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Posted In Forum: All Forums Alabama Alaska Alberta Arizona Arkansas Art/Music Ask A Girl Ask A Guy Australia British Columbia Broken Hearts California Colorado Connecticut Dating & Love Advice Dating Experiences Dating Sites Delaware District Of Columbia Event Hosts forum Florida Georgia Hawaii Health & Fitness Humor Idaho Illinois Indiana Introductions Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Manitoba Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Brunswick New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York Newfoundland News/Current Events North Carolina North Dakota Nova Scotia Off Topic Ohio Oklahoma Ontario Oregon Over 30 Over 45 Pennsylvania Plentyoffish Get Togethers Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help Poems And Quotes Politics Prince Edward Island Profile Reviews Quebec Recipes & Cooking Relationships Religion/Supernatural Rhode Island Saskatchewan Science/Philosophy Sex and Dating Single Parents South Carolina South Dakota Sports Stories/creative writing Technology and computers Tennessee Testimonials Texas Uk Forums Utah Vermont Virginia Volunteer Moderators Only Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Home   login   MyForums   Show ALL Forums      Author  Thread: Married Women Looking For Sex  drcoactosin1 Joined: 1/1/2009 Msg: 227 (view)   Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 1/6/2009 2:41:17 PM I think it's sad too. Sad that she does not get want she wants at home. I think she probably loves her husband and does not want to leave him. Do you think she should deprive herself of sex because she is married and is a good wife otherwise. sex is only a small part of marriage. Other parts of the marriage are more important to some people and they don't want to lose that. Especially the older you get. But they would also like to have more sex. It's not that big a deal to us older people. Just to the younger ones who think marriage is about having sex with someone.  drcoactosin1 Joined: 1/1/2009 Msg: 325 (view)   Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?! Posted: 1/6/2009 2:10:55 PM Obviously it depends on the age. If she says 25 and she just turned 18 then you should probably walk away.  drcoactosin1 Joined: 1/1/2009 Msg: 63 (view)   question about no sex desire- honest and realistic answers only Posted: 1/6/2009 1:46:28 PM I'm no hater but honestly I think women are faster to initiate divorce because they have so many other options. When a woman gets divorced she will undoubtly have about a thousand guys offer her support. Men don't get that kind of support. Men also know how hard it will be to find another woman. If you want proof of this, you can look on POF. Most women on here have well over 50 contacts and men will only have a few. I wonder why. If I was a woman I would not have a problem pulling the trigger either. Not a hater, just being honest. That's life.  drcoactosin1 Joined: 1/1/2009 Msg: 62 (view)   question about no sex desire- honest and realistic answers only Posted: 1/6/2009 1:36:07 PM I am a married male with this precise situation. I have begged my wife for years to seek help but she refuses to go. What is a guy to do? The only reason I have not left is because I have a deep love for her that goes way beyond sex. I realize that sex is only a small part of marriage but so is my friendship, unconditional love, ability to earn a living, and kindness. Can I shut one of those down for a few years and tell you to get back with me later. Maybe in time she will change, then again maybe she won't. Am I to sit around and wait for however many years it takes for her to get out of this funk? I really don't won't to give an ultimatum becuase then you feel like your forcing her to do things she does not want to do. That is really not sexy to me and a big turn off. So you tell me, what is a guy to do? And for those who have not been in this situation, you probably should not be giving advice.   Show ALL Forums