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windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

Msg: 7 (view)

Intercourse thoughts Posted: 1/9/2009 11:03:09 PM
Ummm no... can't say that I ever started thinking about other things during sex... guess I am just fully "engaged"....

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Do you feel it's harder to find men/women you consider cool now? Posted: 1/9/2009 10:45:34 PM
lol and I am so tired that I can't type... Lawd save me... LOL

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Do you feel it's harder to find men/women you consider cool now? Posted: 1/9/2009 10:45:03 PM
Still it is all just what you like about a person... I like salty people... cutting with if you will... probably because I have a cutting wit myself.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Don't Ask, Don't Tell Posted: 1/9/2009 12:20:22 AM
To be honest... I'm just someone who doesn't ask a lot of questions... and it has nothing to do with my interest or lack thereof... it is simply that I have no need to keep tabs on a man... I mean really... I stopped all of that in my 20s

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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The One Posted: 1/9/2009 12:17:32 AM
The One Where are you? Are you there? In my dreams I can feel you taste you In my dreams your beautiful hands play me In my dreams your intelligence is unparallel In my dreams you are romance In my dreams you are strength personified In my dreams you are my ruler In my dreams I am yours Oh please come out of my dreams, Dream Man and take me to ecstasy ~~ Hurricane Windy

windypace2600

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What does your SO do that really pisses you off? Posted: 1/9/2009 12:14:37 AM
Depends... how good is the sex? trust me this is a valid question.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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men want an open minded woman... Posted: 1/9/2009 12:12:58 AM
I think it simply means being exciting and adventurous... in all aspects... not just sexual.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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What makes someone classy? Posted: 1/9/2009 12:06:45 AM
His way of being.............

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

Msg: 66 (view)

Why meet right away....Lets get to know each other first. Posted: 1/9/2009 12:02:30 AM
I don't mind meeting up quickly... I like the face to face... mainly because a lot of people are totally different in person than they are online... As for the uncomfortable part... I've never really been uncomfortable around anyone... unless of course they were some weirdo... in which case I'd just say... hey, you're giving me that weirdo vibe so I think I will take my leave now...

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 1/8/2009 11:53:21 PM
you know, you know... LOL

windypace2600

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Unusual Compliments Posted: 1/8/2009 11:48:24 PM
Well maybe it is just that picture but your features remind me of Angelina Jolee and I do believe that she is considered the most beautiful woman in entertainment by many... so never say (not much to look at)

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Abandonment Issues, Fear & Sabotage Posted: 1/8/2009 11:45:05 PM
I can't say that I have ever felt "abandoned"...

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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would you marry for money? Posted: 1/8/2009 11:40:40 PM
no.............. If and when I ever marry again... it will be for compaionship and passion... I don't care if he has money but I do care that he is financially stable.

windypace2600

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Do you feel it's harder to find men/women you consider cool now? Posted: 1/8/2009 11:31:22 PM
I think you are cool... you've made a few posts that definitely had me grinning, albeit a little lopsidedly... LOL I don't know... I guess if I am honest a lot of the guys I tend to meet seem to have a lot of "issues"... and that is totally UNcool... But then I meet a lot of men/ people that I find really cool... with interesting things to say... I tend to lean more towards the "snarky" or what I call sarcastic as well. There can never be enough wry sense of humor for me... My dream man is Dr. House... of course... he is fictional... darn the luck.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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words as bait Posted: 1/8/2009 11:20:00 PM
I usually just post a poem I wrote on mine... and I change it as the mood strikes... As for men with long/short profiles... it entirely depends on what it says... It can be two sentences and have something about it that intrigues me or it can be a book and keep me enthralled through the whole thing... Or the other way... it can be short and I have NO interest... or it can be long and I think geesh this guy just drones on and on and on... It really just depends on what and how it is written.

