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nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Is This Abuse Of PoF??? Posted: 2/28/2006 9:58:12 AM
its a waste of bandwith and storage ..but mostly ....just... lame ,sad...very sad excuse for a male ..almost makes me feel guilty being one cheers

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Suicidal Men Posted: 1/5/2006 6:56:32 AM
had this in the family .. he hung himself because he believed everybody "skidded him" he was also very deppressive.. and i for one call him a chicken sh*t coward ,weak willed son of a biotch it was the most selfish hurtful thing he could have done and before you jump on me about this ... he's my step brother and i loved him....i have some great memories with him he was brilliant ..skipping grades and whipping thru university no problem but he had depression an based his happiness thru the eyes of others meds weren't helping....the cry for help was answered by family but the docs skidded him ... i understand the sadness but not the final decision....its extremely selfish and cruel to put friends and family through that an example of the cruelty..it's been several years since he left us and it still hurts as i think of him and type this post...god bless him ..amen

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Would you respect a man more if he came out and said he just wanted some ass or played head games Posted: 1/4/2006 8:00:22 AM
Would you respect a man more if he came out and said he just wanted some ass or played head games if the only thing you want from me is sex. Good things come to those who wait if a guy says to you " SexyAsianEyes you are soo hot ..lets hook up for some wall banging fun!....i'll call back in a week " well did that earn him any "respect" truth is it doesn't matter...if it doesn't get him some tail...the game goes on thats the difference between lookin for tail and looking for interesting people ...the guy lookin for tail doesnt care if you respect him afterwards..unless it means more tail..(selfish people are like that) would be nice if players went for other players instead of us serious people getting screwed over

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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What do you consider long term? Posted: 1/4/2006 6:59:21 AM
well the first year is a freebie ...after that you have to work at it so i'll say long term is from 2 years to life short term is like exchange students or people who know they are leaving in a few months

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Children of Dirt! Posted: 1/1/2006 6:56:11 PM
i hear ya on that one sparda!! i have seen women that show little or no respect to thier S.O. in public and yet demand that they be blindly trusted ...WTF ..i have determined that if the guy keeps taking it ..he deserves it for being so blind...and yes i'm very sure guys do it to ..

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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burning cds and dvds Posted: 1/1/2006 6:30:43 PM
whats your roxio burning program called...tehy have so many and best to get blank dvd's get minus r's (dvd -r) they have better compatability the dvd +r's

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Grabbed her A*ss !! Posted: 1/1/2006 6:05:21 PM
well what you witnessed may not have been strangers meeting ..they may have been bar regulars ..so they kinda know each other? expect to get a slap or worse if you go ass grabbing..

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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CASTRATION....EFFECTIVE SOLUTION? Posted: 12/31/2005 9:32:30 PM
women can be molesters too...(karla homolka)..how do castrate them?

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Do u tell ur family this ? Posted: 12/31/2005 8:52:30 PM
It's not the caring thing, it's the implication of force on another person's choices with her body. Her body, her choice. Gotta talk! so why do you make your kids eat vegetables when they dont want to? remember these are not mature young adults here but young teenagers who already think they know everything thats why communication is key but it's not like she's gonna spike the food with birth control the child will know what its for an why she's taking them..give the child some credit will you to wish someone arrested for wanting to help is just malicious next we'll arrest parents for making toddlers eat veggies

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Companionship vs serious relationships Posted: 12/30/2005 9:54:23 PM
in a serious relationship you have expectations and obligations to each other ..defined by commitment as a companion ..no expectations or obligation ...just enjoy each others company ..moment by moment he's probably backing away from the sex out of respect to you as sex can bring out expectations of the future..or symbolize a more serious commitment if you want friends with benifits..both of you should discuss it before going for the full benifits package

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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LADIES WHATS THE BEST TYPE OF GUY Posted: 12/30/2005 9:32:42 PM
from what i have noticed..a woman wants a guy who is nice in nature ..but unpredictiable (not violent) a standard nice guy is predictable...aka boring.. it's human nature to desire what we don't have ..so we state qualities we want to look for .. it's also human nature to get bored with what we do have and go back to desire.. nice guy with spice to keep things fresh ..now that could be unpredictable..exiting..and if you leave him ..he's gone standard nice guys...if your nice and predictable..they know where you are ..thay have you...and will predict that you will be there if the next guy doesnt work out... me..i'm a nice guy that finishes last ..i like my woman satisfied before i finish...

