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ohio07

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Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship? Posted: 11/20/2009 8:32:21 PM
Does sex on the first date count as a "date." Or is it more of a hook up?

ohio07

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Is being a virgin a turn off ? Posted: 11/17/2009 9:26:11 PM
I've heard of reverse cowgirl but "reverse cowboy".... Hmn... so you were hopping up and down on her facing the other way.... And she liked it!?! Man, something went terribly wrong! Yeay, drunk sex!!!

ohio07

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Is dating a 22 year old virgin male OK? Posted: 11/16/2009 1:02:53 PM
Don't make it an issue. Find somebody who likes YOU and you'll be okay with the rest of it. Hell when I told the girl who took mine, she yelled that I was a liar! Just because your a virgin doesn't mean it's gonna be bad. If you get to actually love the person your with, you both will remember it positively. If your looking for wild sex, having a virgin is a turn off to most... But if your in love with the person, the first time is shortly followed by a second, third, fourth, etc. In this circumstance you get not only quanity but quality, and I'd take that anyday over a meaningless encounter. Why just settle for a one nighter when you can have the best of both options? You just have to find the right person.

ohio07

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Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop Posted: 11/15/2009 7:09:45 PM
I think this forum has outlived it's usefulness for everybody. You deserve better Zeph. Wish you the best of luck and take all the time you need, before you get back out there. The BS is over now, so now you can go out and have fun and enjoy yourself, you deserve to be happy. And while it would be nice to find someone who could make you happy, it doesn't mean that is the only way to get there. Take care and don't let the poster's get to you. You know what is best for you. You will look back and be happy that you have moved on. This is just another life experience, nothing more or less. You know you deserve better and that's all that matters.

ohio07

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Do Men Like Hearing There Name Said In Bed Posted: 11/12/2009 4:17:15 PM
Absofreakinlutely! I still remember the first time I got a girl off and she said my name, clutching me tight and with her voice going up a pitch... It was awesome! It just made me want to find different ways to get her off some more... Man, I miss my late teen years...

ohio07

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Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship? Posted: 11/10/2009 8:02:47 PM
(370) Been there, done that, got the t-shirt. What can I say, "damned if ya do, damned if ya don't." If not sleeping with you the first time I see you makes you want to ditch me, then your not the one for me, nope. Did I miss out on something a few times? Maybe. But more importantly did I dodge something... Absolutely! And I don't regret it, one minute! Is it frustrating saying no to a sure thing like that, you bet... But is it worth it in the long run? I'd say so. Rarely does a one nighter progress to another meaningful interaction. That's just the way it goes...

ohio07

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moving in together after being single for a decade or more Posted: 11/9/2009 1:09:42 PM
Just do it. You have a right to be happy!

ohio07

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Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop Posted: 11/5/2009 4:15:28 PM
Zephyr you are an amazing person. Very open and honest. You deserve better than this and anybody who has read what you have had to say, on many topics, already knows this. Take a deep breath and walk away from this guy. If the person your with isn't the right one, then the right one won't be able to find you... and if they did you couldn't be with them. Is this guy worth that? That is up to you... Count me in the camp that you deserve better than this... Good luck with your decision!

ohio07

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Is porn ruining real live sex? Posted: 11/4/2009 8:34:55 PM
Funny for me it was just the opposite. Live sex just killed porn for me... I've never recovered... Damn GF!!!

ohio07

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Sex in parents house while parents are home Posted: 11/2/2009 9:21:12 AM
Guilty... Visiting GF for the first time. We tried to stall but... Too much anticipation, we just couldn't keep our hands off each other. Luckily we got a hotel room that night, and the next. This kind of thing is WAY too obvious to hide under those circumstances. She didn't seem to care though, so why should I?

ohio07

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Men, Women, Sex and emotions Posted: 8/29/2009 9:03:42 PM
All I'm gonna say to this one is the best part of growing up there... is leaving it. Everybody in that town just cares about you if your not from there. If you leave and come back, all of the sudden your "interesting." (And if you succeed while gone, they "claim" you... like Tom Cruise for example... Come On!) I've never seen a town with people that have such a silly inferiority complex.

