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lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

Msg: 18 (view)

Friends - love em or leave em up a mountain? Posted: 10/22/2009 8:20:23 AM
Ive been in a horrible situation with someone i was once friends with. She suffered with mental illness and when medicated was great but when she stopped taking it,she became a nightmare. I loved her to bits but it was getting to the stage where her kids were suffering,she kept popping round late on at night n when asked who was in with the baby,would reply its ok hes in bed,or the older boy who was 11 at the time was with him. She ended up falling out with me as she thought i was picking on her,by telling her she couldnt leave the kids,or have different men round,or forgetting to give them thier tea. In the end i had no choice but to report her and the kids ended up with thier dad,i told her what i had done but it was for the best interest of the kids,so felt i had no other option,i had tried helping her as much as i could and i lost a friend but it had to be done.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Has anyone here done a deed poll name change for a child Posted: 10/15/2009 2:11:05 AM
I had my boys changed into my name a few years back,and i didnt need thier fathers consent as he wasnt about. I didnt have any problems with it,just make sure you keep all the documentation safe i somehow managed to lose 1 of the boys actual document during moving house and it took me agaes to get a copy sorted from the solicitors and caused some problems trying to get thier passports.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Bisexual men Posted: 10/15/2009 2:07:16 AM
Nope dont think i could,as much as im pretty open minded myself and dont mind bisexuality,i wouldnt want my man eying up the same arse i was

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Does anyone here look beyond the person in the pic and try to gauge how tidy or slovenly the person they're looking at is? Posted: 10/15/2009 2:05:20 AM
Ive come across pics on here where the house looks a tip in the background,and it does put me off if im honest. My sis was once sent a message on here off a guy that looked like he lived in rubbish dump..it was like Mr Treabus(think it was) off life of grime.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Ladies Who Go To The Gym. Posted: 10/7/2009 2:47:46 PM
Ha ha a spinning class is like a killer excersize bike class which works your arms n stuff aswell its not actually very pleasant!

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Ladies Who Go To The Gym. Posted: 10/7/2009 2:31:17 PM
In my experience the weights side seems to be taken up with men and there tends to be more women doing the cardio side of things. More women tend to take classes at the gym and spinning classes pillates ect. So lots of women probably do use the gym.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/7/2009 2:18:46 PM
Id start offering it in Asda's Jo.....you might get more of a response

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Would you be happy to spy on shoplifters to earn money? Posted: 10/7/2009 2:01:42 AM
As part of my job i do crowd profiling and some of the stuff i see is amazingly shocking and other stuff is amazingly funny...and i love it. But there is no way i would want to go home and watch people shopping just on the off chance you will spot a thief. I think the money would be alot better spend on an extra store detective or some sort of instore cctv and paying someone to sit and watch it there.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/6/2009 11:54:58 PM
I think its a lot easier for a woman to go out and get sex when she wants then it is for a man. And also alot of women would prefer to spend thier money on shoe's and go home and play with bunny

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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What have your dates been like so far? Posted: 10/6/2009 11:51:26 PM
Some have been good. Some have been boring and crap. And some have been just plain freaky.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

Msg: 79 (view)

why do chav's speak in a jamaican patois? Posted: 10/6/2009 11:49:29 PM
I blame east17 myself,Im sure they started all this chav palava! I think they just see it as cool even tho it makes them look and sound stupid,Ive had a few messages and cant even dicifer them,as they are all in txt and its crazy to think they actually talk like that to.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Are you comfortable talking about personal stuff here? Posted: 10/6/2009 11:44:51 PM
Nope no way! I used to be,at one point but now i would rather keep personal stuff to myself or if i feel the need to share it i would do so via pm.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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perfume or not? Posted: 9/28/2009 8:49:56 AM
I dont think so personally,there s nothing nicer than a lovely smelling guy. And it does make you feel good when someone tells you that you smell nice.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

Msg: 79 (view)

Do you look good for your age? Posted: 8/16/2009 3:32:53 AM
So was Mac...but you didnt have to remind him

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Do you look good for your age? Posted: 8/16/2009 2:42:48 AM
I think i look my age,but think i look ok to,specially when i see some of the people i went to school with.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Women will fight in 2012 Posted: 8/16/2009 1:00:24 AM
Its about bloody time! Should women be allowed to box? Get a grip....women can do more or less anything guys can,well appart from the sperm bit anyways. I used to do alot of boxing myself and its great to see. You see the girls ripping chunks out of eachother on friday nights after a few beers,you also see guys doing the same thing but put either of those in a ring and it would be a different matter.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

Msg: 31 (view)

secret fancy Posted: 8/15/2009 5:53:18 AM
I have a secret crush on someone but he's a gayer and all my mates would laugh at me

