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yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 24 (view)

Overlooked because of my size Posted: 8/25/2009 4:52:40 AM
dont lose weight for that reason, please. youll find someone. i met someone, who is very small, short stature and just small and im not PETITE. haha, plus size for me. it bothered me for a minute because he was so short, but after i got to know him, i didnt notice anynmore. i felt unconfortable cause i am so much bigger than he is..he is 5 3" and im about 5 7"...but he prob felt the same way and now doesnt notice much anymore. One time, his neice said, I didnt realize that you were so much taller than my uncle and he interjcted and said, "we're all the same size lying down." lmoa. dont be hurt, let someone get to know you, when you find the right mature person, your size wont matter.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 142 (view)

good body or face? Posted: 8/25/2009 4:47:32 AM
if that were my ONLY choices, then I would say the face....dont care much about the body, just need to be clean.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 165 (view)

The Four favourite questions guys love to ask.... Posted: 8/25/2009 4:46:16 AM
lmoa! you are so right!!! how about, "are your nipples larger than the size of a quarter?"

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 65 (view)

Men help me with Fellatio?? tips??? Posted: 8/25/2009 4:43:54 AM
hahaha. i just posted that. my bf likes teeth action!!!!

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 64 (view)

Men help me with Fellatio?? tips??? Posted: 8/25/2009 4:43:22 AM
you just have to ask him or by trial and error...i used to be very slow and gentle with my partner and it would take forever and it didnt seem satifying for him or me. i asked and then i found he likes biting (yeah!) and very rough orally. i also tried other things and it seems we have it perfected now. slow and steady, rough and hard, deep throat with his hands grasping my hair..no turning back from that. awesome.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 355 (view)

Polyamory Posted: 8/25/2009 4:38:38 AM
wow. had threesomes, but the woman never had feelings for me or the other man...i dont think, anyway. try to keep emotions out of it or it can get sticky. im all for sex for fun and i dont mind sharing.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 20 (view)

What do women want from a man that they are interested in? Posted: 7/5/2009 9:02:28 PM
I want time and attention. Call me, text me, just show up in the middle of the night because you were thinking about me.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 30 (view)

is kissing and licking each others fingers considered sensual to you ? Posted: 7/3/2009 4:00:55 AM
Its a good start...I love it done and especially like doing it to someone to get him excited. Lots of tongue action. :)

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 61 (view)

Best Sex Positions Posted: 6/30/2009 5:29:48 PM
My favorite is NUMBER 3!!!!!!

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

smack that. . . Posted: 6/30/2009 5:25:32 PM
Just talk about it. My partner and I are so in tune with each other that we know who gets the spanking tonight. Sometimes no spankings are necessary and we figure that out too in the way we touch each other. If you don't talk or act out what you want, you may never get it. My current partner took my hand on our second date, while he was driving, and ran his tongue from my fingers up to my elbow. I was hooked. We have a good time in bed and out. We talk about things we want to try and then we try them. Sometimes they end up a dud, but we laugh and try something else. You have to have the right mature partner.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 138 (view)

first date sex Posted: 6/29/2009 4:55:19 PM
If I think I want to see him again, I won't sleep with him the first date, maybe not even the second. And I definately won't sleep with him if I don't intend on seeing him again. Yeah, sex is natural, butif it's just not there, it's not there for me anyway..

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

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WHY DO GIRLS do this? Posted: 6/28/2009 12:04:45 PM
I just forgot to change mine when I met my partner....I enjoy the forums- posting and reading- meeting new people. I gotta change mine so I am not mistaken for someone looking...although you just never know who you may meet. :)

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 124 (view)

My gf’s crazy fantasy Posted: 6/28/2009 12:01:54 PM
Rape is a harsh word. Maybe she justs wants a little more aggression from you. I like it when my partner is a little rough too, a little forceful, but don't call it rape. It's a huge turn on~!!

