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Msg: 132 (view)

Shocked! how can someone be so demoralising! Posted: 6/10/2009 3:52:12 PM
The world is full of intelligent 'stupid' people. OMG, I believe so! For people that dont know how to read between the lines, what demoralizing idiots would make a post like that an not be shameless of showing their face. I suggest you start at the beginning an read once agian.

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Shocked! how can someone be so demoralising! Posted: 6/10/2009 3:01:54 PM
You go girl, most people on these forums dont care if it's not their post. Spelling, proof reading, grammer who cares everyone gets the just of the post. They also lack in respect for themselves. Maybe this guy is an egotisic pig, whom I sure you would not care to know even if her was your cup of tea in looks. My motto, even if you have looks an zero personality, keep lookin, not a chance!

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Why do women moan more than men during sex? Posted: 3/17/2009 5:09:00 PM
vincedeprince... does not accept messages from older women...its a wonder why he is limited to his vocabulary...OHHHHHHHHHHH BABY YAAAAAAAAAAA!

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How long do men feel the need to pursue? Posted: 3/17/2009 3:43:59 PM
should've known. Yes...I am not used to a man taunting me.... nobody is..it also comes in woman forms...it sucks to be a REAL WOMAN as MAN listen...closely...an DONT ASK FRIENDS ....worst mistake...they may be ur best friend..but not in ur relationship..opinions r theirs

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Msg: 228 (view)

How long do men feel the need to pursue? Posted: 3/17/2009 3:19:13 PM
Oh my good lord...what wisdom people offer in 10 pages of this forum..well...lets just say...LISTEN..an know the differance! If your an adult to post...take the good with the bad.S*** happens!

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Msg: 217 (view)

why are men so rude to women, judging them by looks Posted: 3/1/2009 12:14:17 PM
No I did read it cajun....maybe you didnt read it right....gone or another name..what differance does it make...ohh my opinion...opps...

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Msg: 212 (view)

why are men so rude to women, judging them by looks Posted: 3/1/2009 11:29:56 AM
True, but then it is up to POF to remove it, since the OP is not allowed to do so.

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Msg: 210 (view)

why are men so rude to women, judging them by looks Posted: 3/1/2009 11:14:31 AM
OP, If you consider yourself, a realistic an down to earth person, don't worry what people think of your looks. Happiness comes from within of loving yourself. You learn as you go along. It works both ways (man or woman). These forums can be not only, self centered, but also down right cruel. Believe in yourself, an dont let anyone tell you different.

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Msg: 97 (view)

What age does it take? Posted: 2/5/2009 4:21:25 PM
Life is a journey as with any other trip, if you dont have a map and a plan and a timetable, you will get lost. On the other hand, with a well-thought-out realistic,serious plan, you will be amazed at what can happen.

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What age does it take? Posted: 2/5/2009 3:30:31 PM
Words of knowledge, take notice of last post. I thank you for all the mistakes we have all made, an the immoraltality of the human beings. If nothing else comes from this, take it as a learning experience for all. The constitutional rights is yes we can, freedom of speach on the other hand is within reason. It is the devotion of words.

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What age does it take? Posted: 2/5/2009 1:19:54 PM
I will tell you what people. It is not wrong to want, expect, and aspire to a relationship in which you are treated with honar, dignity and respect. It is not, unrealistic to believe that your mate can an should be your soft place to fall. Its not a pipe dream to and believe that God had provided for you an another person in this world in whom you can trust with your most intimate and vulnerable secrets and needs..Thank you for all ur posts!

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What age does it take? Posted: 2/4/2009 9:21:41 PM
well gf..most people dont go into the whole story verbatem...get my drift...an friends also spoke with him..person to person ..so get off ur high horse b4 ur mouth is filled with shit b4 u speak next time....comprede!

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What age does it take? Posted: 2/4/2009 8:32:15 PM
i truely enjoy woman that post a comment..but when they block me to talk about it...shows their own negitive attitude especiallly when they contacted me.......an have to prove themselves on their own page by having it as part of their profile....how childish

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Msg: 63 (view)

What age does it take? Posted: 2/4/2009 7:49:10 PM
a hobby BBW... is something u do with ur hands constructively or body..not to be a busy body...as u told me...this a hobby...she said...lol...omg..this BBW is SO LMAO

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Msg: 61 (view)

What age does it take? Posted: 2/4/2009 6:52:24 PM
maybe if some people can learn to read all posts an not hearing my whole relationship...they are judgemental...i would like to hear verbatim all the peoples wisdom of their own made public...from what i hear cause waha i share online is wisdom...i dont need to share the entire story....would they?..i doubt it....

