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Joined: 1/3/2009

Msg: 1293 (view)

So you want a second chance? Posted: 4/24/2009 12:33:14 PM
THE NO CONTACT RULE IS THE BEST WAY. EVEN THOUGH I BROKE IT MANY TIMES. AND EVEN THOUGH MY LOVE AND I ARE LOOK PROMISING FOR A SECOND CHANCE AFTER MONTHS OF BEING APART. WHEN WE CRY, AND ACT LIKE BEGGERS FOR THERE ATTENTION ,THEY FEEL ALITTLE GUILTY, AND ALOT BOTHERED. WE BRING OUT EMOTIONS THEY DONT WANT TO FEEL. AND WE DONT WANT THEM TO FEEL THAT WAY . EVERYONE WANTS TO BE WITH A WINNER, SOMEONE STRONG AND CONFIDENT. GIVE HIM THE CHANCE TO MIS YOU, AND YOU THE CHANCE TO PUT YOURSELF BACK TOGETHER. THE LESS I MISSED MY LOVE THE MORE HE WANTED ME BACK; Soraya

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Msg: 1267 (view)

So you want a second chance? to brazilianhottie Posted: 4/7/2009 10:43:04 PM
I HAVE BROKEN A FEW HEARTS , AND HAD MINE BROKEN A FEW TOO. ALL I CAN SAY FOR US STILL IN PAIN, I WAS ABLE TO AIR OUT MY BROKEN HEART, AND THAT TOOK ME ONE STEP CLOSER TO BEING HAPPY AGAIN. IF THIS HELPS ONE MORE PERSON IN PAIN THAN IT IS WORTH IT TO CONTINUE. I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY THANK YOU TO JARBARIAN,

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Msg: 1259 (view)

So you want a second chance? Posted: 4/3/2009 5:37:53 PM
FIRST I WANT TO SAY THANKS FOR THE TOPIC. I HAVE ALWAYS FELT LIKE MEN WERE LIKE BUSES ,IF YOU WAIT 15 MIN. ANOTHER WILL COME AROUND. I BROKE OFF A RELATIONSHIP WITH A MAN I WAS CRAZY ABOUT. THE PERFECT GUY IF I WERE 20 WITCH FELT GREAT AT 40 SOMETHING. IT WAS HARD, BUT I KNEW HE WAS BAD FOR ME. I STARTED DATING SOMEONE WHO WAS JUST THE OPPOSITE . IN THE RELATIONSHIP I LOOKED BACK MANY TIMES THINKING ABOUT THE OTHER GUY. THE NEW GUY, THE GUY I LOVE HAS A JOB THAT COULD TAKE HIM AWAY , MAYBE FOR MONTHS OR YEARS AT A TIME . AT FIRST IT DIDNT BOTH ME MUCH, WE WERE JUST DATING. I FOUND MYSELF CARRING MORE ABOUT HIM, WHEN HE GOT WORD OF HIS NEXT POSIBLE MOVE , 4 YEARS. HE SAID HE DIDNT WANT TO GO THAT FAR AWAY, HE HAS A SON THAT LIVES ABOUT AN HOUR FROM ME. IN THE BACK OF MY MIND I FELT LIKE HE WOULD TAKE THAT JOB, AND I DIDNT WANT TO BE BROKENHEARTED. FROM TALKS OF US FINDING A HOUSE, WE BECAME GROWINGLY DISTANT. I CAN SEE NOW IT WAS ME PUSHING FOR REASSURANCE. I WOULD MAKE UP MY MIND TO JUST BREAK IT OFF, AND STOP CALLING HIM. IF HE CALLED I WOULDNT TALK TO HIM. I KEPT FINDING MYSELF WANTING TO BE WITH HIM. THIS CYCLE PLAYED OUT A FEW TIMES. AFTER EACH TIME I COULD SEE MORE AND MORE HOW MUCH WE LOVED EACH OTHER. SLOWLY HE HAS STOPPED COMMING TO SEE ME. HE ALMOST NEVER CALLS, I CALL HIM. I KNOW HE WAITS FOR MY CALLS, IF I JUST CALL TO SAY HI, HE STRECHES THE CONVERSATION OUT. I ASK HIM IF HE KNEW IT WAS ME CALLING(I KNOW HE HAS CALLER I.D.) SAY YES SO I KNOW HE WANTS TO TALK TO ME. HE HAS EMAILED ME TELL ME HOW MUCH HE LOVES ME AND WILL LOVE ME, AND HOW DEEPLY HE CARES FOR ME, BUT HE NO LONGER LOVES ME ENOUGH TO COMMIT. I KNOW I HELPED PUT HIM IN THAT PLACE. AFTER HIS EMAILS I LET GO AND STARTED TO DATE , CUTING OFF CONTACT WITH HIM. EACH TIME ME AND THIS NEW GUY START TO MOVE CLOSER , SOMETHING WILL HAPPEN THAT WILL HAVE ME AND MY LOVE CONTACTING EACH OTHER. I MET SOMEONE NICE, BUT COULD NEVER HAVE ANYTHING AS LONG AS ......

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Msg: 732 (view)

What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 3/24/2009 5:11:15 PM
I AM ONE OF THOSE OVER 40 LADIES, AND RECENTLY BECAME A GRANDMOTHER (A NAME I DONT WANT TO BE CALLED) . I FEEL MUCH SEXYER NOW ,THAN ANY OTHER TIME IN MY LIFE. I AM COMFORTABLE WITH BEING A VERY SEXUAL PERSON,AND MY LIFE AT THIS POINT. I AM FREE FROM THE FEAR OF GETTING PREGNANT. OR THE CARE OF WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF ME.(ALWAYS RESPECTFUL OF MY FAMILY) IT COMES FROM THE UNDERSTANDING THAT LIFE IS SHORT AND IT IS MY RESPONSIBILITY TO MAKE AND KEEP ME HAPPY. I FEEL FREE AND WILL TO TRY NEW THINGS , I WOULD NEVER TRYED BEFORE . I WORK HARD , BUT WHEN I PLAY, I PLAY HARDER!

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