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 Author Thread: Naughty in a movie theater
 callmebear
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Naughty in a movie theater
Posted: 7/18/2009 2:12:02 PM
We've never done it in aa theatre. Probibly since I work for a theatre chain. Just remember, even thou you maybe alone in the auditorium, there are other people are arround. I have seen many people doing it over the last 10 years! Some are more bold than others! I remember a guy that I worked with waited for the couple to be approaching that crucial momment and then knocked on the portglass and waved at them! Appearently they weren't happy and left.
The second time he did this, the couple just smiled and kept going until they were finished!
 callmebear
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
what's with women going to the toy box instead of the real thing
Posted: 7/18/2009 1:54:55 PM
My wife has never turned me down for her toys, but she has never turned down me using the toys on her after I'm done! Even thou she may say I'm good, I know that I can't keep going as long as her toys! (She is one of those multi-orgasmic ladies that can cum many times before she is willing to call it a night.)
 callmebear
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 170 (view)
 
but WHY do guys love it when a girl swallows?
Posted: 7/18/2009 1:31:05 PM

I personally believe that you shouldn't waste it, it's good to the last drop

Hear, hear!
 callmebear
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 132 (view)
 
but WHY do guys love it when a girl swallows?
Posted: 7/8/2009 12:02:51 PM
footballmom77

What is the difference when a man pulls out to 'go' on her face, or if they are having sex and he pulls out to put 'it' somewhere, doesnt that distrupt the flow of the orgasm for him as well??


Why yes it does disrupt the flow of the orgasm. I would much rather cum inside my wife that pull out because of that. When we were younger, she tried to get my to have sex without condoms and to pull out, but the birth control facts aside, I told her that I would rather cum inside with a condom than pull out, as the orgasm wasn't as strong. Have you ever had a lover suck your clit and not stop when you have orgasmed? For my wife, it makes the difference of making it so intence that her eyes roll back in her head!
All orgasm are not the same!
 callmebear
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Thoughts and Suggestions from someone who has been there...
Posted: 7/5/2009 1:13:44 PM
Mountain Gal4Fun,
I totally agree with emlamNsea on this. My wife and I have done this more than a few times. You need to either know one of the guys or be in a controlled atmoshpere that is safe, like a good swingers club. For us, it went so well, and didn't screw anything up, we did it again with the guy five years later when he got out of a controlling relationship with his ex-wife. (Oh and it was two weeks before we got married!)
Good luck and be safe,
Bear
 callmebear
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 255 (view)
 
Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 7/5/2009 12:58:11 PM
I married one and twelve years later, we are still going strong!
Bear
 callmebear
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 107 (view)
 
casual sex or friends with benefits
Posted: 7/5/2009 12:55:10 PM
There is nothing wrong with it,it is something that is wrong with society. My wife has certain likes in the bed that she has, that I am not good at delivering on. So, she found a friend that is good at giving those things and every few months, they hook up for just sex. Seeing that it is fine with all three of us, it works. Some of her friends that she has told, have been shocked, but then admitted that they were jelous of her and wished that they were at a place in their relationships that they too could have an arrangement like this.

A while back, we had a friend of ours that had been dumped by his wife because she didn't love him any more. He had a hard time getting back into the dating scene because he equated sex with love and he didn't love these ladies that he was dating. As an experiment, my wife asked him if he was attracted to her, which he was. See offered to sleep with him as a purely physical relationship. After he thought about it and realized the I had no problems with it, they went at it. Being that it was a FWB or NSA deal, he was able to relax and enjoy himself. It went on for a few months until he met the lady that is now his new wife. For him, it helped him sort things out, cure his ED that was being caused by anxiety and he learned many more things that his new wife commented that he nows likes! For her, it was a chance to get laid by a tall well built guy. Unfortunately, if society found out about it, there would be some many people that would frown on it.

