Thank you kindly for supporting my observation. And please try to keep up. I was not referring to your response to sunnybunny60 but to your post at 1103 Obviously I struck a nerve. You might want to have a look at it.

Sumo throws lots of weight around. Unfortunately weight is not the glue of love. And while it may be true that a better profile will weed out potential rejects for her life is neer so simple me lad or as Mum always said "you catch more flies with honey than vinegar". Just in case - that last was directed at you sumo.

Many people are so misinformed about weed. Pot is fat solluble...stores in the fat cells. Your brain is covered in fat (myellin sheath) When you stop using, your body goes into shock...you stop eating so that your body can metabolise the THC. Pot is not only addicitive, but is highly addictive. It changes your brain chemistry. It can take up to 18 months before it is entirely out of your system. Those who wish to believe that this is an innocuous substance have an obvious payoff...denial.

Unlike other addictions weed actually makes someone retarded. Please help her to save what is left of her brain cells otherwise she will soon be a cabbage literally. All the best.

Now you qualify it with another man's penis. So that's different right? A penis is a penis! You know I find you funny too. Here you are a man who likes to wear a diaper and tussle with other mens naked bodies with the excuse of doing it for sport and contests of strength calling someone else undercover gay because I don't believe that everything is black and white like you do.

I have never stated that I was Bi or gay. I am not. I love women and think they were the greatest gift that god ever gave us. I would much rather spend time with a beautiful woman then time with the guys watching football or rolling around in a diaper grabbing other men's bodies. I used to be homophobic like you but am not any more. I grew up and maybe you should do the same. When the only way you can win an argument is to take it down to name calling then you are pretty sad.. I guess I am too because I have been doing some name calling too. Oh well I am human and hopefully I can learn from my mistakes.

What's it like being so afraid you might be gay all the time?

By the way, every time you jack off that's the same as giving a guy a handjob, so you're gay anyway.

he doesn't put money where his words are it's kinda his normal style of self-expression

I suppose that you have never masterbated either? Arn't you playing with a man's penis for sexual enjoyment? Most guys when not in a relationship will play with themselves quite often and most guys like and admire their penis (A lot of guys touch it many times a day for reassurance or something). By your criteria this would make them gay too. What about all the guys who like to have their butt played with and fingered during sex. Sexuality is such a complicated and multi-faceted part of being human. How you can live believing that it should be a narrow kind of lackluster thing that is only one way and one thing. I think that people like you need to lighten up and broaden your horizons a little. What you need is a good woman that isn't afraid to experiment. Maybe she would teach you a thing or two about sexuality.
I would hate to live in your narrow world. Fear of homosexuality must control your every waking moment.

To answer your questions I have never been in any closets. I do what I want to do when I want to do it providing I have a willing partner. If I had a serious desire to sleep with a man it wouldn't bother me and people like you with your fear and loathing are no consideration at all in my outlook on life and sexuality. My desires have been with women and it is all good.

If I could suck my own penis I don't know what I would do when I came as I have never been able to do it and find out.

So by this reasoning it seems that 90% or more of men are gay! Haven't you ever thought about what it would be like if you could suck your own**** Most men have at some point in their lives. I think if men could suck their own**** easily they would do it at least most of them would. Oh you can lie and deny but the bottom line is that if you could you would try it. All of this black and white to do with being Gay is a lot of BS. You are gay when you say you are other then that there is no real criteria for being gay. If every guy that has ever experimented with sex with men or thought about it when growing up were to live by this criteria there would be a whole lot of unhappy women around. When you present this kind of attitude as fact the way you do you are giving yourself guilt that you don't need (by yourself I mean the collective man energy that you are part of). Many men have tried it or thought about it at somepoint in their lives and then moved on. Some of them keep that a deep dark secret because they don't want to be looked at as gay. They aren't gay! They just tried something because they were curious and wanted to know and now because you say so they should believe deep down inside that they are really gay because they tried something at some point in their lives? If a man has recurring desires to physically be with another man and women don't do anything for him then he is probably gay. Other then that he is what he believes himself to be.
Bob

