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alwaysjammin

Joined: 12/6/2005

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New to PA Posted: 5/13/2006 12:05:18 AM
Yo i'm from Reading. That's about an hour away, but it works!

alwaysjammin

Joined: 12/6/2005

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Hello from Reading Posted: 5/13/2006 12:03:16 AM
I'm from Reading too, so i'll post one up as well. Now if only the ladies from around here can post one up now!

alwaysjammin

Joined: 12/6/2005

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What's up with people not wanting to get to know me, huh? Posted: 3/13/2006 10:09:56 PM
Normally in my messages I usually say that their profile is interesting and that I liked the part about insert interesting line in their profile here then elaborate a little, then "I hope to hear from you soon." Nothing out of the ordinary. I'm just trying to see if they wanna get to know me at all. Not to mention that I've tried pretty much everyone on here within a 50 mile radius and no luck, so that's one of the reasons as to why i'm a little perturbed. I need to get newer pics up on there, those were from last year and they don't do me any justice.....now i just need time to get the pics ready. Thanks for the help, keep the suggestions comin'. you all ROCK! -AlwaysJammin

alwaysjammin

Joined: 12/6/2005

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What's up with people not wanting to get to know me, huh? Posted: 3/13/2006 5:55:49 PM
Ok, this has gone far enough. I've joined, made a decent profile, been looking left and right for someone, sent decent messages saying hi and all, and what do I get in return: Checking sent messages and seeing "read deleted." WTF?! What am I doing wrong here? Is there ANYTHING else I can do to get some hits around here??? Suggestions, anything??!! Damn finding someone is near impossible, especially when every girl says they wnt to meet someone and i'm like, "hello, nice guy over here who wants to meet ya." grrrrrr! To the readers, thanks for letting me vent on here, and all suggestions are most welcome. -AlwaysJammin

alwaysjammin

Joined: 12/6/2005

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Date Till I Drop Posted: 3/12/2006 9:12:40 PM
I just had an ex-gf dump me and has continued to go on that sort of spree. That's just plain shallow and horrible. What goes around comes around, and it'll come to you 3 times worse

alwaysjammin

Joined: 12/6/2005

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I tasted Trust for the first time Posted: 2/16/2006 5:25:22 PM
Dude, you're preachin to the choir Can I get anotha AMEN?!!

alwaysjammin

Joined: 12/6/2005

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I tasted Trust for the first time Posted: 2/15/2006 7:32:42 PM
Time basically heals all wounds in most cases. Sometimes closure (i.e. confronting that person) may not be the best thing to do cause it may end up making the situation worse. Believe me letting go of trust is not an easy task. Before her I loved someone else, but she ended up getting tired of me for some reason. In terms of fighting back, it's more like fight the urge to give up, and seek out someone who is truly honest, not a liar like almost all of the women out there. It kinda makes sense, but you have to take the healing process slow. In the end, you'll be the big winner. It can't rain all the time.

alwaysjammin

Joined: 12/6/2005

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Any decent women from Reading, PA or Harrisburg area Posted: 2/14/2006 11:26:39 PM
I've noticed the board doesn't have Reading on it so I thought i'd see if there are any women from around this area. I work here and in Harrisburg so i'm open to anyone from that area as well.

alwaysjammin

Joined: 12/6/2005

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Why is a decent girlfriend so hard to find? Posted: 2/14/2006 11:11:08 PM
It's quite simple my friend, and it comes from being rejected/dumped/shot down: All women are shallow, end of story. Doesn't matter what type of girl/woman, they're all shallow. Seriously if I was able to write a book about what a woman was thinking about i'd be a billionaire by now.

alwaysjammin

Joined: 12/6/2005

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I tasted Trust for the first time Posted: 2/14/2006 10:49:37 PM
I completely feel for you man. I actually trusted someone not too long ago. I shared with her my innermost stuff that I usually would never tell anyone. Next thing you know she just dumped me right off the bat. She even had to lie to me to do so, and I later found out she was seeing someone else. She walked away without any care, without any sense of remorse, and left me out to dust. It's painful, and I won't lie to you about that. Finding trust is much harder than finding love, and once that trust is broken, it can take a very long time before you can trust again. I can't really answer you about how to cope with losing trust. All I can say is in order to find that special someone don't just give up and let it find you. You have to continue to fight for all that you believe in and just roll with the punches (and in some cases fight back). You can't just let things happen, you need to make them happen. From personal experience I gotta tell you that many good things don't come to you tied to a brick. I hope that kinda helped. I kinda suck at stuff like this. -A.J.