ohio07

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Male Multiple Orgasm Posted: 8/27/2009 8:13:34 PM
I've had this before and just for good measure had it happen since the first time. I had no idea a guy could do this. But low and behold it happened. I had and O, kept going and had another one a few seconds later... Then I was still hard. looked her in the eye and said: "I can go again..." She was sore after a while so we stopped. But DAMN what a surprise! I had no idea I was capable of this. I thought women only had multiple O's. This isn't just for the women. Guys can do it too. But to be fair, it wasn't the first time we had sex, and we were in love so I don't think I was as distracted as I otherwise would have been. You have to be totally in the moment and forget about everything except what your doing and who your with. But given the right circumstances, any guy should be able to do this with the right partner. And for your second question... Oh Yeah, they were increasingly intense. My breathing and whole body just got that much more into the effect. It was incredible. I completely lost myself and it was amazing...

ohio07

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Eight year age gap ok? Posted: 8/26/2009 10:45:24 PM
Age doesn't matter in dating. Now living together is something different entirely. But a gap in dating is no big deal as long as you two like each other and simply want to try it out.

ohio07

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Doesn't EVERYONE like oral sex? Posted: 8/21/2009 1:41:33 PM
I can't help it, the oral sex/hot dog analogy had me rolling!!! Hillarious! OMFG!!! That was killer...

ohio07

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can you stay hard if you are NOT attracted physically.... Posted: 8/11/2009 4:20:25 PM
Uh, Viagra, Cialis anyone???

ohio07

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Circumcised vs Un-Circumcised... Posted: 8/10/2009 10:55:07 PM
Thread DERAIL!!! Let... it... die... peacefully.

ohio07

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Is being a virgin a turn off ? Posted: 7/26/2009 9:20:43 PM
Don't worry too much! Just do some research. The first girl I was in a relationship with, I could give her multiple O's... BEFORE she "took my virtue". So trust me, as long as you know how to use your hands, your lips and your tongue on multiple parts of her body (even better if done at the same time...) she won't mind a bit of you are a virgin. And if my life experience counts for anything, she just might throw you on the bed and ride you til one of you beggs off cause your too sore to continue... (Ahh, after all these years, I STILL love ya baby!!! Wherever you are!!! Gawd DAM... when IS that HS reunion??? Sigh...)

ohio07

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Cuddling and touching after sex Posted: 7/24/2009 5:40:02 PM
I love this. The intamicy before sex is nice, but it's nothing like the afterglow. Especially if your in a relationship and are really into each other. Round 2 can be fun, but for me, so is the shower afterwards when we soap each other up, and make out, and do the other person's back, or I wash her hair for her. Major turn on! That's where the true trust and intamicy presents itself and I can't get enough of it. The best parts for me are the moments where there isn't necessarily sex, or even words; but you express how you feel through your touch and your eyes... That's the best for me. Looking into each others eyes, reading everything in one moment, and just feeling the pleasure of your skin, next to their skin. The touch and texture of it. And listening to them breathe... taking in their scent... after everything goes all quiet just before you sleep. I wouldn't trade that feeling for anything else in the world. Now the snoring on the other hand!

ohio07

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How did your parents find out that you were having sex? Posted: 7/24/2009 5:28:56 PM
My dad doesn't want to know that any of us are having sex. My sister's are 35, 33 and I just turned 29. I tried to talk about who I was dating the last time and he got all defensive. I mean what the hell. Talking about dating as an adult. Some parents just see you as a "little girl, or boy" even years after puberty, when you don't even look like a child anymore. I find it odd and amusing at the same time. I could understand the aversion to knowing about sex when your kid is a teenager... But an adult. I mean if we're married, um I assure you we've had sex with that person at SOME point!

ohio07

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Why do some men believe receiving anal from a female is a homosexual act? Do you like it? Posted: 7/24/2009 5:13:58 PM
(9) Good point. This made me wonder. Most moral indignation against gays comes from the act of sodomy. But hederosexuals can engage in sodmomy and quite enjoy it. (So I'm told!) So are these hederosexuals condemmed to hell too!?! Where are the protest against their "lifestyle choice?" (Crickets) Now as long as any sexual act is consensual, I really don't care once you have passed into the age of reason. As long as force isn't involved or judgement is impared, I don't care what you do with a person consentualy past a certain age. (Preferably past middle school...) I really don't get the hate against lesbians. They don't necessarily do sodomy, most I know use toys, oral and fingering to pleasure each other. So if that's the case, what's the problem? I've never seen a lesbian die of an STD. And come to think of it, I use the same methods to get my GF off, so does this put us in the "Hell" room too? What if we are married and do it? The relationship then would be ordained by God so wouldn't all bets be off??? I just can't get any real answers to these philsophical questions, so I reserve the right to judge until I get a more in depth answer. You brought up great points in this last post, and you reminded me about the ambiguity behind these kind of positions. I just don't get it. If it gives you an orgasm it has to be bad? I mean WTF? This is like the church advocating sex for procreation without pleasure. Where do you think all of the circumcision and genital mutilation came from, surely not the first man and women who walked the Earth. I mean wouldn't that be insinuating that the "infalliable God" made a mistake? NEVER!!! This reminds me of the Bill Hicks joke: "And on the 7th day God looked down upon the Earth and said: "There, my creation is finished and perfect in all ways... (See's a marijuana plant) "SH!T!!!"

