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Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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$ Is there any guys that would date a girl with a baby $ Posted: 12/16/2005 10:22:53 AM
By the way spoiled_brat, seeing your son as your number one love is perfectly normal and i'm sure that any guy who would respect you and love would understand that. Personally if I date a girl with a baby and she loves me more than her own child... I wouldn't stay with her so keep doing what you're doing, you sound like a very good mother and you should be proud of yourself.

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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Its fucking gettin cold Posted: 12/15/2005 10:52:37 PM
I hate cold and for me..... snow is more like WHITE S*IT to me

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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What are some places that must be visited when in Montreal? Posted: 12/15/2005 10:46:53 PM
The Sakura Garden which is one of the finest japanese restaurant i ever been to:)

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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FAKE PROFILES Posted: 12/15/2005 10:45:16 PM
Fake profile are dumb just like those who made them!

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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$ Is there any guys that would date a girl with a baby $ Posted: 12/15/2005 10:43:47 PM
I would gladly date you and i even send you a mail once but you never responded...

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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what so wrong with me... Posted: 12/14/2005 9:25:28 PM
Be positive in your profile, some trivial negative things could make a women run away thinking you're a freak. If you think you could have a better picture than the one you have, take it out and wait until you have one to show for it instead of just putting one they won't be attracted to. No picture is better than a bad one and yeah if you wanna appraoch someone, try to be perfect since most of what truly matters in attraction like body languages aren't there on a written only profile so be careful. If you want your profile to be better ask Shelley in the profile section of the forum she's good at it. In real life, players with great bodies have most of the hot girls and average guys are left with leftovers and damage goods who were psychologically ravaged by the players. Those below the average guys are left with almost nothing. Women have their own perception about dating and it is not the same as us men. If you want to know what to say to a women to have the advantage ask a guy who know how to do that and watch him demonstrate to you in real life. Some or even all women will think that this is disgusting but you must do this in order not to mess things up when your perfect one will show! The fear of rejection is the worst rejection factor Love is a reaction caused by attraction and if you can't make a women feel that gut level attraction, it doesn't matter how much you love her she won't give a f*k about you and tell you to be patient and other piece of sht talk like that. Women don't have to do anything to attract a guy most of the time so they can't understand this. If you ask women for their advice on this subject... you're gonna end up completely ****ed up man.

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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I will seriously edit your profile for you. Posted: 12/14/2005 12:14:06 PM
SHELLEY Not anymore, replace the last one by perfect Thanks for your help, you're great See ya

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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LADIES~no pic? let guys still meet you here Posted: 12/14/2005 11:32:24 AM
Even better (Eyes can be pretty even on ugly peoples lol)

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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HELP MEEEEEE Posted: 12/14/2005 11:28:32 AM
Go ask Shelley she is very good at that! I'm sure she can help you!

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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LADIES~no pic? let guys still meet you here Posted: 12/14/2005 11:25:06 AM
Sometime put a bag on her head and voila, she's cute

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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I will seriously edit your profile for you. Posted: 12/14/2005 11:14:54 AM
SHELLEY lol I've rewritten it and changed what you said I should change. I think it sounds much better and sais just the right thing:) Not scary anymore lol Can you tell me if there are still something I should change? (love having a women approach on this, thanks)

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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I will seriously edit your profile for you. Posted: 12/14/2005 10:25:12 AM
It is Photius not Shiro_Kaiser... Sorry I think my roommate must have logged on the forum using my computer...

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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POF instant messaging Posted: 12/13/2005 5:45:59 PM
This is why i never put pictures in my profile

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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Thank you Posted: 12/13/2005 5:39:45 PM
It is done shelly... it should be alright now lol

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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Thank you Posted: 12/13/2005 4:13:35 PM
SHELLY Sorry lol i'll do that right now:)

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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moves within 75 miles of ottawa Posted: 12/13/2005 3:15:04 PM
Can you do it with mine and email me your thoughts on it please?

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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I kind of liked it Posted: 12/13/2005 3:13:21 PM
Thanks Faith! Alright I think it is complete now - adjusted 2 or 3 more things and said a little more things about my idea for a first date!

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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I kind of liked it Posted: 12/12/2005 3:17:55 PM
I am physically attractive but I don't want someone to be interested to me just for that. Some won't talk to you and learn to know you just because they don't initially like your picture (they could love seeing you in the real world though but because of a bad picture its over) Some other won't talk to you if you have no picture so in some way, it's the same!

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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I kind of liked it Posted: 12/12/2005 2:59:30 PM
I divided it in two section, positive and negative... Is it better now? I do have a great sense of humor lol

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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MSN Messenger: Where friendships go to die. Posted: 12/11/2005 10:55:32 AM
Being too nice and gaving too many compliment qhile being a true gentlement is even worst then asking for dirty pics from her. Being too nice sounds needy and insecure and some women will think that you are desperate and will just run away!

