function takes ability & when U are drunk U lose all your abilities to perform, like on our wedding night, when again he passed out drunk.

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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I know I will get blasted for this but... Posted: 3/19/2009 7:52:06 PM
I gave my sweats to Goodwill

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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I was told I am a bad mother because I smoke marijuana. Posted: 3/19/2009 7:46:43 PM
Not all ppl smoke do so to get high. They do so bc they are in extreme pain. They do so bc they have seizures. Go to a Dr. & get pain medication U say?...NOT so easy, when they have these new "pain management clinics" set up & PCP will no longer treat U or your pain, they refer U out. Y bc that is how the insurance claim world works within the medical practictioners. buy over the internet...BS. pot relieves the muscle tension, it controls portions of the brain stimuli that creates the saratomin levels affecting the left side of the brain where seizure activity can be found in partial complex epileptic patients. A Neurologist will not disagree with you for smoking pot, it has been written into the medical reviews. Just as adults chemo patients readily smoke to increase the appetites & keep nausia at a minimum. Migrain headaches have the same effect & pot has the same advantage. So again, Pot is not smoked by ppl to get high, it is smoke in their efforts to be able to cope with their pain, so that they can attempt to maintain a dignity in their lifestyle without having to depend 100% on another person for their are due to their pain. Until U have walked in that disabiling & dibilitating pain day after day, the relief of a mere half a cigarette is a wonderous drug,that is why in 5 states now ther have been medical laws passed where it IS legal to have up to 1 OZ. Fines have now been reduced in the state of Texas, where it is no longer a feloney with possesion under 4 oz. & not considered intent to distribute. BUT when there are children involved in a home situation & ANY type of illegal drug is being used, CPS has the right to remove any & all children, hat is the way these laws are written to protect children & should be.

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

Msg: 77 (view)

would you date a truck driver? Posted: 3/19/2009 7:11:10 PM
I was married to a OTR & when he left to drive & was not home I DID everything, the entire household was MY responsibility & I was mom & dad & when he wasn't driving he was on the road wrestling. after all the yrs of his driving & accidents plus his yrs of wrestling he walked on me after 23 yrs. they are like traveling salesmen, they will feed a line of bull to anyone who will listen & tell U that everyone thinks that they are Mr. Right bc the work 18dys on & 4 days off. but let me tell U what, that CDL is there bread & butter, without that, they can't mak a livin, so he made sure never to lay a hand on me, so he had other men do it. Truckers are a sorry illiterate bunch who drove for fast $$$ to bypass the cops & fake their log books & drug test.

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Guy asked me to call him after a date? Posted: 3/19/2009 6:58:26 PM
when a fella tells a woman to give him a call, it's getting him off the hook of giving her the actual return call. so it's not lazy, it's just their manipulating way of promoting a call to his voicemail & letting her down for the evening for a disappointment, he wasn't worth it... making the appearance that he's interested, deception, that's a false promise from the get go.

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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Are old people starting to look good to you? Posted: 3/19/2009 6:13:47 PM
I'm 55 last month & bc of the business I spent the last 17 yrs in I've been fortunate to keep myself in wonderful shape. However, the yrs themself, the numbers & the physical pain that has gone along with it all has caught up with me, plus it doesn't help my husband walked out on me after 23 yrs last december... but age is scary, eyesite really begins to go, can't see without the readers, memory begins to go...

texas sky

Joined: 12/26/2008

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I know I will get blasted for this but... Posted: 3/19/2009 6:03:48 PM
To Mr. Rhino: Not all of us were around when the voting rights were voted in by these "feminists" there are Ladies still around, we are just older & we are still attractive & we dress to impress ourselves. Power has nothing to do with the pleasure in which we have selected to dress ourselves. Our attitudes have changed & defined ourselves due to the nature of the beasts who have crossed our paths. Our sexuality & dress is not an intimidating factor, when softness & kindness should be a focus.

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