ohio07

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Why do some men believe receiving anal from a female is a homosexual act? Do you like it? Posted: 7/24/2009 4:57:39 PM
What's homosexual about an act committed between two heterosexuals??? You lost me... I don't care what get's anybody off. Hell, one poster had a guy make her run a cheese grater against his privates before sex... Whatever gets you off, I guess. Too bad she left out the salt! OUCH! Now, THAT would have been "epic!"

ohio07

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A new type of money bomb going on today for Alex Jones. Posted: 7/24/2009 4:49:48 PM
What part of the offical story of 911 is sketchy has anything to do with David Icke? Is Karen Kiwatkowski who worked in the Pentagon nuts? How about Bob Wright who was stopped by the FBI from going after bin Laden and Bush's connection pre 911? How about Buzzy Krongard former Pentagon offical making mulitmillions off of the "put options" (betting that the stock price will drop) on American Airlines and United Airlines stock??? Do you dispute any of these facts... NO, you just use an ad homienem against Icke for his views. Nice red herring, care to dispute the facts??? Nah, didn't think so since that takes more than a soundbite. Thanks Rush, Thanks Mr. Franken, now back to the substance of the matter... Care to stay on topic??? You think Icke is nuts. Cool. I personally think Bush, Cheney, and whoever ordered the Pentagon to not use the air defense missles that were located on the roof should be charged with murder and treason. But hey, you got your view and I got mine. So be it. Next time have something more substanative than "no it isn't", as a defense and you might change my mind. Oh BTW, Icke worked for the media at the BBC which was the point I was trying to make. You trust the media's point of view... Icke WAS the media... that's why he was critiqing it. Yet he isn't credible to you, and your news source is... Um, okay... Nice doublethink going on there...

ohio07

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what does it mean really for a guy to try to have sex with you on the first date? Posted: 7/22/2009 8:49:29 AM
There is nothing wrong with it. Now the question is... Are you mature enough to handle it? If not, don't repeat this scenario. If so, then What's the problem again???

ohio07

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OKCUPID works Posted: 7/19/2009 3:46:57 PM
I ran into my ex on this site... Needless to say... Profile deleted!!! LOL!!! But the personality test are alot of fun...

ohio07

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Women Don't Always Cum Posted: 7/19/2009 10:10:32 AM
It's not just women and there are many variables that go into it. If I'm not connected to the other person in some way, I could be plugging away for an hour and get nothing. While she by this time could of had several O's and cum all over the sheets to where the mattress is rank, let alone the sheets. In a relationship where you know what your partner is into, you can find their spots and give them multiple O's, even if they don't or cannot cum or "squirt." But in a one nighter, unless this person is drop dead fantasy from the gods in your view, and the excitement is over the edge; I can see where that lack of familiarity and "communication" ahem, can lead to not gettting off with the individual. Let alone, if one or both of you are drunk and she's out of it, unresponsive, and/or you have "whiskey d!ck I don't think people realize until later how much the mind rules the body when it comes to getting off. If you are mentally "there" your body will bring you to the climax. But if your not, no amount of sexual activity can get you where you need to go, to cum or even squirt. In the end, it's the abilty to trust who your with and communicate what gets you there that gets you to the point where you can get off. An anonymus one nighter with a complete stranger, drunk or sober, isn't always your best bet. Sometimes being with somebody you know a bit can give you the freedom to set your mind free to where your body will take you. But even when I'm all used up after six or seven rounds and I'm reduced to dry O's, it doesn't make them any less. In fact for me, they are even more intense! So just because you may not cum (all the time) or squirt (anytime) , doesn't mean your not having great O's, or great sex! And how many times is their sufficient time and effort put into foreplay? I never could understand how you can just start plugging into a woman, when she's not even wet or had at least one O to start. Also if your having a whole lot of sex, after a few days you do need to let your body replenish your reserves. I was running on empty after a nice, weeklong vacation with my GF, but a day or two of R&R, I was rested and reloaded for the next time. (And DAMN, by then I was pretty sore anyway!!!)

