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darkandmoody

Joined: 1/12/2009

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The problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 10/3/2009 12:10:56 PM
I have dated a Sag and to me they are too much like Aqauriuns..emotionally bankrupt. Sags are fun though if youre not dating one and trying to get an emotional bond..and no offense everyone but Aqauriuns just suck. I have never met one I could get along with. Im a scorpio though , and we dont get along well with most people anyway..lol.

darkandmoody

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I think Girls have it a lot easier than Guys when it comes to Love, Dating, Relationships, etc. Posted: 9/4/2009 11:37:52 AM
yeh I can imagine that dating over 40 would be hard to do too but I only kno dating at my age and being a 25 yr old single parent is not easy and I think the OP is wrong..lol. It might be easier for some girls but its not easy for a woman.

darkandmoody

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I think Girls have it a lot easier than Guys when it comes to Love, Dating, Relationships, etc. Posted: 9/4/2009 9:34:45 AM
Man, youre crazy! Lol. I wish you could walk a few months in a single womans shoes, a single mother would be even better , and then tell us that girls have it better. Most guys shirk their responsibilities with their kids and its commonplace and its no big deal. When a woman doesnt have her children, there must be something wrong with her or she has problems. If a single guy has his children, women look at it as a positive thing, which it is, any parent raising a child alone is probably having it rough, its not easy. But being a single woman and having a child is harder, men dont want to step in and be an daddy figure. And its hard to date a guy that doesnt have kids because he doesnt understand the responsibility and sacrifice of time and money. You cant just get out and go anytime you want to. Also, being a single woman and trying to get dates isnt as easy as you might think when one isnt willing to put out on the first date.

darkandmoody

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Decent guys: are they all either taken or gay? Posted: 6/13/2009 7:51:45 PM
I used to believe in unicorns , and fairies when I was a kid....then I came to realize it was all a myth....same with "good guys"....LOL.

darkandmoody

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Posted: 6/6/2009 8:30:57 AM

Oh ok. well thank you guys.

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darkandmoody

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New Colour Scheme Posted: 6/5/2009 6:04:02 PM
I'm sorry I forget but how exactly do we get points again?

darkandmoody

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For all the women who find yourselves broken from your last relationship. Posted: 6/5/2009 8:55:14 AM
Well for me it wasnt just one bad relationship it was all of them. Everytime I get with someoe new its just a countdown until something happens. I dont fall in love with every guy I get with of course but it still makes you wonder "what teh hell is their problem" and after awhile you have to wonder if it is yourself that is teh problem... My longest relationship was just short of 3 yrs and that guy played head games, cheated, and lied to me the whole time, its human nature to be wary after that, and if not human nature, common sense. Some people can move on easily from that but others cant. I try not to wear my heart on my sleeve and get my hopes up...

darkandmoody

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How can you find out if girl is single/available? Posted: 5/26/2009 12:42:14 PM
well you could ask what they like to do on the weekends and see if they mention a bf, if they dont you can always just ask them out...

darkandmoody

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~~ When to Tell Someone You Love Them ~~ Posted: 5/20/2009 1:26:04 PM
i think that are ways to hint around about it so that you can gauge their reactions without really telling them staright out. That way if they dont feel the same they will never know if you love them or not. I dont think that there is a single right amswer to your question about love though. people fall in love fpor many different reasons and it doesnt have to be in a set amount of time. If you know for sure thats what it is..then it is what it is. After 4 months though i would just do teh hinting around thing. there is a saying that goes something like this" if you can fall in lov e that easily you can fall out just as easily". But of course thats relative, everyone is different. Good luck!

darkandmoody

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Do We Like To Be Waken Up For Sex In The Middle Of The Night? Posted: 5/14/2009 12:13:09 PM
Hell I say anytime is a good time for sex, morning noon and night..and anywhere in the middle. the only time i would have to say no would be if I was so sore I couldnt take it anymore..lol

darkandmoody

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Broken Posted: 5/13/2009 8:46:37 AM
Oh and by the way, every guy will hurt you in one way or another but how you deal with it and the person it will make you into is the point. " we lose people we love to learn how to let go..."

darkandmoody

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Broken Posted: 5/13/2009 8:45:10 AM
Belive me you could have been hurt alot worse, he was playing little kiddy games...lose his ass and move on he acts like a little kid.

darkandmoody

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Finding my very own nerd! Posted: 5/13/2009 8:34:23 AM
You call yourself a nerd and dont know what a rennaisance Fair is? *Rolls eyes.

darkandmoody

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Best question ever asked. Posted: 5/6/2009 9:53:15 AM
Umm, never never land? Good luck with that.

darkandmoody

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Younger people successful? Posted: 4/29/2009 9:49:43 AM
I have met alot of guys on here and on other sites and no, I havent had any luck other than making a few friends. Most of the guys my age dont know what they want in life and I have a 3 yr old and they dont want instant family.