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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How reliable are the forums for judging someone's character? Posted: 8/15/2009 12:54:15 AM
Not that reliable to be honest on here. Some of the folk have been here a while and there are a few people on here who are genuine to whom they are,but there are also alot of arses to...like most forums,but hey its the net,how far do you trust people on here? The best way to judge people is to meet them n take them for what they are.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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How do you tell someone they smell? Posted: 7/17/2009 4:22:32 AM
Just do what i do to some of the guys in work "Put ya pits down" Or just pass them deodarant ,kinda works

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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have you ever been on the telly?? Posted: 7/17/2009 2:05:22 AM
Not been on the telly but on youtube a few times

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Whats the strangest message you've had? Posted: 7/17/2009 12:00:26 AM
Like the other ladies ive had that message to and now i dont feel loved Get loads of the usual cheesy chat up messages and also the ones with email and phone numbers on first message,usually take them and set up a gaydar account mind they deserve it. I get lots of strange messages i once had a message and all it said was "love the jam" What was that all about? I get the odd talk to Frank aswell and they also loose me.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Astrological signs Posted: 7/16/2009 11:55:48 PM
Thats you off my lezza list Im a leo and the star does fit my personality and i can be a wild child. Im with you on gemini's being psychos tho. But think pisceans are misery arses

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Does your name influence your life? Posted: 7/16/2009 11:43:26 PM
^^^Ha ha ha If i had been called Shaz i reckon i would have changed it,i always wanted to be called Elizabeth for some strange reason...Hi Pink xx

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Does your name influence your life? Posted: 7/16/2009 3:33:31 PM
Nah people ask me to repeat it and then say Lalby sounds funny so end up with Lal and i dont think changing it would make a difference its kinda grown on me.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Crap songs you shouldn't like but secretly you do Posted: 7/16/2009 3:27:21 PM
Lady Gaga poker face...cheesy but i likes it i do And Black lace...gangbang

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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visible tattoos, opinions? Posted: 7/16/2009 3:05:34 PM
I like tattoo's and have a few myself and recently added to my collection and will be adding again next friday All my ink can be covered if needs be and the only 1 that could be harder would be the one on my inner wrist,when people ask me what they will look like in 50 years time,i tell them "the same as most other peoples my age,so who cares?" Its each to thier own i guess but for now im happy

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Kids And Their Basic Self Care !! Posted: 6/22/2009 11:27:49 PM
Well i didnt need the absent parent here with me to teach my kids how to wipe thier own arses nor have i needed him to teach them basic life skills. Infact i think they were better off without a druggy abusive father,what would having him about have taught them,that its ok to treat women like crap and sell anything you can get your hands on? We have done fine in my opinion the boys have grown up with thier own confidence and are quite indipendant,they had lots good male influence in my two brothers. I believe its much better to have one happy parent than two disfunctional parents. And i dont think being on your own is any excuse to wipe your 8 year olds arse!!

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Kids And Their Basic Self Care !! Posted: 6/22/2009 4:35:10 AM
Just picking up that people have said this borders on abuse. Well i recently read a book about a girl who was abused and she states clearly in her book that her father always wiped her bottom and she saw this as dirty and strange,this was before any real abuse went on but looking back she saw it as the start,him washing and wiping her. So maybe thats what this child might see in the future,im sure at some point when he realises not all parents do this he will start finding it strange.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Kids And Their Basic Self Care !! Posted: 6/21/2009 11:40:58 PM
You should start to teach your kid the basics as early as possible with regards to washing and brushing teeth ect. And with wiping themselfs i always started teaching mine when they started potty training,it took a while for them to get it properly and i helped them untill they did,but if i had tried to wipe my lads arses at 8 years old they would have been so embarrassed! Its a basic hygene skill and she aint helping him by not teaching him as young as possible.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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how law abiding are you Posted: 6/21/2009 11:36:36 PM
I would take it and keep me mouth shut,they have had plenty enough tax and work out of me over the year

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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So how do you approach someone you like? Posted: 6/20/2009 2:46:30 AM
On here if i see someone that catches my eye i will just message them and see if they reply. In real life i dont make it to obvious if they are intrested then they will approach me,unless im drunk then thats a different story