ohio07

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Underwear - The New Relationship Indicator? Posted: 7/18/2009 9:51:19 PM
Relationship indicator eh... Well since I've started my most recent relationship, for some reason I just can't seem to keep my underwear on... So you could say they are as clean as they have ever been!

ohio07

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sex and feelings Posted: 7/14/2009 3:00:21 PM
I've tried having NSA sex and felt so detached that I had to stop and leave. Even if I was drunk or sober. When you feel like you are watching yourself and are so removed from the situation, there just is no use in continuing. Recently I have found somebody that I do love and I can say that the before and after sex, is equally as pleasureable as the during, if not even more so. There is so much more to sex and feelings than just the physical act itself. And while that alone can be pleasureable, the full experience with the added trust, intimacy, love and mutual respect is so much more fufilling, for me personally. It's like settling for the appetizer and ditching the main course. Yes you get something to eat and feel satisifed for the moment. But you get hungry shortly therafter and need another bite. All this time you never get fufilled and miss out on the main course. Everybody I know who has "had experience" has told me that they would have gladly traded every one of those nights, for one relationship with the right person or who they are with now in a relationship. Instead of just getting off, they have the security emotionally to let go and be themselves emotionally and do or try things they never would have with somebody else physically. Does this make the sex better? Perhaps. Does this make the feelings along with the sex better, Absolutely! So while you can manage with sex absent any real feelings, you do miss out on the other half of the equation and the added enjoyment and fufuillment that goes along with that. Is one better for you vs. the other, that depends on where you are in your life and what you are looking for. But this sentiment seems to be universal in the people I know and have talked to.

ohio07

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Favorite Family Guy Lines Posted: 7/5/2009 6:45:15 PM
Peter in the closet, mounted on top of, and making out with... the bag of fat: "Um, this is exactly what it looks like."

ohio07

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Was she still a virgin? Please Help! Posted: 7/5/2009 3:27:34 PM
Echo post #3, and yes you can "lose it" without busting it... Some women don't always bleed. Don't ask me why, but I've met them... Now if you love her PLEASE get over this!!! This post is one of the most selfish, self absorbed one's I've come across in years... Let... it... go!!! If you love each other, THAT should be enough... End of story!!!

ohio07

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why do most men judge women by their number of past lovers? Posted: 7/5/2009 10:32:03 AM
Don't even ask, you don't want to know... really! This is like that Chris Rock joke:"Women don't count how many times they had sex, they count how many boyfriends they had. They aren't counting that guy they fvcked at the club, or that night they fvcked Bobby Brown, they did Bobby Brown backstage at the concert, or that guy they met in Aruba, heck that's another country... that don't count! I thought we were talking about "domestic d!ck!!!" Jesus just asking her (or finding out about) what she did in college should be more than you'd ever want to know!!! Besides what if she's in her late 30's and 40's and had a certain number high or low... I mean what can you expect. You didn't know her for 30-40 yrs... Give the person a break! All you should care about is her health, that directly affects you... the rest is just how she treats other people and you. And that you should already know by then.

ohio07

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Infidelity and the public perception Posted: 7/4/2009 2:54:36 AM
Sometimes don't you just grow apart from each other... And then some people run to their close friends for support and men (and even women) then cross the line and have affairs. It's common in both sexes, hell does anybody even remember the '70's? The ONLY reason anybody cares about this one, is because the person involved is an unopoular politican, that is very weak.

ohio07

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Wow this is a good ? Posted: 7/3/2009 6:03:44 PM
The worst one I remember thought that oral for five minutes was foreplay. And it was so bad I told her to STOP! Who the hell told women that oral was supposed to be painful! Just try plugging away at a girl with a sore d!ck, when you just start having sex and see how far you go. I was plugging away like hell just trying to get it over with! Thankfully when I was done I promised myself I wouldn't do a repeat performance. I was still able to be friends with her, but didn't complain when we didn't have sex again. The other thing that bothered me was no foreplay. NO touching at all, just brief kissing before she started oral, and then I had to try to have sex after that. Jesus talk about an "out of body" experience. I'm so glad I don't have to go through that again! It's funny how some women forget about your neck, your chest, your thighs and so many other places where a little attention can turn you on to the point of rapture... Foreplay isn't just for the ladies, guys need it too if you want us at our peak. Otherwise don't complain if it's a lousy fvck. No effort equals bad sex every time. No matter the gender or level of "experience."