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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How Do I Cope? Posted: 12/30/2005 4:01:25 AM
take solace in the fact he's alive ..and he loves you and misses you very much..but realize..it's cold of the military..yes. but the "fact" is that maintaining his focus will keep him alive.. so he comes back "home to you" my heart goes out to you

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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How Do I Reformat My Computer? Posted: 12/30/2005 3:51:12 AM
a good cleaning utility for registry cleaning may help..even a trial version if u really need to reformat and don't have the disks google up a tool that will show you your os key..copy that key to paper..it's legit right? dl a copy of the os from the net..(don't ask me where) ..google it.. and install with your legit key good luck

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Lights On or Lights OFF Posted: 12/30/2005 3:26:02 AM
some light ..i have to be able to see her to read her body language

nonick

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Profile Nics Posted: 12/30/2005 3:22:04 AM
my usual nick was taken so i have nonick...

nonick

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(lady)I'm not into head games(guy)Oh shut up! Posted: 12/30/2005 2:58:10 AM
some definitions of head games.. ...after dating for 2 weeks she/he asks .."do you love me"..this is where the other thinks to themselves..wtf..i don't even know your last name...but if i say no.. she's history an if i say yes i'm marked as a player?? ....after a month or two .."well if you really trusted me you wouldn't mind me going out with my ex".....doomed either way.... ...says "i'm not into headgames"......then makes a date an doesn't show and gives no explanation..

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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make your own t- shirt Posted: 12/30/2005 2:17:57 AM
my nephew got me one for xmas ...reads: mike hawks taxidermy...i'll stuff your beaver

nonick

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9 things i hate about humans..... Posted: 12/30/2005 1:59:54 AM
i hate when people always have to push the elevator button ..when it's already lit...

nonick

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How do you overcome abuse? Posted: 12/29/2005 1:06:41 AM
I truly believe around the age of 13-15 a person decides for themselves your assuming that the individual has learned there is another way of life not everybody gets that lesson and by the time your a teen much damage is already done but it can be overcome as you have proven ....(amen) but will you ever really forget...i think not it takes years for most ..before they can truely love an value themselves as a person ..full of councelling and becoming friends with your inner child and then the flashbacks an nightmares of repressed memories coming up to be dealt with when the only example of love is an abusive one ..some people look for the only love they have ever known..a parents love.. it's the version of love they have been programmed with ..and thus the cycle continues until someone has the knowledge and strength to break it..as you have

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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An easy concept to grasp, right? Posted: 12/28/2005 6:42:15 PM
easy to say but harder to do first you have to recognize the old ways so you know when to turn in the other direction hard to break years of routine

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Is respect and trust earned or bought? Posted: 12/28/2005 6:37:37 PM
for me trust is earned i'll give everyone a small amount but i won't give my housekeys to a stranger as for u well i agree with ya 472 in the first situation u heard it elsewhere as gossip and not from her.. an she said you two were friends ..have been for years why would that change in her mind..it didn't ...it changed in yours an you had expectations because of it...did u ever ask her how she felt? second...you broke routine by the bosses requests she made an observation an gave her opinion on it ..you took it as questioning your actions ..others see it as doin what the boss says..they don't have to agree with the boss ..just work for him and the bomb as you call it was her getting back at you for being rude and unreasonable now if you seriously had a biz arrangement you should have paperwork to back it up..hence as a partner you are entitled to half the profits..if you don't have the paperwork..well thats the biz this is very much your fault as well as hers you put expectations on her due to "your feelings" not hers and as for your disease..that sucks and i respect the fact you live with it every day but don't expect pity