windypace2600

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Unusual Compliments Posted: 1/8/2009 10:37:15 PM
Lonestarstar I think you are beautiful... and if you have a sexy brain too... well then... that's just an all around gal... and no... I am not a lesbian... just an up front and honest compliment.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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no sex = no dating? Posted: 1/8/2009 10:30:11 PM
Oh to be this young and naive again... Ok love, I will say this... if you are really wanting to stay focused and school and career I suggest you leave men/boys alone all together... because most girls... notice I say most... will meet some young man that sweeps them off their feet and all of those noble ideals they have go straight out the window... that being said... if you truly want to wait... then don't date until you are at the point in your life when you are ready to marry.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 1/8/2009 10:20:45 PM
now that's an alarm clock I could get used to... I'm like another poster... no way would I sleep through it.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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How much time is enough, when dating someone? Posted: 1/8/2009 10:18:22 PM
Oh and I agree with the poster who said that alone time "can" be had with the right person in the same room with you... This is all a part of getting to know people's needs in a relationship... my alone time could be simply someone not interrupting me when I am reading... or not knocking on the door while I am soaking the day away in my bathtub... but this is not always the case... I still occassionally need that "for real" alone time... I might just go camping all by myself... it doesn't have to be "going out" with friends or something like that... it is more just quiet... sometimes I just crave "quiet"...

windypace2600

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How much time is enough, when dating someone? Posted: 1/8/2009 10:11:01 PM
To be quite honest... sometimes I just get tired of "everybody"... meaning I just want to be alone with ME... I like me very much... it is also a decompression time... I'll read a book or take a hike in the woods... or go to the lake and just sit and watch the water... it is almost like meditation... and sometimes it is meditation... it is hard to meditate when you have someone chatting your ear off... For me "alone time" is definitely NOT BS... and if someone I am with tells me that they need some alone time... it doesn't bother me not one wit... I'm like... cool... well you know where I am when you want to see me.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Why are women ready to admit their past sexual conquests,history and sexcapades so easily Posted: 1/8/2009 9:52:04 PM
As you see me here is as I am in life... I have no regrets and/or hang ups about my past experiences... now while I may not go in to a blow by blow of every sexual experience I have ever had... I certainly have no problem with owning up to things I have done.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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If the sex aint mind blowing Posted: 1/8/2009 9:35:05 PM
sex is never a problem until it isn't any good... trust me...

windypace2600

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Unusual Compliments Posted: 1/8/2009 9:31:21 PM
I think I've been complimented on every part of my anatomy and never thought any of it strange or unusual... I was once complimented on my eloquence... which was a new one... but very nice indeed...

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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When should a woman tell her potential lover of her fetish? Posted: 1/8/2009 9:23:07 PM
This question generally comes up pretty quickly with men... my answer is... when the question is asked... tell the truth... I usually say it is much easier to say what I "don't" like than it is to say what I do...

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Question Posted: 1/8/2009 9:20:45 PM
Ummmmmmmmmmmmmm... do you really need to ask this question?

windypace2600

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complimented or offended Posted: 1/8/2009 9:14:29 PM
I would have smiled and waved and taken it as a compliment... I like my legs too... LOL

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 1/8/2009 9:12:58 PM
I can honestly say that I have never cheated on anybody... If I start having those thoughts... I start heading for the door... bottom line, I wouldn't want it done to me so I am not going to do it to someone else.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Do women want men to lie, or to be upfront about wanting sex? Posted: 1/8/2009 9:09:24 PM
Up front... and don't hemhaw and be all shy about it either...