ohio07

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Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 7/3/2009 12:53:37 PM
I've been with women who get pissed off if you do too much kissing before you start fvcking... Twice in my life I have had this experience... and I got up and left. If you "want" me, but you don't need... "me" then I'm just a prop, and I'd rather just be alone, than be seen as a autorobotic sexual aid... nothing more or less. It's just as well because the sex in a relationship has always been a thousand times better than a tryst with a coworker or a friend of whoever, or anybody else along those lines. The sex I have in a relationship I wouldn't trade for anything else...

ohio07

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oral sex on women Posted: 7/1/2009 8:19:52 PM
Everybody is diiferent and the problem is once somebody finds something that works for their last GF, they think that's all they have to do. One girl loved oral, some just could get off by fingerplay and fisting; while I had one girl who said that she only came in a certain position for intercourse and no other way. You simply have to talk about your history, what you like, and what you'd be willing to try... You never know what could happen and both of you may be pleasantly surprised Or sadly understimulated But if you both communicate and are willing to not give up, you can both find what works for both of you. It just takes patience, relaxation and an undying effort to please.

ohio07

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Circumcised vs Un-Circumcised... Posted: 7/1/2009 7:23:29 AM
My GF just loves how sensitive (in a good way) and how responsive I am during stimulation and sex. I was her first uncut guy and now we can't keep our hands off each other when we see each other. She totally gets off on the sounds I make and how I feel, and gets wet just by performing oral. As for cleanliness, uh you have to do that even if your snipped! That doesn't change. I mean do guys really not wash down there. You will clean your ass but not your c*ck? This dumbfounds me to no end. If you clean yourself, you will have no issues. Bad hygenie cannot be saved by circumcision alone!!! If the guy is nasty down there, why go through with it. I would think you would get up and leave... Unless you we're too drunk to notice or give a damn in the 1st place... Besides isn't "what's good for goose is good for the gander?" If we are going to be absolutists about all this, where are the female circumcision threads??? Oh wait THAT'S truly barbaric! How dare they do that in Africa... Yeah better we just mutiliate the males of the world.... I see... Hmmnn..... But that makes sense; I've read where circumcision was used to identify enslaved populations all over the world in ancient times. Maybe somebody is trying to tell us something subconsciously eh???

ohio07

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Strippers and Lapdances Posted: 7/1/2009 7:08:08 AM
(51) Yeah I must admit I never got the attraction of paying money for a bad case of "blue balls!" At least when you masterbate... you get a release... and it's free! LOL!

ohio07

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casual sex or friends with benefits Posted: 6/30/2009 8:54:54 PM
This whole topic reminds me of that joke in "She's the One" "Francis you mean your not having sex with your wife because you don't want to cheat on your girlfriend with your wife?" " Um, yeah..." Classic!

ohio07

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Infidelity and the public perception Posted: 6/30/2009 8:50:14 PM
Google Vince Foster and Huma Abdelin... Hillary aint no saint either. If you've got the nerve look up Cathy O'Brien and Hilliary Clinton, you might not like what you find...

ohio07

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Should I have just kept my mouth shut? Posted: 6/30/2009 8:45:20 PM
Sorry hun, but bad sex and selfish lovers go hand in hand... You should be glad he's gone. I can't believe he got that much rope to begin with. Looks like he chose to hang himself with it. His problem, now it's his loss.

ohio07

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Fellas, how would you honestly react to this? Posted: 6/30/2009 10:16:15 AM
(57) You nailed it. I used to drink, and hang out with bartenders all the time. They ALL do this for precisely the reason you stated. There is a reason most female bartenders are young, slim, and wear tight clothing... DUH! Here's a thought, just a thought. If she is REALLY interested in you, she will give you HER number! I'm not kidding... If she want's this, she will do it on her terms and be in control of the situation. If you give your number this is you imposing on a customer service worker, it's much better if she approaches you in a non working situation... Any flirting on the job, means nothing... Now if she tells you what bar she's going to, or asks advice on what she should do on her day off, then your all clear. But what you described is meaningless... Come on!