alwaysjammin

Joined: 12/6/2005

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O.K. guys,want to know why some women don't respond to your e-mails? Here's why.... Posted: 2/14/2006 10:38:16 PM
Ok, so "hey" or "hey what's up" constitutes a red flag?? I make it a point to try and come up with something interesting, but still no luck. I also put my pics in there? Am I still doing something wrong?

alwaysjammin

Joined: 12/6/2005

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What's up with everyone not wanting to get to know me in person?! Posted: 2/13/2006 10:21:39 PM
Quite interesting. I joined this site, and so far I've sent messages to different girls in my area who seemed to be interesting. Thus far I have seen only two outcomes: 1. My messages were unread for weeks 2. They were read and then deleted. Thus far I checked my profile and i'm not really seeing anything negative as far as I know. I put whatever positive stuff I could put on. Is there anything missing or that needs to be added? Also, in regards to another recent thread, I just find it hypocritical when I read that a girl wants a nice guy, but then when a nice guy comes around and messages them, they instantly reject them. That just doesn't make any sense whatsoever. Any rebuffs, suggestions or agreements???

alwaysjammin

Joined: 12/6/2005

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A letter to the ex Posted: 2/9/2006 10:34:52 PM
This letter was written to my ex after she blatantly lied to me over the phone, then ended up having sex with another person approx. 24 hours later after I had to find out from someone else: To Kat, After a while I need to just tell you like it is. That way I can finally move on. After three months of dating you decided to break up with me. What bothered me is the fact that you couldn't tell me the truth to my face, by phone or even by IM or email. Honestly to say, I think it would have been better if you simply told me that you were dumping me and just disappeared than broke my heart the way you did. Then you tell me that "we could still be friends," when in such a difficult time that I have been through in the past month, you were NOT there for me at all. As I expected, you were able to get over me very quickly and find someone who did look better than me, as I also expected. And from your blog it does seem that all you want is instant gratification without doing any of the work. I thought that you were different than all of the other girls that had a pretty face. I thought that you were kind, sweet and actually had a good personality. In truth, you are just like all of the other girls that I have dealt with. And I say 'girl' because you are no woman. You are a shallow, petty, self-centered ** with no remorse toward the people you hurt. You only want what is best for yourself, and could honestly care less about what other people do, think or say. It's all about you. You are a despicable excuse for a human being. And the worst part is that you still claim to be a buddhist. I hate to also say this, but buddhists believe in karma, and I have a feeling that very soon, there is going to be some catastrophic event in your college life that will force you to grow up, pull up your pants ,put your shirt back on and finally realize that people do have feelings. You can't be fake to everyone forever, and once you do show your true colors, more and more people will begin to hate you. It's sad when all those times you said you loved me and all those promises you made to me were nothing but lies. I can't believe I wasted three months of my life on you. I can't believe I was nice to a shallow ** like you. Just remember, what goes around comes around, and when you fall, you are going to fall very hard. So enjoy your shallowness while you can, because when that day comes when you can't control other people, you'll finally see what pain feels like. And through all this I know your two obvious answers would be "it happens," or "I don't care." You will when things no longer go your way I don't think I need to continue any more. I have made my point. Again, don't bother to respond to this. I'm done going off on you. -A.J.

alwaysjammin

Joined: 12/6/2005

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does this site work? Posted: 2/4/2006 12:38:28 PM
I haven't found any yet, despite the fact that 've been sending messages left and right

alwaysjammin

Joined: 12/6/2005

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Why do men think going to the movies on a first date is a good idea? Posted: 2/4/2006 12:33:12 PM
It seems that the dinner and a movie date is the most traditional. Plus because we're all different, types of first dates also depend on the people who are going on a first date.

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