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Spirituality and Sex Posted: 1/8/2009 8:50:40 PM
Very interesting question Lust is very physical in the sense that you mention and it can be spiritually erosive... Lust is to have intense or obsessive desire, especially one that is sexual... However, in that definition it does not say "always" sexual... sometimes we can lust after other qualities in a person that are not so spiritually erosive... It is whatever we find in a person that most attracts us that we lust after... it could be their personality, their wit, their kindness, how they are with their kids, etc... or any number of things... I think that lust can be a healthy thing and nuture the spirit when you lust after "most" of what a person is... it can't be just about the physical and/or sexual part of their being.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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what is everyones opin on tattoos? Posted: 1/8/2009 8:25:11 PM
Well... I have a tattoo and I smoke... so I'm definitely not a match for you... keep on fishing... LOL No seriously... I don't like people that are just "covered" in tatts... but I like a few well placed ones... Mine is in a place that nobody would ever know I have it unless I show them... and it means something to me... As for the smoking... I simply like it... and I'm not quitting until I get good and ready to.

windypace2600

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Planning ahead a date 2 weeks or more... Posted: 1/8/2009 8:22:34 PM
I don't judge nobody... but I do know what I like and what I don't like... therefore, if someone exhibits behavior that I know I'm not going to like, is going to irritate me and eventually piss me off... then why would I date that person? If you ask me, if everyone was always honest about who and what they want... there wouldn't be relationship issues.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Dating after divorce. Posted: 1/7/2009 2:49:58 PM
Sorry, I didn't have any problems dating after my divorce... I felt so free and happy... Advice... go out with some friends and have a good time... scope around for some more friends... soon you'll be having lots of fun.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Lossing interest ... quick. Posted: 1/7/2009 2:48:27 PM
I say stop worrying so much about wanting to be in a relationshp and just meet people to be friends with... if something comes along that moves in the relationshp direction then GREAT... if not well then you can hang out and do some fun stuff together. I tell you, I am a firm believer in "as soon as you quit looking" the one walks right up to you.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Planning ahead a date 2 weeks or more... Posted: 1/7/2009 2:43:29 PM
LOL looks like I ruffled your feathers a bit... I'm not saying all women are like that... I said what I do... that's all me... And to be honest... if we were just setting up a date... as you say you are... and you were calling, texting, emailing me that many times... or a lot... I'd think you were desperate and tell you I changed my mind... but that's just me... I hate it when people call me all the time... I dated this one guy that called me 8 times... that is right 8 times in a day... I told him I needed to see him... met him and told him quite succinctly that he needed to get a life and I wasn't going to be his new one... I told him he needed therapy or something... because I had told him from the get go that I don't like to be on the phone all the time.

windypace2600

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Talking about someone's kids Posted: 1/7/2009 2:32:32 PM
ok so... I wouldn't mind them asking how many and ages... but that would be about it for a good long while... and it isn't that I am not proud of her... it is that I just don't let people that far in to my life that easy... they usually don't know where I live either.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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is it fair to look for love when you know you dont have the usual lifespan to offer? Posted: 1/7/2009 12:59:35 AM
love is for everyone... but I would be completely honest about your condition... Let them know... so they can make an informed decision about whether they want to love you knowing they will lose you... and to be honest... if they decide they don't want to... then they aren't worthy of you anyway.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Question about a call I got Posted: 1/7/2009 12:57:29 AM
well it was something I would do... of course... I would have told my hubby first. that's just me though

windypace2600

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What happens when u hit a non-negotiable - she wants kids! Posted: 1/7/2009 12:55:19 AM
Hmmmmm interesting delima... I say if you really loved her... you would want to mix up your DNA and see what came of it... So, yes... she should move on... and so should you.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Does how you were raised dictate who you are attracted to? Posted: 1/7/2009 12:49:27 AM
I don't think so............ I've dated many men from many different backgrounds, rich/poor, abused, used, mistreated, neglected, high society, low society, races, mamma's boys, etc... Although I will say that who you date curbs your taste for who you WANT to date... but definitely not your own background.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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My woman reads my text messages Posted: 1/7/2009 12:36:44 AM
sounds like you found a woman that doesn't trust and is way too insecure... I'd never pick up my man's phone... and go sifting through his texts... wouldn't even occur to me to do so.... I guess I just have confidence that my man is mine...