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 74 (view)

Ladies, your honest to goodness answer would be nice Posted: 6/28/2009 11:59:39 AM
Not for me, it's everything else that goes along with the act. Wrap yourself up in pleasing her and paying attention to her- bet she doesn't care a bit. :)

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 218 (view)

How important is chivalry in an relationship to you? Posted: 6/27/2009 8:09:09 AM
It's important to me. I like a gentleman and being treated like a lady.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 30 (view)

While a girl is having a Orgasm is it better to...? Posted: 6/27/2009 8:04:23 AM
Hmm. I like him to slow down a little bit and then pick it back up again.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 60 (view)

Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral? Posted: 6/27/2009 8:02:48 AM
Yes I do and yes he does.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 63 (view)

Anyone have sex in honey? Enjoy it? Posted: 6/27/2009 8:01:32 AM
I hate honey. Too sticky for me.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 51 (view)

Funniest comments made during sex..... Posted: 6/27/2009 8:00:50 AM
" You got a knife? I can't get the knot out of the rope."

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 28 (view)

Ladies: first kiss - do you prefer a guy to ask permission or take initiative & just do it? Posted: 6/11/2009 8:06:39 PM
Just do it. It will be the fastest way to shut me up..!!

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 52 (view)

Should I just F**k him or try to date him? Posted: 6/11/2009 7:57:42 PM
I love sex, but can count on one hand how many guys I have "picked up" at a bar in my life, probably 1 or 2 at the most...and that was about 20 years ago. Now, I scope them out for a little bit, see what I think, if they may hold a prospectt for future dates or not, do they have any warrants? ha, gotta check that now, touchy subject for me...haha . Now I m not saying that I have not looked at guys and decided right there is I would sleep with them or not, cause I have, I just don't. Then, once I am intimate, if it was good or shows promise (the first time is never too good, you dont know each other's body well...) then I STICK LIKE GLUE. haha. Was called a stalker once. haha. Wathc yourself, show self control and go ot with the same guys a few times before you make that decision. Lots of diseases out there..be careful..be safe...have fun...

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 96 (view)

foot fetish Posted: 6/11/2009 7:50:07 PM
My current partner loves my feet. It does nothing for me, but he likes to lick my toes and stuff. ewwwwww. I let him. He also likes to put his toes in my ***** and wiggle them...again, not a big deal, but he likes it, so I let him. I fondle his feet too, but not into it really.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 71 (view)

What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation? Posted: 6/11/2009 7:47:42 PM
I never look at purely physical. I have to have some kind of mental connection first..to see what they are about, then I develop an attraction. About a year ago, I developed an attraction for a guy that blew my mind. Never had touched him before and yet I was so turned on by him. I thought I was going to explode some nights just thinking about doing him, but I had to get to know him first. Another episode...same thing, I got to know him first, but my curent partner..oops...2nd date...he grabbed my arm in the car as he was driving and glided his tongue from my fingers to my elbow. It was all over--didnt care if I got to know him or not!!! By the time we hit the next red light, my skirt was up and I was getting head. Wow. that was hot. So I guess my answer is that I try to look at the person, but if you make the right move, that gets all shot to hell...

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 287 (view)

Have you ever been caught Masturbating? Posted: 6/11/2009 7:37:07 PM
yep, but it was always planned.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 86 (view)

The best stimulation for any woman has to be french kissing Posted: 6/10/2009 7:55:36 PM
wow, yeah, I forgot about french kissing...gotta give that a try again.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 184 (view)

Threesomes...why the bias? Posted: 6/10/2009 7:50:41 PM
yes, it gets a little complicated. Threesomes with 2 women--not bad-- 2 women and 2 men- they could accidently touch each other!!!! hahahaha. most recent was 4some with 2 girls 2 guys- they never touched---never wanted to ...never ever will, but we all had a good time. everyone has to be mature and really good friends..which we are...so the better the party. And to comment, Im not gay either.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 34 (view)

Spit or Swallow? Posted: 6/9/2009 4:47:18 PM
lol.yes, this is one of the most popular topics on this forum!! The last time i had my partner's cum, he said to me, "do you want her to stop so you can catch my cum?"