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Trust Issues Posted: 12/28/2005 10:49:10 AM
The point is no one intended to disrespect you, Nonick. Once that is realized the anger and hurt will dissipate. well yes she was the one girl always had her male friends and exes hanging around(yes i was a blind fool) an i it wasn't alchohol making her judgements she was just uncaring and cold at times..please don't make excuses for her.. an the one after that got dressed up in her leather mini skirt an knee high boots an went to a singles club on a friday night..how nieve do u think i am ..she knew what she was after when she left the house..again not alchohol talking thanx for trying but call a spade a spade an move on in life i don't hate them ....its a waste of my energy an they aren't worth it I appreciate you sharing your opinion though..thanx :)

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Impersonating a photo?? Has this happened to you? Posted: 12/28/2005 1:53:06 AM
thats why webcams are so grand hard to fake a pic when they are moving and responding to you

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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How To Approach..... Posted: 12/28/2005 1:49:32 AM
better go find some mistletoe while it's still in season then you have a place and an excuse to initiate it good luck!

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Struggling Posted: 12/28/2005 1:27:50 AM
well about seven years ago i was in love and when the frieght train hit me i was shattered.. i know i was loved an i know i love her(still do)....she had her reasons and i understand them and i forgive her...but i cannot handle the assosiation of the pain and the woman that caused it. so i cannot go back (i forgive ..i don't forget) all i can say is .."life said no" forgive her...do not blame her it's a burden that weighs too much...and hold on to the good memories as well as the bad..be honest to yourself then you can start to heal good luck ps... my ex broke up with me on new years as well move on bud ...it's all we can do

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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messing with a virgin Posted: 12/28/2005 1:04:23 AM
start off gentle but firm and understanding an once he gets the drift (after 1 or 2 premature shots) ...ride him like your at a rodeo!! make him feel how this woman he feels for(you) wants to give herself to him and how much he can please her at the same time...yeeehaaa so he's thinking...ohh ya she wants ME!! and as you look into each others hungry eyes he will learn the power and the pleasure of sex make it so he doesn't wipe the smile off his face for a week his confidence level will skyrocket and he will see a confident man in the mirror..not a shy virgin who sqeaked by an got lucky..and he will want more and more from the woman who gave him that great feeling have fun an be safe

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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y dont men understand space Posted: 12/28/2005 12:40:06 AM
the term "i need my space" is so broad that it can be taken several different ways ...remember your partner may read you an understand but we aren't mind readers someone who is ... fixer/white knight - will see it as a challenge that you need help witha problem insecure - see's himself as the problem untrusting - see's someone else as the problem you notice the theme here unknown = problem ("why" does he/she want me gone) some think that you mean 5 feet away others understand you want time without thinking of your partners needs or wants and reactions so you can concentrate on yourself an relax first you need basic security and trust in your relationship then if you claim to need space give us a little reassurance that we're not headed for the dumps..add a little communication to the mix communication is the key ..that includes truth (not nessesarily details)from one and listening from the other but your partner has to be able to listen ..some people don't really hear when you do communicate when he/she doesnt actively hear you ..they will put thier own excuse in anyway..so tell them the truth an push em out the door..

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Trust Issues Posted: 12/27/2005 2:14:06 PM
did she try to tell you it was not "cheating"? no she didn't try to say much i saw what i saw and there was no denying anything ..was it over earlier ..probably but i was either too blind or she hid it well it's the complete lack of respect that hurts the most i do not deserve that kind of disrespect i'm a kind,honest and open person ..seems like sometimes life punishes me for it?...one day it will reward me for it too but i can honestly say...betrayal sucks