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Preferred Expressions of Affection Posted: 1/7/2009 12:25:41 AM
Actually my needs assessment was much the same as yours... which is odd because although I do enjoy the occassional "surprise" it definitely isn't necessary or expected... to be honest the ONE big expression of affection that I absolutely love... is when a man gently brushes his fingers or knuckles against my cheek and gives me a gentle closed mouth kiss on the lips while looking in my eyes.... sigh... now that is lovely

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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How do you get a guy to not just want you for sex??? Posted: 1/7/2009 12:20:52 AM
Well if you are bubbly and talkative in a sexual manner then generally thier conversation will turn that way too... LOL... OK... here is a little secret for you... some of us women just exude this sexual confidence in our speach and mannerisms... and guy are NOT blind to it... as a matter of fact it shines out to them like a beacon... so if you are a sexy, confident, flirty woman... then they are going to think about sex with you... my advice... if the convo gets too sexual for you.... just say "hold your horses bucko... let's at least know each other's first and last names first"... it keeps you on the same friendly flirty level as before without being quite so... abrasive... if you are chatting them up one minute and get them interested and then when they get a little too hot you shut off completely... it makes them go "HUH???" ... but a simply fun statement like that will let them know what kind of girl you are without making them feel like a prick for being interested in you.

windypace2600

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A women giving mixed signals! Posted: 1/7/2009 12:14:33 AM
tooooooooooo much drama... if you keep seeing her you are just a glutton for punishment... cut your losses and move on

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Question about a call I got Posted: 1/7/2009 12:11:16 AM
maybe she just wanted to get out of the house but didn't want to be hit on... so she called her husband's good buddy who would be a safe companion and keep the sharks at bay...

windypace2600

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I'm just a girl who can't say no....to him.... Posted: 1/7/2009 12:06:24 AM
I'm still amazed by all these grown women that need a man's attention to be happy... Lord save me... LOL OK... it is simple... if you enjoy being with him... by all means do so... and on that 3rd day... when he starts being a prick... tell him so and leave... That's what I would do... "OK... its been fun hun but now that you're being an *ss... I think I'll take my leave until next time.... CIAO!!!!" Why put up with him being a prick? Enjoy the good and when the bad comes around let him know you won't put up with it... Just my very honest opinion.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Old Fashion Dating Posted: 1/6/2009 11:53:31 PM
I am doing a lot of old fashioned dating myself... I think it is just the fact of letting the men know... hey... I like to be courted... I like old fashioned... I like a man to open the door for me and pull out my chair... shocker of shocks... I like to be treated like a lady... and I will in turn treat him like a gentleman... It isn't really that difficult to get what you want... just tell them.

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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How much of a role will race play? Posted: 1/6/2009 11:50:40 PM
I would simply ask him to clarify his statement... or ask him exactly what his concerns about your differences are... however, unlike you, I would have asked that when he said that he was concerned... seems like an interesting conversation to me...

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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how did dating change for you when u turned 30 Posted: 1/6/2009 11:41:50 PM
agree with blade of the bunny 100%... that is pretty much my story too lady... :)

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Planning ahead a date 2 weeks or more... Posted: 1/6/2009 11:32:59 PM
Well, I am like this... if I am just "dating" someone... and I call, text or email them... notice I would only do one of the three... then I just wait until I hear from them... I mean it isn't like my life is going to end if I don't hear from them... and if I don't then I just shrug and move on... there's another one right around the corner... Cheers... :)

windypace2600

Joined: 12/29/2008

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Talking about someone's kids Posted: 1/6/2009 11:28:51 PM
I say stand back and leave it alone until and if they mention it... Some people (like me) get really uncomfortable when people ask me about my kid... I even stopped dating one man because he kept asking when he would get to meet my daughter... My thing is this... if and when I decide that I want to share that part of my life with you, I will... don't push it.

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