darkandmoody

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Chuck Norris Posted: 4/27/2009 9:48:50 AM
How much wood would a wood chuck chuck, if a wood chuck could Chuck Norris? All of it!

darkandmoody

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Love vs in love Posted: 4/20/2009 10:12:01 AM
If all that other stuff is in teh relationship, I dont understand why they wouldnt love you. They would have to at least a litle bit. And no, i wouldnt stay in it if my love wasnt reciprocated, then i would just be lying to myself..

darkandmoody

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blunt answers and enlightened answers to this women plz ?? Posted: 4/18/2009 4:29:24 PM
she doesnt want to be in a relationship with you..either she is just using you or she just wants to be friends and doesnt want to actually say it. tell her that you are confused, you have feelings for her and you want to know what the hell is going on, that way if she doesnt want a relationship you can go out and find someone that will apprecite you.

darkandmoody

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Not self pity but am I really that ugly? Posted: 4/18/2009 4:24:51 PM
If you like the way you look, then **** everyone else..but i understand what youre talking about...i wouldnt pay that much attention to it though really. I did the same thing just to see where i stood and most people my age actually rate me lower and guys in their 30's and 40's rated me higher... the younger generation is jaded they think that all women come in single digit weight sizes and already shaved and tan..lol. Dont let it get you down. I have seen much worse.

darkandmoody

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Wondering what the majority thinks...re...cheating and bisexuality Posted: 4/18/2009 3:56:55 PM
Well, me personally i dont understand how you can claim to love someone and sleep with someone else. i couldnt do it. It seems like you guys just have a fwb thing going on ...but if thats your thing and he tells you what he is doing and you do the same, then i dont see what the problem is....as long as you are both honest with each other....that way you both know where you stand in the relationship..

darkandmoody

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Can you help me?..I have a funny but weird story Posted: 4/17/2009 7:11:14 PM
Could be also that she is not that good looking or has issues with her looks and she thinks that you are too good fro her and that you wouldnt want to date her if you knew what she looked like..

darkandmoody

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question about interracial dating ... Posted: 4/7/2009 12:39:30 PM
I dont understand why its always about someone being a "rascist". i am not rascist but i would never date an african american man. It has nothing to do with family, religion, or anything else along those lines. Simply put ; I am not attracted to them. I can look at a woman and say she's pretty but i am not going to date her because I am not attracted to her..its pretty much the same way with black men for me.

darkandmoody

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Help us guys get better fashion sense... Posted: 4/3/2009 8:59:20 AM
Well its hard to explain and tell a guy WHAT to wear...I think it might be easier to give you some advice on what NOT to wear... 1. Hawiian / silky button up shirts...( think cheesy tourist or gay guy) 2. man capri's. 3.socks with sandals...( to me, teh ultimate fashion faux pas) 4. birkenstocks or hush puppies...ugh 5. fanny packs 6. jerseys ..................... I cant think of anything else right now, but i think other people might be able to help you...one more thing... no tighty whiteys!!!!!

darkandmoody

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Is Love an Entitlement? Posted: 3/31/2009 11:35:20 AM
I dont think that just because you are "beautiful" you deserve love any more than anyone else. In that case, only a select amount of people in the world would be "entitled" to love wouldnt they? i think that if you are a good person, have been honest in every relationship, tried your hardest to make it work, and are willing to give the world to someone you love and that loves you back....i think that would be a person deserving of love.

darkandmoody

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Recent breakup - want to know if it was really love Posted: 3/30/2009 12:34:35 PM
I think if you really love someone, you will let them go even if it hurts you. i dont mean if they are selfish and cheat and all that.i mean in situations where two people just go seperate ways or grow apart...as Shakespeare once said....."tis better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all".

darkandmoody

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is this cheating? Posted: 3/30/2009 12:26:30 PM
My idea of cheating is anytime you are in a relationship with someone else, you continue or begin talking to another person of the opposite sex with the intention to be more than friends. you might not even intend it but if you are remotely attracted to said other person, it may not be a good idea to put yourself in situations where you might get in trouble. It sounds to me like, like he is a horndog..come on, what if teh chick had lived down teh block..do you think he would have ended it there? I think he will cheat as soon as he gets a chance to.

darkandmoody

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what takes so long to decide Posted: 3/29/2009 9:44:20 AM
Well you obviously dont realize how many crazies are out there...i have met quite a few people online and not just from this site. I met a stalker, a guy who still lived with his wife and she was pregnant and he was sposed to be divorced, another guy that had a gf he didnt want to mention, a guy that got pissed at me for not being attracted to him, and the list goes on.... Maybe she has had a few run ins with guys like that and she is trying to make sure you arent one of them. considering the fact that you thought she was the one for you and you hadnt even met her yet, I would say you are one of those. You never know how the real chemistry works until you meet someone in person. they can be the hottest thing you have ever seen, with similiar interests..etc..but you could meet and they talk like Fran Dresher, walk, like they have a cob up there ass, and just plain give you the creeps. think about it.

