.My question is how do you convince a man that being rough in the bed is diffrent then abuseing someone.
Hi, Loti. Suggestion: there's plenty of rough sex erotica out there. Give him a fairly tame story or poem--something with hair-pulling or spanking, nothing too rough at first. Read it with him. Tell him what parts you liked, and ask him what he liked. He'll get the idea.... Hope that helps. Good luck! --Easy2Slip