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Trust Issues Posted: 12/27/2005 10:54:36 AM
oh yeah i definetly get what your saying most of my relationships have ended due to cheating i even try to be understanding but no matter what i allow for or how good i try to be they just keep cheating it's the behind my back thing that gets me ..i've tried to be open about it when i leave town(i preffer monogamy if i can get it) but they always seem to do it behind my back ..an thats what burns it's hard to trust my own judgement i'm honest and open and i do the best i know how so i can't offer anymore... guess i just have to trust myself the closest i have come to a compromise is ..tell me who u have the interest in and why first. it would be hard for me to accept but it's as close to a compromise as i can get or call an break up with me before you do ..some shred of respect for me before they cheat..but thats too much to ask i guess i almost wonder if this has truth ..(if i like her ..she's gonna be a cheat) cheating is something i will not do ..i been burned by it too many times to inflict it so i despise it when i see it in others my last 2 gf's ...i walked in on one in the act with her ex when i came home early the second ..i was gone less then a week an she was decked out in leather an gone to the singles bar ..home at 11 am..an tellin her friends the details ...which came back to me via msn logs..both these relationships were over 6 months ..not long i know but it allmost looks like a trend in my life and i refuse to accept that so i keep trying to find a woman that shares my values....one step at a time she will earn my trust

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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The body hair dilemma Posted: 12/27/2005 2:45:19 AM
you could also get your woman to trim the fur for you with trimmers (we can't reach by ourselves) that way it''s not way too long and your not ignoring it either just keep it trim

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Why do some women hate thier men watching porno Posted: 12/27/2005 2:32:34 AM
well its a well known fact that men think about sex much more often then women do so we could pester our woman for it 40 times a day or watch a porn an be self sufficient porn is an impersonal look at sex...sex with a loved one does serve an emotional need for men as well..something porn could never do however....porn should never ever be a substitute for the real thing

nonick

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Unknown where to post this one... Posted: 12/25/2005 10:09:13 PM
well doing a background check may be somewhat safe but it's very very rude and if i found out a woman i was dating did that behind my back without my permission i'd probably ask her how i checked out and after she verifiied i'm a good man i'd say . ..good now you know what you missed out on..and walk out i'd be royally pissed off about that big breech of ettiquete and lack of basic trust and it screams GOLD DIGGER..so that flag would be way up

nonick

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Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond Posted: 12/23/2005 6:21:08 PM
it's a sweet gesture but dumbass thing to actually do it's his mom ..she will get over it don't screw your record over his bad driving and i'm sorry but single vehicle accident ,,well h was driving to fast for the road conditions ..OBVIOSLY..so no ..just love him an support him ..but don't that the wrap for him it's a foolish thing to do as for the rest ..remember people ..she offer ..so not so quick on the man bashing ok

nonick

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How do you overcome abuse? Posted: 12/21/2005 11:51:49 PM
that would depend on the emotions involved 3 years of abusive conditioning will not be erased overnight..take the time you need to heal having been in an abusive relationship naturally you will have emotional scarring... self esteem issues ,motivational issues and most definietly trust issues first thing to remember is love yourself and be "HONEST to yourself" !!! understand that you do NOT deserve abuse..of any kind..emotional or physical and always remember you did not "make" the abuser do anything ...he chose too... many abusers try to blame the other for making them do it ...it's flat out denial or false justification on the abusers part . learn to trust yourself again ..not all men are like the last one you need to trust your judgment and guts ..(not easy) and best of all!!! there are survivor groups that you can also go to if you wish to talk with others that have walked in your shoes..(check the phone book) best of luck in your new found freedom!!

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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How many Posted: 12/21/2005 4:06:51 PM
a good idea for the online sex would be a chair with a vibe in the middle i saw this chair in a documentry..it's called dildotronics it was on the showcase documentry cathouse ..about a las vegas cathouse and people could call them up online an have thier favorite lady get in this chair ..while they controlled it via the internet..of course cams were stratigicly placed the demo was hilarious

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Mathematical Viewpoint Posted: 12/21/2005 5:36:02 AM
Mathematical Viewpoint Some truth to this! From a strictly mathematical viewpoint it goes like this: What Makes 100%? What does it mean to give MORE than 100%? Ever wonder about those people who say they are giving more than 100%? We have all been to those meetings where someone wants you to give over 100%. How about achieving 103%? What makes up 100% in life? Here's a little mathematical formula that might help you answer these questions: If: A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z is represented as: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26. Then: H-A-R-D-W-O-R-K 8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98% and K-N-O-W-L-E-D-G-E 11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96% But, A-T-T-I-T-U-D-E 1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100% And, B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T 2+21+12+12+19+8+9+20 = 103% AND, look how far ass kissing will take you. A-S-S-K-I-S-S-I-N-G 1+19+19+11+9+19+19+9+14+7 = 127% So, one can conclude with mathematical certainty that While Hard work and Knowledge will get you close, and Attitude will get you there, it's the BullshiT and Ass kissing that will put you over the top!