darkandmoody

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Do you want a guy who takes control? Posted: 3/27/2009 11:11:37 AM
I dont understand what it is with all the coffee meetings anyway..does everyone drink coffee?!

darkandmoody

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Cheating, unhappy & married with kids Posted: 3/27/2009 10:55:46 AM
I agree with you The Rock Man..there never is an excuse for cheating and why in my opinion, I never understood why people stayed together "for the kids". Dont they realize that at some point teh children will figure out that their parents arent happy? Better yet, how would teh children feel if they caught a parent cheating and they thought that their parents were happily married? It's a cop out plain and simple..if he wasnt happy he should have said so. Doesnt he think that maybe, just maybe, his wife isnt hapy either? Selfishness and cowardice is all it is.

darkandmoody

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The user name says it all. Women, what is your opinion. Posted: 3/26/2009 9:34:34 AM
Well I think that if you can smoke it at night to relieve stress thats fine. I think a big problem is that most people just lump pot in a category as a drug and dont stop to think that are more serious ones out there. Crack, heroin, pills, and whatever else is going around..i think people should be more worried about those people. I have never seen a pot head do anything other than sit around and talk , listen to music, draw, write or something similiar to those things. Thre are worse things out there is all I'm sayin'.

darkandmoody

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All she wants to do is watch porn,have sex ,watch sports and drink beer Posted: 3/26/2009 9:27:55 AM
Yeh < i would say this is the gayest, whiniest bs i have heard on here and it's not even funny. i dont see how it didnt get deleted..dont quit your day job you little ****. Lmao. I can't believe you would expect serious answers either..ugh.

darkandmoody

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Why do women my age only want to drink and party? Posted: 3/22/2009 9:26:11 PM
I could say the same things about the guys my age..i cant help myself so I know I cant help you. Good luck though..

darkandmoody

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confused..please help Posted: 3/21/2009 8:00:00 AM
Well I can tell you from past experience that a guy that listens to his mommy is going to pick her everytime, unless he is self assured and confident and has his life put together, but then he might still choose her side. He is as young as you are I assume? You dont want to get married that young believe me...marriage is a big deal and I would wait longer than a yr to decide if thats the person for me for the rest of my life. It sounds to me like this guy has some security issues since everything was fine until his mom came back and probably gave him teh 3rd degree about it. Youre going to keep thinking about him, youre gonna be depressed always thinking about what could have /would have been....but he told you that he couldnt love you the way he used to. even if you could have him back, wouldnt you be cheating yourself if he didnt love you like you would want him to? Oh and another thing I learned from past experience...if a guy blames you for things that he knows he did wrong, he is the type that will probably never admit he is wrong, never say sorry, never own up to his mistakes, and he will more than likely be a liar. Good luck and I hope this helped you somewhat.

darkandmoody

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Everything is great then Pride got in the way Posted: 3/20/2009 8:12:57 PM
that was rude in the first place to answer the phone while out with you, especially with it being another guy she met on here. the cousin thing may not be that big a deal because some women feel more comfortable with someone else there they know, I have done it once or twice myself. I dont have any idea what her thoughts could have been exactly but I say she is playing the field and I wouldnt give her another chance.

darkandmoody

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SnowOne1 account up for your review! Posted: 3/20/2009 1:04:01 PM
Ok, well it sounds pretty good to me but I would put the thing about the Im's maybe at the bottom of the profile..and the thing about the bad date isnt something I would tell them unless you could also tell them its a joke, assuming it is...lol. I would take out teh hmm's and the let's see, it sounds like when youre talking to someone and they say "uh". One thing that you may not know is that women like a little mystery as much as anyone else...sometimes its nice to keep them guessing, not lie, but just dont spill everything at once. Good luck!

darkandmoody

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hello! Posted: 3/20/2009 12:56:15 PM
I think its a great profile. Good job and good luck!

darkandmoody

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Alternative lifestyles Posted: 3/20/2009 10:37:58 AM
I'll tell you what dustie. I grew up around alcoholics, pill heads and pot heads. I have to say that smoking pot is about teh least dangerous thing you could do. there are worse things out there pot doesnt make people mean, or dangerous. Plus I know for a fact that you cant get addicted to it to whoever said that on here. I used to be a big pot head and I quit cold turkey about 4 yrs ago and I smoked everyday all the time. I say **** that guy he was trying to make you feel bad, you will have that. As long as you are doing what you think is best, not ignoring your child, and she isnt in danger than it doesnt matter what anyone else thinks. My mom was a big pot head when I was a child and a drinker. We never went hungry, we never went without clothes, and I was never beaten/molested/or pressured to do it too. i honestly think it could be worse. If you were smoking crack I could see him being validated.