Don't worry about social norms and standards. As long as no one is getting hurt and everyone is consenting, go for it!!!
Bear
 callmebear
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 109 (view)
 
oral afterwards
Posted: 7/5/2009 12:37:42 PM
I have this many times and I have loved the way that I can drive my wife crazy with it! My biggest problem is that most of the times we have sex at night and both of us are tired, so when I cum, all of my sexual energy is drained and I find it hard to do. It is all I can do to get the virbrator out and give her a half or full dozen orgasms to get her to the point of being satisfied. If we do it in the morning, there is more of a chance that I can keep going and lick up my mess for her.
 callmebear
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 59 (view)
 
how many women have orgasms whil giving head
Posted: 7/5/2009 12:25:28 PM
My wife has many times before. She is one of those lucky ladies that can cum at the drop of a hat (and her girlfriends hate her for it!) If she clenchs her legs together while giving head and if I am being vocal, it is pretty much a sure thing!
 callmebear
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 113 (view)
 
but WHY do guys love it when a girl swallows?
Posted: 7/5/2009 12:20:25 PM
Ok, this one is simple for me. No symbolic means or cryptic messages.

BECAUSE IT FEELS INCREADIBLE!!!!!!

Ok, when I am reaching orgasm, the more stimulation to my head directly relates to the intensity of the orgasm. If at that last momment the stimulation is stopped or removed, the orgasm is not as intence. If a guy was licking his way to giving you an orgasm, flicking his tounge over your clit or even gentally sucking on it, but at that moment that you were going to climax, he stopped, what would it do for you?

As for the spit/swallows, my wife learned the technic of just as I was starting to cum, she would suck as much of it into her mouth to get it to shoot past her taste buds or tilt it up so it shot up at the back of her mouth and splash down her throat, combined with grabbing the base of my penis and gentally squeezing to control the flow of the cum. This way if she was feeling that she couldn't swallow it quickly enough, she could slow it down to a point that she was comfortable with.

There are days were she wants to give me head and doesn't feel like swallowing. On those days, when she feels me getting to that point, she will pull back so only the head is in her mouth and lift her tounge up to the roof of her mouth and bring it down on my head. She also opens her mouth a bit.That way her tounge acts like a splash guard, it is still putting pressure on my head and the cum rolls down my member on to my pubs.

Either way, I always return the favor of oral and everyone is happy!
 callmebear
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Self-Conscious about Lips down there~
Posted: 7/5/2009 11:53:56 AM
Citygirl57,
Don't worry about what you have. As they say, the grass is alway greener...
My wife has small lips and she is always so uptight about it, as she knows that one of my past girlfriends had large lips and I love large lips. (They are so much fun to play with and suck and nibble!) but as I have reassured her many times, the lips don't make the whole package. Would I like her to have larger lips? Sure, but not enought to get her to do something silly like go under the knife. The girlfriend who had the large lips, that was one of her only good qualities. She was lousy at giving oral and she was messed up in the head, but the bottom line was that I wasn't in love with her and I am with my wife. Sure my wife doesn't have big lips, but she can suck start a Harley and is great in bed in all other ways (and she likes to eat pu$$y with me!) so I would never hold the size of her lips against her.
All in all, love what you've got and if the guys in your life make a fuss that they are too big, show them the door!
Bear

BTW, the old girlfriend that had the great lips, I don't know if I ever told her that she had great lips......or at least I don't know if I told her while my mouth wasn't sucking on them, at which time she was making too much noise of her own to have noticed!
 callmebear
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Bi-Sexuality / Women
Posted: 7/5/2009 11:06:20 AM
My wife is Bi and almost none of her friends know. She said that the biggest thing is that the girls that she knows are either too homophobic and are either so disussed by the thought of it that, that they would shy awat from her or they are afraid that she will hit on them or be offened that she didn't hit on them. Either way, she feels that it is not worth the risk. The same reason why most guys that are Bi won't tell people that they know.
Just my 2ยข worth!
Bear
 
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