nonick

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Friends for four years, then . . . Posted: 12/21/2005 5:33:45 AM
i think you have to look inside yourself as well was this strictly physical? after 2 days your already thinking of reasons to leave? whats up with that? i have been in that situation an after 3 years of friendship..i had the best relationship of my life for 3 more years ..outside circumstances tore us apart... the first time we did it it was ...oh no never again ..to akward..few months later ..we were hooked on each other good luck man ..but work on your views before you think you know hers

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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What's the next step Posted: 12/21/2005 5:16:55 AM
i think you should send her a link to this post so she can see how you feel then if it goes sour..both of you agree to deny you "said" anything an you can both laugh it under the rug..then keep yr mouth shut an she will know..maybe not act like it ..but know cause from experiance the hardest part is when she falls for somone else ...she won't rub your nose in it asking how to make him happy if she knows your true feelings

nonick

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I've taken him back and now I'm confused!??? Posted: 12/21/2005 5:04:17 AM
well if the relationship with the ex was under a year ..you got played... plain and simple..over a year ..little more complicated you have to really take your time trusting him again ...personally i say let him stay gone ..he was gone for months ..so no real rush to get you back was there?..but you were convienient for him when his last one left..don't be "the old stand by" if he truly loved you.. he never would have done it to begin with and certainly not so fast ..even if your accusations were wrong (doubtful) ..if he loved you he never would have hurt you like that..it's malicious as for the new bloke ..maybe you can salvage a friendship...maybe more

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Supposedly Reformed Cheaters ... Posted: 12/21/2005 4:47:27 AM
why is it a topic? between a loving couple...one flag.. how long ago was this ..? how long was she in these relationships ? what was her motivation to cheat? it sounds like possable manipulation ...you know her history she says "i was open about it" and then .."i told you so you would trust me"..(the honesty play) you get skeptical for a bit ..back off an believe in her ..then bam back to the old ways with an i told you so remember the first year of a relationship is a freebie..after that it gets difficult you may get burned ..or she may not have any more motivation to stray..trust on that one would be long in coming..she should expect such things

nonick

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Is this cyber guy for real? Posted: 12/21/2005 4:35:13 AM
well seeing as it's long distance and you haven't even seen each other on cam and it leads me to believe you don't have one ... i say take the hundred bucks and invest in a good quality webcam (logitech orbit) and that way it's an investment into what you already have going ..and being long distance webcams are perfect...it eleminates alot of questions when you can read thier face as well as the words....an no matter what route it goes you can honestly say you invested into the relationship and the gift was non sexual in nature and you both benefit as well i do know happy couples that met online from different counties..rare but possable good luck and merry xmas

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Joke of the day... Posted: 12/21/2005 1:18:11 AM
CIA Position available The CIA had an opening for an assassin. After all of the background checks, interviews, and testing were done, there were three finalists, two men and a woman. For the final test, the CIA agents took one of the men to large metal door and handed him a gun."We must know that you will follow your instructions, no matter what the circumstances. Inside of this room, you will find your wife sitting in a chair. Kill Her!!!" The man said, "You can't be serious. I could never shoot my wife." The agent said, "Then you're not the right man for this job." The second man was given thesame instructions. He took the gun and went into the room. All was quiet for about five minutes. Then the man came out with tears in his eyes. "I tried, but I can't kill my wife." The agent said, "You don't have what it takes. Take your wife and go home." Finally, it was the woman's turn. She was given the same instructions,to kill her husband. She took the gun and went into the room. Shots were heard, one shot after another. They heard screaming, crashing, banging on the walls. After a few minutes, all was quiet. The door opened slowly and there stood the woman. She wiped the sweat from her brow, and said, "This gun is loaded with blanks. I had to beat him to death with the chair."