darkandmoody

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im so hurt will we ever get back together Posted: 3/20/2009 10:21:44 AM
Well its a fact of life that people grow apart in time. the whole point of dating is to find out what you like in a person and what you are looking for in a life long mate. everyone grows apart its like outgrowing your toys when you are a kid.

darkandmoody

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Touching and dating Posted: 3/19/2009 1:22:23 PM
I say why worry about it? When its meant to happen, it will. unless neither one of you ever make a move or let each otehr know that youre into the other. let it happen naturally. I would say that if she held your hand, its a sure sign she likes you and that she may be open to more touching later on. You dont really run around holding hands with your friends.....

darkandmoody

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Still not feeling myself Posted: 3/19/2009 11:50:01 AM
You think thats bad? i met a guy on another site and we started dating. He seemed like he had his shit together, had a good job, had a nice place, had a nice car, he did tattoos on the side and started teaching me how. Well about 3 wks into it and after he had told me that he wanted me to move in ( I know it was soon but I was living with my sister and she was moving, I had to find a place to go) even when I kept asking him if he was sure..he ends up coming home at 6 a.m and breaks up with me...on Valentines day. now, I really liked him, but did i deserve that? No. So i chalked it up to i can do better and I'm going from there. I think you should do the same.

darkandmoody

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How freaky are you? Posted: 3/18/2009 10:24:57 PM
What is it about midgets? I dont get it... But to answer the question...I would say that as long as it doesnt involve; shit, piss, vomit, animals, midgets, other girls, or choking...I'll try it.

darkandmoody

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Is honesty even a good quality to have now? Posted: 3/18/2009 11:10:40 AM
being a good honest person should never be out of style. you be the kind of person you would want to know. You will always keep your integrity and your dignity.

darkandmoody

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Wise Advice Needed! Posted: 3/17/2009 9:25:47 AM
Ok, well in my op this sounds alot like Forrest gump. She didnt know what she wanted in life and was making bad descisions and when she was down and out and had no where else to go, she came crawling back to you. Now, it sounds like she is throwing a pity party and wants you to boost her ego. I'm sorry, because this story is very romantic to an extent, but I think youre the one that can do better. there are women out there that do know what they want in life and would love to have a guy like you.i think she needs to get her shit together. She doesnt need to think that she can do better in finding a man to support her, she needs to think that she can do better for herself by herself.

darkandmoody

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Sex with the ex.. Posted: 3/16/2009 6:33:25 AM
talk about beating a dead horse. And I think that if they broke up with me that I damn sure wouldnt come back for sex....

darkandmoody

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How to get over this Posted: 3/16/2009 6:29:37 AM
dude, if you are going to date on the net, then you had better accept this kind of behavior and just let it roll off your back. I would rather get it on here than actually meet someone and start liking them and get it in real life.

darkandmoody

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Treat them mean,keep them keen or be a gentleman?? Posted: 3/16/2009 6:24:59 AM
Well assuming that you plan on going on another date with a lady you might like...my advice is "dont be fake"! If you feel like being a gentleman then be one, but if she goes out with you more than once and you get lazy and dont want to keep the game up, then thats a big turn off. Honesty is best. Do what you feel. hell, even if you feel like being a****its better for her to find out sooner rather than later when she might actually have feelings for you.

darkandmoody

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Identifying fake pics Posted: 3/15/2009 8:51:33 PM
thank you guys. i was just wondering because i never noticed the POF thing on all the pics before..maybe I just wasnt paying attention, idk. hell, i have it on mine and theyre not fake..so idk. i guess this is where good ol common sense comes into play..lol.

darkandmoody

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Identifying fake pics Posted: 3/13/2009 7:58:09 AM
Is there a way to know if someone's pics are fake other than by talkiung to them or the pic looking like a model? What does it mean if the pic says POF at the bottom? Is that a sign that it may be fake? My ex was using other peoples pics to spy on me and every one of them had that so I'm wondering coincidence, or something else?

darkandmoody

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Fake male profiles... Posted: 1/17/2009 6:01:02 PM
so, since we are on this topic, what is your input on this......what is teh best way to find out if a profile is indeed, fake? My ex has made so many fake ones to mess with me or get info i wouldnt normally let him know. Usually the pics say plenty of fish at the bottom. Is this a sure sign that a pic is fake? I have had an account on here for 3 yrs and had to delete it due to his harrassment and i couldnt trust anyone not to be him. any ideas? And yes I have reported every one he has made up but it does no good, he just keeps on doing it. the funny thing is that I have made my profile private and made it so that no one can tell that I have looked at heir profile but yet he always finds me anyway.

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