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Posted In Forum: All Forums Alabama Alaska Alberta Arizona Arkansas Art/Music Ask A Girl Ask A Guy Australia British Columbia Broken Hearts California Colorado Connecticut Dating & Love Advice Dating Experiences Dating Sites Delaware District Of Columbia Event Hosts forum Florida Georgia Hawaii Health & Fitness Humor Idaho Illinois Indiana Introductions Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Manitoba Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Brunswick New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York Newfoundland News/Current Events North Carolina North Dakota Nova Scotia Off Topic Ohio Oklahoma Ontario Oregon Over 30 Over 45 Pennsylvania Plentyoffish Get Togethers Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help Poems And Quotes Politics Prince Edward Island Profile Reviews Quebec Recipes & Cooking Relationships Religion/Supernatural Rhode Island Saskatchewan Science/Philosophy Sex and Dating Single Parents South Carolina South Dakota Sports Stories/creative writing Technology and computers Tennessee Testimonials Texas Uk Forums Utah Vermont Virginia Volunteer Moderators Only Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Home   login   MyForums   Show ALL Forums      Author  Thread: Small Town Dating!  Dlougheed1982 Joined: 1/7/2009 Msg: 10 (view)   Small Town Dating! Posted: 7/17/2009 1:20:25 AM ok! thanks for all the input people!. since i posted this thread, i've gotten a grand total of Zero responses:) i will not move to a city because i have a few phobias..including! Enochlophobia, wich is a fear of crowds.. in my case anymore than 50 people. there are plenty of women in my area... none of them reply because! dun don DAA!! I only make 20,000 a year!:D and refuse to buy a vehicle. but thanks you all again for your thoughts.. im gonna go play frogger for real:D!  DLougheed1982 Joined: 1/7/2009 Msg: 3 (view)   Small Town Dating! Posted: 5/17/2009 6:05:14 AM well thanks! i'll deffinetly look into it as a possible solution.  DLougheed1982 Joined: 1/7/2009 Msg: 4 (view)   help me Posted: 5/17/2009 5:57:59 AM ya dude. other than that detail i'd say it's fine.. just gotta be patient!  DLougheed1982 Joined: 1/7/2009 Msg: 788 (view)   Introduce Yourself Here.... Posted: 5/17/2009 5:47:19 AM hey all.. Name's Dave, or David!.  DLougheed1982 Joined: 1/7/2009 Msg: 1 (view)   Small Town Dating! Posted: 5/17/2009 5:42:37 AM Ok! First of all i'd like to say that i am new to these forums, but have indeed been a member of POF.com for quite some time now. i live in a reletivly small town of about 16,000 people. my choices are very limited to whom i messege!. but i'd say about 1 in every 7-10 people i send messeges to reply, but usually in one word replies. it is soo very frustrating that it has gotten to the point where i think i may just not be enough for these local women!?. No i dont own a truck..(or a vehicle at all) and i am not into the party or Bar/nightclub scene, so one would imagine that i would attract some sort of demographic of the locals. but day in and out i never recieve anything worthwhile, even after thinking of a creative and friendly first messege for 15 to 20 minutes before sending. i would greatly appreciate any feedback as to what may help improve results!. and dont worry! im not an internet flamer! i accept and respect critisism!  DLougheed1982 Joined: 1/7/2009 Msg: 3 (view)   why do i never get any replys Posted: 5/17/2009 5:31:47 AM i have the same problem.. i've gotten only a handfull of replies over the last year. my profile is simple and clean. it may be pigheadish to say, but i think that most women look at certain things first on a man's profile... if we drive or not.. income.. to be honest though, everyone does want some form of security in a relationship! but some women rely on it far to much and overlook the better things about us guys here on POF.com   Show ALL Forums