And that, right there, is the crux of the issue -- women who are so insecure in themselves that they look at a man with a woman in his picture and automatically assume that he's not to be trusted. If a woman is so mistrustful that she is going to spend that much time worrying about whether I'm faithful or not, then I don't want her anyway.
I haven't been cheated on since I was about 19. It was also that last time I exhibited jealousy. What an unpleasant experience! I don't do it anymore. And I don't deal with it in my significant other. If I choose to be with someone, it is by choice. If he has a problem with me having male friends, sorry. It just won't work. If I don't trust him enough to have female friends, why am I with him in the first place?