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What age does it take? Posted: 2/4/2009 1:51:10 PM
thankyou lonesomerick.....its being open minded...men beat around the bush too/women...an its very hard for anyone to read anyones mind..be it a man or woman.....all these posts made sense..but people dont read from start to finish....people understand only whated they have been dishes out too in their own lives.....as being my first post...i got alot information....an all usefull......

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What age does it take? Posted: 2/4/2009 1:31:05 PM
a post is about all communication.......not running with ur tail between ur legs....because u dont like what someone told u....i am more open minded that u realize...an have every right to my opinion...as u do as well...

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What age does it take? Posted: 2/4/2009 1:26:07 PM
i told him long ago...i cant make u like me...he told me...YES CAN.....so no blah blah blah....i am simply asking for both here....what does it take to grow up....maturity does not come with age...cause you still be selfish at 80....an without morals....i have many male friends...who would like my attention....an i have treated them with respect...ur the one that sounds bitter...sorry to say....

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What age does it take? Posted: 2/4/2009 1:17:23 PM
COMMUNICATION..... when in person.....frustation works both ways.....but when u give up easily...shows me more...of the lack of being worthy..true to urself....i did not have a marriage for 25 plus years..to be selfish.....

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What age does it take? Posted: 2/4/2009 1:13:16 PM
i wanted to futher it...but he would never reply to it....its communication...an themn it does become ur own personal battle ...i am open to mens responces..dont get me wrong...but u cant go full force into a relationship...hell i am not in my 20's anymore...i know the differance....

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What age does it take? Posted: 2/4/2009 1:10:01 PM
i finally told him in emails...an never a reply.....because i was afraid to chase him away....an once i did...things got cold...so what reasson do u have now...for my actions..

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What age does it take? Posted: 2/4/2009 1:05:58 PM
Frankly, I expected to look at your profile and see that you were in your teens or early 20's. But come on girl, you're FIFTY and still don't possess the ability to get your point across in a tasteful manner. It sounds like there are communication issues on both of your parts. Men run from the word love...as i said i took my time....an never told him...so ur point is totally tasteless....meaningless...i am the most giving (without)..never expecting a gift of any kind....but what is created between two people... small jestures are better...unless u overlook it with ego....

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What age does it take? Posted: 2/4/2009 12:41:39 PM
What I'm perceiving your complaint to be....is that he didn't give you what you want, on YOUR schedule. not at all....but my time...who wants to waste anyones time...only to find out they/them....cant be themselves....manhood or not is or will not be a waste of his time..unless he has insucurities

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What age does it take? Posted: 2/4/2009 12:37:48 PM
carol ur exactly right...an i never told him to his face i loved him....but as i said, be who u are not a wanna be...when u have many differant profiles on different websites..what does that say about his ability to be who he is inside....thats bullshit...

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What age does it take? Posted: 2/4/2009 12:20:01 PM
irish.....sutdle words are good....men have to realize they are not made out of steel....we dont live on this earth for long......if you really truely want what you say about yourself....then just do it....it does not cost anyone a dime....an makes u no less worthy of ur manhood...

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What age does it take? Posted: 2/4/2009 12:11:30 PM
cobra, when you walk in a woman shoes..let me know...i have walked in mens shoes as well, but walked away, when i seen an ass, its not always about sex....

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Men givers vs. Women givers Posted: 2/4/2009 12:07:56 PM
Women need verbal gestures. It always the little things that most to a woman. NOT MONEY!

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What age does it take? Posted: 2/4/2009 12:00:41 PM
thats not really funny...

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What age does it take? Posted: 2/4/2009 11:52:30 AM
OK here it goes. I just came out of a relationship with someone I truely loved. But, to make myself clear I did take my time an relate. I was once was married for 25 plus years an have dated alot. But, I found someone who was compatiable to my needs, an gave my heart too. Now, since I watched him over a period of months an also friends, I BECAME SO FRUSTRATED WITH HIM... because he could not communicate his feelings for me outloud. Now that I have spoken with my words, some not so tastefully done, he has called it quits. But I am a person, who tells it like it is. Hell, anyone person can relate, but only if you are mature enough to think about the facts of reality, in any angle. But my real problem here is, why do men almost always never relay their feelings. If a relationship has gone on for months, you would think, yes your both into each other. And dont get me wrong, I am not a selfish woman. I know both sexes play games, but where is the benefit to anything. If you cant tell everyone who you are in your profile without lies, your life is more misable than the one person you hurt. Any answers here?

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