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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She gives me all the signs,,but backs out at the last minute? Posted: 12/11/2005 10:34:50 AM
Personally once i feel the woman is playing hard to get with me to make me beg for her attention to get something from me like - need more romance in my life (meaning give me more attention and i'll give you what you want) - i start looking away and ignore her. If she comes back then i give her one last chance but if she does it again it is over for good. If you want romance or something from a man, don't ask for it as if you were supposed to be some kind of price to gain at the end if he gives you what you want.

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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Can someone rate my profile? Posted: 12/11/2005 10:00:04 AM
It wasn't what i meant by that.... hum, looks like i'll have to rewrite that part

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 12/10/2005 2:09:12 PM
I met two girls from lavalife and they had no picture, never really asked them for one either. I met them, they were both cure (not at the same time lol) But they both never talked to me again after the first date and i don't know why but it doesn't really matter. Looks doesn't really matter.

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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X-Mas how many will be spending it single? Posted: 12/10/2005 1:27:50 PM
Well Misseyes, I hope you will have fun and have a merry Xmas

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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lookin for some advie Posted: 12/10/2005 12:57:12 PM
Don't ask her where you stand, decide that by yourself. If she's never ready or still saying she has issues than start to look away, if she really love you she won't be willing to take the risk to lose you. If you feel miserable in all this, she won't be happy and you won't either. I might sound like an ***hole but don't act as if she was more important than your own happiness 'cause no one should be. Or you can stress over not knowing where you stand, ask her the wrong way and mess up everything. Be careful how you deal with this and good luck!

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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are all the guys on here looking for sex? Posted: 12/10/2005 12:32:32 PM
I'm looking for someone to love and give pleasure to!

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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GOOD GUY OR BAD BOY? Posted: 12/10/2005 11:58:11 AM
Some peoples think being a bad boy means being ass hole but there is nothing more pathetic than a good guy preteding to be a bad boy to attrack women. Some guys learns pick-up lines to attrack women but if you don't have the attitude, the body language or confidence that goes with it, it won't feel natural.

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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question for the ladies, first date gift? Posted: 12/10/2005 11:39:04 AM
I don't buy her anything either, this way i'm sure she's interested in me and not into what she could get from me. I dated a girl once and invited her to go see a movie but the only reason she came was for the free movie she would be able to see. Coffee is ok though, I can buy her coffee since a coffee is too small of a thing to look like i'm buying her attention or affection.

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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What about a get together in Montreal or Longueuil? Posted: 12/10/2005 11:27:26 AM
If you are from or in the region of Montreal, what would you feel about a get together this december to celebrate Xmas...? This could be fun, so, is there anyone who would be interested?

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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Can someone rate my profile? Posted: 12/10/2005 11:24:56 AM
There was another guy in the picture so I wanted to make sure people would knew who i was and the girl in the picture... well i did actually cut her off my life lol! The other guy is a friend and actually works for me My other pics aren't good or I look like a different person in them so i cut two of them away

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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Heartless Posted: 12/10/2005 11:13:43 AM
Most of the time it happened in my face and sometime, They just vanish and never told me anything at all leaving me to believe whatever i wanted...

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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Is anyone else the same way? Posted: 12/10/2005 11:09:41 AM
I had one relationship that lasted during that period and when I gave her my gift she just throw it out the window saying she hated it lol.... It feels very good to see that happen I felt like throwing her out the window with my gist but i was just too nice and at that time i even ask her to forgive me to have buy her something she didn't like... god i was pathetic

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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X-Mas how many will be spending it single? Posted: 12/10/2005 11:03:51 AM
Never heard of that place but sounds nice

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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have you ever been broken up with throug a text message? Posted: 12/10/2005 11:00:00 AM
One of my GF broke with me after a week telling me i was just a replacement while her true BF was out in Italie. She just needed some stupid ** to fk and she got me lol It wasn't the worst one but this one took less time to explain than the others so...