ohio07

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Fellas, how would you honestly react to this? Posted: 6/29/2009 7:39:42 PM
Dude, a flirt is a flirt. Working in customer service, you'll hit on somebody just to kill the boredom. However, if you want to make this possibly uncomfortable in the future, just try hitting on her the next time. Trust me, this kinda crap is NEVER worth it. Hell she probably already has a boyfriend.... that she is living with! (Cough! Cough!) This... means... NOTHING!!!

ohio07

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My ex boyfriend/best friend Posted: 6/29/2009 7:14:19 PM
He's not gay, just really REALLY horny!!! Hope you don't got any pets!!! ("Heere Kitty, kitty! Here Fido, DAMN, where did I leave that jar of peanut butter!?!")

ohio07

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How much fluid when females ejaculate and is it okay to swallow it Posted: 6/29/2009 4:06:42 PM
Depends on the person. Admittedly I've only had this happen with those I was in relationships with. There was that total surrender to the moment, we both wanted each other badly and just went after each other and trusted ourselves to really let go. I think you have to be comfortable with who your with, or just overwhelmingly turned on by the idea of sleeping with the person to get there. But from what I have experienced with women I've been with is that this is more mental than physical. She has to trust you and be comfortable with you and herself, to get herself to this point, and it doesn't really have to do with how physical you are. It's more her comfort with herself and allowing herself to be open and vulnerable to you that brings you to this point, from what I have experienced. BTW, if it's was harmful, my face would have rotted off or I'd be dead by now! What a way to go! Vaj poisioning!!! That's a new one. Gawd! How would my family get through the funeral on that one! "That's her, the serial squirter!!! She killed my son! He was poisoned by the wicked brew of her! He never had a chance!!!" OMFG!!!

ohio07

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New, specific question about squirting Posted: 6/29/2009 3:44:49 PM
The people I've been with... It's more intense definitely. One girl couldn't move and would twitch and moan and growl when I touched her. And if your very gentle and ever so lightly tickle her with your tounge or blow/ exhale on her afterwards, or use toys and/or fingers she can have another O and you can keep them coming in waves until she can't take anymore. This approach is awesome for foreplay!!! However be careful for what you wish for, cause she may reciprocate and reward you with the best oral of your entire life until your left with nothing but a dry O; Or she just might take you for all your worth until you experience the same intense O you just gave her. I didn't expect and was surprised when I made a girl squirt the first time. Now I try to find what they like and make them wait, tease them a little, then give it to them so they can have a really good one. I mean if she's willing to exhaust herself giving you pleasure, why not turn the tables and have a little fun with her. Guys who don't care to do this just don't know what they are missing! Definitely, definitely worth it!!!

ohio07

Joined: 12/27/2008

Msg: 25 (view)

going down on a guy Posted: 6/29/2009 10:16:21 AM
That doesn't really work for me. Cupping my balls is fine, licking is fine, sucking, eh... But I find it a distraction when she's trying to massage something down there. (during oral) I'd much rather have her hands, or hand, running down my chest and my torso. Lightly tickling me and making me twitch, and flashing those bedroom eyes at me during... Oh God does that drive me Crazy!!! Blindfolded and hands tied, at the time.... even better! Yeah, I know I'm a freak!

ohio07

Joined: 12/27/2008

Msg: 38 (view)

Why do women scratch your back and bite your lip during sex? Posted: 6/29/2009 10:03:53 AM
I used to bite the lip, but I learned that less is more for most women in regards to that. As for scratching your back and also biting my neck. HOTT!!! My God my GF one time scratched down my chest and my back during sex and it was hott! I wasn't sure it would go away, but it did the next day. Her nails weren't even that long, (Thank GOD!) but the next day I had red streaks all over, front and back... It was Wild! Just how in the hell was I gonna explain that to my roommate? (Ha, ha!) Hmnn, jealous much, buddy! That's when I knew my GF was a F-R-E-A-K!!!

ohio07

Joined: 12/27/2008

Msg: 43 (view)