ok so u think that the sec teams are scared to play the utahs and boise states but they will play the miami and ohio states, also didnt the gators just open with hawaii this year? i see it the other way, there is a bigger payday for the bcs games then for games aginst the bcs teams, so in my eyes teams like utah and boise state wouldnt want to play the bcs teams knowing if they lost that would cost them any chance of a bcs game. i dont know why the big ten teams backed out , but iam sure that sec teams wouldnt do it because they are scared to play those teams. so let me get this florida will play aub urn, tenn., geroiga, ole miss, alabama, florida state and miami but they are scared to play utah, know thats retarded, iam not saying that utah arent as good as the teams that i have just mentioned, but there is no way that teams like florida or any sec team that see top talent week in and week out would be scared to play teams like utah. think about it you where just saying how cal was a top notch team recently, didnt my vols just play a home and home series with them, but they are scared to play a team like boise state, yeah right. look let me ask this ? , do u think that utah would go unbeaten if they played a sec sch.?

EXACTLY my point! What normal child needs $15K/month? There should be a MAX on Child Support amounts.

THIS IS THE LAW AND FEMINISM GANGING UP ON MEN!
I wonder why men still "fall in love" with us women.!!

sumo sumo,

first of all the cal team u brought up, didnt they lose to a 23rd ranked tex. techatleast bama lost to a top ten team, i guess it doesnt matter a lose is a lose. wow 2 teams in the top 5 since 2000, not named usc, to put that in comparison the sec had 2 teams in the top 3 in 06 and 07, just thought i would point that out. ?

look like i said my vols had a bad year, a real bad year , about the meyer thing, of course they where skepitcal he was replacing the old ball coach, anytime one coach follows a legend that is always going to happen.do you want to see depth or just the talent level, how is the spread going for the gators,

ok now go ask michigan how thats going, the difference is the talent level. i dont think that pac10 and mwc are pop warner, my point is that they are no where close to as good from top to bottom, there is a simple soultion for this, why dont utah start playing these schools in the outta conf. games. in my opinion if the mwc conference wants a automatic bid, they should have to play bsc conf. teams in all of there outta conf. games, so this way we can see if they belong thru the season , not just 1 game at the end of the year.

help me out with something what year was it that cal was one play away from moving up to #1 and then lost 4 or 5 games in a row to end that season, was that the same year that usc lost to stanford at home when they where 50 point favorite, i guess thats still not as bad as losing to wyoming on homecoming.

Say you've been dating a girl for a bit and from what you can tell, she *seems* to be taking a serious liking to you, BUT you haven't made any real moves on her yet.

Now I've seen *some* women on this forum complain or question guys who don't make any moves, saying that they're not sure if the guy is attracted to them, or that they think the guy's a wimp and isn't enough of a man.

My question is, what are some ways of making moves on a woman that demonstrate desire and "manliness" (whatever that's suppose to mean), but without coming off as "creepy" and "desperate"?

Time for the Experts to step up!

But married men looking to cheat are not honest men. As you just found out. Most likely because they know full well if the wife found out he has “other interest” she would divorce Him. So as long as he can get away with it, he will. So they keep both women in the dark, and have their fun at the expense of someone else.

I know I'm asking for it with this question, but here it goes. (be gentle with your replys)
I met a 34 year old male several months ago and thought he was single (or so he said). Time went on (4 months), I got hooked and he later confessed he was married with four children. Trying to get over those feelings, needless to say I joined Plentyoffish.com. The majority of men that come on to me are married! Why do they do this?

Did they ask you to pay for sex?
People misrepresent themselves all the time...nothing new

OP, I have just one thing to say. A man who is bisexual is GAY. This is true.

I cannot understand why 2 people who supposedly love each other and want to spend the rest of their lives together, would even worry about a prenup or max child support payment. Isnt that a sign that you arent really "sure" of the marriage you're fixin' to enter into? Leaving the "just in case" papers out there imo, leads me to think that people really arent that devoted and really dont intend to honor the "for better or for worse" part of their vows. Maybe it's just me, but I wouldnt enter into a marriage where a contract had to be in place.