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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Anyone else always fall in love but are never loved back? Posted: 12/10/2005 10:52:23 AM
Was never loved, don't even know what being loved feels like but i have loved 6 times. It is better than nothing i guess

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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X-Mas how many will be spending it single? Posted: 12/10/2005 10:25:53 AM
Well, i'm single this year again, i never had any familly even when i was a kid, I was beaten my entire childhood, three guys sexually abused me when i was a child and my father just started to hit me when he heard i didn't defend myself, I say i was a fuc**g fag so my child mind was completely messed up, started to grab the girls ass in my class to proove that i wasn't what he said i was and to proove it to myself, got hit and treated like shit by girls all year long, got eventually scared to go to school so i drop out and ended up in some kind of child prison (don't know how its called in english - en francais c un centre d'acceuil pour délinquant) My mother made me afraid of everything in the world remembering me constantly that i was weak and that i shouldn't interact with anyone to be safe and eventually after everything that happend i believed her... My relationship were very bad and trust me you don't want to know the details. But i never did drugs or taken alcohol to escape from reality. What i trying to say is that some peoples have it bad, some would even consider kill themselves sometime and to tell you the truth, i'm not happy at all, was never really loved by anyone and was so desperate to be that all it gave me was nothing. Right now, i'm trying to protect myself against bad women and that is the reason why my profile is a bit negatif and maybe no one will talk to me at all but it doesn't really matter. I found my own ways to get rid of my problems but i'm not quite there yet. I am afraid of women, afraid to be like my father and hurt someone and so for a long time, a part of me acted to push people away because I though i had to protect them from me when all i was doing was crying for attention and love that never came. I will be alone this year again (i'm 26 now) but most of all of my problems are solved now i did it because i believed in me so if you believe in yourself and know what you have to do to help yourself, there is always a way. I don't know if someone will love me someday... i don't even know if i will eventually feel it... and this terrify me! This world isn't fair and like murphy said - Smile... tomorrow will be worst To all those who are happy, have a good life! To those who are not, don't ask yourself why like i did, solve your problem by asking HOW TO question as it ignore the problem and concentrates on solutions!

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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Can someone rate my profile? Posted: 12/10/2005 9:30:56 AM
Most peoples who are lying to themselves know they are, they just don't want to wake up. A part of them know it too well and this part will keep them away from me (hopefully)! I didn't even know this picture was taken before seeing it lol

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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Can someone rate my profile? Posted: 12/10/2005 12:18:45 AM
Well i'm a business man so i think i'll keep this one

Carnage

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No means No Posted: 12/9/2005 9:25:46 PM
Well it is a fact that most women will receive at least 30 times the numbers of messages men receives... sometime it is even more

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them! Posted: 12/9/2005 8:30:24 PM
Actually you should stop asking yourself why they don't want you and start asking yourself how to get them! Attraction isn't a choice, a women won't just decide to be attracted to a men - if she don't feel it, there's nothing you can do about it but if she feels it, then there's nothing she can do about it. Attraction is counter-intuitive guys, if a girl become distant, give her some space stop trying to make her like you even harder! Sometime logic can be your worst enemy since it can make you come to conclusion about yourself that are false but logically valid. Look guys if you want more control in your relationship, just control yourself and be indifferent to the outcome! The women you want, she's only a guess in your reality, nothing more you are selecting her as much as she selecting you but you're giving her all her power. The only power they have over you is the one that you give them. Stop complimenting women all the time, don't buy her gifts, don't threat her to expensive dinner, don't call her all the time... you know why? Because by doing that, you look or sound like if you thought that they wouldn't be interested in you without it. Stop buying their attention or affection. When you want to invite a girl to do something with you, always talk about the time when you can't make it before telling her when you can this way she will understand that you have a life and that she's not the only remaining chance you have to be happy. You have other priorities and even if she complains, they will still come first! Dating is like playing chess, if you can't play or don't know how to, you will lose! Learn how to move your piece correctly because women are way better than men to do so but don't think they are better person because men and women are the same, we all have our own problems to deal with. Anyway just ask yourself HOW TO attract women not WHY you can't, that way you will concentrate your thoughts on the solution instead of focusing them on the problem which will breed new ones! Some women also have problems dealing with guys you know. Many women lost their BF just because they talk about their feelings too much, or wanted something more serious or wanted more romance but didn't know and to ask for it and just scare the guy away. A woman might LIKE the experience of the "nice guy" doing nice things, but it doesn't CREATE attraction or a connection with the woman. Most of the time they will not feel anything at all. The truth of the matter is - kissing up, convincing and being too sweet can kill attraction. Why? Our subconscious reacts in ways you often can't control and aren't very aware of. Being too nice sends a signal to the deep part of the mind that tells you this person isn't desirable and is lower status. I know, this might sound kind of dark, power-hungry or weird to you, but it's what happens with us humans. People don't value what they can have too easily, whether they admit it or not. Ultimately, when women are around nice guys, they end up unconsciously thinking, This man isn't desirable, I shouldn't date or pursue this guy. Think marketing for example - why is it that people want something? They want something with good attributes, good values, and with popularity... no one wants unwanted damaged goods and it is the same for humans! ... I could go on but i think you get the point!

Carnage

Joined: 12/9/2005

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Can someone rate my profile? Posted: 12/9/2005 6:51:56 PM
Just want to see what other guys or girls thinks of it. Could be helpful who knows

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