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 285 (view)

Women & Blowjobs Posted: 6/9/2009 4:44:42 PM
hmm disagree somewhat. i give great head. have been told time and time again.. :) not years of practice , but i really get into giving him pleasure, so i take my time and enjoy it while he is...men can tell good from bad. only had a few that shot in a minute or less...i try to make it last longer, if i see they are working up to it, i slow it down.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 228 (view)

BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured?? Posted: 6/9/2009 4:40:41 PM
yeah, its hard to lose weight after a certain age. i lost a few last year, but for all the wrong reasons...was trying to lose for a man...and i don't know why because i was happy with myself and content---then i tried to be something i wasn't. the reason its hard is cause some men look at you disgusted or dont look at all. lol. everyone has their preferences. skinny people dont appeal to me. kind of look at them disgusted...poor things--they really need to eat something--do they think they look good like that? ill take a few pounds over anyday. i prefer chunky men and chunky women. :) bi curious? find the right person one day and shell make sure you enjoy your first experience. its all good stuff.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 36 (view)

Smell Of A Womans Foot Posted: 5/10/2009 7:19:14 PM
CHEESE OR POPCORN!!! LOLOLOLOL!! hmmm. My current likes to suck on my toes---does nothing for me----but he enjoys it. I tried to reciprocate, but it was kinda stinky.. LOL. Nah...they are FEET! So they may stink a little bit.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

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3somes Posted: 4/21/2009 6:50:53 PM
it can be difficult to find someone for a threesome. you will know her when you see her- is what i always say. my current lover and i just ask...so far we have been successful. unless you are mature enough to handle the 3some- dont do it. you can't have thoughts that he wants her more than you....cmon. you are his partner, the other person is just a temporary twist to enhance your relationship. if he leaves you for her, then he wasn't your in the first place. i find it very exciting to watch my lover go for another woman and i love it when he watches me please her. it's a turn on for both of us.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 67 (view)

Going down on her Posted: 4/21/2009 6:43:27 PM
just go for it, take your time and explore her. she will enjoy it just as much. i like to do it really slow at first and check her all out. you will know when you hit the right spots and i bet she doesnt coil away! you'll learn how to use your tongue to please her.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 44 (view)

Do you believe a man of today, still understands the true meaning of romance? Posted: 4/21/2009 6:40:48 PM
No, I think it has lost something along the way. I haven't had romance for quite some time---i guess that's what i crave for, but instead i settle for less.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

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Being in a committed relationship before sex Posted: 3/26/2009 3:04:05 AM
sometimes wonder if things would be different in my current life if i had only "held out" for a longer time. i wasn't rushed into sex by him, but chose to do it cause i wanted to...if we were in a committed releationship, would it be better? every time i get into a relationship, i say i'm gonna wait...lol, but always give it up too soon....NEXT TIME!!! I'll try it and let you know. :)

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 365 (view)

Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 3/25/2009 4:44:02 PM
I DON'T HATE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! I guess it depends on who is doing it..and how their doing at it....

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 50 (view)

Twice ...Wow, I had no idea... Posted: 3/25/2009 4:42:49 PM
wow. I'm jealous. My current partner take a few minutes to get it going again, but two is the max, but he always tries for 3...

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 199 (view)

If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex? Posted: 3/25/2009 4:40:53 PM
First thing in the morning, last before sleep and once in the middle of the night. That would be three. LOL! OK, I would be willing to give up the bedtime one for a middle of the night jaunt. :)

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 66 (view)

How many women here prefer short/skinny men? Posted: 3/21/2009 3:37:24 PM
Was pleasantly surprised by the short man I've met. He is shorter than me, but he oozes of sexual energy and is more endowed than any man I have ever been with. It's amazing, I thought he would have been a lot smaller. Not that it matters too much, but I figured I'd be getting a little package with a little guy. WRONG! I prefer a man who is taller, but sometimes you have to make adjustments to your requirements. Skinny? No, I don't like skinny at all.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