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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Joke of the day... Posted: 12/21/2005 1:16:00 AM
SIPPING VODKA A new priest at his first mass was so nervous he could hardly speak. After mass he asked the monsignor how he had done. The monsignor replied, "When I am worried about getting nervous on the pulpit, I put a glass of vodka next to the water glass. If I start to get nervous, I take a sip." So next Sunday he took the monsignor's advice. At the beginning of the sermon, he got nervous and took a drink. He proceeded to talk up a storm. Upon his return to his office after mass, he found the following note on the door: 1. Sip the Vodka, don't gulp. 2. There are 10 commandments, not 12. 3. There are 12 disciples, not 10. 4. Jesus was consecrated, not constipated. 5. Jacob wagered his donkey, he did not bet his ass. 6. We do not refer to Jesus Christ as the late J. C. 7. The Father, Son, and Holy Ghost are not referred to as daddy, junior and the spook. 8. David slew Goliath, he did not kick the shit out of him. 9. When David was hit by a rock and was knocked off his donkey, don't say he was stoned off his ass. 10. We do not refer to the cross as the "Big T." 11. When Jesus broke the bread at the Last Supper he said, "Take this and eat it for it is my body." He did not say "Eat me" 12. The Virgin Mary is not called "Mary with the Cherry," 13. The recommended grace before a meal is not: Rub-A-Dub-Dub thanks for the grub, yeah God. 14. Next Sunday there will be a taffy pulling contest at St. Peter's, not a peter pulling contest at St. Taffy's.

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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why do people assume so much? Posted: 12/20/2005 5:19:14 PM
IF EYE TAK LYK DIS ITS A PURDY GOOD CHANS IM NOT WEL EDUMACATED. omg blastkist that is soo hilarious i laughed so hard i have to wipe my chin....omg lmao i can't stop laughing at that one thanks ...i needed that i have to go wipe my eyes now ..hehe (snicker)

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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why are women so defensive??? even if there getting abused Posted: 12/19/2005 11:40:50 PM
i used to work security in and i'll tell you this is a lesson you learn fast never get between a couples fight I commend what you did i would probably do the same but if your ever in the same situation do NOT turn your back on the woman she just see's "her man" getting hit and reacts to defend him wanna know why...(don't we all)..same reason she stays with him an takes it..thats her man no matter how fooked up and she will defend him and that leaves you in a no win situation ..deck the **stard an bail..fast having one opponent is ok ...add another you can't hit (morally) and you can't win and yes it's extremly frustrating

nonick

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new dating woes Posted: 12/19/2005 6:28:51 PM
well it sounds like your expecting more..what happens when you try to initiate more? do you feel like he had his conquest and now is just hanging around cause he knows he has you ?

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

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~ The Craziest Pick Up Lines You Know ~ Posted: 12/19/2005 2:47:30 AM
here's a few You with those curves, and me with no brakes ... If you're going to regret this in the morning, we can sleep until the afternoon. Your place or mine? Tell you what? I'll flip a coin. Head at my place, tail at yours My boys over there bet that I wouldn't be able to start a conversation with the most beautiful girl in the room. Want to buy some drinks with their money? Did the sun just come out, or did you just smile at me? I know milk does a body good, but damn -- how much you been drinking? If I could be anything I'd be a tear: Born in your eye, live on your cheek, and die at your lips. I'm like novicane, Give me time I always work. Check the girls clothing tag then say --> "Thats what I thought...made in heaven" If I were to ask you for sex, would your answer be the same as the answer to this question? You've got all the curves, and I got all the angles God was showing off when he made you. i like this one best : (Hand a girl a rose.) I just wanted to show my rose how beautiful you are.