Infidelity and the public perception Posted: 6/28/2009 4:59:39 PM
The "two wrongs make a right" defense didn't work in college and it doesn't work now. Logical fallacies are no excuse for anything. However, the point is this is a private matter. But if you are going to defend the immorality of a person because of their profession and criticize another for the same reason, you are by definition a hypocrit. Hypothetically of course. Either you denounce one and all, or you accept it. I personally don't give a da*mn, because it's the familes issue, not mine. And if you think that the expense to see his mistress was bad, where where you when Clinton was denying a woman's civil rights, and the right to legal protection under the law when she was imposed upon against her will? This led to a very expensive legal proceeding that almost forced the politicians to overturn the result of an election. (They chose not to, but the had the legal justification to do so) But hey, since when was it a big deal if lawyers break the law (or are above it?) What the fvck else is new and WHY do we act so surprised and outraged!?! Again the public perception rarely meets reality when it comes to public figures in these matters. Which is the whole point in the first place. Having an affair is one thing, using your authority to deny somebody their civil rights is another. Yet one is excused for and the other is scorned. I just wish I saw more conviction of purpose to condemn both equally, rather than excuse one, and excoriate another based on one's political affiliation. That is weak.

ohio07

Joined: 12/27/2008

Msg: 38 (view)

Infidelity and the public perception Posted: 6/28/2009 3:08:04 PM
Underlying moral of this story: If a liberal democrat uses women for consensual sex while married, he's an idol. (Kennedy, Kennedy, Clinton) If conservative republican does it, (Sandford) he's a pariah... Ok we have established the false double standard of public perception of infidelity in public figures... moving on. Yeah, your entitlted to use them for consensual sex during your marriage, as long as you pander to them politically. But if you are a conservative and do it, you are much, much worst than anybody else... Yeah, I see. Why the hell do we care about this personal and private matter between the husband and the wife? I don't see anybody exposing and raising hell over John Edwards having a child out of wedlock during his marriage while his wife HAD CANCER!!! I mean she was dying... HELLO!!!! Tough campaigning John!?! People please, it's not your life, it's not your situation. You have no knowledge about the dynamic of their relationship. (Remember Hilliary and Bill's "bimbo brigade?" She had Vince Foster, he had anything that walked!) Ultimately it is up to them to figure out where to go from here. This is very messy. But with some soul searching these people will move on together, or respectfully apart. Jesus, I mean at least he didn't have a kid by the other woman. (Yet...) Another false assumption here is the man being the only possible guilty one. I've seen wives of politicans sleep with the campaign managers and staff before. Things such as this are not only one sided. Relationships are complicated, especially the longer they go. We (the public) just don't know all the facts. We are just spouting off with half of the story, and it's more prevalent what we don't know, that what we do. But in the end who gives a ...? Your life is ultimately your problem and nobody else's.

ohio07

Joined: 12/27/2008

Msg: 8 (view)

First time sex with new partner Posted: 6/28/2009 12:12:02 PM
Tease her, get her off... Then tease her again. Keep the foreplay going until she's in rapture and "takes you." You won't have to worry about a thing. Take your time, get really close, and back off and do something else to change it up. Some sucking and strategic licking on differen't parts of her body. When she's had enough of the foreplay and sex without climax, she will take you and make you cum when she wants it. All you have to do is be calm and patient. Don't rush!!! By the time she's ready and you have warmed each other up properly, both of you will have the conclusion and utimate pleasure you deserve. You can last long if you don't try to rush it and enjoy it. And even if you do cum early... Keep going! You'd be surprised how motivated you can become after your 1st nut after a long dry spell... You may even last for hours... Throughout multiple orgasms if my track record proves anything. Good luck. And don't worry, if she wants to have sex with you, she want's to enjoy you, all of you, not just your co*ck! Good luck, and don't worry... Have some fun and enjoy it!

ohio07

Joined: 12/27/2008

Msg: 26 (view)

Infidelity and the public perception Posted: 6/28/2009 11:56:29 AM
Virtually all political marriages are marriages of convienience that I've seen. Working as an activist and being exposed to some up close, will show you that promient people aren't that much differen't than the rest of us. They are both opportunistic and "as loyal as their options", in most cases. It's hard to say you wouldn't or would do something until you are faced with that particular circumstance. And before anybody gets self righteous and jumps on that high horse after getting out the stepladder, I would advise them to just remember that the last perfect person in the world... was crucified! It's their problem, not ours. Take care of your family and yourself and "render to caesar what is caesar's." You truly cannot say jack until you have faced what somebody has faced. This holds true for those who want the wife to dump him as well. They are buisness partners, life partners and have a family together. Whatever they decide is right for them is what matters, and nothing else.

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