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Light choking during sex....anyone? Posted: 3/21/2009 3:29:15 PM
ha, funny you said that cause I don't have any bruises that you can see, but I am sure sore around the neck.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 56 (view)

Ladies, how do you let your partner know you're in the mood? Posted: 3/21/2009 3:25:14 PM
The look in my eye I guess, although I've been told that my eyes are alluring and therefore I always look like I want sex, lol. Lots of touching and hair pulling.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

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Light choking during sex....anyone? Posted: 3/21/2009 3:21:26 PM
OK. Lol. I think I've met my match...seems that my current interest likes to "HOLD HIS HANDS AROUND THE NECK" during intercourse. hmmm. Anyone ever tried this on someone? He is not suggesting cutting off oxygen or anything...just lightly. I will confess that he practiced it on me and OMG, it was extremely erotic!!!!!!!!!! any thoughts about this?

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 136 (view)

Would you let someone teach you how to kiss? Posted: 3/20/2009 3:13:33 AM
I can accept criticism and i would let someone teach me to kiss, but i would prob feel bad. maybe it's just how you kiss them tthat they want to change? some folks like a little harder, some like softer....

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 318 (view)

What are the side effects of using the vibrator too much??? Posted: 3/20/2009 3:12:02 AM
Many years ago I had that problem, yes, desensitized- just a little. I quit using them for a long time and only use one on rare occasions now.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 49 (view)

Do people think and compare past lovers while having sex ? Posted: 3/20/2009 3:03:51 AM
I have...but try not to. I may compare more after the act in my head, but everyone is different.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 26 (view)

Sexually attracted to somebody you don't like? Posted: 3/20/2009 3:02:05 AM
Funny this post came up. I met this guy last weekend through a friend-of-a-friend...when i met him, I ddn't particularly like him, he was ok, but we have seen each other a few more times and the sexual attraction is OH SO HOT between us. We have not had sex yet, but I can tell, even through conversation with him that it's going to be OVER THE TOP, when we do. We enjoy a lot of the same things and he OOZES sexual energy, like me...lol. Anyway, I just don't care for him though. WE have nothing in common and I find him a little offensive in most ways.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 23 (view)

Intentions or no intentions Posted: 3/18/2009 2:47:07 AM
Yes. Always prepared--just in case-

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 48 (view)

Would you watch? Posted: 3/14/2009 6:10:59 AM
depends on who the other couple was. 2 girls? stay and watch, no doubt. girl and guy- probably leave, unless i was asked to join before i left the room...

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 179 (view)

Wearing Lingerie for no reason but to feel great for yourself! Posted: 3/14/2009 6:06:42 AM
I do!!! I buy lingerie and wear it to bed once in awhile. the silky material makes me feel sexy, even if there is no one there to enjoy it. hahaha. i like blue on myself, but i do have a red one too.. for day wear, i have my favorites, but it amazing how much more sexy you feel when you have some crotch-less underwear on.

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 319 (view)

What do you NOT like about sex? Posted: 3/14/2009 5:58:14 AM
nothing i don't like about it except the after effects...like-- does he want to see you again, do you want to see him again, is he leaving, is he staying, i wish he would leave, i wish he would stay, ooo that was a mistake, oooo that was hot, pull the door shut on the way out, please...

yepimstilllonely

Joined: 12/28/2008

Msg: 93 (view)

Who shoud initiate kissing/sex? The man or woman? Posted: 3/14/2009 5:53:46 AM
is this a re-post, could have sworn i answered this already?? i don't think anyone SHOULD, it depends on the situation. One guy, i spotted him across the room and bought him a drink, when he stepped over to thank me, i laid a big, sexy kiss on him. didn't even know his name. kinda of slutty? it didn't mean i was gonna sleep with him, but i just thought he was hot. that was my way of telling him without all the stumbling words.... i like to kiss first. if i don't feel anything, then it doesn't go any further.

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