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

Msg: 65 (view)

Raunchy Jokes Posted: 12/19/2005 1:48:56 AM
two gay guys walking past the morgue one guy says to the other ...wanna go suck back a cold one what do rabbi's do with foreskin after circumcision ... sell them to gays for chewing gum whats the difference between a woman and a washing machine... you can dump your load in a washing machine and it won't follow you around for 2 weeks Married Life Walking into his favorite bar, Mike said to the bartender, "Pour me a stiff one. I just had another fight with the little woman." "Oh yeah?" said Fred. "And how did this one end?" "When it was over," Mike replied, "she came to me on her hands and knees." "Really? Now that's a switch! What did she say?" She said, "Come out from under that bed, you little chickenshit . "5 Stages Of Sex" 1) The first is Smurf Sex. This happens during the honeymoon period; you both keep doing it until you're blue in the face. 2) The second is Kitchen Sex. This is at the beginning of the marriage; you'll have sex anywhere, anytime, even in the kitchen. 3) The third kind is Bedroom Sex. You've calmed down a bit, perhaps have kids, so you gotta do it in the bedroom. 4) The fourth kind is Hallway Sex. This is the phase in which you pass each other in the hallway and say, "** you!" 5) There is also a fifth kind of sex: Courtroom Sex. This is when you get divorced and your wife screws you in front of everyone in the courtroom WHORE TROUBLES A traveling salesman in town for the week stops by a brothel for a quickie. The proprietor says, "Whadaya want, we got a $100 whore, a $50 whore and a $10 whore." The man figures the $100 whore would be the best lay and opts for her. She turns out to be okay but not the best he's had. He returns the next day and reasons that since the $100 whore wasn't so great that the $50 whore would be about the same. To his surprise she's much better, but still not the best he's had. So when he goes back the next day he hires the $10 whore thinking he might as well save his money since the whores here aren't that great. He's pumping away and realizes this $10 whore is the best lay he's ever had! But suddenly her mouth pops wide open and out spews white goo all over his face! He runs screaming past the front desk and out the door! The cleaning lady looks in the vacated room and yells, "Hey, Joe. The dead one's full." At the races today; Adult Horse Race Lineup: 1. Passionate Lady 2. Bare Belly 3. Silk Panties 4. Conscience 5. Jockey Shorts 6. Clean Sheets 7. Thighs 8. Bigbr> 9. Heavy Bosom 10. Merry Cherry THEY'RE OFF!!! Conscience is left behind at the gate. Jockey Shorts and Silk Panties are off in a hurry. Heavy Bosom is being pressured. Passionate Lady is caught between Thighs and Bigis in a dangerous spot. AT THE HALFWAY MARK: It's Bare Belly on top, Thighs open and Bigis pressed in. Heavy Bosom is being pushed hard against Clean Sheets. Passionate Lady and Thighs are working hard on Bare Belly. Bare Belly is under terrific pressure from Big AT THE STRETCH: Merry Cherry cracks under the strain. Bigis making a final drive. Bare Belly is in and Passionate Lady is coming. AT THE FINISH: It's Biggiving everything he's got and Passionate Lady takes everything Bighas to offer. It looks like a dead heat but Big **br> comes through with one final thrust and wins by a head... Bare Belly shows... Thighs weakens... Heavy Bosom pulls up... & Clean Sheets never had a chance.

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

Msg: 39 (view)

No sex in a long time .. good or bad? Posted: 12/18/2005 10:55:45 PM
after i got burned last time i had a choice ..ditch my morals an screw what i can because i can ..or keep my morals an find a different focus while i sort my baggage i went 16 months with no intimate contact . and i don't regret my choice either i got ahead in my field of work and sorted my frustration now i'm in a better position to move ahead in all aspects of my life so i have to say ..thereputic when its done by choice sux when it's not by choice ..but in that scenario.. look inside ..be honest to yourself ..and adapt

nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005

Msg: 30 (view)

When did you begin to know what love really was? Posted: 12/18/2005 9:41:36 PM
i had an idea in my head at about 20 years old but when i was around 24-25 i discovered i was in love ..and it hit me like a frieght train ..it was different then what i imagined and way more powerful and motivating ...unfortunately a larger frieght train knocked me out of it a few years later

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