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Father's Day - Memories of Dads No Longer With Us Posted: 6/20/2009 12:52:45 AM
I shall also be missing my dad tomorrow and most days . It does get hard when trying to buy cards and gifts for the kids to give,i shall have my own moment for my dad tomorrow. Also miss my Grandad as much now as i did 15 years ago,so will be having a thought for him to.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Moral Dilemma Posted: 6/4/2009 11:56:30 AM
If i ever was to write a book i would want to tell all of the story and not miss things out for fear of upsetting people. If they were important to me then i would sit them down and tell them what i was planning to do. If they didnt like it i guess we could talk about name changes ect,but would still go ahead with it.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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When theres a bereavement Posted: 6/4/2009 11:12:53 AM
Its pretty common wherei am from to close all the curtians or pull the blinds when someone dies,I think it is like someone else said that they used to lay the bodies out in the homes.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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big brother Posted: 6/4/2009 2:40:56 AM
I love big brother and have watched them all,but i'm bloody working tonight so wont get to watch it till i get home Its car crash tv at its best. I gotta say for real life aswell cctv is a good thing,its controlled alot of situations in my job.We watch crowds and can pick up and pin point a disturbance and stop it getting out of control,its also prevented a few fatalities.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Ever had a cyber crush? Posted: 6/3/2009 1:01:08 PM
Well twas ages since my first post on here and i reckon ive had a few more cyber crushes since.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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hi Posted: 6/1/2009 3:27:08 PM
Not quite frightening Yeah the 2 in 10 posts sucks at times,but i shall warn you there are certian people who use the forums to try and get people to bite on thier opinions and will do what they can to get a rise out of you and cause an argument just stand your ground and have fun with posting and you will be cool in here

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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hi Posted: 6/1/2009 3:15:47 PM
Tis hobnobs for him^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ What sort of wine you got n can i come to i'm bored:smile I got taboo if there aint enough wine to go about,even some jd somewhere i think

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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hi Posted: 6/1/2009 2:57:19 PM
Ah i see its still getting a bit uptight around these parts then

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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hi Posted: 6/1/2009 2:46:36 PM
Helloooo and welcome hope you have fun. How the frig did you get banned till 2012???????

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Festivals... Posted: 5/18/2009 11:26:44 PM
I shall be going back to Ireland in July and also will be off to Glastonbury,the line ups are fantastic so cant wiat.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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What do you class as a succesful relationship? Posted: 5/18/2009 4:21:20 AM
A bad relationship is where you dont get on,dont like spending time together,argue and feel the need to go find other people. A good 1 is where you actually like spending time together,get on well support one another and dont feel the need to be with anyone else. People change and something that might have been good at some point might change,i think each relationship shapes us to be the person we are,be it good or bad its a life experience.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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How many people think Google Stretview is live? Posted: 5/13/2009 4:34:59 AM
I can understand why people dont want thier houses on there,my Grandpa's house was on there very clearly with his wheelie bin out showing the sticker that lets people know its and elderly person who lives on thier own so needs help with the bin. He's 92 and i believe things like that make him a target to local burglars I know its not live but i believe little details should have been thought about before hand.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Lilly Allen Posted: 4/29/2009 4:08:01 AM
To be fair i dont see a problem in it,its sort of tongue in cheek humour and something alot of people can relate to. There's hundreds of songs about death and misery so its good to have something light hearted.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Is your c0ck big, do your neighbours complain? Posted: 4/27/2009 4:15:41 AM
I wanted some chickens in my garden but there are lots of foxes round here,and all my neighbours are elderly so wouldnt want to upset them. As long as your immediate neighbours dont have a problem you should be ok,not sure if you need permission or not tho. I dont think it would bother me as i'm always up early anyways.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Roast Dinner Posted: 4/27/2009 4:12:06 AM
Yesterday we had chicken and rice as i was to pushed for time to cook a roast. But usually if i am not working ect i like to have a roast dinner on a sunday,its the 1 meal a week where we have a huge meal and a pudding. My fav meat is beef so its always either beef or chicken as i dont ever do lamb or pork.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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before this gets deleted for attention seeking Posted: 4/27/2009 4:06:54 AM
I once put my profile up for review on the other forum and the Yanks and Canadians just gave me loads of crap. Your profile looks fine to me

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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Summer Wardrobe Posted: 4/25/2009 2:25:13 AM
I have been wearing t,shirts and vest tops but still aint parted with my jeans or combats. I might if the weather holds get some skirts and dresses out this week,and maybe even some sandals.

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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The bar is open................ Posted: 4/24/2009 1:53:53 PM
Threads like this always go missing.................... So while its open a very large vodka and coke and a sambuca and cherry sours in the same glass please Any talent in tonight? Sorry Ruffy didnt see ya there!

lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005

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top three fragrances. Posted: 4/24/2009 11:29:14 AM
For me my top 3 are... Jpg...classique Givenchy...Very Irisistable And for daytime work ect i wear Lacoste...Touch of pink. For men i like Issy mayeke (probably spelt wrong) Hugo boss Dolce Gabana

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